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post 1474160021 12-07-2016, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Did you read where I said "asked out by very good looking dudes?"

Honestly I wish I'd not get asked at all. I rather stay out of view than get put in those scenarios.
For good reason. We all know he's just out to pump and dump your ass.
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Well, it is incredibly easy to get poon if you have no standards whatsoever.
post 1474160521 12-07-2016, 01:49 PM
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Pretty easy to get some to be honest OP
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Originally Posted By winjones⏩
For the same reason that rich people don't know what it's like to be poor... but poor people know EXACTLY what it's like to be rich.
Not sure if serious. Poor people have no idea what it is like to be rich because if they did they wouldn't be crying poor.
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Research has shown that the most heavily flirted with people are those putting out vibes..

Like triple the percentage

As in, its not necessarily the best looking

But if youre putting out the body language/ desire/ flirting then you get the most attention/ have the most success
post 1474175681 12-07-2016, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By krazy33⏩
Research has shown that the most heavily flirted with people are those putting out vibes..

Like triple the percentage

As in, its not necessarily the best looking

But if youre putting out the body language/ desire/ flirting then you get the most attention/ have the most success
This

The guys I know who get laid the most aren't even the best looking, they just put in a lot of work. They talk to every girl at school, work, ********, tinder. Literally every medium available to them.
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post 1474180691 12-07-2016, 04:11 PM
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Find it hard to believe that most women think this.

From simple observation you can see some guys get it easy, some have a hard time, and some are in the middle.

It's generally due to some combination of looks, sports ability (when at school), wealth, personality, confidence & game - that was obvious when I was not much more than a child.

You're aware that the guys who have a hard time will either settle for less attractive girls or not get with anyone
(or change their status by making money, or going to a 3rd world country).

Guys (and girls) are being bullied or at least marginalised from secondary/high school and younger, mainly due to their lack of perceived attractiveness & status, everyone's aware of the status game.

Related but different; is some of this not down to different perceptions of how much sex they need or 'should' be getting?
Guys tend to be focused on sex and link their success to high no's/how much they're getting. Sometimes when i listen to guys, esp young guys, it seems like nothing short of banging Victoria's Secret models every hour of the day in various combinations would be enough. Maybe girls are on avg less focused on it so less likely to feel salty about it. They're generally looking for status rather than volume.
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post 1474182931 12-07-2016, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
What I'm saying is a lot of women have similar self esteem issues. Especially when it's about a guy they think is too good for her. She will think on why he wants to be with her with such a multitude of beautiful women out there.



Me? My reasons are personal. I don't date.



Self esteem again.

Do guys not have doubts on why a very very pretty girl would want to be with them?

I think it's natural to question that sort of stuff or have those feelings in the beginning.
I hope this will help you!

Guys just like girls all prefer different things. For me i love shy, introverted, nerdy girls that read books and are book smart. If i talk to a girl and i sense she is like that i will be attracted to her even if she is not that great looking. This surprises even some of my friends because if you meet me i am extrovert outgoing love to joke around and overall a goofball in social settings so complete opposite to what i find attractive in girls.

In college i would literally know half the class by name in every class every semester so i was friendly and fairly outgoing popular guy and often i would ask out girls who were in class that were shy smart girls that kept to themselves and actually got rejected most times. I hope to god it wasnt because they thought i was too good for them because that **** used to piss me off. Many times in that same class i would get with a better looking girl but your typical attention whore with tongue ring and tattoos which is a huge turn off for me. Needless to say the relationship didnt work out.

One of my gfs that i was extremely attracted to was not because she was this amazing looking girl but because of her personality and her demeanor and the way she carried herself (IE she was not your typical bimbo girl focusing on ******** , instagram, and partying). Her weekends were spent reading books fictional books like hairy potter. She was also a history major and loved to talk about history something i am also interested in.

The point of this post is that if a guy asks you out and you are interested in him for ****s sake give him a chance stop thinking stupid **** like the guy is asking me out because he is making fun of me.

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post 1474185041 12-07-2016, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
if you are lean and well dressed it isn't hard to get laid, getting a decent girl for a future long term partner is much harder to find
This

I will go as far as saying just as with anything if you are willing to put in the work then you will get girls PERIOD even if you are not the most fit or good looking. So if you want to get girls you actually need to go out where you can meet girls and actually talk to them. Some guys may need to work more then others ie if your social skills suck you will probably need to talk to many girls until your social skills improve to the point where the conversation is natural and you dont come off as socially awkward creep.

Most guys on misc complain about not getting girls yet they spend most of their days playing video games and miscing. The few times they actually go out and try to talk to girls they are so nervous and come up as so awkward that they dont stand a chance. I been on misc long enough to realize that the guys complaining about not getting girls are typically socially awkward FA's who think they deserve 9/10 and need to have one chasing them while they sit at home and misc.
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post 1474226831 12-07-2016, 10:23 PM
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Women have a very small minded opinion of everything due to being so self absorbed (they live in their own world)

they cannot empathize or sympathize well and they don't think logically
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easy for this guy

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post 1474227411 12-07-2016, 10:30 PM
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post 1474235411 12-08-2016, 12:08 AM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
I don't believe this at all. We both know women love attention, we love when a decent guy gives us attention because it makes us feel attractive, even if we think we are not attractive.

I think maybe you are saying *you would prefer to stay out of view* for some stupid reason, probably has something to do with your past but in reality I don't think you would actually like never getting attention.
Do you always need external stimuli to feel good about yourself? Whether it's career, beauty, strength etc.

Inner peace is void of external occurrences.

