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post 1478506371 01-10-2017, 03:42 PM
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With all these warnings about MGTOW, Girlfriends, Marriage...

Where the FUK does this leave us as a society? As men?

Everyone has a fukin horror story or another to share now about a god-awful marriage. Divorce, a huge percentage, if not all relationships failing. Waking up at age 50 with no kids, chasing after 21 year old sloots.

WTF to do now? I'm talking to a new girl now who I am actually very into, and I am finding myself literally playing out the entire relationship in my head. What the FUK is the point to all this chit anymore? Seems like it's becoming clear that every single conceivable aspect is a scam?
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Where the FUK does this leave us as a society? As men?

Everyone has a fukin horror story or another to share now about a god-awful marriage. Divorce, a huge percentage, if not all relationships failing. Waking up at age 50 with no kids, chasing after 21 year old sloots.

WTF to do now? I'm talking to a new girl now who I am actually very into, and I am finding myself literally playing out the entire relationship in my head. What the FUK is the point to all this chit anymore? Seems like it's becoming clear that every single conceivable aspect is a scam?
post 1478506891 01-10-2017, 03:46 PM
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Just because a relationship ends doesn't always mean it was a fail. Just split gracefully, or as gracefully as you can, and move on.
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Originally Posted By Nosferatu187⏩
Where the FUK does this leave us as a society? As men?

Everyone has a fukin horror story or another to share now about a god-awful marriage. Divorce, a huge percentage, if not all relationships failing. Waking up at age 50 with no kids, chasing after 21 year old sloots.

WTF to do now? I'm talking to a new girl now who I am actually very into, and I am finding myself literally playing out the entire relationship in my head. What the FUK is the point to all this chit anymore? Seems like it's becoming clear that every single conceivable aspect is a scam?
You're not really a Nosferatu.
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Just because a relationship ends doesn't always mean it was a fail. Just split gracefully, or as gracefully as you can, and move one.
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post 1478507061 01-10-2017, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
You're not really a Nosferatu.
He is. You should see him. It's crazy, all pale and wrinkly *shivers
post 1478507331 01-10-2017, 03:50 PM
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post 1478507411 01-10-2017, 03:51 PM
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surely the misc will give you good advice
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post 1478507431 01-10-2017, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
WTF to do now? I'm talking to a new girl now who I am actually very into, and I am finding myself literally playing out the entire relationship in my head. What the FUK is the point to all this chit anymore? Seems like it's becoming clear that every single conceivable aspect is a scam?
.It really is a scam

Even if you find a sloot you can actually love (lol good luck), eventually it will get stale and you won't feel the same way.
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Just like everything else you have to make a decision despite the statistics. If you went by statistics of how many people were overweight in the US by age 50, you might as well give up on being in shape.

A part of being a human being is taking risks and living with the consequences. It's up to you as an individual to assess the risk and make your own decision. My only advice to you is this: being knowledgeable is not the same thing as being wise. If the statistics you read are resulting in an automatic narrative of inevitable failure, you will CERTAINLY fail. It's up to you to analyze the statistics and make a decision, don't let the statistics make the final decision for you.
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post 1478507621 01-10-2017, 03:52 PM
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Enjoy it for the first 3 years until her hormones wear off and she loses interest in you (unless you are top 10% of men or top 20% of men + refining yourself socially, mentally, physically). Then you either break up or take your chances at a bitter marriage
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Originally Posted By Marie646⏩
Just because a relationship ends doesn't always mean it was a fail.
thats actually exactly what it means
post 1478507841 01-10-2017, 03:53 PM
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Newsflash, not everyone has a bad marriage.
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Not sure where mgtow falls into this, but I burned my way through mgtow a few years ago after getting rocked hard by some cheating sloot, eventually got over it. Just deal with women in a VERY wary way now. Used to hope for like 9/10 or 10/10 perfect,cute,fun girl, now will be happy with like a 7/10 that doesnt cheat.
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i think u get over it as u get older

I was hardcore MGTOW or whatever the **** like a year or two ago and now im back to loving and respecting women in a different way
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post 1478508151 01-10-2017, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
thats actually exactly what it means
Well I don't think so.

You've never had a great relationship with someone then just let it come to an end peacefully?

People drift apart and that's okay.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Newsflash, not everyone has a bad marriage.
Very few people are like 50-60 and still happily married from 20s-30s
post 1478508391 01-10-2017, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Marie646⏩
Well I don't think so.

You've never had a great relationship with someone then just let it come to an end peacefully?

People drift apart and that's okay.
i am actually starting to wonder if it's better to just have multiple relationships that are serious (polygamy). Monogamy has been show to be a complete and utter failure without a system of control in place. And women are more attracted to men who have multiple concubines.
post 1478508541 01-10-2017, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Very few people are like 50-60 and still happily married from 20s-30s
My grandparents were so in love it was so cute, but on the other hand my ex's grandparents hated each other they were miserable till death. Now if you ask me that was a fail.
Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
i am actually starting to wonder if it's better to just have multiple relationships that are serious (polygamy). Monogamy has been show to be a complete and utter failure without a system of control in place. And women are more attracted to men who have multiple concubines.
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Originally Posted By Marie646⏩
My grandparents were so in love is was so cute, but on the other hand my ex's grandparents hated each other they were miserable till death. Now if you ask me that was a fail.



