Talked to a buddy who has gone years. When I asked how many, he said "I forget." As a rule, it does not get any better brah, especially if/when you start having kids. Tour-is-over.

Solid gold.



If that works for you, great. I've been with my wife for 28 years (married 17) and we still go several times a week. There were times where it was less frequent and we have been in ruts.But I found that by doing what Paulo said, it's all changed. I bring more to the table now. She likes what she sees and is motivated by that.

How did you figure it out? Did you have a talk about it, or did it just dawn on you one day?

Been married for 15 years and together for 21+ and have 3 kids. I have no idea what the hell you are talking about.

Have a friend who's been married for about 8 yrs now and just about the only time he gets it is for bday and holidays. dead srs. Occasionally, he says, he does get a BJJ but that seems more of a pity thing. Even the times that he gets some, she'll just lay there and let him do the work. Makes me feel depressed for him. She openly says in front of him that if she had a chance to hook up with Blake Shelton she'd hop on that D and I am 98% sure she has cheated on him at least once.

I looked at myself and realized I could do better. Not just with lifting, but with my attitude as well. Everyone has plenty of room to improve. If you keep working on yourself and continue to bring more to the table (in all aspects of your life), then things just get better.

To all you married guys saying after years of marriage sex isnt that imlortant. Its because youve been trained / broken by the amount of timea she rejects you to the point where yoi don't care and dont even bother trying. You are officially a broken man. ****ing and MAKING LOVE is an essential part of a relationship. You're kidding yourselves thinking its not. Or youve been manipulated. And to the guys saying "be a man she wants to ****..focus on you and sex will come. Youve totally been manipulated by your wifes excuses. Youre basically david robinson and they are hakeem olajuwon juat schooling you. Enjoy being broken men.

The second that wedding cake passed her lips your sex life was ruined brah.

Woah... watch out your comments bro. When I said 'be a man your wife wants to f*ck", what I'm intending to say is "be a sick kunt". Not conform to her version of you, or change things that you don't want to change. It's literally a piece of advice that will resonate through your entire life. Look good, feel good, present yourself well... because I'll tell you one thing for certain, if chicks want to have sex with you, SO WILL YOUR WIFE. Trust me on this. If we go out with friends and a girl makes a comment to my wife along the lines of; wow your husband dresses well, takes care of his body, smells good.. etc... I won't even be able to make it through the door without her taking my pants off. Chicks are odd man. As soon as there is "perceived" competition... they'll jump through hoops to please you.

I think the longest I've gone is 12 days. Otherwise, usually 4-5 days, depends on schedule, time, etc.

Have a friend who's been married for about 8 yrs now and just about the only time he gets it is for bday and holidays. dead srs. Occasionally, he says, he does get a BJJ but that seems more of a pity thing. Even the times that he gets some, she'll just lay there and let him do the work. Makes me feel depressed for him. She openly says in front of him that if she had a chance to hook up with Blake Shelton she'd hop on that D and I am 98% sure she has cheated on him at least once.

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Youre basically david robinson and they are hakeem olajuwon juat schooling you. Enjoy being broken men.

Well yeah ofc she sucks me off few times a week but thought we was talking real t

Edit: srsly though does getting a bj even count anymore once married.

Woah... watch out your comments bro. When I said 'be a man your wife wants to f*ck", what I'm intending to say is "be a sick kunt". Not conform to her version of you....chicks want to have sex with you, SO WILL YOUR WIFE. Trust me on this. If we go out with friends and a girl makes a comment to my wife along the lines of; wow your husband dresses well, takes care of his body, smells good.. etc... I won't even be able to make it through the door without her taking my pants off. Chicks are odd man. As soon as there is "perceived" competition... they'll jump through hoops to please you.

Miss Holly

My ol lady isn't giving it up, would you mind if I pleasured my slightly below average penor to your squat vids?

<3

I think I found something more to your liking...


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Originally Posted by DAJDive View Post
Have any of you been married longer than a few years (or days)? Been with my wife a total of 16 years and you get to a point where sex doesn't define love. I hit up my wife for sex at least five times a week and get shot down. After being turned down so much over the years, I've just lost interest in putting effort into trying. Rather than dwelling on it, I find other activities that bring me enjoyment. Doesn't mean I love my wife less.

Couldn't agree less and you're blatantly misguiding these younger dudes into thinking that sex isn't an integral part of marriage. You've just created a coping mechanism to deal with being "shot down" so many times. That's not a normal marriage situation and the length of time together shouldn't matter. I will never understand how having sex or just 1-2 times a week is acceptable. I was fukking my wife 3-4 times a week with 6 month old premature twins and both of us on 4-5 hours a sleep a day! WTF no wonder there are so many "beta FA" threads on here.

Quantity of sex doesn't mean you have a good/bad marriage. I love my wife and she loves me, we do other things that are important to a healthy relationship. Sex is only a part of it. Marriages take work, just like going to the gym. Its a long term commitment and you have to work on all aspects of it to reap the benefits. With focus on the work part!!!

Totally agree about working on your marriage and doing other things together. It's important to be intimate in other ways that brings you close together. However, you cannot replace sexual intimacy and the importance of it. If she isn't having sex with you regularly then she has a medical problem or is getting that part of her needs met elsewhere. Are you fapping all the time? How do you go without sex for extended periods of time? Maybe you have a hormonal problem? Is your wife still physically attractive to you?

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so she is jealous when other women show interest in you?

It's a retarded ass game. So after my kid mentioned the betrayal but she finally got in bed with me, wrapped her leg around my crotch and I got an instant boner and she knew it. I tried staying strong to not act like an animal.


And that's literally as far as it went. She fell asleep and I stayed up like a bitch cuddle you that continues the streak towards one month.

It's getting to the point where now I don't even act the same towards her now. But I don't want it to show she's affecting me but what else can I do? I'm tired of the games after all these attempts and I know I can do better than this.


It's a matter of making a decision and sticking to it. My weakness has been the kids and I don't want the drama.