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post 1464228671 09-28-2016, 10:37 AM
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No troll. If any of you used my pics on your tinder in your location there would be literally no results . DEAD srs
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post 1464229051 09-28-2016, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted By rybo
No troll. If any of you used my pics on your tinder in your location there would be literally no results . DEAD srs
Are you posting pics with your shirt off? Do you look young or old? At 27 it could be either. An older looking guy with a teenager looking profile is cringe. Try making it more mature -- and with you in nice clothes, doing things with your successful looking friends.
post 1464229241 09-28-2016, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted By sclimb
Are you posting pics with your shirt off? Do you look young or old? At 27 it could be either. An older looking guy with a teenager looking profile is cringe. Try making it more mature -- and with you in nice clothes, doing things with your successful looking friends.
You forgot the part that I'm FA and have 0 friends never mind successful ones
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post 1464230261 09-28-2016, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By rybo
All I do is list my height in profile, used my Avi and a few of pics iv posted in this thread, along with a few MMA pics from my fights and literally 0 matches 100% DEAD SRS.
So you're completely selling yourself on physique and height while offering zero clue as to whether you have a personality or not?

Women often read what you write about yourself, if you wrote nothing then they'll just move on
It'd be like staying fat while running marathons because it's more impressive to finish a marathon when you're overweight. It might be impressive in the short run, but in the long run it just doesn't make any sense. ~breathinglife

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post 1464230931 09-28-2016, 10:53 AM
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Baldcel gets rejected on dating apps.


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post 1464230961 09-28-2016, 10:53 AM
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thanks to online dating women now have an abundance of 10/10 males to choose from. They have their choice of any 10k a day ceo

Even 2/10 pig woman on tinder gets 10x more messages than a 7/10 male

you will have to settle with a 1/10 whale sorry op, that is of course you are on at least 100k a week and 6"6 and bench bout tree fiddy minimum
post 1464231181 09-28-2016, 10:54 AM
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Online/App dating is easy.


IRL dating is essentially dead, and I'm a borderline Chad who's not socially awkward.

Could meet sloots at a bar, but they seem 100 times worse than Tinder sloots when it comes to being slooty, vapid, all around horrible. Srs, plenty of normal chicks use Tinder now, Girls that go to nightclubs are 90% chit. Smash and dash, but never relationship material.

Coffee shop, bookstore, etc. girls are too wrapped up in their own heads to talk to. It's easy as fuk to get a number because they're just caught off guard and say "sure". But good luck beyond that. When you text them they won't even remember talking to someone in real life. First impression is king. Social media has literally become their primary form of communication.






TLDR: Tinder is the way to go.
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post 1464231371 09-28-2016, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Growbag
thanks to online dating women now have an abundance of 10/10 males to choose from. They have their choice of any 10k a day ceo

Even 2/10 pig woman on tinder gets 10x more messages than a 7/10 male

you will have to settle with a 1/10 whale sorry op, that is of course you are on at least 100k a week and 6"6 and bench bout tree fiddy minimum
I'll just stay single. I won't fuk a fat woman. Just no.
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post 1464231791 09-28-2016, 10:58 AM
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it's not hard, you are probably either socially retarded or you're not really trying hard enough. You also may have really high standards which makes it difficult.
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post 1464232251 09-28-2016, 11:00 AM
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Guys underestimate the amount of time and resources (money and physical energy) it takes to get a girlfriend. That's why it's easier to hook up and get a girlfriend when you're on vacation: you have more money to spend and infinitely more time to go out and meet people than if you're working a full time job. So I can see why so many guys after college complain about being FA. It's just harder. I get it.

That's also why people after college are primarily friends with people they met at college and choose to work in the same area because they know moving to a new location = more time and resources they'll have to spend making new connections, which will be more difficult to develop without the social freedom you had in college. Once you have friends you don't want to give them up because it does make meeting partners much easier (I've seen for myself the power of having 1 wingman at the club)

But all this is only important if you're too shy to go out and approach girls where I guarantee single women are going to get approached by random guys (malls, coffee shops, book stores, classy bars, etc). These are low cost/time efficient ways to go out on the weekend (or even after work) and get a cute girl's number because she doesn't know you're FA, she doesn't know how much money you make, and she's just paying attention to your personality, looks and confidence. If you can't do that then tinder and other apps are still viable ways to meet girls if your location doesn't suck.

