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post 1461668213 09-10-2016, 07:57 PM
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Sloots will make you chase to see how desperate you are. If they pull away or go cold (text less often, suddenly become too busy to date, etc) then you have to play it cool and not chase her until she warms up again. She'll respect you more if u pass the test
post 1461668843 09-10-2016, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Sloots will make you chase to see how desperate you are. If they pull away or go cold (text less often, suddenly become too busy to date, etc) then you have to play it cool and not chase her until she warms up again. She'll respect you more if u pass the test
Who gives a phuck about their respect? As long as you respect yourself, you won't allow yourself to be caught up in stupid chit tests.
post 1461668853 09-10-2016, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Sloots will make you chase to see how desperate you are. If they pull away or go cold (text less often, suddenly become too busy to date, etc) then you have to play it cool and not chase her until she warms up again. She'll respect you more if u pass the test
but chasing means cold approaching. and cold approaching is desperate.
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post 1461668903 09-10-2016, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Can confirm, I do not chase girls.
Bae why no avi, you used to be really slooty showing off that hijab.
post 1461668943 09-10-2016, 08:02 PM
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"Man how do you get/chase girls?
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I don't they come to me"


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post 1461669093 09-10-2016, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Nastradoomus⏩
but chasing means cold approaching. and cold approaching is desperate.
No it does not. We went over this.
post 1461669193 09-10-2016, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By FitnessBlue⏩
I don't chase.
Hate the game and female "privilege". If they are interested and make an attempt to show it, fine I will take over. Otherwise they can keep on soaking up the attention from thirsty dudes all they want.
this is where everyone should be fuking with girls.
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post 1461669383 09-10-2016, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By SeymourCake⏩
Who gives a phuck about their respect? As long as you respect yourself, you won't allow yourself to be caught up in stupid chit tests.
Pretty sure they do it to every guy on a subconscious level to screen out the fake confident guys. Even the guys who respect themselves enough not to get caught up in chit tests
post 1461669393 09-10-2016, 08:06 PM
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Never chased a girl. They have all come for me now, or at least I wait for them. That might change if I find a true HBB with good morals though.

When I was a skinny brah and looked like a 12 year old, I tried chasing a few and got burned lol. One legit told me she thought I was cute and funny but she's into manly men.

I was 19 at that point. That hurt. I don't think she'd say that anymore.
post 1461669473 09-10-2016, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By SeymourCake⏩
No it does not. We went over this.
girls can smell a desperate cold approaching reject from miles away brah.
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post 1461669533 09-10-2016, 08:08 PM
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I don't chase girls anymore.
Mainly because I'm sick of getting turned down lmao. Doesn't help that I'm an ugly, fat manlet.
I just talk to the girls who show interest in me 1st now.
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post 1461669893 09-10-2016, 08:10 PM
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oh yea and for the record i don't get laid often, but a lot of it my fault. i can do more socializing and more approaching to do so.

but it's a slim line between getting something that matters vs. dump pump sloot.

if i continue 'doing me' i probably wont meet no hoes
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post 1461670493 09-10-2016, 08:15 PM
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cold approach is real, just slow as fuk when you first try it. You're gonna feel nervy, self-conscious and you'll probably give up too soon. But it feels amazing when you pull it off. Seriously like you've decoded life or something.

If you wanna try that then I advise doing tinder or some other dating app at the same time just to up your chances so you dont feel like **** while cold approaching like I did. because unless you're lucky and bump into a cute girl who's just down or drunk, it'll probably be a while before you actually get laid off approaching.
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post 1461670543 09-10-2016, 08:16 PM
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I'm waiting til my mid 30s misc tells me I'll be fighting them off then
post 1461670933 09-10-2016, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
cold approach is real, just slow as fuk when you first try it. You're gonna feel nervy, self-conscious and you'll probably give up too soon. But it feels amazing when you pull it off. Seriously like you've decoded life or something.

