Forum
»
One simple line to split the bill unawkwardly for the first date.
One simple line to split the bill unawkwardly for the first date.
10-13-2016, 05:31 AM
-
#1
One simple line to split the bill unawkwardly for the first date.
Before dinner text her this:
"Let's get dinner sometime, you got money, right?"
Or
"We should get drinks and split the bill"
If she isn't receptive to that then North Carolina
"Let's get dinner sometime, you got money, right?"
Or
"We should get drinks and split the bill"
If she isn't receptive to that then North Carolina
Ass eaters anonymous crew
Bag groceries, booty
Feet eater crew (srs)
FA rustler
Girlfriend lover
GAL GADOT OBSESSION CREW
10-13-2016, 05:33 AM
-
#2
- Andresthetic1
- Far from a SoyBoy.
-
- Andresthetic1
- Far from a SoyBoy.
- Join Date: Oct 2013
- Posts: 10,400
- Rep Power: 57035
-
-
I always let them know right away that I'll NOT pay for them
SoyBoy's stay the fuk Outta my way!
+++ Positive Crew +++
Ass > Teddies
Officially back from being in the 'hole' for 1 whole year!
10-13-2016, 05:35 AM
-
#3
- TheBrentmeister
- ⚔️
- Join Date: Aug 2012
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
- Posts: 11,370
- Rep Power: 104780
-
-
Fuk a 5 star meal, b1tch you'll be lucky if you get a chicken dipper.
💷 ☆☆☆ - υк cяєω - ☆☆☆ 💷
10-13-2016, 05:36 AM
-
#4
- DoULikeDaggers
- Registered sex offender
-
- DoULikeDaggers
- Registered sex offender
- Join Date: Apr 2015
- Posts: 5,061
- Rep Power: 8429
-
-
Okay, but what if you want her to pay for everything?
10-13-2016, 05:38 AM
-
#5
- djfuzzy
- ┬─┬ ︵ /(.□. \）
-
- djfuzzy
- ┬─┬ ︵ /(.□. \）
- Join Date: Jul 2007
- Location: United States
- Posts: 18,282
- Rep Power: 54389
-
-
Originally Posted By DoULikeDaggers⏩
"Oh shyte, I left my wallet at home."Okay, but what if you want her to pay for everything?
O|||||||O Official Jeep Brah Crew O|||||||O -creator-
USMC
★cVc★
10-13-2016, 05:41 AM
-
#6
i usually offer to:
1) each pays for what each consumed
2) we split in half (i usually win a bit here but that's not the intention)
to me it sounds perfectly reasonable. if you feel awkward then you're just a *******
1) each pays for what each consumed
2) we split in half (i usually win a bit here but that's not the intention)
to me it sounds perfectly reasonable. if you feel awkward then you're just a *******
- Diarrhea Every Day Crew
- Celiac Disease Poverty Race
10-13-2016, 05:41 AM
-
#7
- donblaximus
- Registered User
-
- donblaximus
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2010
- Age: 50
- Posts: 12,396
- Rep Power: 70954
-
-
Man, what an awkward situation. That comes across completely schiesty. I was taught, if you are inviting, you are picking up the tab. That's goes for ANYONE you invite, not just some chick for a date.
10-13-2016, 05:41 AM
-
#8
- secretbunny
- Registered User
-
- secretbunny
- Registered User
- Join Date: Oct 2016
- Age: 32
- Posts: 674
- Rep Power: 1773
-
-
I hear that I am a better human being choosing to date you, the guy crowd sourcing how to split the bill, over the guy who takes care of the bill. What are your thoughts?
10-13-2016, 05:42 AM
-
#9
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Lol wut?Man, what an awkward situation. That comes across completely schiesty. I was taught, if you are inviting, you are picking up the tab. That's goes for ANYONE you invite, not just some chick for a date.
Ass eaters anonymous crew
Bag groceries, booty
Feet eater crew (srs)
FA rustler
Girlfriend lover
GAL GADOT OBSESSION CREW
10-13-2016, 05:43 AM
-
#10
- W1LLW
- Enlightened Miscer
-
- W1LLW
- Enlightened Miscer
- Join Date: Jan 2011
- Posts: 27,700
- Rep Power: 229291
-
-
It's simple really.
If potential diamond in the rough, wife material (intelligent, instagram isn't loaded with selfies, has a career, respects herself, isn't attention whore)
Then you definitely pay.
If you're simply just adding a chick to the roster
Then yeah, use whatever plebby coupon line you can to make it cheaper on yourself. Even I do this.
