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post 1475642771 12-19-2016, 12:59 AM
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might have gotten a random hook-up pregnant...How do abortions work? (serious)

So yesterday my fukbuddy texted me she was scared because she missed her period. She told me it was supposed to come the first weeks of December and it's the 16th already. We had sex probably the last week of November/December 1-2. I am f*ucking shocked because I used a condom; I've used a condom with her every single time we've had intercourse, I swear on my grandma. I don't know what to think rn. It broke?



I've been worrying alot since yesterday and I've been trying to keep my mind busy but it's always in the back of my mind. I've been texting her, and she told me she's going to the Doctor tomorrow; she's been feeling nauseas, and sick (preggo symptoms..fml). I have already told her repeatedly to take the Pregnancy Test and she told me she's just scared of the results but she will do it tomorrow before/after her doctor's appointment.





So if it the results come out positive, we need a plan. We are both sophomore's in Uni and have no business having a kid rn. My dad would literally chop my dink off if he found out. This sound stupid but I just need to be 100% of this topic, how do abortions work? For clarification, I live in Texas so I know they are strict here from prior knowledge.


If she was supposed to have her period in the first weeks of December, can we still take the "Abortion Pills"? Also, how do we get them? Do we need to get prescribed them from a Doctor or do we go to a Planned Parenthood? I looked it up on Google and they said they work up to 10 weeks after last missed period.

If she's too late for those, how do we get the "other" abortion? Does that need to be done at Planned Parenthood or can it be done at a local clinic/hospital? Money isn't an issue, I just need this to end.



I know this is a controversial topic for a lot of you guys so bear with me. I've only eaten like once today because I'm lowkey worried as phuck. But panicking does not help, I know I need to be the logical person in this situation. Appreciate ANY advice, honestly this is the first place I came because I don't know who else to tell. Thanks guys
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Originally Posted By bee
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yeah and after I get my degree in 2 years, I'll have this hoe asking for child support? Nah cuhhz. I don't even want to think about the psychological effects of having a son.
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You sure you were the only one she was sleeping with?
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You would of known if the condom had broken.

More likely she has been seeing jamal and tyrone behind your back getting that BBC RAW DOGGED and creamy cream pie.

Only option OP is to go NC.
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You used a rubber with a fukcbuddy, chances of you being the daddy is slim but not impossible.
My guess is she has been banging another dude(s) raw but she would prefer you to be the father.
Get her to show you a positive pregnancy test and after that save money but don't you dare give sloot a dime until the child is proven to be biologically yours.
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you can only take the pill during the really early stages of pregnancy, after a certain amount of time when the fetus actually starts developing (just checked, its 10 wks now.) you'll have to actually get an abortion done. it'll cost around 600-800 per OP from the last time i checked, but if your household income is below the threshold i think you can get it for 400-600. Go to planned parenthood if she is positive on the pregnancy test, the faster you do things the better. (also sometimes they can be booked for a month in advance so book an appointment as soon as you can even if you don't know.)

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did the condom ever break op?

* always pull over even with a condom crew* checking in
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They work pretty well.

It's like a 100% success rate, I hear.
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Originally Posted By Atsila
you can only take the pill during the really early stages of pregnancy, after a certain amount of time when the fetus actually starts developing (i think 3 weeks in) you'll have to actually get an abortion done. it'll cost around 600-800 per OP from the last time i checked, but if your household income is below the threshold i think you can get it for 400-600. Go to planned parenthood if she is positive on the pregnancy test, the faster you do things the better. (also sometimes they can be booked for a month in advance so book an appointment as soon as you can even if you don't know.)

*ive worked at planned parenthood 5 years ago.
thank u so much for the advice. My city I live in actually has a Planned Parenthood. I had no idea they could be booked for a month, I need to find out ASAP so we don't waste time.

When you say " 3 weeks in", do you mean like 3 weeks after when she was "supposed" to have a period? Or after sex? And get I get those "Abortion Pills" from PP or do they need to be prescribed from a Doctor?
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Originally Posted By joocyBrah
You would of knownif the condom had broken.

More likely she has been seeing jamal and tyrone behind your back getting that BBC RAW DOGGED and creamy cream pie.

Only option OP is to go NC.
Condom has broke during sex and I didn't know until I took it out crew.


Wait for the results of the test, try not to stress there are many reasons a girl can miss a period or be late etc.
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Originally Posted By nortonc64
did the condom ever break op?

* always pull over even with a condom crew* checking in
Honestly I've banged at least 10 different chicks with the same brand of condoms and I still don't know "how to tell" if a condom breaks. I know this sound stupid but I have no idea if it broke or not . Also, I don't even cum inside even WITH a condom on. I'm still bewildered right now. Could it be precum or idk? fuk. I don't know.

we had sex in the dark in my car so I wouldn't even been able to see if it was or not.
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Originally Posted By Tresiel
Condom has broke during sex and I didn't know until I took it out crew.
Yeah I don't mean straight away soon as it breaks, but when you pull out you will know - it'll be shredded to fuark and just the ring of it left
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Originally Posted By baroni01
You sure you were the only one she was sleeping with?
This, she fukked someone else (she is only your fukbuddy after all) who she let hit her raw and she's putting it on you.

