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post 1478375951 01-09-2017, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Foxmulder0⏩
Genuniely good person, hard worker, loves his family and friends. Can't say a bad thing about him.
a person's true colours come out under stress. I could say the exact same thing about those 2 dirtbags, but they were genuinely nasty people, and got what was coming to them.

prepare for the death of your friendship either way.
post 1478376091 01-09-2017, 06:27 PM
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Give it a shot I guess, but don't get too butthurt if your friend doesn't bite. Sometimes you need to let some bros go down. They won't listen until they eat dirt and come back knocking on your door for help. It's the same as any other addiction, sometimes rock bottom is the only way.

My advice to you is to be mature enough to know where the line is. If you keep trying when he's crossed the point of no return, you're just wasting your time and causing yourself unnecessary pain for no results. The additional effort will also be presented as evidence against you by the bish so may even be better to let it go at some point.

Just some advice from an older bro who has unfortunately dealt with this more than once or twice.
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post 1478376121 01-09-2017, 06:27 PM
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Wow that's gonna be rough, good luck. High chance he will be in denial and high chance you will lose the friendship.

Have you thought about telling hom anonymously? Like through a fake ******** profile or something
post 1478376421 01-09-2017, 06:29 PM
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BRo don't do it with her present WTf u need to get him alone and show all ur evidence if shes there they will both freak out and probably leave
post 1478376601 01-09-2017, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
Wow that's gonna be rough, good luck. High chance he will be in denial and high chance you will lose the friendship.

Have you thought about telling hom anonymously? Like through a fake ******** profile or something
Not a bad idea but he's 31; dk if he's even on ******** or checks in. I think it'll mean more if we just told him as friends.

I feel terrible about it but if roles were reversed I'd want to know.
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post 1478377881 01-09-2017, 06:42 PM
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post 1478379331 01-09-2017, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted By CarsonX141⏩
He will probably just make an excuse for her. I had a friend that actually caught his girl in the act, and he didn't break up with her.
did he not give her enough attention, or was he not perfect enough?

on another note, to OP, maybe don't ask him to breakup, but to delay the engagement. Lie if you have to. Stall for time to create a honeypot trap for her.

Its the stuff of movies, but tell your friend you want him to go to a hotel room for a surprise, bait her there too with a chad profile, then lure her there too, let them meet, show him the texts, then step out to give them privacy. If you can make her send n00ds, and promise dirty things like anal, it'll be even more effective.

talking wouldn't do chit. He's too deep in it, and feels like there's too much history between them to give it up. Talking is just there to soothe your conscience.
post 1478380481 01-09-2017, 07:01 PM
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Tell him in private with evidence first then allow him to confirm without her knowing. Once confirmed then light her ass up.
post 1478382571 01-09-2017, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Foxmulder0⏩
Not a bad idea but he's 31; dk if he's even on ******** or checks in. I think it'll mean more if we just told him as friends.

I feel terrible about it but if roles were reversed I'd want to know.
when are you doing this? i want to come back and check for updates thx
post 1478383571 01-09-2017, 07:24 PM
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Good intentions don't always have the outcome that you'd expect. My brother went through this with his friends. Long story short, a scumbag fat cow of a woman had more worth to him than multiple close friendships that spanned 15yrs. Some men just need to learn the hard way.
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post 1478390211 01-09-2017, 08:08 PM
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post 1478421131 01-10-2017, 01:26 AM
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post 1478421641 01-10-2017, 01:34 AM
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well, how did it go you giant ******* OP?
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post 1478424021 01-10-2017, 02:23 AM
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tell him


I'd rather be direct and truthful and lose a friend, than not speak up
post 1478424881 01-10-2017, 02:43 AM
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Originally Posted By LanceArmstr0ng⏩
Stay out of it brah. Will only fuk up your friendship.
As much as this may be morally right, youve got to tell him boyo.

Basically all my friends are in ****ty relationships but one guy in particular, his GF was on tinder and we all knew and nobody told him and one night they got into a huge fight and "broke up" and he asked me how tinder worked cause people had told him that she was on there and she had flat out lied and said that someone was using her pics and all that stuff. I told him it was 100% her because they couldnt steal mutual friends and i had a screenshot of her profile in my que.

the look on his face when i told him that was something ill never ever fuking forget. How a girl could do that to literally the best guy i know ill never understand.