You just have to stop bitching about the situation and do what it takes if you really want a girlfriend. If you prefer to make FA threads and rot your Friday nights away playing xbox and drinking alone, then you only have yourself to blame.

This better not be a troll thread because I put a lot of thought into this post.
post 1464232911 09-28-2016, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta
Guys underestimate the amount of time and resources (money and physical energy) it takes to get a girlfriend. That's why it's easier to hook up and get a girlfriend when you're on vacation: you have more money to spend and infinitely more time to go out and meet people than if you're working a full time job. So I can see why so many guys after college complain about being FA. It's just harder. I get it.

That's also why people after college are primarily friends with people they met at college and choose to work in the same area because they know moving to a new location = more time and resources they'll have to spend making new connections. Once you have friends you don't want to give them up because it does make meeting partners much easier (I've seen for myself the power of having 1 wingman at the club)

But all this is only important if you're too shy to go out and approach girls where I guarantee single women are going to get approached by random guys (malls, coffee shops, book stores, classy bars, etc). These are low cost/time efficient ways to go out on the weekend (or even after work) and get a cute girl's number because she doesn't know you're FA, she doesn't know how much money you make, and she's just paying attention to your personality, looks and confidence. If you can't do that then tinder and other apps are still viable ways to meet girls if your location doesn't suck.

You just have to stop bitching about the situation and do what it takes if you really want a girlfriend. If you prefer to make FA threads and rot your Friday nights away playing xbox and drinking alone, then you only have yourself to blame.

This better not be a troll thread because I put a lot of thought into this post.
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post 1464234651 09-28-2016, 11:18 AM
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As someone else said, what matters is: Facial Aesthetics, Social Status, Money, Personality

In 2016 it's the easiest time for the top guys to get many girls while also the hardest for the less fortunate guys to get some

All you can do is maximize your potential instead of complaining about it
post 1464242461 09-28-2016, 12:13 PM
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OP what's your bang count? srs
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post 1464243491 09-28-2016, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By 0680496
OP what's your bang count? srs
2 girls. 100% DEAD srs
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post 1464257941 09-28-2016, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By somfking
do you wear trash bags for clothes?? if you wear something with a decent fit girls will notice and girls will love it.

you're bigger and more aesthetic than me and i get compliments/comments from girls about my body regularly srs and i'm not saying that to brag either. i have decent facial aesthetics but i know for a fact i would not pull as much as i do if i had an average body
getting compliments about your physique doesn't mean you're pulling.... lol
post 1464258021 09-28-2016, 02:02 PM
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The amount of COPE in this thread is palpable.

Fukc all of your amateur ass attempts at rationalizing what women do and don't find desirable, it doesn't matter one bit to OP's situation (srs). Allow me to elaborate:

1. OP is objectively in the 0.1% of men physically with his stats. Don't believe me? How many men are over 6'3", 200lbs, lean and muscular. He is an outlier, guaranteed if he walks into a bar women will naturally be looking at him over the rest of the 5'8" skinny fat estrogenic patchy beard hipsters. 5'3 fat manlets with the personality and hairline of a rock have gotten laid, there is nothing holding you back.

2. What OP's problem boils down to isnot about attraction it's about opportunities to meet women IRLas he has pointed out. Online dating is a fukking trap and is hands down a waste of time for the large majority of men - don't even waste time analyzing why you aren't having success.

Women will rarely make first contact and will be intimidated by a genetic outlier such as OP (more so than the average male). As such if you want to change your fate OP you will have toactively pursue women IRL. Get out of your comfort zone and start hitting on bishes IRL everywhere due to the lack of a social circle. Yes rejection sucks ass, but what sucks worse? Staying FA for life or getting rejected by stuck up bishes?

The choice is yours, live in hope that on a random trip to the supermarket or the gym a random woman throws herself at you (lol), or grab life by the balls and go after what you want.

I suspect that your ego will not allow you to do this. If this is the case, then enjoy being FA for the foreseeable future.
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post 1464259141 09-28-2016, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted By rybo
Can't even match 2/10 obese women.
sorry bro....you need to smile in your pics...
all of your pictures are selfies....thats not good...
take a pic with a dog, or doing something adventurous
post 1464259531 09-28-2016, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Agentdark45
The amount of COPE in this thread is palpable.