If potential diamond in the rough, wife material (intelligent, instagram isn't loaded with selfies, has a career, respects herself, isn't attention whore)
Then you definitely pay.
If you're simply just adding a chick to the roster
Then yeah, use whatever plebby coupon line you can to make it cheaper on yourself. Even I do this.
Kobe Forever
Black Crew
Bucks N 6
10-13-2016, 05:43 AM
-
#11
- DoULikeDaggers
- Registered sex offender
-
- DoULikeDaggers
- Registered sex offender
- Join Date: Apr 2015
- Posts: 5,061
- Rep Power: 8429
-
-
Originally Posted By djfuzzy⏩
A few days ago I hooked up with a college chick that went to UT and I had no idea parking on the campus was so expensive. Told her I didn't have enough money on me and she paid for it. Das it mane."Oh shyte, I left my wallet at home."
10-13-2016, 05:45 AM
-
#12
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Sort of agree, except not so much if I'm hanging/doing something with a friend, though occasionally.Man, what an awkward situation. That comes across completely schiesty. I was taught, if you are inviting, you are picking up the tab. That's goes for ANYONE you invite, not just some chick for a date.
I honestly just hesitate a tad when the bill comes and see if she goes for her purse. If she does, great, I'll still get it, but it says a lot about character
Proof Angels exist: OzleyASMR
“Listen to your friend Billy Zane. He's a cool dude. He's trying to help you out.”
10-13-2016, 05:45 AM
-
#13
Originally Posted By secretbunny⏩
Idk if troll but I'll bite with an honest answer:I hear that I am a better human being choosing to date you, the guy crowd sourcing how to split the bill, over the guy who takes care of the bill. What are your thoughts?
I don't give a fk if you choose me bc I'm the one choosing.
Ass eaters anonymous crew
Bag groceries, booty
Feet eater crew (srs)
FA rustler
Girlfriend lover
GAL GADOT OBSESSION CREW
10-13-2016, 05:47 AM
-
#14
10-13-2016, 05:49 AM
-
#15
- donblaximus
- Registered User
-
- donblaximus
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2010
- Age: 50
- Posts: 12,396
- Rep Power: 70954
-
-
Originally Posted By TitanFall⏩
Maybe I'm from a different generation. But yes, if my wife and I invite our friends to dinner, we pay. If they ask us, they pay. if it was a mutual thing like a birthday or mutual occasion, the tab gets split. If we are out drinking with friends, there is a round Robbin approach (unspoken) of picking up tabs. Nobody has a calculation on who consumed what etc. just throw down the card, open a tab, drink, close out and go to the next.Lol wut?
When I dated my now wife, I asked her out the first two times and paid. The third time, she asked me out and I was SUPER curious what she would do in terms of tab and she without hesitation picked it up. Guess we were taught the same.
10-13-2016, 05:49 AM
-
#16
we are talking about a FIRST DATE you nighers. nobody owes **** to the other. splitting in half is the only reasonable thing to do.
if she is expecting not to pay, then she doesnt care about going out with you. she is not willing to invest anything into you other than an hour of her life and then will go to all her friends about what a pussy you are and that the date sucked but at least she ate good.
splitting the bill is not something you ask for, it's implied. you ask to pay the bill if you want, but otherwise it's 50/50
if she is expecting not to pay, then she doesnt care about going out with you. she is not willing to invest anything into you other than an hour of her life and then will go to all her friends about what a pussy you are and that the date sucked but at least she ate good.
splitting the bill is not something you ask for, it's implied. you ask to pay the bill if you want, but otherwise it's 50/50
- Diarrhea Every Day Crew
- Celiac Disease Poverty Race
10-13-2016, 05:52 AM
-
#17
- Fatkidwholifts
- Not actually fat or a kid
-
- Fatkidwholifts
- Not actually fat or a kid
- Join Date: Feb 2009
- Posts: 6,466
- Rep Power: 29818
-
-
Originally Posted By TitanFall⏩
I bet Jeremy pays the whole mcdonalds tab before taking your girl next door to the motel to smash the chit out of her.Before dinner text her this:
"Let's get dinner sometime, you got money, right?"
Or
"We should get drinks and split the bill"
If she isn't receptive to that then North Carolina
"Let's get dinner sometime, you got money, right?"
Or
"We should get drinks and split the bill"
If she isn't receptive to that then North Carolina
Once upon a time:
405
315
455
Currently Washed up.