Anyone who needs someone else to tell them or show them their own value needs to reevaluate their life.
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post 1474248331 12-08-2016, 05:18 AM
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Originally Posted By PushupBrah⏩
This

The guys I know who get laid the most aren't even the best looking, they just put in a lot of work. They talk to every girl at school, work, ********, tinder. Literally every medium available to them.
Dating is like fishing. The more often you have your line in the water the more fish you're going to reel in.

There are plenty of women out there looking for love. Some even have boyfriends and husbands. You just have to hit them up at the right time and show them some attention and bam! Legs part like like Moses going for a swim.
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Originally Posted By chickenbroccoli⏩
For good reason. We all know he's just out to pump and dump your ass.
Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
They're probably looking for a quick, guaranteed smash.

For men, we can be tall, goodlooking, make decent income, have lots of friends, etc. But if we don't have the right personality for pulling chicks, we can still be FA. I don't fall into that category myself, but I knew guys like that in college. Popular and goodlooking etc, yet it was still painfully obvious who their one-itis was and that they were friendzoned by her.

Probably most men have hooked up w/ sloots that we wouldn't want to date.
Probably. I try to give people the benefit of doubt and try not to assume too many things.

A smart woman can tell the difference between a guy who just wants to smash and dash and he who wants a real connection from the minute he walks into the room.

It takes years of observing various people and how they behave to gain awareness into this sort of thing.
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post 1474279751 12-08-2016, 10:24 AM
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post 1474321531 12-08-2016, 03:35 PM
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Projection. Everyone assumes everyone else experiences the world identical to themselves. Same reason women don't understand why a man would NOT want to commit, men don't understand women's response to dick pics etc.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
A smart woman can tell the difference between a guy who just wants to smash and dash and he who wants a real connection from the minute he walks into the room.
Right

Bottom line is you take what we (as men) give you.
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Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
Uhhhh, no they cannot. And the reason is, because men usually haven't decided what they want yet until they assess the women. The only thing the women can tell is how alpha/beta and confident/experienced he comes off as.
Even after smashing we may still be calibrating how slooty you are, and also whatyouwant from everything. A man may want a relationship w/ a woman, but it's clear she's kind of a sloot, and all she wants is to hook up, so if he pursues a relationship, he is just a beta. Therefore he will decide to not pursue a relationship, and just pursue smashing.

Or, maybe the girl actually does want a relationship, but she starts giving off 'slootiness level' warnings that men know to look for. Even if the man initially was hoping for a relationship, since you have crossed into the sloot-zone in his mind, he will then decide that you are not good enough for a relationship.
Hmm, interesting perspective. However, I don't agree. Some women can tell.

I WILL agree that they'll push the limits a bit if the girl is responsive to getting physical with the male. But at that time, it's a mutual carnal agreement and not really a relationship pursuit.
Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
So....basically you are just another female blaming men for not wanting to date you, instead of taking some responsibility to act and look feminine, and not be a sloot.
I'm not sure if this comment is you making this personal towards me or if you're making a sweeping generalization (of non-feminine women). So I'm not sure from which angle you'd like me to answer this.
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
Right

Bottom line is you take what we (as men) give you.
No really. Once the initial assessment is made, the ball is now in her court. If she's out for sexual satisfaction she'll go one way, if she's out for a relationship, she'll go the other. It really depends on what she wants.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Probably. I try to give people the benefit of doubt and try not to assume too many things.

A smart woman can tell the difference between a guy who just wants to smash and dash and he who wants a real connection from the minute he walks into the room.

It takes years of observing various people and how they behave to gain awareness into this sort of thing.
Not that hard.

"Actions speak louder than words"

When actions start getting mixed up with words you know you have a fib dibbler on your hands
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Originally Posted By krazy33⏩
"Actions speak louder than words"
Correct. I know this better than anyone. People tell me all sorts of things, but I've yet to meet one person who is real enough to back up the words with action.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
I admit I have this problem.

I've been asked out by very attractive dudes who seemingly have it together in life. I'm always wondering if they're making fun of me or something by asking me out.

First thing that always pops into my mind is, this dude can do better than me, so why's he talking to me.
If all women were at least half as humble as you are, the world would be a much better place lmao
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
No really. Once the initial assessment is made, the ball is now in her court. If she's out for sexual satisfaction she'll go one way, if she's out for a relationship, she'll go the other. It really depends on what she wants.
You don't know, as much as you'd like to believe in BS and probably whatever "womens' intuition" fairy tales it's not true.

If I guy wants to sleep with you and then ditch you after you're just as susceptible as anybody else on earth.

You've probably missed out on great guys, and slept with the wrong ones because of that very cockiness.
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
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At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
You don't know, as much as you'd like to believe in BS and probably whatever "womens' intuition" fairy tales it's not true.

If I guy wants to sleep with you and then ditch you after you're just as susceptible as anybody else on earth.

You've probably missed out on great guys,and slept with the wrong ones because of that very cockiness.
Interesting. Tell me, what made you make the assumption you made in the bolded bit? Do you do that with most people?
Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
Well, you're wrong.

And you wouldn't be a female on the misc if you didn't have severe psychological problems.
Well then...
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It is too far outside of their reality since they have never seen it from an average man's POV. They are focused on themselves and compare specific issues with men and so then think men have it easy and average men do not really feature in their lives too much to understand plus no man ever wants to make it look like he struggles with women to other women.

One thing I have noticed is that women find any idea or talk about a guy actively trying to meet women as 'creepy'. Just lol because if we didn't we'd be a world of incel.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Interesting. Tell me, what made you make the assumption you made in the bolded bit?
Cause your obviously close minded and have your head up your ass.

Well IDK about you as a whole but in regards to this issue at least.

Nothing worse than positivity out of ignorance.
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
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At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
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