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post 1471604301 11-17-2016, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
Wealth actually means incredible amounts of money. The wealthy are the 1% that everyone talks about. They are better off than the rich. There is no such thing as the wealthy middle class. It is a contradiction in terms. I went to a state school and tuition was considerably cheaper than a private university.
The distinction is there, it's just less apparent.

For example, the upper middle class family probably lives in a better neighborhood, in a larger home. their kids were probably educated in a high-ranking school. They make enough income to afford yearly vacations, and spend less of their income on actual necessities.

The lower middle class family lives in a less valuable neighborhood, smaller house and spends more of their income on basic necessities. Their kids have probably been pressured to do succeed and do well in education.

You'll often find the people from lower middle class families being the ones that spend all their time studying and working, whereas the upper middle class people might do phuck all for their first year and make minimal effort in the succeeding years, since their parents can afford their mistakes.
Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
I posted a little further up about being 5'5 as well and linked a study that might cheer you uphttp://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...post1471600301. I honestly never really felt short until I set foot in a gym. Luxury schools and luxury gym memberships attract certain kinds of people.
Nah bro, I feel short all the time on campus srs. I'm pretty sure the average girl on campus is like 5'7", if not more. At my yoga class the girls are easily that height.

That's the problem. Statistically, I'm still taller than the average female in Canada but the population at the University is skewed towards the right in terms of height, meaning at 5'5" I'm probably below the average female height.

I actually feel much normal at the gym, where there are plenty of other manlets.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Nah bro, I feel short all the time on campus srs. I'm pretty sure the average girl on campus is like 5'7", if not more. At my yoga class the girls are easily that height.

That's the problem. Statistically, I'm still taller than the average female in Canada but the population at the University is skewed towards the right in terms of height, meaning at 5'5" I'm probably below the average female height.

I actually feel much normal at the gym, where there are plenty of other manlets.
Pay attention to footwear, if most girls are wearing things with slight platforms then up your shoe game to a realistic level. As long as the difference is maintained when you're both barefoot they won't care.

But overall the odds are stacked against you, you'll get late pick once the hormones settle
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
I posted a little further up about being 5'5 as well and linked a study that might cheer you uphttp://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...post1471600301. I honestly never really felt short until I set foot in a gym. Luxury schools and luxury gym memberships attract certain kinds of people.

Actually that study reminds me, why don't you try something like OkCupid? It'll do some searching for you that won't restrain you to the girls you see on campus.
Okcupid is a waste. I have had very few average looking women message me back on there. Had one legit 7.5/8 send some real good nudes, but she frauded her location so we never met, and yes she is a real person. Okcupid is great if you like whaling or if you are pretty close to being a chad or are a chad.
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post 1471605481 11-17-2016, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Parkerscott⏩
Okcupid is a waste. I have had very few average looking women message me back on there. Had one legit 7.5/8 send some real good nudes, but she frauded her location so we never met, and yes she is a real person. Okcupid is great if you like whaling or if you are pretty close to being a chad or are a chad.
Might depend on location, but I haven't tried
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In on manlet pity party

Never had an issue

EDIT: 5'5 as well
post 1471605731 11-17-2016, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
The distinction is there, it's just less apparent.
I know there is a range in each class. What I was saying is the word wealth does not belong in the same category as middle class. That's all. Just trying to clear up this common misconception.
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Originally Posted By lawrencenewbs⏩
In on manlet pity party

Never had an issue

EDIT: 5'5 as well
You clearly know something that I don't know.
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Originally Posted By OhioBoy21⏩
Just try to focus on yourself, good grades, lifting etc. for a few years and try to lower your standards maybe. You're only 19 you have plenty of time brah don't worry so much it will just cause problems
I actually disagree, you don't have plenty of time, you need to act NOW... trust me I watched my golden years melt away as I always figured I had plenty of time... until I no longer did.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
You clearly know something that I don't know.
Carry yourself better brah. Immediately assume no one will date you and you'll stop worrying and be confident as fuk because you have no one to impress. You probably walk around no eye contact sad face glancing at floor because you feel tiny. Be funny and interact with people, but that's easier said than done.

