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Thread: Non marriage brags, what happens after 40+ and then retirement? LMAO

post 1467903081 10-24-2016, 09:09 AM
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If you stay in shape and have money at 40+ what are you worried about?
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Originally Posted By LikeAMachine⏩
When you hit 35 and are still single you start looking real fukking creepy.
There's 35+, 40+ dudes that are not that way by choice, and don't even enjoy their bachelorhood, and then there's dudes that never stop rippin it up and do really cool things with their lives and get top shelf poosey. The former is pathetic, the latter is inspirational.
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post 1467905121 10-24-2016, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted By ectobruh⏩
Im black so im always gonna look 25 u mad?

And lol if u think 21 y/o sloots don't chase sugar daddies like the plague
Not sure if anyone chases the plague brah
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Originally Posted By LikeAMachine⏩
When you hit 35 and are still single you start looking real fukking creepy.
unless you got a divorce. then if you play your cards right you can come off as endearing to all the 20 something sloots
*Updated* If you can't hit a 320 yard drive, are you even a man?
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Lo by the time I hit 40 I will have triple my income : Girls only know the $$$$.

You think 40yo men who had at least half a successful career and a big pile of cash on their account end up alone : They're the ones getting the most pussies and not the broke 20ish boyos.
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lol at being so insecure that you have to legally bind someone to you so that you'll never be alone and will never be forced to think for yourself.

lol at being so scared of the future that you have to marry young in the hopes that you can attract the best possible mate because you'll probably get fat and your career wont pan out like you though it would, so you better lock her down now before your life goes to chit

lol at having so little confidence about yourself that you figure you might as well just settle now before "you get too old" and wife up some girl and have kids cause its what is socially expected of you.

be your own man, think for yourself, do what you want and what makes you happy, fuk everybody else and their opinion. Yours is the only one that matters.
post 1467905871 10-24-2016, 09:29 AM
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The people ITT who are pro being single at 40+ - have you ever lived alone? Do you know what it's like to spend holidays alone? How about not having ONE person in your life who cares for you unconditionally?

I think most people who are pro-bachelor lives are usually those who are surrounded by friends and family. But when those friends and family get married and do their own thing - that's when it gets real.
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post 1467906271 10-24-2016, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By TitanFall⏩
Strong logic.

Brb cringe af mentality everybody looking at you weird
Brb creeping on 20yo and ppl knowing you're a union just bc of the white knighting you do with your small to medium sized wallet
LMAO at retiring with no kids and not looking back on what mark you left in the world.
Brb can't handle a strong loyal woman even when she aged.




BRB THERE IS NOTHING LIKE CHOOSING THE ONLY RELATIVE YOU WILL EVER HAVE FREEDOM OF CHOICE OF AND SPENDING 50+ YEARS. IMAGINE THE STRENGTH OF THAT BOND.
let me guess, you woke up hating your life just as you have the past 10 years and youre in here trying to crap out the dudes who actually enjoy living? plz go *******, theres no guarantee getting married at 25 will mean you arent single at 40
post 1467906491 10-24-2016, 09:32 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
The people ITT who are pro being single at 40+ - have you ever lived alone? Do you know what it's like to spend holidays alone? How about not having ONE person in your life who cares for you unconditionally?

I think most people who are pro-bachelor lives are usually those who are surrounded by friends and family. But when those friends and family get married and do their own thing - that's when it gets real.
ive lived on my own, by myself for 13 straight years. its fukking great
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Originally Posted By TitanFall⏩
BRB THERE IS NOTHING LIKE CHOOSING THE ONLY RELATIVE YOU WILL EVER HAVE FREEDOM OF CHOICE OF AND SPENDING 50+ YEARS. IMAGINE THE STRENGTH OF THAT BOND.
If you're talking about the sloot in your AVI with her tits out for the whole world to see...


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42, no kids, never been married

Can I just say, majority of my peers are married. With some rare exceptions, you'd have to query what the hell the bloke was thinking. Marriage itself is not an achievement.
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post 1467908171 10-24-2016, 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted By samsbolton⏩
42, no kids, never been married

Can I just say, majority of my peers are married. With some rare exceptions, you'd have to query what the hell the bloke was thinking. Marriage itself is not an achievement.
As a 31 year old, who doesn't see myself getting married or having kids.....definitely by choice.......How did you do it? Did it just never happen or was it a conscious decision?

I've dated girls that I could have been happy with, one for 6 years another for 4, been with my current gf for 2 and going into the relationship I was honest with them...I imagine they just figured I would change or "come around" to the idea, but nah and that's mainly why we ended up separating. Also, how is life at 42 in your situation?
post 1467908441 10-24-2016, 09:47 AM
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Seventies+
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post 1467908891 10-24-2016, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
ive lived on my own, by myself for 13 straight years. its fukking great
Same. Lived solo for 11 years, I find the notion of being anchored to a woman quite repulsive tbh. Monogamy especially in the western sense is extremely unnatural and unhealthy for a man's well-being.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
The people ITT who are pro being single at 40+ - have you ever lived alone? Do you know what it's like to spend holidays alone? How about not having ONE person in your life who cares for you unconditionally?

I think most people who are pro-bachelor lives are usually those who are surrounded by friends and family. But when those friends and family get married and do their own thing - that's when it gets real.
I've lived alone. I love it. Nobody cares about holidays where I'm from.

Marriage and children do not guarantee unconditional love. There's no such thing.
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Codependency is pathetic.
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Originally Posted By TitanFall⏩
Strong logic.

Brb cringe af mentality everybody looking at you weird

1. I would guess that no one is looking at you weird unless you dressed weird. People are so self absorbed and in the phone that no one sees anyone.