Son...You just went full potato
So a 50/50 then .... no thx jeff. lmfao.
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Brah don't worry so much about the statistics, most people are irresponsible morons with no judgement who rush into marriage with people they don't really know and hike up divorce rates. There are nice girls out there if you look further than the club scene or online dating. If you spend some time looking for a good girl and get to know her before you rush into anything it's gonna be fine.

Then when you inevitably start getting sick of her once she gets old and wrinkly and doesn't wanna suck your dink anymore you just murder her in her sleep, make it look like an accident, cash in on the life insurance and spend the money on escorts for the rest of your life.
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Originally Posted By Marie646⏩
You've never had a great relationship with someone then just let it come to an end peacefully?
no, never. i really dont think thats even possible for guys. maybe girls feel that way since theyre already monkey branched to another guy
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You only hear about car crashed bro. News doesn't report on people getting to work safely erryday.

SRS though - it's all a risk. You have to weigh the pros/cons and look into each situation. Ask yourself, if you get involved and serious with a woman. Do you want to never have kids or a family with her out of fear of what may be? What does she want?

Some people are fine with never having any attachments or responsibilities and doing their own thing their entire lives. If they are happy then good on them. But if you want a wife, kids, etc. Those are risks that come along with it.

I've seen dudes young who knock up their teen GFs who flee and fukkin hate it. Know some dudes who planned kids, relationship went south for one reason or another but they still have their kids and love em.

What I am getting at is, pursue what makes you happy.
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
no, never. i really dont think thats even possible for guys. maybe girls feel that way since theyre already monkey branched to another guy
You should really meet some different girls.
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Originally Posted By Marie646⏩
You should really meet some different girls.
meet different girls, just to date and break up with peacefully. that sounds absolutely maddening.
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Where the FUK does this leave us as a society? As men?

Everyone has a fukin horror story or another to share now about a god-awful marriage. Divorce, a huge percentage, if not all relationships failing. Waking up at age 50 with no kids, chasing after 21 year old sloots.

WTF to do now? I'm talking to a new girl now who I am actually very into, and I am finding myself literally playing out the entire relationship in my head. What the FUK is the point to all this chit anymore? Seems like it's becoming clear that every single conceivable aspect is a scam?
Don't settle. Find someone with the same values as you. They are out there. The problem is that most people just look at pure sexual attraction and personality, yet forget about the type of values their partner has. Do they value integrity, loyalty, selflessness, etc etc. Find someone that has a similar outlook on life and what is important to them.

Otherwise you'll just end up with shallow, entitled, selfish women that look good. The guys just settle for them, pop out a kid, and find their wife cheating on them and stripping everything from them with little to no remorse.

As said above, meet different women. You can tell a lot about someone after a being with them for a little bit.
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Where the FUK does this leave us as a society? As men?

Everyone has a fukin horror story or another to share now about a god-awful marriage. Divorce, a huge percentage, if not all relationships failing. Waking up at age 50 with no kids, chasing after 21 year old sloots.

WTF to do now? I'm talking to a new girl now who I am actually very into, and I am finding myself literally playing out the entire relationship in my head. What the FUK is the point to all this chit anymore? Seems like it's becoming clear that every single conceivable aspect is a scam?
You've been infected brah. The only advice worth noting seriously from those type of guys is from the older brahs who got caught off guard with a girl who changed drastically during their relationship and got screwed in divorce etc.

Majority are circle jerking in denial of their failure with women/ and or associating with just degenerate women in general. Make up stories abotu bad dates, pwning off women. I am all for people doing their own thing, but when you start saying things like all girls are X and they all want Y, you gotta take a step back and realise these are the people that fade into the background in your life. You're not and never will be them so don't listen to them.
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meet girls hang out but dont girlfriend them unless your sure
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Don't settle. Find someone with the same values as you. They are out there. The problem is that most people just look at pure sexual attraction and personality, yet forget about the type of values their partner has. Do they value integrity, loyalty, selflessness, etc etc. Find someone that has a similar outlook on life and what is important to them.

Otherwise you'll just end up with shallow, entitled, selfish women that look good. The guys just settle for them, pop out a kid, and find their wife cheating on them and stripping everything from them with little to no remorse.

As said above, meet different women. You can tell a lot about someone after a being with them for a little bit.
Originally Posted By BeansnToast⏩
You've been infected brah. The only advice worth noting seriously from those type of guys is from the older brahs who got caught off guard with a girl who changed drastically during their relationship and got screwed in divorce etc.

Majority are circle jerking in denial of their failure with women/ and or associating with just degenerate women in general. Make up stories abotu bad dates, pwning off women. I am all for people doing their own thing, but when you start saying things like all girls are X and they all want Y, you gotta take a step back and realise these are the people that fade into the background in your life. You're not and never will be them so don't listen to them.
Both excellent points...

What I do have to point out to you two though is, once you do happen to find a woman who shares those values with you, it's such a rarity that you are significantly more likely to let your guard down than if it's just a vanilla honeymoon driven thing. Of course, it's counter-intuitive to be in a relationship with your guard up anyway...

I'd like to believe things are this simple. And maybe I should. Time to stop giving a fuk maybe.
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