I'd never believe that for a second. I haven't used a condom for at least a year and never had a problem.
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts
thank u so much for the advice. My city I live in actually has a Planned Parenthood. I had no idea they could be booked for a month, I need to find out ASAP so we don't waste time.

When you say " 3 weeks in", do you mean like 3 weeks after when she was "supposed" to have a period? Or after sex? And get I get those "Abortion Pills" from PP or do they need to be prescribed from a Doctor?
it used to be three weeks, i just checked online, now it's 10. lucky for you! like i said, its been 5 years so i'm a little foggy plus medicine has advanced.

Planned parenthood are all clinics, only some actually do the operation there. You have to look at the PP site to find a location near you that does the operation. When you go to PP the doctors will call you in for your issue and you will be prescribed a PP pill if you can afford it.

All the doctors working at PP volunteer to work there. There's no need to go to like a hospital or something lol.
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts
Honestly I've banged at least 10 different chicks with the same brand of condoms and I still don't know "how to tell" if a condom breaks. I know this sound stupid but I have no idea if it broke or not . Also, I don't even cum inside even WITH a condom on. I'm still bewildered right now. Could it be precum or idk? fuk. I don't know.

we had sex in the dark in my car so I wouldn't even been able to see if it was or not.
They dont just break and get a little hole in them bro... once they even get a little hole or rip in them they completely split open and fall apart. You'll pull your dink out and go to pull the condom off and there will just be the ring left pretty much...

unless you got that tooth pick dick....
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-If pregnant and she's against the abortion, all you've got left is the Hail Mary mate. Also make sure to get a DNA immediately upon the child's birth and do not give her a penny until confirmed that the baby is yours post-DNA test. Dedfukking srs.

If she is pregnant and abortion is the only option n she's against it..:
-Tell her you love her, you want to get married, you want to settle down in the near future but now is just not the right time. (You are lying through your teeth of course)
-Explain to her that having a child right now, will cost a lot of money which could otherwise be spent on getting married or on affording buying a brand new home and that you could always have a child later on and you really want to do it the right way where you both have steady careers and savings.
-If she agrees. Be with her at every step to ensure that she has the abortion. Help her book an appointment etc...
-Take her to an abortion clinic and get it done. Afterwards, take her to mcdonalds for an egg mcmuffin (meaning that she had to have had the abortion before 10am).
-Then dump the bitch.

You really need to sell it with the performance of your life and with no ragrets.
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Originally Posted By joocyBrah
You would of known if the condom had broken.

More likely she has been seeing jamal and tyrone behind your back getting that BBC RAW DOGGED and creamy cream pie.

Only option OP is to go NC.
I wish this is actually the case. She's a very promiscuous girl , basically she was the one always snapchatting me to hang ( rejected her 90% of the time). She also lives in the Dorms of a big Texas university. So fuarkkkk I hope.

she told me yesterday " you're the only guy I've had sex with this semester"
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Originally Posted By vordulmega
This, she fukked someone else (she is only your fukbuddy after all) who she let hit her raw and she's putting it on you.

I'd never believe that for a second. I haven't used a condom for at least a year and never had a problem.
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Looks like if their is a abortion your gonna have to have a funeral in texas.

Telling your parents your going to your aborted kids funeral sounds way worse than telling your parents your gonna be a dad.

Consider being a parent or adoption. Do a test to make sure its yours
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Originally Posted By Atsila
it used to be three weeks, i just checked online, now it's 10. lucky for you! like i said, its been 5 years so i'm a little foggy plus medicine has advanced.

Planned parenthood are all clinics, only some actually do the operation there. You have to look at the PP site to find a location near you that does the operation. When you go to PP the doctors will call you in for your issue and you will be prescribed a PP pill if you can afford it.

All the doctors working at PP volunteer to work there. There's no need to go to like a hospital or something lol.
fuarrrk thank you for this information. Tomorrow I'll text her what is the result and if its comes out positive, I guess this is our next stop.

I know they are pretty expensive (300-500$) so lets see. I have like 200$ saved up rn and can maybe split it with her. I don't know. Thank u tho for this advice!!
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Originally Posted By fezz349
-If pregnant and she's against the abortion, all you've got left is the Hail Mary mate. Also make sure to get a DNA immediately upon the child's birth and do not give her a penny until confirmed that the baby is yours post-DNA test. Dedfukking srs.

If she is pregnant and abortion is the only option n she's against it..:
-Tell her you love her, you want to get married, you want to settle down in the near future but now is just not the right time. (You are lying through your teeth of course)
-Explain to her that having a child right now, will cost a lot of money which could otherwise be spent on getting married or on affording buying a brand new home and that you could always have a child later on and you really want to do it the right way where you both have steady careers and savings.
-If she agrees. Be with her at every step to ensure that she has the abortion. Help her book an appointment etc...
-Take her to an abortion clinic and get it done. Afterwards, take her to mcdonalds for an egg mcmuffin (meaning that she had to have had the abortion before 10am).
-Then dump the bitch.

You really need to sell it with the performance of your life and with no ragrets.
she's not my gf at all. We just talk when we have sex.

do I pretend to want to become her BF if she refuses the abortion? Like to manipulate her or something? God damn that sounds so phucked up in my part but I can't have this happening to me.
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