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post 1461698403 09-11-2016, 12:28 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
lol I'm sure you are thinking only about the strip and glamour.
yea he is, it's not all glitz and glamour outside the strip. it actually kinda blows. there are nice places, but there isn't anywhere to really go, besides the strip/downtown/casino. which all gets old.
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post 1461698503 09-11-2016, 12:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Dota2Brah
i dont understand what it means to chase a girl TBH. the only women i date are ones that look decent and can communicate well + have a good education. usually nothing weird about dating normal women. i guess i dont date sloots who play games and chit for fun. only date women who are too busy with their careers to fuk around with men.
ya that's important bro
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post 1461698763 09-11-2016, 12:33 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
lol I'm sure you are thinking only about the strip and glamour.
lol yes
Originally Posted By Nastradoomus
yea it's cool ass chit. i went out tonite just driving around and gawd pussy everywhere. next summer it's a wrap ill be ready financially mentally physically to start wrapping up.

i see losers w/ dope looking sloots, but i want to do it the right way, and command authority so one bitch isn't much of a loss when there's another in your contacts.

player chit, it money and i just started making decent money this year and some of last so i'm kinda still new to this dating stuff i guess you know.

so much self=peserverance/improvement that i jsut become kinda like a hermit. i gotta get out there sooner than later, but when i do, it's gonna be over.

im 6'3 210. not to belittle you, and your height in which i know your comfortable with yourself, it's just easier at 6'3, and iv'e been dying to get a taste of that.
I would tell you not to wait too long. It sounds like youre still making limiting beliefs for yourself. If you have a bed to smash sloots on, and a car, you dont need much else. You can even stand outside the club and run game on girls leaving bars. Just get out there and mix it up. It takes a few months of serious intense gaming to get good.
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post 1461698903 09-11-2016, 12:36 AM
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you got to get over the fear of rejection or before you know it you'll be 50 and still fapping yourself to sleep, asking yourself what if i approached that girl that i really like 20 years ago.
post 1461698913 09-11-2016, 12:36 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
Tbh I've done cold approaches or just meet them through social circle. You don't need to pursue someone who shows no interest. I'd never keep asking for dates and such to someone who isn't interested. Chasing isn't worth it but approaching is lol. Most girls will never approach even if they are extremely into you
i get it, this mentality /approach may work.
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post 1461699523 09-11-2016, 12:44 AM
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Originally Posted By wildchild11
lol yes



I would tell you not to wait too long. It sounds like youre still making limiting beliefs for yourself. If you have a bed to smash sloots on, and a car, you dont need much else. You can even stand outside the club and run game on girls leaving bars. Just get out there and mix it up. It takes a few months of serious intense gaming to get good.
iim coming to 30 so i think 30-33 are good times to start proceeding with women especially when i currently have no kids, or crazy obligations. i can have my fun for a couple years, and settle down.
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post 1461699753 09-11-2016, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted By rjones416
you got to get over the fear of rejection or before you know it you'll be 50 and still fapping yourself to sleep, asking yourself what if i approached that girl that i really like 20 years ago.
real chit. def makes sense fasho.
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post 1461700213 09-11-2016, 12:54 AM
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Every girl I've ever been with has always been a friend of a friend of a friend or a former coworker or something like that. I'll have some kind of connection with her before I start pursuing. I'm completely lost when it comes to cold approaching random girls.
post 1461700693 09-11-2016, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By JewishSuperHero
Every girl I've ever been with has always been a friend of a friend of a friend or a former coworker or something like that. I'll have some kind of connection with her before I start pursuing. I'm completely lost when it comes to cold approaching random girls.
this seems like the social way to do it. like this is what the majority of women like or prefer. is someone known already. that luxury is out of question for me, because i don't know anyone really.

