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Thread: Sloth Thread Part XII: No Sway13 Club

post 1464838331 10-03-2016, 03:06 AM
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Originally Posted By pancakemouse⏩
I know that "why am I getting less matches than before" has been the general sentiment in the thread for weeks, if not months, but I finally have the data to prove it.

Got Plus again after five weeks of not having it. Did my usual routine of swiping right on everyone within a 10 mile radius (about 9500 girls) on Friday after work.

In the past, I have gotten between 25 and 60 bangable matches between Friday at 5 PM and Sunday at midnight (I unmatch fat chicks and uggos). The 25 was an outlier, usually it's around 40.

This weekend I got 19 matches.

Tinder has changed something in their algorithm that is resulting in less matches for the average guy (me). What I'm curious about is if they made a change to benefit the top 5% of slayers, or if they changed something that means that everyone just gets less matches overall.
The reduction in matches over the past few months and the upcoming introduction of Tinder Boost probably isn't unrelated
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
My tinder/bumble date from a couple of weeks ago hasn't asked me out again but still texts, so not sure if it will fizzle out or if he will ask me again eventually. This must mean he is not that interested right?

I also have a first date this week with someone from the gym. If that doesn't go anywhere I'll go back on tinder, it was nice to take a break though.

I'm also thinking about trying Internations, an expat site for meetups so not specifically for dating but I would use it for dating, does anyone have experience with this?
He wouldn't be texting you at all if he wasn't interested. Maybe he thinks you didn't seem that interested and wants to see if you'll make a move, or he's just a bit of a pussy (that's a long time to wait imo), or he's feigning not being interested for a while to get your thirst up while you analyze why he hasn't asked you out. Don't think so god damn much woman, just ask him if he wants to see you. As long as it's not always you initiating it's fine.
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Any of you brahs entering that stage of deciding to move out of parents house and weighing up the costs?

Basically the only positive I see for myself is I get to bring sloots over whenever I want and have my own space.

Negatives are the huge difference in costs I would be paying and not having my dinners cooked for me every night when I get home from the gym.

Any other brahs weigh up this? Curious to see what the older brahs ITT did and how they finally decided it was time to move out. I'm only going to be in my 20s once and my current living situation is a huge downer for logistics. I basically bang sloots in my car (which is uncomfortable as fk), try to get them to come over during a week day which is also hard to get a sloot to commit to, or try to get them to invite me to their place (mainly these sloots are living with their rents aswell). I know some brahs are going to say just get a hotel room but I would probably just rent if I was going to do that on a regular basis.

tl;dr:

-save money and live with parents
or
-have no savings and be able to bang sloots in my own house
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
My tinder/bumble date from a couple of weeks ago hasn't asked me out again but still texts, so not sure if it will fizzle out or if he will ask me again eventually. This must mean he is not that interested right?
You're being benched:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/lif...our-love-life/

IOW he has better options so he's keeping you as a backup option in case he loses a girl from his current roster of girls he's dating.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I'm also thinking about trying Internations, an expat site for meetups so not specifically for dating but I would use it for dating, does anyone have experience with this?
Sure, because clearly the problem is that there just isn't enough options for you on tinder or all the sites in existence designed specifically for dating... LMAO
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post 1464861781 10-03-2016, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By mTOR⏩
It basically means you're a Chad, particularly if the matches continue to roll in days later (i.e., after your ELO rating has started to stabilize).


The consensus observation is that Bumble frontloads high ELO scoring profiles (i.e., the top 10-20% ELO rated profiles are presented first, followed by everyone else). This is in contrast to Tinder's algorithm which tries to synchronize ELO ratings between potential matches.

The basic outcome is this: Bumble > Tinder if you're in the top 10-20% of profile attractiveness, but Tinder > Bumble for everyone else (because their profile will just about never get presented on Bumble)
Don't think I'm a chad at all m8. Have some pics of me on a boat so that helps. Also have pics with my shorter friends and I'm 6'2 so I look tall AF. That being said I'm out of people on Bumble and the matches stopped rolling in. The first couple days was insane though. I smashed 2 chicks over the weekend from Bumble, don't even believe it myself.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
My tinder/bumble date from a couple of weeks ago hasn't asked me out again but still texts, so not sure if it will fizzle out or if he will ask me again eventually. This must mean he is not that interested right?