Fukc all of your amateur ass attempts at rationalizing what women do and don't find desirable, it doesn't matter one bit to OP's situation (srs). Allow me to elaborate:

1. OP is objectively in the 0.1% of men physically with his stats. Don't believe me? How many men are over 6'3", 200lbs, lean and muscular. He is an outlier, guaranteed if he walks into a bar women will naturally be looking at him over the rest of the 5'8" skinny fat estrogenic patchy beard hipsters. 5'3 fat manlets with the personality and hairline of a rock have gotten laid, there is nothing holding you back.

2. What OP's problem boils down to isnot about attraction it's about opportunities to meet women IRLas he has pointed out. Online dating is a fukking trap and is hands down a waste of time for the large majority of men - don't even waste time analyzing why you aren't having success.

Women will rarely make first contact and will be intimidated by a genetic outlier such as OP (more so than the average male). As such if you want to change your fate OP you will have toactively pursue women IRL. Get out of your comfort zone and start hitting on bishes IRL everywhere due to the lack of a social circle. Yes rejection sucks ass, but what sucks worse? Staying FA for life or getting rejected by stuck up bishes?

The choice is yours, live in hope that on a random trip to the supermarket or the gym a random woman throws herself at you (lol), or grab life by the balls and go after what you want.

I suspect that your ego will not allow you to do this. If this is the case, then enjoy being FA for the foreseeable future.
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post 1464260281 09-28-2016, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By rybo
Height and physique mean nothing. People always quote my stats like it's an instant in with women. It's far from the truth outside the misc.
time to get the **** out of canada yeh? you need to put yourself in environments where you can show that physique off. get to the beaches. get to warm weather yeh?
post 1464260541 09-28-2016, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted By jakobi78
sorry bro....you need to smile in your pics...
all of your pictures are selfies....thats not good...
take a pic with a dog, or doing something adventurous
Bro your forgetting I'm FA. Who the hell is supposed to take pictures for me? Zyzz?
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post 1464260861 09-28-2016, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By rybo
If you are an FA like me, it's literally impossible to meet women. You have no link socially to even meeting women period. Friends? Nope. Male dominated workplace so no females there either.

Also, I'm tired of people saying man lets and average/below average looking men can't get girls, I live in Calgary, Alberta and everyday I see a plethora of skinny/short guys with hot women.


Height and physique literally mean nothing. It's all about the status/face/money/social circle.


The fukin tour is over, if I had a painless way out I'd take it.
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Originally Posted By wildchild11
Ive been reading threads like this for the past 5 years.

I say the same thing every time. Late 20s is wayy too old to be fukking FA.

You're doing it fukking wrong. Do something drastically different. Hit on girls in new and dramatic ways. Lower your standards. Dress better, look better. Find ways to hack your testosterone to outrageous levels. push yourself to act freakishly social. flirt your ass off.
Upping test levels will make OP more frustated
post 1464261681 09-28-2016, 02:29 PM
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lol the amount of aspie people on this forum will never stop blowing my mind...Literally scared to interact with other people, a thats good way to make yourself a social outcast.

Tfw I had a chick and her friend come over last weekend and Im hanging out with another tomorrow. Thank god I don't subject myself to living like this.
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Fuking lmao @ people suggesting dating apps for FA's.

Yes it may be easy to set something up but let's not forget about the part where you actually have to meet the fukking personin real life.
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Originally Posted By rybo
Right in the feels
So what are you gonna do about it breh? Sit there and feel sorry for yourself like a low-test sad sack of chit or go out into the real world and start pursing what you want?

Do it now, not tomorrow, now!
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Originally Posted By rybo
No troll. If any of you used my pics on your tinder in your location there would be literally no results . DEAD srs
OP, let me use your picture on tinder
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post 1464263631 09-28-2016, 02:43 PM
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How did OP troll you guys into 7 pages of replies jesus.

OP repped
post 1464263651 09-28-2016, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted By jwlee7ucla
OP, let me use your picture on tinder
What do you want me to do? Upload them to a imgur album? I'm in mobile
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lmao this thread still alive
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OP set me up a blank fb account with your pics on it and pm the pass to me. I will tinder in my area as you and show you success
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humor/charisma can get any dude laid by decent looking chicks srs(SRS)
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