It's a paradoxal situation
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Originally Posted By JohnQQQ⏩
I actually disagree, you don't have plenty of time, you need to act NOW... trust me I watched my golden years melt away as I always figured I had plenty of time... until I no longer did.
Yeah, time is a finite resource. I have already lost my golden years brah. I shut myself in first year, doing nothing but studying. Second year I spent it in a horribly depressive state.

Never had the type of experiences that everyone says is supposed to happen during those years.
Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
Carry yourself better brah.Immediately assume no one will date youand you'll stop worrying and be confident as fuk because you have no one to impress. You probably walk around no eye contact sad face glancing at floor because you feel tiny. Be funny and interact with people, but that's easier said than done.

It's a paradoxal situation
I already make this assumption. I have given up a long time ago brah (since last year). It's just every once in a while it gets to me that it's actually true.
post 1471607371 11-17-2016, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Yeah, time is a finite resource. I have already lost my golden years brah. I shut myself in first year, doing nothing but studying. Second year I spent it in a horribly depressive state.

Never had the type of experiences that everyone says is supposed to happen during those years.
You need to think of yourself if you change nothing 5 years from now... what your like would be like, now build upon that and imagine 10 years... then 15... then snap out of it and go get some pussy ASAP, even if it ain't great
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post 1471607511 11-17-2016, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By JohnQQQ⏩
You need to think of yourself if you change nothing 5 years from now... what your like would be like, now build upon that and imagine 10 years... then 15... then snap out of it and go get some pussy ASAP, even if it ain't great
Bruh I have legit zero idea how to get pussy. Like I said, it seems that every girl has a boyfriend.
post 1471608591 11-17-2016, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
Might depend on location, but I haven't tried
Dallas, Fort Worth area. It's pretty densely populated. At this point im pretty convinced online dating is a fools errand, and the odds are stacked against the average person very heavily. People who say they are average and have had success have either messaged a girl at the perfect time, or they are better looking than they think they are.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Bruh I have legit zero idea how to get pussy. Like I said, it seems that every girl has a boyfriend.
I've been here since 02, and I can tell you with 100% certainty that you won't learn how to get pussy on the misc
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post 1471609421 11-17-2016, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted By JohnQQQ⏩
I've been here since 02, and I can tell you with 100% certainty that you won't learn how to get pussy on the misc
lol, this is true.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Bruh I have legit zero idea how to get pussy. Like I said, it seems that every girl has a boyfriend.
Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
I already make this assumption. I have given up a long time ago brah (since last year). It's just every once in a while it gets to me that it's actually true.
It sounds like a piece of your puzzle is missing. Also, read what I said in your rep log. Hanging around communities that self hate for anything is a recipe of disaster.

Be more active. Chit is so boring for me I joke and talk to every girl near me in classes any chance I get, with no intention of smashing. Can't rely on height to establish presence at 5'5. This tactic is probably a one way ticket to the friend zone if you're ugly though. Obviously you'll never compete if someone comes along and ticks every box, that's why you gotta get yourself out there. Chit applies to girls too. If a well proportioned HBB walks in to a room filled with slightly above average girls they feel the same way.
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
I posted a little further up about being 5'5 as well and linked a study that might cheer you uphttp://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...post1471600301. I honestly never really felt short until I set foot in a gym. Luxury schools and gym memberships attract certain kinds of people.

Actually that study reminds me, why don't you try something like OkCupid? It'll do some searching for you that won't restrain you to the girls you see on campus.
I wouldn't advise online dating either, just go find a hobby that has a somewhat mixed sex population and go from there. Or you know, actually work on your degree instead of working minimum wage for legal prostitutes.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
You clearly know something that I don't know.
Seen a couple of guys carrying about dime pieces 3" + taller than them on campus. It's possible, but its a niche for most girls.
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Originally Posted By funkygrunt017⏩
I wouldn't advise online dating either, just go find a hobby that has a somewhat mixed sex population and go from there. Or you know, actually work on your degree instead of working minimum wage for legal prostitutes.
I know a guy who is around 5'5" and hes pretty ugly but he still gets laid, I think him having access to lots of drugs helps for some reason, lures the sloots in.
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Originally Posted By Bruthar⏩
Don't focus on that OP, just don't.