Mind you it also helps that i never really talked to her so she couldnt say that i tried to hit on her or grabbed her or anything like that because we flat out were never around each other.

BUT that said: Do not do that in public. Build a case. Get evidence. Have a "boys night" with beer, pizza, wings and a game. Something she wont be around for. Then present it to him without her around.
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post 1478424991 01-10-2017, 02:45 AM
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
As much as this may be morally right, youve got to tell him boyo.

Basically all my friends are in ****ty relationships but one guy in particular, his GF was on tinder and we all knew and nobody told him and one night they got into a huge fight and "broke up" and he asked me how tinder worked cause people had told him that she was on there and she had flat out lied and said that someone was using her pics and all that stuff. I told him it was 100% her because they couldnt steal mutual friends and i had a screenshot of her profile in my que.

the look on his face when i told him that was something ill never ever fuking forget. How a girl could do that to literally the best guy i know ill never understand.

Mind you it also helps that i never really talked to her so she couldnt say that i tried to hit on her or grabbed her or anything like that because we flat out were never around each other.

BUT that said: Do not do that in public. Build a case. Get evidence. Have a "boys night" with beer, pizza, wings and a game. Something she wont be around for. Then present it to him without her around.
this. never trust a sloot. unless she is a 9/10 model ain't nobody "using her pics"
post 1478425071 01-10-2017, 02:48 AM
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Originally Posted By TradeKing⏩
Crazy, I had a very similar experience except my very good friends GF came onto me hardcore. Invited herself over and then opened up about her troubled relationship with my friend (her BF) then came onto me tried making out and ****, I pushed her off and told her to leave. A few days later me and her and her BF and a bunch of other people were at a party all drunk and she claimed I grabbed her ass at the party and that she felt very violated, her BF, my friend, got super pissed off at me and we havn't been close friends since.

So before I could even tell him that his GF came onto me she preemptively claimed I was the one coming onto her LOL, I never ended up telling him, cause I figured he wouldn't believe me anyway, they are still together to this day (8 years later.)
cottdam, that is straight sociopathic behaviour. What a ****ing little kunt.
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probably just making guy friends on tinder my gf does it all the time
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well, how did it go you giant ******* OP?
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People are stupid. Stupid people learn through pain.

Let her destroy his little weak world. He won't listen to you and it will just ruin your friendship.

Not to be jaded, but I hate weak men who drop their bros for some snakey sloot.
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Hope you told him, brah. I'd be salty af if my mates knew and didn't tell me because they were worried about our friendship. In fact, that would be far more likely to ruin the friendship.
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Best start looking for another brah to fill that void in your circle of friends. 99.99% chance this doesnt end well "bro's before ho's" isn't going to work because he's about to wife it.
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had a legit cuck friend whos sloot gf would be out at the club with me and my friends while he stayed home, all over every guy getting super close feeling guys dicks and being felt up and then constantly looking at us too see what we would do lol?

i told my mate and he literally was like "haha man nah she wouldnt do that" literally lold in his face and never spoke of it again.

over the year she would literally bring guys over into her room that stayed the night and slept in her bed, probably up to 15-20 different guys, yes this is in the same house as mine and the cucks house. I literally caught some guys sneaking out at 6am looking like that had just had a mad root. the cuck didnt see anything wrong with it lol and said " oh its ok man she told me they are her work friends" eve nthough these guys are clearly from the club and random.

fast forward she went on a holiday in bali with her sloot friend and came back and broke up with him the first day back (obvs cheated on him many more times) and he had flowers for her and everything haha, was hard to watch. this time its different from your guys stories even after they broke up i told him everything all that i have seen and he still was in denial thinking she was some angel.

now almost one year later he tries to talk to her and tag her in memes and if she has a request he just fulfills it even though she is with this other guy now, went and helped her move out of her house with her new boyfriend wtf lol?
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Brah you underestimate the power of pussy. His judgement is 100% clouded right now and he will 100% believe everything she says over you until its too late.
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Bro you can't help people that don't want to be helped! I have a lifelong friend who's lost on heroin right now and it pains me to see him self destruct and I've tried to talk sense to him but the drug blocks it out. A person has to want to do the right thing for himself not because others want him to.

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You're doing the right thing because your mate doesnt want to accept help so whatever you do your doing it because YOU Dont have time for this sh!t if your mate doesnt believe you and you better set him up in a room while she gets banged because your trying to save him from getting married.
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