I also have a first date this week with someone from the gym. If that doesn't go anywhere I'll go back on tinder, it was nice to take a break though.

I'm also thinking about trying Internations, an expat site for meetups so not specifically for dating but I would use it for dating, does anyone have experience with this?
Forget about him. It's been a few weeks and she still hasn't asked you out again. If I'm really interested in a girl I will ask her out again ASAP, doesn't matter how busy he is, you can find time.
post 1464864601 10-03-2016, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Aaronza⏩
Curious to see what the older brahs ITT did and how they finally decided it was time to move out.
I got a wife... Dinner, cleaning, washing, ironing all handled and living costs essentially halved. She's the best.
Originally Posted By Aaronza⏩
I'm only going to be in my 20s once and my current living situation is a huge downer for logistics. I basically bang sloots in my car (which is uncomfortable as fk), try to get them to come over during a week day which is also hard to get a sloot to commit to, or try to get them to invite me to their place (mainly these sloots are living with their rents aswell). I know some brahs are going to say just get a hotel room but I would probably just rent if I was going to do that on a regular basis.
Most guys are probably going to tell your to move out, and talk about how awesome it is etc. Don't fall for it.

If there's nothing wrong with your home situation, your parents let you live your own life, allow you your freedom and you get on well with them AND you're living there rent free and get fed etc. you're better off staying and saving every cent you would have spent moving out. The cost of living in Australian capital cities is stupid high, comparable to only NYC/SF in the US on an earnings to living cost ratio. The same guys telling you to live it up in your 20's are going to be phucked when they're older, because money is going to be extremely important, even more so than it is now.

The older guys here that moved out when they were young probably don't realize the increased cost of living now or what's coming, forget the days where you could find a wife, build equity together, have an equitable partnership and live happily ever after, your chances of finding that nowadays are slim. Wifing up any of this current crop of girls now or in the future will almost certainly result in a huge loss to your quality of life and probably your net worth.

So you'll be competing for women well into your 40's at least, regardless of whether you get into a relationship or get married, because it never ends nowadays, she can (and will) leave you at the drop of a hat so you're ALWAYS competing, and for that, when you're older and your looks have faded, you're going to need as much money as you can get.

If the only positive you can see is banging random sloots, who cares? When you're older and richer you can bang all the random sloots you want. In fact, for less than the cost of leaving home now you can probably bang a pro every week, it's legal here and the room is included in the fee. My advice would be to find a hot GF, you'd be lucky if you can find one who hosts, but failing that just one who lives with her parents. I'm assuming your parents won't have a problem if you're banging a girl at your place provided she's a steady GF they've met?

If you're living situation at home was unbearable then by all means, move out, but it doesn't sound like that's the case, moving out purely to bang sloots, is probably not the wisest move. Save, invest, use the free time you have living with your parents and not having to worry about cooking dinner (and possibly cleaning, washing, ironing etc.?) to build a business or for further study.

tl;dr
- don't move out
- save your money
- use saved time and money wisely
- get a gf or bang whores
post 1464864751 10-03-2016, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Khristmas⏩
Forget about him. It's been a few weeks and she still hasn't asked you out again. If I'm really interested in a girl I will ask her out again ASAP, doesn't matter how busy he is, you can find time.
This, I can also confirm.

If I'm not digging a girl, and there are other girls I'm more into..... bad news for the girl/s I don't desire as much. That's life.

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Originally Posted By BRBMakingMoney⏩
I know 'The Australian', One of the few places in Manhattan you can get a meat pie.
And the food's not bad either.
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post 1464877491 10-03-2016, 10:55 AM
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Currently hooking up with a 24 year old virgin Tinder chick and shes cool as fuk.... Dont kno how this happened but it's awesome
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Still spoofing in Europe getting tons of matches with hot girls. Will see if this has any effect on my match flow back in NYC
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Originally Posted By upperdeckroner⏩
What's your thoughts on deleting tinder and then remaking a new one, and using the tinder flame app. A friend told me about it but im not sure if its legit. Haven't used tinder in like a year and I just bought plus. I used to get tons of matches with regular free version and now getting nothing. What happened? What do?
Bump. Any thoughts on this at all?
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Can someone check if this is a catfish? Matched on bumble she just opened to me.

Not getting my hopes up, but dayum...