Get good grades, go to the gym, make good connections, maybe get a part time job if you don't have one yet related to your field, and then as you constantly self improve you'll find a lady friend soon enough.
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Originally Posted By JohnQQQ⏩
I actually disagree, you don't have plenty of time, you need to act NOW... trust me I watched my golden years melt away as I always figured I had plenty of time... until I no longer did.
Yeah, being serious OP has a very positive mindset for being an ethnic manlet in the west. I've seen his face too btw he's not an ugly guy either

In college you need social connections, friendships and to basically be the social butterfly especially if you have any looks disadvantage. This goes for all men who aren't exceptionally good looking, even white ones. As a fellow manlet, I've never had any problems getting laid to women older than me (28+) or ones I've found from Tinder. The college girls are harder because they aren't yet in the sloot it up phase full blown and I have social anxiety disorder and need to rely on drugs or intensive meditation to interact with people srs. I've basically had to go to a party, get drunk and smash, or stay long enough in their propinquity that they see you as a dating prospect. I've stuck to the former because of my aforementioned chit personality, ive only had 1 or 2 real gf but 9 lays

You need a exceptionally charismatic ENTJ personality type if youre an ethnic manlet who wants to date srs. Most men have been propinquity-ing with girls since middle school, men who have 10x the social dominance as people like us.
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Originally Posted By sphinxbrah⏩
So then be in the top 10% of guys. Improve yourself. If you aren't in the top 10% then stfu and stop complaining. The "girls" you describe are not girls at large. No guy is hitting on an ugly whale and girls of that calibre most certainly are NOT all in relationships with several guys as backup. Just like every other miscer you want to sleep with the hottest sloots around. Well, if you want to do that, you need to be in the top league yourself.

Dating is harder for guys. But if you work on yourself enough, such that you become top tier, you'll do just fine. Can confirm.
IMO stuff like money maxing, lifting, job, car, career, ect is mostly a cope for the majority of men. The only thing that's going to get OP laid is going back to the basics, interacting with people in real time in real life (women especially)

Anything of the nature of disregard is cope cope cope to the max. The only self improvement OP should be doing in close doors is meditating and taking care of his anxiety/depression (that is if he has it)
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Most girls in college are already dating somebody that's likely not even in college and has a good 5-10 years on her. I'm well aware that some girls have sugar daddy arrangements with some older guys.

So you have guys that are around 25-30 that are competing for the same pool of girls. Usually these guys are already educated, making a decent living and have their life in order. They are miles ahead of your average college student.

Even for girls who aren't looking to date older guys, they have a nearly endless amount of goodlooking, tall guys of any ethnicity or subculture of their preference. There's nothing really distinguishing one student from the other except for either looks or some form of status from playing a possible sport.

Practically every girl either has a boyfriend with a couple backups or is just sleeping around right now, and a girl is going to be choosy with who she sleeps around with.

Because of all of that, I simply can't compete. Too many guys are all competing for the same pool of girls. I'm basically left playing with my balls as a 19 year old guy that's 5'5" and younger than most people in his classes. What the phuck am I supposed to do?
It was the same when I went to college and I am WAY older than you.

I was stupid and thought career girls were quality, but they are not and if I could do it all over I'd go for a poor uneducated type of woman. Career girls are men in disguise and the type you are taking about are also whores. Any girl that dates for the purpose of money, position, advancement, or security is a whore. If you have a woman with the male career mindset and the greedy disguised whore thing, you will never ever be happy and she will never be happy. That's because women are not men and we don't need female-males in life. Whores are cold hearted players who are really human beings with feelings, but they are crazy and act like they don't have them, so they are always unsettled.

Meanwhile, most uneducated women I've known, which is a lot, are feminine, practical, want simple things, and want a relationship. That's the kind of woman you can get in a loving relationship with and start a family. It's why poor people ARE SMART and have more kids and family life. A career woman and whore will rob you of that.

Trust me, and go find a cute waitress or something and be her white knight.
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Just go a tier down, HS girls

It's like a normal food chain, thought you knew this
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Just go a tier down, HS girls

It's like a normal food chain, thought you knew this
Aware me on how to go for HS girls.
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Hahaha.

I'm going to be a 30 year old freshman going to college in America in 2018.

From Sydney.

You think I'm going to run a train on college chicks OP?
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Just go a tier down, HS girls

It's like a normal food chain, thought you knew this
Lol, I have considered that. But it will have negative repercussions definitely.

But you're right, I know several dudes that actually prowl around highschools and hit on girls. They claim it's much easier.
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