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post 1460883093 09-05-2016, 05:46 PM
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Literally every girl at every single age has fallen into that category for me. There are no 'good ones' to snatch up, just dumber males who can't see the truth.
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Originally Posted By liftasaurus⏩
Literally every girl at every single age has fallen into that category for me. There are no 'good ones' to snatch up, just dumber males who can't see the truth.
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post 1460889853 09-05-2016, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation⏩
I used to hear about it and scoff at the thought, but it's true, the good ones really do get taken up fast in their mid-twenties.
Why would you ever doubt that? Isn't it common sense? Most of the best PEOPLE (men and women) with high sexual market value are snatched up and taken in their 20s.

A lot of single women in their 30s were damaged and crazy to begin with, but a lot also became that way due to the realization of their situation. It can be a crushing thing for the female psyche to be "passed over" by en entire crop of high value men. That chit literally drives them insane.

My advise to all of you brahs is to marry a girl when she is in her mid or late 20s. That is the sweet (and sticky) spot. Anything younger and they are going to want to phuck around and play behind your back. Anything older and they will have gone crazy.
post 1460889953 09-05-2016, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted By PastorGaines⏩
Colleague of mine is a regional director @ 30, he's got a different 22 yr old 10/10 every week. When miscers tell you dating gets easier in your 30s, it's implied that it's because you hustled in your 20s to hit CEO mode.
this is exactly what im doing now


i recently moved cities, and took a much cheaper apartment than i had been planning.. saving up money and focusing on advancing in a very lucrative career is my focus right now. i have a few side bishes that i am content with for the time being.
post 1460889993 09-05-2016, 06:33 PM
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Dude this is why as a kissless virgin I don't even want to bother working to get to the stage of trying to play around and smash different sloots and what not. All I want is to find a good girl and lock her down in my early 20s when she still has some glow and she's not crazy.

Why is it so hard to do that in this day and age? No way the generations before us had this many issues.
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post 1460890993 09-05-2016, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By bodybuilderbob8⏩
Dude this is why as a kissless virgin I don't even want to bother working to get to the stage of trying to play around and smash different sloots and what not. All I want is to find a good girl and lock her down in my early 20s when she still has some glow and she's not crazy.

Why is it so hard to do that in this day and age?No way the generations before us had this many issues.
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post 1460891383 09-05-2016, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By QuitYourCrying⏩
Why would you ever doubt that? Isn't it common sense? Most of the best PEOPLE (men and women) with high sexual market value are snatched up and taken in their 20s.

A lot of single women in their 30s were damaged and crazy to begin with, but a lot also became that way due to the realization of their situation. It can be a crushing thing for the female psyche to be "passed over" by en entire crop of high value men. That chit literally drives them insane.

My advise to all of you brahs is to marry a girl when she is in her mid or late 20s. That is the sweet (and sticky) spot. Anything younger and they are going to want to phuck around and play behind your back. Anything older and they will have gone crazy.
Because I had hoped the the majority of the population didn't settle for mediocrity. It's tough to excel in certain fields without having a significant other running around behind your back. If you can't relate to what I'm saying, then good for you- but plenty of brahs in here know what I'm talking about.

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post 1460891563 09-05-2016, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By pollywogpriest⏩
But bro, the sense of urgency is in the females courtyard. Not in ours. If you are a quality male you can fish in the pond of mid-twenties QT's well into your 30's, even early 40's if you dgaf about social stigma.
That simply isn't true, brah. That is cope.
post 1460892083 09-05-2016, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By QuitYourCrying⏩
That simply isn't true, brah. That is cope.
Eh.. there's validity to what the man says.
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post 1460892293 09-05-2016, 06:49 PM
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Fuark, I can't even get laid or a gf in my 20s, and now it will be more difficult to settle with a proper woman in her 30s?


brb gona stay FA my whole life
post 1460892323 09-05-2016, 06:49 PM
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Was talking to a successful entrepreneur who was in her late 30's, two kids, life seemingly together. Things were going fine for the first couple of months and then she just changed and I had to eject.

Started talking to a successful woman in her early 40's who has her own private head shrink practice in Chicago but after a month she says she doesn't want to date anymore and basically does a complete 180 out of nowhere.

In other words, all women are a fuking enigma. These last two pseudo-relationships have almost made me want to just throw in the towel and just get a dog and call it a day.
post 1460892553 09-05-2016, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By DeusExTerra⏩
this is exactly what im doing now


i recently moved cities, and took a much cheaper apartment than i had been planning.. saving up money and focusing on advancing in a very lucrative career is my focus right now. i have a few side bishes that i am content with for the time being.
This is exactly right.



Dating is easier in your 30s because you have acquired more assets and (presumably) should still be in shape. In America, making over 65k and being in shape probably puts you in the top 25% of 30+ year old men. I wouldn't be surprised if it was higher.

Honestly if you have a good income and are in shape and not socially awkward you should still pull quality 20 something year olds even if you are on the shorter side or bald.

