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post 1468093971 10-25-2016, 01:06 PM
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How would you you break up with a cheater?

So ive Been dating my fianc about a year. For some reason I always thought she was talking to other guys or cheating. Anyway she gave me her password for a random website last week(credit karma)I tried it for her ******** and it worked. I found archived messages from a guy from march. We were very in love by this time. I guess someone she dated once messaged her in ********. Within two days she had asked him to hang out. She said she was single.i looked back to these dates and during this two week period she was acting so weird. We had no sex. She was acting different. Now I know why. She asked him to hangout again but he always made excuses why he couldn't.she was messaging him while we were on dates because at a movie in march. She said she was with her friends.also again on another date of ours. She sent him a selfie of herself when she got home from our date. It this reason to break up with your fianc that you were going to marry next month ? If so, how would you do it. Since I went and invaded her privacy. Thanks. I should of listened to you bruhs when you told me to end it when u told you she was going to the army. Wow. She also told him how she just gave a guy at the gym her number. Unreal

This first pic is the first time she asked him to hangoutwindows screenshot

This is when she was texting him him when I was sitting next to her at a movie then dinner.
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post 1468094171 10-25-2016, 01:08 PM
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post 1468094271 10-25-2016, 01:08 PM
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Go nc
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post 1468094341 10-25-2016, 01:09 PM
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Dump her srs

There's a video of a guy giving a girl a big heart shaped box of chocolates, but then he locks her in the car and it's actually full of roaches. Do that.
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post 1468094511 10-25-2016, 01:10 PM
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start hitting it from behind, but have the texts printed out right? Then while you're smashing that doggy style, drop the pages in front of her face and tell her you know she's cheating.

Then ride that **** as long as you can like she's a bronco. Time yourself and post results for the misc.

You got this, cowboy.
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post 1468094531 10-25-2016, 01:10 PM
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who knew breaking up had to be done properly when a girl is a serial emotional cheater? Fiance of 1 yr just lol 1 fukking year and you put a ring on her????? Just drop her on the curve bro who the fukk cares
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post 1468094541 10-25-2016, 01:10 PM
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Just go NC
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post 1468094681 10-25-2016, 01:12 PM
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has to be a troll thread

you either have balls or you don't
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post 1468094701 10-25-2016, 01:12 PM
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Relationships are unnatural and 99.9% of the time, due to neediness as an attempt to fill out a 'missing void' from both of the people involved.

The only time to ever get in a relationship is if you end up knocking up a girl.
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post 1468094811 10-25-2016, 01:13 PM
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Honestly if you don't break up with her you have no self-respect whatsoever, and she clearly doesn't respect you.

If you caught her doing several slimy things it's safe to say that's not all she did. Most likely she ****ed other guys.

It doesn't really matter how you tell her, she will try to flip it around and make you seem like the bad guy.

The best thing you can possibly do is go NC and just never talk to her again. You won't do that cuz you're a pussy, so just tell her you found out she cheated on you and don't give her any specifics.

You'll get to see if she denies it or if she admits to the cheating she did.

Doesn't matter either way, break up with her there's no other option.
post 1468094921 10-25-2016, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By bf527365
So ive Been dating my fianc about a year. For some reason I always thought she was talking to other guys or cheating. Anyway she gave me her password for a random website last week(credit karma)I tried it for her ******** and it worked. I found archived messages from a guy from march. We were very in love by this time. I guess someone she dated once messaged her in ********. Within two days she had asked him to hang out. She said she was single.i looked back to these dates and during this two week period she was acting so weird. We had no sex. She was acting different. Now I know why. She asked him to hangout again but he always made excuses why he couldn't.she was messaging him while we were on dates because at a movie in march. She said she was with her friends.also again on another date of ours. She sent him a selfie of herself when she got home from our date. It this reason to break up with your fianc that you were going to marry next month ? If so, how would you do it. Since I went and invaded her privacy. Thanks. I should of listened to you bruhs when you told me to end it when u told you she was going to the army. Wow.She also told him how she just gave a guy at the gym her number. Unreal
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If srs, i don't understand how you can be this pathetic
post 1468095001 10-25-2016, 01:14 PM
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How do you break up with a cheater?

You just simply leave as a man.

Fuk that ****.
post 1468095071 10-25-2016, 01:15 PM
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bro you live around me give me her number ill break up with her for you or smash her p00sy till you break up
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post 1468095301 10-25-2016, 01:16 PM
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Id end it with a left uppercut, right hook.
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post 1468095551 10-25-2016, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By UTSoccerbro
start hitting it from behind, but have the texts printed out right? Then while you're smashing that doggy style, drop the pages in front of her face and tell her you know she's cheating.

Then ride that **** as long as you can like she's a bronco. Time yourself and post results for the misc.

You got this, cowboy.
Forget my post, this is way better. Epic lol
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post 1468095631 10-25-2016, 01:19 PM
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Its never not NC.

Its always NC, every time, for everything.
post 1468095951 10-25-2016, 01:21 PM
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I think going NC without any explanation would be appropriate in this situation
post 1468096031 10-25-2016, 01:22 PM
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post 1468096061 10-25-2016, 01:22 PM
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You end it asap.

Good luck man that sucks.
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post 1468096111 10-25-2016, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By TooAnabolic
Honestly if you don't break up with her you have no self-respect whatsoever, and she clearly doesn't respect you.

If you caught her doing several slimy things it's safe to say that's not all she did. Most likely she ****ed other guys.

It doesn't really matter how you tell her, she will try to flip it around and make you seem like the bad guy.

The best thing you can possibly do is go NC and just never talk to her again. You won't do that cuz you're a pussy, so just tell her you found out she cheated on you and don't give her any specifics.

You'll get to see if she denies it or if she admits to the cheating she did.

Doesn't matter either way, break up with her there's no other option.
Answer I was looking for. I'll just say I found out. See what she says. Good looks.
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post 1468096301 10-25-2016, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By bf527365
Answer I was looking for. I'll just say I found out. See what she says. Good looks.
Probably not top of your priorities but I'm interested to see what happens, update when you can brah
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post 1468096321 10-25-2016, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By bf527365
Answer I was looking for. I'll just say I found out. See what she says. Good looks.
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post 1468096341 10-25-2016, 01:24 PM
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I can't go nc. She's at her duty station in Texas. I'm in DC.
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post 1468096461 10-25-2016, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4
You end it asap.

Good luck man that sucks.
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post 1468096581 10-25-2016, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Benmben1
Id end it with a left uppercut, right hook.
if I do it over text I'll update with screenshots. May do FaceTime tho so see her fat fucing face caught in a lie. She's in Texas
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post 1468097311 10-25-2016, 01:31 PM
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Don't say anything, Stop talking to her and just start seeing other girls.
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1. have proof ready
2. bring home new sloot
3. introduce new sloot to old sloot as your side sloot
4. old sloot angry
5. ask sloot why angry
6. pretend to listen to sloot reply
7. show sloot proof of her cheating
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post 1468097721 10-25-2016, 01:34 PM
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post 1468097781 10-25-2016, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted By bf527365
I can't go nc. She's at her duty station in Texas. I'm in DC.
why not. i bet she has already given out her number there, or sucked some dink. looks like she chases guys. not all will be pussies like that one that gave excuses. odds are she had it in her stinker already.
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Originally Posted By Benmben1
Probably not top of your priorities but I'm interested to see what happens, update when you can brah
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