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Met a chick last night. Banged in her dorm. What was funny is the chat leading up to me coming down she was saying "dont think this is a conspicuous meeting" I played it off like yeah whatever. Forgot my shaker cup in her dorm though so ill use that as an excuse to drive down to her uni again
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Originally Posted By upperdeckroner⏩
Bump. Any thoughts on this at all?
That's like everything guys have been speculating is lowering match rates; resetting and autoswiping.

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Staying out of town on business. Had the two recent tinder # closes on the hook to come to my hotel (the one who took the little spoon test, and the one I opened with "#"...) didn't really give them much notice so they both flaked.

...meanwhile got this bumble chick (not that one ^^ there, I wish) but a cute little Slovakian girl driving 1/2 hr over here to have a couple drinks. Will post the alpha bumble game and the beta txt game that failed to bring the tinder girls home later.
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[QUOTE=spadelexus post_id=1464927961]Can someone check if this is a catfish? Matched on bumble she just opened to me.
Not getting my hopes up, but dayum...
[IG]http://i.imgur.com/AKLZy15.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]cropped that pic and still cant find anything, but that doesnt mean it cant be copied and filtered.
"lmao you naive as **** son. Hope you followed the cardinal rule and didn't have your face in the dick pic, but based on the foolishness you've exhibited in your threads recently, you're probably like holding your dick with one hand and your social security card in the other and holding a piece of paper in your mouth with your name, address and phone number"
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I need advice FAST!

I met this girl on tinder tonight. I am on a business trip from Sunday until Thursday this week. She knows I don't live in this city and that I'm only here for training. I invited this girl to my hotel to watch TV or a movie. She said yes but then sent me this warning. What should I do? Do you think she is dtf? Help!

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Originally Posted By MultiMediaWill⏩
I need advice FAST!
Just invite her over anyways, make the right moves, and she'll be studying something other than those books.
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[QUOTE=MultiMediaWill post_id=1464949351]I need advice FAST!
I met this girl on tinder tonight. I am on a business trip from Sunday until Thursday this week. She knows I don't live in this city and that I'm only here for training. I invited this girl to my hotel to watch TV or a movie. She said yes but then sent me this warning. What should I do? Do you think she is dtf? Help!
[ig]http://i.imgur.com/U70fRog.png?1[/img][/QUOTE]lol that is a ****ing tough one. Im a kunt, so I'd say "yeah sure. Here's the thing, I study ginocology, and I've got tests all week. So as long as youre cool with me studying your poosay after the debate, then Im down. I understand if not though"

But dont do that. Dont be me.
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FML.. I just opened my NYC tinder after 2 months of not looking at it. Jesus, some of my matches and convos - these sloots were willing and ready to meet me ASAP and gave high interest. Age from 23 - 35.


I'm looking at my current tinder in DC. WTF !!! Why is it night and day. I get matches but the quality is so fukking low.
And the interest is low. DC and NYC cannot be that huge of a difference.
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Originally Posted By WagerKing⏩
Currently hooking up with a 24 year old virgin Tinder chick and shes cool as fuk.... Dont kno how this happened but it's awesome
i've said it before and I'll say it again

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Originally Posted By TheTwiglet⏩
lol that is a ****ing tough one. Im a kunt, so I'd say "yeah sure. Here's the thing, I study ginocology, and I've got tests all week. So as long as youre cool with me studying your poosay after the debate, then Im down. I understand if not though"

But dont do that. Dont be me.
I took advice from the thread I posted and said "sure no problem". The miscers are convinced she's just using the exam excuse to appear less slutty, but she should hopefully be dtf.
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Originally Posted By MultiMediaWill⏩
I took advice from the thread I posted and said "sure no problem". The miscers are convinced she's just using the exam excuse to appear less slutty, but she should hopefully be dtf.
Probably the case. She can always take a 2 min break nomsayam. Wont take you long.
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Originally Posted By Jbooze⏩
i've said it before and I'll say it again

tinder
virgin

pick one
she really is a virgin lmao
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Finally got a tinder brahs and I need advice... if a chick matches me, I start a convo then don't hear from her, how long before I can reasonably say I'm not hearing back from her?
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I'm running an experiment with a chad profile, he's consistently getting ~50 matches/week

I don't know if that;s up or down from years ago, take it for what it's worth
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