and the associates i did know wouldn't introduce my 6'3 blk ass to no one. cons of being tall and handsome is people will think they'll steal your girl. lol.
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post 1461700833 09-11-2016, 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted By ss367
Have never chased/approached. I'm a 6.5-7/10 borderline manlet. Still pick up reguarlly and have been a few girls oneitis.
good job bro.
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post 1461702943 09-11-2016, 01:41 AM
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welp what do ya know just hopped on pof now i gotta date tonite LOL advantages of being tyrone if i smash ill update the thread. its an asian chick. i think i might flake tho.
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post 1461703073 09-11-2016, 01:43 AM
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post 1461703213 09-11-2016, 01:45 AM
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I don't chase girls. Never really have don't think I ever really will. Then again I'm single at 31 so there's that...
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post 1461703583 09-11-2016, 01:51 AM
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Don't flake bang that sloot
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post 1461705173 09-11-2016, 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted By JewishSuperHero
Every girl I've ever been with has always been a friend of a friend of a friend or a former coworker or something like that. I'll have some kind of connection with her before I start pursuing. I'm completely lost when it comes to cold approaching random girls.
Social circles are probably the biggest way couples meet. I approach because I hate that idea (it can be based on luck) and also because I have barely any girls in my social circle that aren't taken.

I also am fascinated with the idea of meeting strangers and building relationships that way. Just think of all the people you walk by everyday and dont talk to because you're too afraid to talk to a stranger. You might even lock eyes with a girl in public. Most guys would take the ego boost and just move on with their day. Then there's guys who act on it and end up in a rewarding relationship, rather than just checking out a girl and never seeing her again.

anyways I think about it on a deep level like that.
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post 1461706573 09-11-2016, 02:55 AM
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Originally Posted By GJLuke
Chasing girls is the fun of life. It's also part of the process of feeling like a real man. Being a real man takes courage. It's an amazing journey.

And if you think status will get you a quality girl then LOL. You should not base your confidence on external things, such as status. And you don't want a girl to like you for your status anyways. Because

A. She's a superficial sloot if your status is what attracted her to you, and

B. How will you feel internally that you weren't able to attract her by just being yourself, but had to raise your status to attract a girl?

srs
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post 1461710023 09-11-2016, 04:19 AM
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Define "chase". If a girl responds to my initial move and shows mutual interest, I'll go from there. Other than that, I won't give her more attention than she gives me.
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post 1461710203 09-11-2016, 04:21 AM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport
Social circles are probably the biggest way couples meet. I approach because I hate that idea (it can be based on luck) and also because I have barely any girls in my social circle that aren't taken.

I also am fascinated with the idea of meeting strangers and building relationships that way. Just think of all the people you walk by everyday and dont talk to because you're too afraid to talk to a stranger. You might even lock eyes with a girl in public. Most guys would take the ego boost and just move on with their day. Then there's guys who act on it and end up in a rewarding relationship, rather than just checking out a girl and never seeing her again.

anyways I think about it on a deep level like that.
Agree with everything you say. Social circle can be extremely helpful for meeting people but having the capacity to strike up a conversation with a stranger is probably on par with social circle. Talking to strangers allows you to have more confidence and stop fearing rejection or some form of humilation (plus also useful for career networking and of course cold approaches)
post 1461711853 09-11-2016, 05:05 AM
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Originally Posted By bigasianboi
I don't chase girls anymore.
Mainly because I'm sick of getting turned down lmao. Doesn't help that I'm an ugly, fat manlet.
I just talk to the girls who show interest in me 1st now.
No homo but you'd look good facial aesthetics wise if you cut. Srs

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On topic:

They better have something to offer for me to chase. I respect myself enough not to go after low tier privilege sloots who get white knighted by losers.

I'd rather be doing something I want to do on my free time than chase sloots. Play JRPGs, hang out with the friends, misc. You know..things I truly enjoy
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Originally Posted By Tornach
Don't flake bang that sloot
****************UPDATE*************************

Pretty crazy night. I ended up meeting with that 35 yr old asian sloot on POF. MISC standards she's a 6.5/7


Ironic as fuk since I made this thread, and this is the first I ever almot fuked a girl off the internet. ill tell you why...

We meet up, kick it at this downtown bar, dance freaky on the dance floor and it ends up getting hot.

We go back to her hotel room. She's playing with my balls, and dick im like fuk this feels great. Her feet were 8/10. I kept looking at those tho.

Anyway her cousin comes with us, and has a room with her too, so they're sharing. She kinda ruins the mood a bit and i know she was gettin jealous.

She leaves, I'm ready to fuk, and bam no condom. I'm like fuk it lets go raw. She's like na i can't do that.

