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post 1471598291 11-17-2016, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
No joke, I was walking in a direction where a group of girls happened to be sitting, and they were all looking at me until I got to an angle where they figured out my height, and then one of them blurted out, "Nevermind." It's bullchit brah. I can't even imagine how different life would be if I were just average.
Brah.......I don't even know what to say.
Originally Posted By AngusPeppered
I see college brahs that are ugly and by no means Chads with cute gf's all the time.Your best bet is to make girl friends so them or their friends can get to know you on a more personal level and you will have a much better chance. Looks/height aren't the cure to everything. I'm good looking, I get told it all the time, and I'm still FA when it comes to relationships and not just smashing
This.
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I'm mediocre looking, poor, and a little awkward. I banged plenty of girls with bfs in college. Nothing is sacred with girls that age just go for it
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
Probably. I've become ridiculously cynical for the past year.
if you were to make friends you would want to make sure they are fun to be around now think about how sloots choose their lays they woukd also want looks with it too
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post 1471598761 11-17-2016, 07:34 PM
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post 1471598781 11-17-2016, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted By AngusPeppered
I see college brahs that are ugly and by no means Chads with cute gf's all the time.Your best bet is to make girl friends so them or their friends can get to know you on a more personal level and you will have a much better chance.Looks/height aren't the cure to everything. I'm good looking, I get told it all the time, and I'm still FA when it comes to relationships and not just smashing
Strong this. I like how you skipped over this part and focused on the first sentence instead.
post 1471599061 11-17-2016, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
Most girls in college are already dating somebody that's likely not even in college and has a good 5-10 years on her. I'm well aware that some girls have sugar daddy arrangements with some older guys.

So you have guys that are around 25-30 that are competing for the same pool of girls. Usually these guys are already educated, making a decent living and have their life in order. They are miles ahead of your average college student.

Even for girls who aren't looking to date older guys, they have a nearly endless amount of goodlooking, tall guys of any ethnicity or subculture of their preference. There's nothing really distinguishing one student from the other except for either looks or some form of status from playing a possible sport.

Practically every girl either has a boyfriend with a couple backups or is just sleeping around right now, and a girl is going to be choosy with who she sleeps around with.

Because of all of that, I simply can't compete. Too many guys are all competing for the same pool of girls. I'm basically left playing with my balls as a 19 year old guy that's 5'5" and younger than most people in his classes. What the phuck am I supposed to do?
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Originally Posted By onlywantsize
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
I see this too, all the phucking time. Even manlets (less than 5'5"). I have no idea what the phuck they are doing.
Sentence number two. That is how every non Chad I know has got a gf

Edit: misc acts like looks make or break you and it's simply not true. Only applies for slaying. I'm in a class of all hot sorority sloots where we talk about our problems basically and the ones with bfs all met them through some club or class, not at a bar or off tinder. I've seen pics of their bfs and they're nothing special looks wise either
post 1471599231 11-17-2016, 07:38 PM
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why are u worried about that.. get a job bro.

i know what ur problem is though
1. you don't approach enough. you've probably approached maybe 5 times and every girl said they're taken or something so you're giving up. this is pretty much psychology textbook extinction leading to you not approaching girls anymore. I know cause I stopped approaching girls. Not for the reason that I was rejected, but because so many of them, I just flat out didn't like. Can't fuk with a girl into dog faces on snapchat and young thug rap music doing the juju on the beat dance. Not my type. Which is pretty much every girl out there in college, unless they are the very quiet type that won't drink. I don't even approach anymore. srs. And I still manage to be good. Just no relationship prospects. btw i'm 5'6".