Brb creeping on 20yo and ppl knowing you're a union just bc of the white knighting you do with your small to medium sized wallet

2. Who likes 20 yr olds, oh yeah other 20 year olds.
LMAO at retiring with no kids and not looking back on what mark you left in the world.

3. Retirement age is 65, and you can make kids any time without that legal contract, well thought out sparky!
Brb can't handle a strong loyal woman even when she aged.

4. Get a strong loyal GF who thinks like you and you and handle her while she is aging, again think fonzy!




BRB THERE IS NOTHING LIKE CHOOSING THE ONLY RELATIVE YOU WILL EVER HAVE FREEDOM OF CHOICE OF AND SPENDING 50+ YEARS. IMAGINE THE STRENGTH OF THAT BOND.
5. spend 50 years with your chosen woman and do a Goldie Hawn or Oprah without the legal bs, simple stuff for the thinkers.
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Originally Posted By TitanFall⏩
LMAO at retiring with no kids and not looking back on what mark you left in the world.
I do not comprehend this argument.

Your kids will end upjustlike you: Nonessential. Forgotten. Trivial - An ant upon billions of other ants. I never bought into the idea of leaving a legacy. It is nonsensical and pathetic.
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Good thread.

Nice to see logic posted here by miscers who don't collapse into unnecesary societal expectations.

This is a very niche forum tho, and such logical thought isn't very prevelent IRL.
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
As a 31 year old, who doesn't see myself getting married or having kids.....definitely by choice.......How did you do it? Did it just never happen or was it a conscious decision?

I've dated girls that I could have been happy with, one for 6 years another for 4, been with my current gf for 2 and going into the relationship I was honest with them...I imagine they just figured I would change or "come around" to the idea, but nah and that's mainly why we ended up separating. Also, how is life at 42 in your situation?
Could have been talked into it twice in my twenties. Might have worked out, might not, but for sure I would have been a lot poorer ..or i'd have to have worked a lot harder career wise.

Just out of a longish relationship. Tbh, relationships have always been a way down my list of priorities. Got plenty of other things to do and enjoy. Got a few close friends, some married some not, to get yucky/go on hols with. But I enjoy my own company as well, which I think is the point here. I'm the sort of person who likes to be sociable but at the end of the day wants to come home to an empty home and shut the door.

Never had the urge for kids at all. If I met the one, I suppose I might feel differently. The advantage at my age is that I get to call the shots financially. (not rich but decently comfortable). A lot of relationships I know where the wife is working as well as home making seem to be the most stressful/least happy..

Life is good and I don't feel I'm missing out on anything at all. The guys that are by themselves and don't want to be, that's tough. A mate of mine is like this but now in a relationship, and far as I can see she's taking advantage of his desperation and using him. He seems pretty fuked either way
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Originally Posted By LikeAMachine⏩
When you hit 35 and are still single you start looking real fukking creepy.
People here think that they are going to be some rich jet setting bachelor. When they really are going to make an average wage and be undesirable to any women under 30 that doesn't have 4 kids already.
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Originally Posted By TsarChasm⏩
People here think that they are going to be some rich jet setting bachelor. When they really are going to make an average wage and be undesirable to any women under 30 that doesn't have 4 kids already.
Making $50k with no kids and no wife is literally the same as making $150k as a "family man"

Medium wages with no expenses is honestly insane. You accumulate so much money every month.

GOAT. Srs.
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Originally Posted By samsbolton⏩
Could have been talked into it twice in my twenties. Might have worked out, might not, but for sure I would have been a lot poorer ..or i'd have to have worked a lot harder career wise.

Just out of a longish relationship. Tbh, relationships have always been a way down my list of priorities. Got plenty of other things to do and enjoy. Got a few close friends, some married some not, to get yucky/go on hols with.But I enjoy my own company as well, which I think is the point here. I'm the sort of person who likes to be sociable but at the end of the day wants to come home to an empty home and shut the door.

Never had the urge for kids at all.If I met the one, I suppose I might feel differently. The advantage at my age is that I get to call the shots financially. (not rich but decently comfortable). A lot of relationships I know where the wife is working as well as home making seem to be the most stressful/least happy..

Life is good and I don't feel I'm missing out on anything at all. The guys that are by themselves and don't want to be, that's tough. A mate of mine is like this but now in a relationship, and far as I can see she's taking advantage of his desperation and using him. He seems pretty fuked either way
I think the bits in bold are what separate people who are happy alone and those who can't imagine such a life.

I am exactly the same, apart from the bit about being sociable; I am asocial - at the end of the day, I want to come home to an empty house, take off my people face and simply stop being "on".
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Originally Posted By EAOP⏩
I think the bits in bold are what separate people who are happy alone and those who can't imagine such a life.

I am exactly the same, apart from the bit about being sociable; I am asocial - at the end of the day, I want to come home to an empty house, take off my people face and simply stop being "on".
so much this. i started a thread about that. brb coming home to someone every single day for the rest of your life? seems terrible
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Making $50kYou accumulate so much money every month.

GOAT. Srs.
u faking wot m8

Maybe if you don't have any debt and live with roommates

I still accumulate money but definitely not "so much"

I should be making about $70k by january and then I'll be accumulating "so much" money though
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Originally Posted By LikeAMachine⏩
When you hit 35 and are still single you start looking real fukking creepy.
To who? A bunch of 18 year olds that no one gives a **** about?
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Originally Posted By TooAnabolic⏩
I still accumulate money but definitely not "so much"
You likely live a high-expense lifestyle.
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Originally Posted By 21stCenturyKid⏩
You likely live a high-expense lifestyle.
True. Saving has less to do with how much you earn and more to do with how much you spend.

I had a few years where I was making next to nothing and I still managed to save.

Figuring out what really makes you happy vs what you've been socialised to think makes you happy but probably doesn't actually do so and cutting the latter out is the first step to financial security.
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