So, we agree to just meet tomorrow and smash it out hopefully. i know how chit goes, after one night stands, so ill be surprised if she meets up again tomorrow


She already called/texted me since leaving but i haven;t answered. I'm keeping her on her toes until tomorrow/today. i think that's the best route.

Have a great night misc. It literally took no effort to get laid as she messaged me on pof.

Stay safe brahs.
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Originally Posted By Alvarezzz
No pics brah?
ill take some tonite if i can she doesn/t have profile with pics, she took them down after she let me see what she looked like.
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Originally Posted By Nastradoomus
Hell yea I am. I'm scared of humiliation like a fuker man. i don't know what to do, im not ugly but i'm not facially dimed out either, not that it matters, but i just started getting money so im getting acclimated to this women thing in the adult world.

i know it'll be a piece of cake but rejection is always something to think about/ to get over.
Every man in this world has been rejected. My brother was who opened my eyes by cold approaching girls. If I see a girl I like I cold approach and w/e happened happens. Its not even humiliating because women never approach unless you are way above their pay grade. Learn to do it then it becomes normal but I am also one cocky fukker so that helps
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Originally Posted By Nastradoomus
****************UPDATE*************************

Pretty crazy night. I ended up meeting with that 35 yr old asian sloot on POF. MISC standards she's a 6.5/7


Ironic as fuk since I made this thread, and this is the first I ever almot fuked a girl off the internet. ill tell you why...

We meet up, kick it at this downtown bar, dance freaky on the dance floor and it ends up getting hot.

We go back to her hotel room. She's playing with my balls, and dick im like fuk this feels great. Her feet were 8/10. I kept looking at those tho.

Anyway her cousin comes with us, and has a room with her too, so they're sharing. She kinda ruins the mood a bit and i know she was gettin jealous.

She leaves, I'm ready to fuk, and bam no condom. I'm like fuk it lets go raw. She's like na i can't do that.

So, we agree to just meet tomorrow and smash it out hopefully. i know how chit goes, after one night stands, so ill be surprised if she meets up again tomorrow


She already called/texted me since leaving but i haven;t answered. I'm keeping her on her toes until tomorrow/today. i think that's the best route.

Have a great night misc. It literally took no effort to get laid as she messaged me on pof.

Stay safe brahs.
Why would you go out to meet a POF sloot with no condom

I wouldnt step out the door in vegas without one lol. Still GJ and lesson learned. Get out there and expose yourself to situations you arent comfortable with
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miscers ITT acting like they're too good and way above chasing sloots

when in reality they can't even hold 1 sec eye contact with a female, and forget how to walk when they pass by one

just lol. the real reason u bruhs don't approach is because u don't know how due to lack of no game/social skills and are very insecure

most of the ppl that post here are posers
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Originally Posted By Nastradoomus
****************UPDATE*************************

Pretty crazy night. I ended up meeting with that 35 yr old asian sloot on POF. MISC standards she's a 6.5/


Ironic as fuk since I made this thread, and this is the first I ever almot fuked a girl off the internet. ill tell you why...

We meet up, kick it at this downtown bar, dance freaky on the dance floor and it ends up getting hot.

We go back to her hotel room. She's playing with my balls, and dick im like fuk this feels great. Her feet were 8/10. I kept looking at those tho.

Anyway her cousin comes with us, and has a room with her too, so they're sharing. She kinda ruins the mood a bit and i know she was gettin jealous.

She leaves, I'm ready to fuk, and bam no condom. I'm like fuk it lets go raw. She's like na i can't do that.

So, we agree to just meet tomorrow and smash it out hopefully. i know how chit goes, after one night stands, so ill be surprised if she meets up again tomorrow


She already called/texted me since leaving but i haven;t answered. I'm keeping her on her toes until tomorrow/today. i think that's the best route.

Have a great night misc. It literally took no effort to get laid as she messaged me on pof.

Stay safe brahs.
I suggest you answer lmao. Not answering is some useless Pua **** and anyone past 25 doesn't like useless games. How do you go out without a condom though lmao or I'm I a paranoid **** I always have 2-3 condoms on me when I go out to meet a girl
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