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post 1471619251 11-17-2016, 10:30 PM
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You're 19. Go pick up high school girls. srs.

Be that guy.
post 1471619411 11-17-2016, 10:32 PM
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I never had this "there's no women" problem. You need to do activities you like and interact with the women there. Go where women go. Maybe join a yoga class, art class, inter mural sport, etc.

I had the least luck trying to meet girls in class.
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post 1471619631 11-17-2016, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted By BrightThru2014⏩
That's why I joined a fraternity.
They're just as bad. There's so many cliques within fraternities and guys are low key fighting against each other for the same women.

Source: I was in fraternity.
Originally Posted By RobotDeathSquad⏩
Those guys have poon thrown at them.
Only if you have high social value within Greek life, which is exactly like...............not being in a fraternity????? Lol.
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post 1471619821 11-17-2016, 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Probably. I've become ridiculously cynical for the past year.
I'm sure the Misc helped with that LOL.


You're 5'5" so that puts you at a pretty severe disadvantage unfortunately. But to become proficient at any endeavor you need to practice. Don't go up to girls and hit on them but just try to initiate some sort of conversation. might be easiest to ask a classmate about something relevant. Maybe one thing will lead to another and who knows. Point is don't be resentful and bitter. Also don't try to force things but just see how they can organically develop. Once you learn to communicate and connect better you'll probably find what you're after.
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post 1471619921 11-17-2016, 10:38 PM
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if you can't compete with a bunch of psuedo-intellectual children I got sum bad news....

oh wait Age: 19

bro.. you aren't even an adult yet. Save your rant for later.
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post 1471620091 11-17-2016, 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Parkerscott⏩
I had more attention in college at 19 than I do now at 23. I don't think im going to make it.Hopefully all of this talk of early 20's being the most difficult time of your life is correct.
LMAO wut? who says that?

If this isn't the best time of your life there's something wrong with you. Of course as long as you aren't useless the next 25-30 years will be great too but college should be easiest years of your life.
post 1471620301 11-17-2016, 10:43 PM
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Women are not naturally monogamous. Because of feminism, they are not slut shamed into being faithful low partner count people. Instead they are cheered on to let loose. Now, they have a split mindset. They want both a provider male and a "alpha male". A lot of hot girl boyfriends are in the provider role. Those girls will get hot and steamy with the right men. Sure, the chads are going to be the right guys, that is until they lose their appeal bc of how weakshyt they are. If the right guy comes along, women nowadays will monkey branch to that guy. So you need to maximize your SMV and game skills. If you're in muscular good shape, you need to work on game. I recommend Models by Mark Manson. Girls will cheat on ANY man if the right dude comes along. They will rationalize the cheating in any way possible. You need to escalate your SMV and game.
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post 1471620771 11-17-2016, 10:48 PM
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So much rot in this thread. Op stop focusing on girls and acquire a decent social cicle. It's way easier when you have friends and go out.
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post 1471621221 11-17-2016, 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted By CHARBACK⏩
Fukin LMAO.
post 1471621291 11-17-2016, 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted By onlywantsize⏩
This pic starts of Chad as fuk and then you grimace as you keep scrolling down
post 1471621881 11-17-2016, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Mwizzle⏩
This pic starts of Chad as fuk and then you grimace as you keep scrolling down
Exactly brah, it's like someone just compressed him. Brb he's still slaying with good facial aesthetics and being a music superstar.
post 1471621971 11-17-2016, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Parkerscott⏩
Seriously. I would be lying if I said I don't think about it often. Early 20's is painful. Grade school was a breeze, had lots of friends, and getting ghosted by women wasn't really an issue.

Early 20's is an emotional death sentence if you are not a Chad. Hopefully my life turns around in the coming years.
I'm 21 in college, do real well with girls, and am still kind of depressed/hate my life.
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post 1471622281 11-17-2016, 11:12 PM
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post 1471631701 11-18-2016, 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Mwizzle⏩
This pic starts of Chad as fuk and then you grimace as you keep scrolling down
Lmao, exactly. I hate looking at photos of myself because I can tell the exact instant where I go from really goodlooking to having this compressed look.
post 1471631901 11-18-2016, 02:04 AM
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Join the Army, you'll be getting paid full time at only 19. College kids older than you will be competing AGAINST YOU for girls.

cause $, car, lame soldier status
post 1471632281 11-18-2016, 02:12 AM
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Originally Posted By WesleyEngDOTcom⏩
Join the Army, you'll be getting paid full time at only 19. College kids older than you will be competing AGAINST YOU for girls.

cause $, car, lame soldier status
I'm already going that route, but after I graduate.
post 1471633291 11-18-2016, 02:28 AM
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I saw a lot of guys who are not tall, not handsome, but they have pretty girlfriends.

One thing i noticed about these guys, they dare to talk to any girl, their faces are thicker than a wall, they do not afraid of getting rejected, their EQ are probably higher when dealing with girls.

If you are not tall, don't be shy to wear a thicker shoes, once you made a girl to accept you or to have good feeling toward you, most likely they wouldn't be bothered with your height anymore.

My advice for you, get a job, has stable economy status, and you will get gf a lot easier. And when you talking to someone you like, don't act like or treat them like Goddess or the only girl you want in this world, make it natural, don't lower yourself when dealing with girls you like.