2. You aren't busy enough. Get a job where you go before/right after class. Lift early in the morning. Study when you have free time. Once you're working and have school so much that you'd rather sleep in on the weekend than go out partying, you will feel like you're doing so much better. Like so tired that you want to go out, but you will pass out in your chair eating food after work. You'll be working on yourself, and you feel it. All that other BS goes out the window. You'll appreciate being single and realize it doesn't matter
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Wear Timberlands. I hear they add 2"
Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
I see this too, all the phucking time. Even manlets (less than 5'5"). I have no idea what the phuck they are doing.
College is less about Chad-ness and more about social value. Dead srs. OP, don't worry about it. You have 3 more years of college left. Continue to meet people and increase your social value. Find a bunch of brahs that have similar interests and hang out with them. It helps. BTW, 90% of the people I knew who were in college relationships aren't in them anymore.

Focus on doing well in school and getting a good job.
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post 1471600211 11-17-2016, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted By thecpthree
why are u worried about that.. get a job bro.

i know what ur problem is though
1. you don't approach enough. you've probably approached maybe 5 times and every girl said they're taken or something so you're giving up. this is pretty much psychology textbook extinction leading to you not approaching girls anymore. I know cause I stopped approaching girls. Not for the reason that I was rejected, but because so many of them, I just flat out didn't like. Can't fuk with a girl into dog faces on snapchat and young thug rap music doing the juju on the beat dance. Not my type. Which is pretty much every girl out there in college, unless they are the very quiet type that won't drink. I don't even approach anymore. srs. And I still manage to be good. Just no relationship prospects. btw i'm 5'6".
Yeh I know you can relate to me. But you're right, most girls in college are like that and have an endless amount of guys to choose from. Even the whales srs, I know one girl who was 5'3", 176 lbs who cycled through a whole bunch of dudes in a single semester.

I've actually never approached a girl before, I just don't see the point given what I have to compete against. Even then, most girls will casually mention their boyfriend as I'm talking to them.
2. You aren't busy enough. Get a job where you go before/right after class. Lift early in the morning. Study when you have free time. Once you're working and have school so much that you'd rather sleep in on the weekend than go out partying, you will feel like you're doing so much better. You'll be working on yourself, and you feel it. All that other BS goes out the window. You'll appreciate being single.
I'm busy enough man. Full course load, volunteering on the weekends as well as helping my twin sister in her assignments when she's not able. I just had two assignments to hand in on Monday, I have a midterm tomorrow that I studied all day for and I have two other assignments due next Friday. I haven't had a break in a while, on top of the regular five days a week gymming of which two days is cardio related. I also spend once a week doing grappling and boxing with another friend.

I'm pretty busy and I don't normally think about this. I'm just starting to get tired of the routine. Yes, I have seen major improvements this semester compared to the past (getting all A's in my classes now, gained 20 lbs in the past four months along with other achievements), but it feels barren. It feels like a wasted effort.
Originally Posted By kovalchuk71
Wear Timberlands. I hear they add 2"



College is less about Chad-ness and more about social value. Dead srs. OP, don't worry about it. You have 3 more years of college left. Continue to meet people and increase your social value. 90% of the people I knew who were in college relationships aren't in them anymore.

Focus on doing well in school and getting a good job.
I wear sole-less shoes lmao. I stopped giving a phuck about how tall I am long time ago. It only irks me periodically when I see something that reminds me how obsessed girls are with tall guys.