If you wanna try that then I advise doing tinder or some other dating app at the same time just to up your chances so you dont feel like **** while cold approaching like I did. because unless you're lucky and bump into a cute girl who's just down or drunk, it'll probably be a while before you actually get laid off approaching.
iv'e cold approached and have pulled it off of course before no doubt. but it takes momentum, i guess i got to get ready to hit the streets when i'm ready to do so.

seems easier than going the social circle route, but you lose respect, and pride cold approaching women.
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post 1461671153 09-10-2016, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Nastradoomus⏩
disagreed, social status brings the high kill counts. makes things easy.
Good point. Only if your social status is celebrity tier though. I'm not talking college frat leader status, I mean Rapper or TV star status.
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post 1461671333 09-10-2016, 08:21 PM
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i used to use Tinder, and getting drunk and going to parties/bars for girls. However i dropped it all for a haram of twinks who will do whatever i want. easily the way to go for no FA's.
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Originally Posted By bigasianboi⏩
I don't chase girls anymore.
Mainly because I'm sick of getting turned down lmao. Doesn't help that I'm an ugly, fat manlet.
I just talk to the girls who show interest in me 1st now.
You don't respect yourself and hate everything about you. If I was a girl and thought you were cute and saw you say that about yourself I would turn you down and go NC
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post 1461672203 09-10-2016, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Nastradoomus⏩
iv'e cold approached and have pulled it off of course before no doubt. but it takes momentum, i guess i got to get ready to hit the streets when i'm ready to do so.

seems easier than going the social circle route, but you lose respect, and pride cold approaching women.
It sucks sometimes. Me in particular I'm really keen on body language so when girls acted annoyed or bored it would hit me. But yes having momentum or being in a positive mood makes all the difference. I've gone out in a **** mood and didn't get anywhere. Im' still not good at it but the feeling of smashing a cute girl on day 1 is so worth it. Seriuosly eye opening ****, never be limited to your social circle.
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post 1461672303 09-10-2016, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Succeeded⏩
You don't respect yourself and hate everything about you. If I was a girl and thought you were cute and saw you say that about yourself I would turn you down and go NC
exactly. if you can't like yourself no one else will except your parents. Man the fuk up and own who you are. Prince was like 5'3'' and smashed non stop. He just found his talent and his style and took it to the max.
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post 1461672773 09-10-2016, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
It sucks sometimes. Me in particular I'm really keen on body language so when girls acted annoyed or bored it would hit me. But yes having momentum or being in a positive mood makes all the difference. I've gone out in a **** mood and didn't get anywhere. Im' still not good at it but the feeling of smashing a cute girl on day 1 is so worth it. Seriuosly eye opening ****, never be limited to your social circle.
iv'e smashed a girl first time seeing her before, she approached me really. haven't smashed a chick on approach tho, seems like just a pump n dump scenario.
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post 1461674193 09-10-2016, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By GJLuke⏩
Chasing girls is the fun of life. It's also part of the process of feeling like a real man. Being a real man takes courage. It's an amazing journey.

And if you think status will get you a quality girl then LOL. You should not base your confidence on external things, such as status. And you don't want a girl to like you for your status anyways. Because

A. She's a superficial sloot if your status is what attracted her to you, and

B. How will you feel internally that you weren't able to attract her by just being yourself, but had to raise your status to attract a girl?

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Originally Posted By deadlystriker⏩
never chased a girl. They have all come for me now, or at least i wait for them. That might change if i find a true hbb with good morals though.

When i was a skinny brah and looked like a 12 year old, i tried chasing a few and got burned lol. One legit told me she thought i was cute and funny but she's into manly men.

I was 19 at that point. That hurt. I don't think she'd say that anymore.
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I don't chase them, they chase me lol. Last night I had 2 girls following me around at the bar. Brought them back to my place and had a fun night.
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Have a full time job and attend college full time, no time for slacking around or doing useless actiivities srs

Homework every damn day, quizzes almost every week, essays/midterms/tests and other projects kicking my ass each semester

On top of that, I live by myself and have to run my own errands/cook/clean/laundry and many other things

Can't think of how someone could and would want to waste their time chasing after girls when their priorities are not set straight srs

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Guys who chase girls are the ones with no value and they know it so they try that PUA bs, they might succeed once in a blue moon but at the end of the day they're still losers. I just work on myself, chase my dreams and let girls come to me
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Originally Posted By Nastradoomus⏩
chase this dick bby. you in my circle now.
You watch your whore mouth


Getting status then having an opportunity to interact with them casually before trying to establish something more seems like good stuff
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Don't chase girls at all. No ********, no tinder, no okcupid, etc.









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Originally Posted By Turbomunkey⏩
You watch your whore mouth


Getting status then having an opportunity to interact with them casually before trying to establish something more seems like good stuff
it's the really the way togo. anything other than that is cope. matter a fact, anything other than that nowadays is cringe.
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