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post 1471639511 11-18-2016, 04:37 AM
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People , focus on yourself and education , not on women.
post 1471641781 11-18-2016, 05:18 AM
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Read about my coping from another thread
Originally Posted By amenccm⏩
. The purpose of life, for every organism since the beginning of life, has been to survive long enough to reproduce.

. Because humans reproduce sexually, your ability to attract women is a hugely underrated aspect of a fulfilling life. People say "lol @ basing your life around females," but these people are usually of at least average attraction, tall, and lift, meaning that they don't even know what it's like to be completely repulsive. It's as absurd as saying "lol @ basing your life around trying to find food." Their arguments are as invalid as fuking white males trying to represent the perspectives of trans-gay-muslims.

. If, like me, you're 5'3 with an ugly face, you can't fix either of those things. You can always lose weight, tan and gain muscle, but an ugly manlet will always be an ugly manlet. Because of this, your chances of ever finding attracting a girl and reproducing are pretty close to zero. It would be pretty cruel to infect something with your subhuman genetics anyway.

. Slight deviation - Some religious people say that a life without religion is meaningless, and atheists reply by saying that the lack of faith is actually a good thing, because it allows you to live however you choose.

. Similarly, being completely repulsive to women allows you that freedom. You will never appease the great, greek, goddess named pusselia, and so you are free to do whatever you want.

--- You never have to worry about providing for, or successfully teaching, children
--- You never have to worry about your attractiveness to women
--- This means you never have to worry about getting a high-status job, keeping your hair, staying in shape, spending money on clothes or other grooming products, etc.
--- All you need is a 1-bedroom apartment, a car that works, a job that pays average, and ways to entertain yourself (sports, arts, etc).

Then when you decide you've had enough, you can have an indoor-barbecue without having to worry about the people you're leaving behind.
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So although you'll live your life in isolation, devoid of human connection and intimacy, maybe you can take comfort knowing that you won't have as many responsibilities or worries.
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Girls want you more when u don't give a fuk srs. Be friendly but try to give vibes like u already have a girl or even better say something like alright well I gotta go, plans with the gf. That desperation sense and sensing that you aren't getting laid are real bro, the harder u try the worse you're going to do. Women want you when they think you hold value to another woman.
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Originally Posted By TheJediBrah⏩
LMAO wut? who says that?

If this isn't the best time of your life there's something wrong with you. Of course as long as you aren't useless the next 25-30 years will be great too but college should be easiest years of your life.
I don't know a single person I went to college with in undergrad that said it was best time of their lives, the opposite actually. All of them say that post college or advanced degree was far better in every way. Undergrad is like the new high school for depression and angsty chit
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I'm 19 5"7 136lb and don't even chase women.
I have my house to myself this weekend and downloaded tinder 2 days ago and already got some sloots lined up to come straight to my place.

It isn't that hard to make it bro. Even if you have to bang whales I would do it just so you can gain confidence and improve your social circle
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Originally Posted By amenccm⏩
Read about my coping from another thread



http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=172705261

So although you'll live your life in isolation, devoid of human connection and intimacy, maybe you can take comfort knowing that you won't have as many responsibilities or worries.
I don't want to cope though. I would be lying to myself if I said that I absolutely don't need companionship.
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Originally Posted By Rayzor84⏩
Girls want you more when u don't give a fuk srs. Be friendly but try to give vibes like u already have a girl or even better say something like alright well I gotta go, plans with the gf. That desperation sense and sensing that you aren't getting laid are real bro, the harder u try the worse you're going to do. Women want you when they think you hold value to another woman.
The thing is I don't give off a desperate vibe. I barely talk to girls in the first place and act aloof while talking to them. I'm not in regular contact with any woman at the moment.
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You could always just cry about it brah


Srsly though, you're thinking about it waaaaaaaaaaaay too hard. Just go with the flow and stop worrying about it. Make moves and sh!t will happen
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Ima help you out, bruh. Since you don't have universal appeal, find a niche market. Your best bet is more of a quiet girl who isn't some tanning bed sorority sloot, if you're actually looking for an interest. Some of those girls are hot and more loyal anyways. If you have skills (music, etc) or a witt it should be fairly easy to make this happen.

Then again, you are 19 so you'd probably better of chillin and taking what you can get while casually looking for something that may amount to more. Good luck either wah, m8.
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That feel when 24, job, own flat, car, money. Too easy.

Focus on uni for now brah, girls will chase you after you get your 1st decent job.
post 1471646201 11-18-2016, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By VSVP99⏩
You're 19. Go pick up high school girls. srs.

Be that guy.
this op. i just turned 21 and now it's looked at as weird if i go for dem prime time 18 year old high schoolers. do it for the one's of us who no longer can.


with that being said, getting college girls is easy af. as i said, just turned 21, and so far in my college career i'm at my peak for getting girls (in all aspects: actual secks, girls texting me/snap chatting me, girls talking to me at parties/around campus, etc.)
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Wtf? Almost no college girls I knew dated way older guys? Til I was 22 I never had a gf and girls loved me. Then I found the most amazing girl ever and we've been together for 2 years now.
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