I got one more year to go since I'm in third year. The next couple of years in grad school will be extremely busy, though I do have an internship lined up for a research position, so I don't think I'll have a problem finding a job once I'm actually finished.
post 1471600611 11-17-2016, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane
Cheer up brah. College is like mating season, vain people after vain people. It will die down and they'll start looking for guys with substance because they've fukd tons of chads already. Just STD check them before going in for the relationship kill.
Lol, no. You won't see that until after college.
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post 1471600731 11-17-2016, 07:50 PM
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If you can't get laid in college you might as well give up on life now. When else are you going to be surrounded by cute young chicks everyday, everywhere you go with no real responsibilities and a flexible schedule to do whatever you want.
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Originally Posted By kovalchuk71
Lol, no. You won't see that until after college.
That's what I meant by die down, that's why I referred to college as being like mating season the sentence before
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Originally Posted By shoelaces
If you can't get laid in college you might as well give up on life now. When else are you going to be surrounded by cute young chicks everyday, everywhere you go with no real responsibilities and a flexible schedule to do whatever you want.
Well no. Life is more than women, but it's definitely not pleasant without them.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
Well no. Life is more than women, but it's definitely not pleasant without them.
True but you gotta bust some nuts once in a while. It is unhealthy to go without sex for long periods of time. That's how serial killers are created semi-srs.
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Originally Posted By Pavk
almost everygoodlooking girl in college has a bf and finding a single one is rare af. you have to steal them from their bf if you wanna get with them, there is no such thing as fair game at college. (srs)
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Originally Posted By shoelaces
True but you gotta bust some nuts once in a while.It is unhealthy to go without sex for long periods of time.That's how serial killers are created semi-srs.
Probably for people that have already had sex, but I can't really miss something I've never had before.
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane
That's what I meant by die down, that's why I referred to college as being like mating season the sentence before
Gotcha, I interpreted it incorrectly.
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post 1471601721 11-17-2016, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
Probably for people that have already had sex, but I can't really miss something I've never had before.
Nah you gotta bust nuts once in a while to keep your body functioning normally. That's why people have wet dreams if they go too long. Plus you start to have all these irrational and weird thoughts the longer you go. It's not just about sex itself but the affection and companionship that goes along with it. People are social creatures and even the most introverted person still requires interaction once in a while.
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Originally Posted By kip22
college campus usuall has a disproportional amount of goodlooking ppl

when u get back out into the real world the playing field will be more even
This is so true. OP, go outside your campus by 10 miles and watch the average body fat raise by 1% per mile driven. It's crazy.
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Originally Posted By shoelaces
Nah you gotta bust nuts once in a while to keep your body functioning normally. That's why people have wet dreams if they go too long.Plus you start to have all these irrational and weird thoughts the longer you go.It's not just about sex itself but the affection and companionship that goes along with it. People are social creatures and even the most introverted person still requires interaction once in a while.
Probably this.
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Originally Posted By kip22
college campus usuall has a disproportional amount of goodlooking ppl

when u get back out into the real world the playing field will be more even
This

Keep in mind the kids that go to college are from wealthier middle class families that were raised shallower than the average person and put a lot of value on looks, and in that environment there's enough quantity that they can be overly picky. You'd have better luck at a community college srs. It's like highschool 2.0
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane
This

Keep in mind the kids that go to college are from wealthier middle class families that were raised shallower than the average person. You'd have better luck at a community college srs. It's like highschool 2.0
Do you not know the definition of wealth and middle class? Because they are nearly opposites.
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Originally Posted By doughnutking
Get shoes with big heels.
Confident manlet crew.
Keep in mind the kids that go to college are from wealthier middle class families that were raised shallower than the average person. You'd have better luck at a community college srs. It's like highschool 2.0
That also explains why they tend to be much taller than the average population.
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Do you not know the definition of wealth and middle class? Because they are nearly opposites.
He probably means upper middle class. You can slice up income levels in more ways than one.
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Originally Posted By shoelaces
Do you not know the definition of wealth and middle class? Because they are nearly opposites.
Wealthier middle class, meaning upper middle class. State party schools are pretty expensive.
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane
Wealthier middle class, meaning upper middle class. State party schools are pretty expensive.
Wealth actually means incredible amounts of money. The wealthy are the 1% that everyone talks about. They are better off than the rich. There is no such thing as the wealthy middle class. It is a contradiction in terms. I went to a state school and tuition was considerably cheaper than a private university.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
That also explains why they tend to be much taller than the average population.
I posted a little further up about being 5'5 as well and linked a study that might cheer you uphttp://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...post1471600301. I honestly never really felt short until I set foot in a gym. Luxury schools and gym memberships attract certain kinds of people.

Actually that study reminds me, why don't you try something like OkCupid? It'll do some searching for you that won't restrain you to the girls you see on campus.
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