10-13-2016, 05:54 AM
-
#18
- MetalliNattyCa
- Registered User
-
- MetalliNattyCa
- Registered User
- Join Date: Feb 2012
- Location: Spain
- Posts: 4,901
- Rep Power: 8487
-
-
Originally Posted By TitanFall⏩
So smoothBefore dinner text her this:
"Let's get dinner sometime, you got money, right?"
Or
"We should get drinks and split the bill"
If she isn't receptive to that then North Carolina
"Let's get dinner sometime, you got money, right?"
Or
"We should get drinks and split the bill"
If she isn't receptive to that then North Carolina
Always pick #6 crew
+Positive Crew+
┌∩┐(︺︹︺)┌∩┐Men Going Their Own Way Crew ➥
10-13-2016, 05:55 AM
-
#19
- donblaximus
- Registered User
-
- donblaximus
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2010
- Age: 50
- Posts: 12,396
- Rep Power: 70954
-
-
Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
Yup I understand. If it's a long time friend there are situations where you split and some where you don't. Example, let's say I invite some friend to the race track, I'm totally into cars and he's only slightly into it but he comes out and spends the day with me. I'll pick up the track fee and lunch. But let's say we go fishing, since we both love to do it I'll pick up the eighteen pack and snacks for the boat and he will grab lunch. You sort of split but without the awkward let's do a calculation I. Our head...oh you had two cokes and I just had water so you owe $12 while I just owe $8. I have no time for that schiesty behavior.Sort of agree, except not so much if I'm hanging/doing something with a friend, though occasionally.
I honestly just hesitate a tad when the bill comes and see if she goes for her purse. If she does, great, I'll still get it, but it says a lot about character
I honestly just hesitate a tad when the bill comes and see if she goes for her purse. If she does, great, I'll still get it, but it says a lot about character
But I also keep my circle of friends tight. 5-6 that I call friends. A few dozen acquiantences.
10-13-2016, 05:56 AM
-
#20
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Same. Honestly, I would feel extremely awkward discussing the bill in that situationMan, what an awkward situation. That comes across completely schiesty. I was taught, if you are inviting, you are picking up the tab. That's goes for ANYONE you invite, not just some chick for a date.
I'm sure you're the same but I find myself reaching for the bill in most situations regardless of the company
Training log: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=165829701
10-13-2016, 05:58 AM
-
#21
- Highwind7
- common slav in tracksuit
-
- Highwind7
- common slav in tracksuit
- Join Date: Feb 2014
- Location: 6'3'', 205 lbs, Croatia
- Posts: 14,874
- Rep Power: 36934
-
-
Originally Posted By DoULikeDaggers⏩
not gonna work, you're not femaleOkay, but what if you want her to pay for everything?
*always pick 4 crew*
*conservative crew*
*son or coathanger crew*
*women shouldn't be allowed to vote crew*
*always tells the truth even if it hurts crew*
Some people cry and some people die by the wicked ways of love
But I'll just keep on rolling along with the grace of the Lord above
10-13-2016, 06:00 AM
-
#22
- m1n2v5
- Registered User
-
- m1n2v5
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2012
- Location: United States
- Age: 34
- Posts: 14,707
- Rep Power: 18331
-
-
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
SameMan, what an awkward situation. That comes across completely schiesty. I was taught, if you are inviting, you are picking up the tab. That's goes for ANYONE you invite, not just some chick for a date.
And how can man die better, than facing fearful odds, for the ashes of his fathers, and the temples of his gods?
10-13-2016, 06:01 AM
-
#23
- DarkKnightBrah
- Registered User
-
- DarkKnightBrah
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jan 2016
- Posts: 707
- Rep Power: 718
-
-
1. don't take her to any venue that requires paying
2. don't buy any chit on ur date, if she wants to buy something she'll automatically pay for it (if she asks u to pay u already won and have power...whatever u say or do doesn't matter...JUST DON'T PAY)
3. DON'T PAY
it's that simple
u lose some poosy here and there, who cares
not rocket science, the ones who will come thru and smash will and the ones who don't won't (and u save massive $ + time by them leaving in a hissy fit)
2. don't buy any chit on ur date, if she wants to buy something she'll automatically pay for it (if she asks u to pay u already won and have power...whatever u say or do doesn't matter...JUST DON'T PAY)
3. DON'T PAY
it's that simple
u lose some poosy here and there, who cares
not rocket science, the ones who will come thru and smash will and the ones who don't won't (and u save massive $ + time by them leaving in a hissy fit)
You're a speck of organic dust in the vast cosmos of the Universe
Get out there and be a sick Immanuel Kant
10-13-2016, 06:03 AM
-
#24
- donblaximus
- Registered User
-
- donblaximus
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2010
- Age: 50
- Posts: 12,396
- Rep Power: 70954
-
-
Originally Posted By Kepar⏩
If you asked her out, then you obviously wanted to spend time with her more than she wanted to spend time with you no? If not, wouldn't she have asked you out?we are talking about a FIRST DATE you nighers. nobody owes **** to the other. splitting in half is the only reasonable thing to do.