The misc overestimates other males especially in America. This country is eating itself to death and your competition is fat as ****.
post 1460892793 09-05-2016, 06:51 PM
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Itt: op stereotypes a whole demographic of women based on his extremely limited dating sample size.
post 1460893733 09-05-2016, 06:57 PM
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Shouldn't we assume there's something wrong with you if you are older and still single?
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post 1460893933 09-05-2016, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Itt: op stereotypes a whole demographic of women based on his extremely limited dating sample size.
Mine, and 90% of the people in this thread. Pretty sure this isn't some theoretical variable we're dealing with here...... brah.
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post 1460894353 09-05-2016, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Zere0wn⏩
Shouldn't we assume there's something wrong with you if you are older and still single?
Who said I was older? I like older women... er, thought I did.
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27 year old - about to be 28

Went on a tear in between relationships during 24 to 27

When I step back to look at the field of women who are single my age a few come to mind

- FWB girl who would cheat on her bf all the time back in high school. Great head. But wanted to bring me to church. Would send me gospel songs all the time. Would suck my dick like it was her job. Fake boobs. Best head I've ever gotten. Would look like a 10/10 wife material but would carry cat food in her purse to feed strays, and when we lost touch last I heard is she wanted to be a nun. Is now dating a dermatologist but still hit me up at 2:30am to come to this bar and "hang out with her... platonically of course". Bat **** crazy cheater.

- Ex NFL cheerleader who has gained about 10-15lbs since college and is now past her prime. Has a dumb feather tattoo and some other stupid tattoo on her rib. Garbage.

- Single mom

- Girls who wear one pieces to the beach because they've given up

I couldn't bring myself to be surrounded by such bat **** crazy or post-glow syndrome sluts.

My girlfriend just turned 20... 32G tits, hilarious, likes to go out, but also has some legit real conversations with about life and the future

Call me shallow but the older I get the more I realize I would hate myself for dating a woman who isn't at least 4 to 5 years younger than me

But then again I would smash a bunch of college girls during my man whore phase who would text me to come hang out because their boyfriend is gone for the weekend. Dead srs.

You can't really win either way. Just enjoy the ride.
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post 1460895483 09-05-2016, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Kaduceus⏩
27 year old - about to be 28

Went on a tear in between relationships during 24 to 27

When I step back to look at the field of women who are single my age a few come to mind

- FWB girl who would cheat on her bf all the time back in high school. Great head. But wanted to bring me to church. Would send me gospel songs all the time. Would suck my dick like it was her job. Fake boobs. Best head I've ever gotten. Would look like a 10/10 wife material but would carry cat food in her purse to feed strays, and when we lost touch last I heard is she wanted to be a nun. Is now dating a dermatologist but still hit me up at 2:30am to come to this bar and "hang out with her... platonically of course". Bat **** crazy cheater.

- Ex NFL cheerleader who has gained about 10-15lbs since college and is now past her prime. Has a dumb feather tattoo and some other stupid tattoo on her rib. Garbage.

- Single mom

- Girls who wear one pieces to the beach because they've given up

I couldn't bring myself to be surrounded by such bat **** crazy or post-glow syndrome sluts.

My girlfriend just turned 20... 32G tits, hilarious, likes to go out, but also has some legit real conversations with about life and the future

Call me shallow but the older I get the more I realize I would hate myself for dating a woman who isn't at least 4 to 5 years younger than me

But then again I would smash a bunch of college girls during my man whore phase who would text me to come hang out because their boyfriend is gone for the weekend. Dead srs.

You can't really win either way. Just enjoy the ride.
I feel like you get it, home boy... however, I shutter at the thought of dating a 20 year old. You do you.

If your sig is legit, I'm assuming you're still a resident if you went straight-track, or a fellow if dual. How does she handle your hours right now?
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I've been with women throughout my life (currently 29) and from my experience it doesn't change. I've met 18-20 year old women who were bat**** when I was that age, still meet bat**** women today. The only difference is like someone else said about how women want to expedite the dating and courting process. Finna get married after 6 months of dating cuz well all my friends are married! I feel left out</3

Other than that women my age had all the same psychotic problems 18-21 year old women did.
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I'm 27. I look around me, and I start to see it now. Sloots settling down, while others who are single grow more and more desparate.
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post 1460897173 09-05-2016, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted By wildchild11⏩
I'm 27. I look around me, and I start to see it now. Sloots settling down, while others who are single grow more and more desparate.
It is true that you can see the desperation it's honestly like an energy field around them.

I just got out of a 9 year relationship. I'm totally lost in the dating world like I'm back in junior high or something.
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
It is true that you can see the desperation it's honestly like an energy field around them.

I just got out of a 9 year relationship. I'm totally lost in the dating world like I'm back in junior high or something.
Cant imagine..being with a girl for near a decade

Thats crazy

Man i wouldnt even date for 2-3 months, just enjoy being single for some time
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
It is true that you can see the desperation it's honestly like an energy field around them.

I just got out of a 9 year relationship. I'm totally lost in the dating world like I'm back in junior high or something.
Dayumn. Out of curiosity why/how did it end?
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
It is true that you can see the desperation it's honestly like an energy field around them.

I just got out of a 9 year relationship.I'm totally lost in the dating world like I'm back in junior high or something.
Brutal.
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I think I'm too paranoid/pessimistic about dating to ever get married, between the misc and real life observations it just seems like the odds are completely stacked against males.

It seems like a sad way to be but I'm pretty content just having a FWB and hanging out a couple times a week, maybe that will change over time.
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Can confirm. Single girls my age are definitely that way for a reason. Been single for about 4 years now with a couple dates here and there.
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
It is true that you can see the desperation it's honestly like an energy field around them.

I just got out of a9 year relationship. I'm totally lost in the dating world like I'm back in junior high or something.
9 years ho lee fukk.

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