if she is expecting not to pay, then she doesnt care about going out with you. she is not willing to invest anything into you other than an hour of her life and then will go to all her friends about what a pussy you are and that the date sucked but at least she ate good.
splitting the bill is not something you ask for, it's implied. you ask to pay the bill if you want, but otherwise it's 50/50
if she is expecting not to pay, then she doesnt care about going out with you. she is not willing to invest anything into you other than an hour of her life and then will go to all her friends about what a pussy you are and that the date sucked but at least she ate good.
splitting the bill is not something you ask for, it's implied. you ask to pay the bill if you want, but otherwise it's 50/50
And if you reply with "it's social norm for the guy to ask out" then you fall into the bucket that it's also social norm for the male to pay
If you drive, do you also calculate miles and bill her for her half of the gas?
Ahhh but I'm sure you meet her there.......
So what if you make more money than her, should you send an invoice in the hour wage difference you make x by the number of hours spent to ensure thats equal too?
10-13-2016, 06:05 AM
-
#25
- donblaximus
- Registered User
-
- donblaximus
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2010
- Age: 50
- Posts: 12,396
- Rep Power: 70954
-
-
Originally Posted By arn710⏩
Yup, it's a tell (poker term) for me. If it's a split situation with someone new I just met and they easily let me pick up the whole tab, I'll know a lot more about that person and make my decision how I spend time with them in the future accordingly. I'd rather spend a few bucks to learn about a person quickly then learn the hard way later on.Same. Honestly, I would feel extremely awkward discussing the bill in that situation
I'm sure you're the same but I find myself reaching for the bill in most situations regardless of the company
I'm sure you're the same but I find myself reaching for the bill in most situations regardless of the company
10-13-2016, 06:06 AM
-
#26
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
ThisMan, what an awkward situation. That comes across completely schiesty. I was taught, if you are inviting, you are picking up the tab. That's goes for ANYONE you invite, not just some chick for a date.
****in children in this thread
10-13-2016, 06:06 AM
-
#27
10-13-2016, 06:09 AM
-
#28
- Andresthetic1
- Far from a SoyBoy.
-
- Andresthetic1
- Far from a SoyBoy.
- Join Date: Oct 2013
- Posts: 10,400
- Rep Power: 57035
-
-
Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Works 50% of the time, every time.
That did work for me srs lol, but i did actually forget it at home for real.Works 50% of the time, every time.
SoyBoy's stay the fuk Outta my way!
+++ Positive Crew +++
Ass > Teddies
Officially back from being in the 'hole' for 1 whole year!
10-13-2016, 06:11 AM
-
#29
10-13-2016, 06:12 AM
-
#30
- donblaximus
- Registered User
-
- donblaximus
- Registered User
- Join Date: Jul 2010
- Age: 50
- Posts: 12,396
- Rep Power: 70954
-
-
Originally Posted By DarkKnightBrah⏩
A very sensible way to deal with the issue and to get a lot of info frankly.1. don't take her to any venue that requires paying
2. don't buy any chit on ur date, if she wants to buy something she'll automatically pay for it (if she asks u to pay u already won and have power...whatever u say or do doesn't matter...JUST DON'T PAY)
3. DON'T PAY
it's that simple
u lose some poosy here and there, who cares
not rocket science, the ones who will come thru and smash will and the ones who don't won't (and u save massive $ + time by them leaving in a hissy fit)
2. don't buy any chit on ur date, if she wants to buy something she'll automatically pay for it (if she asks u to pay u already won and have power...whatever u say or do doesn't matter...JUST DON'T PAY)
3. DON'T PAY
it's that simple
u lose some poosy here and there, who cares
not rocket science, the ones who will come thru and smash will and the ones who don't won't (and u save massive $ + time by them leaving in a hissy fit)
Bookmarks
-
- Digg
-
- del.icio.us
-
- StumbleUpon
-
-
Posting Permissions
- You may not post new threads
- You may not post replies
- You may not post attachments
- You may not edit your posts