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01-17-2017, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Get a wallet from Europe with a coin purse. Store spare condom in coin purse of wallet. Works every time.Almost every time a girl was dtf and i "decided not to" it backfired on me. Met one brazilian for drinks, this was one of my first tinder meets a couple years ago, then took her back to my hotel. She was hot as fuk, probably an 8/10 on my scale with one of the juiciest asses ive ever laid my hands on. Some guys might think it was too thick so would give her a 6-7/10, but it was almost perfect for me. In any event she said before we met she isnt looking for a hookup. I would have waited to smash this so being a tinder rookie i didnt buy condoms since i thought sex was off the table. Long story short we end up back at my hotel room naked and shes giving me the best bj ive ever had and she asks "you got a condom?". I said no but ill go get one, and she was like "nevermind it wasnt meant to be tonight"... Im still thinking im gonna hit it next time we meet, so like a fool i dont even let her finish me off i say some stupid chit like "ill save my cum for you..." txt her a few times after she was busy then she went no contact.
Originally Posted By CXVII⏩
Not a chad but my profile gives off a confident, experienced vibe and girls generally respond well to this. I only use it on girls I have no intention of wasting time with.Don't attempt if you're not a Chad. They always go NC as soon as i drop this lmao
Originally Posted By FrenchDude⏩
C'est pour a que la estrategie "autoswipe + tre direct" marche meilleur. a s'assure que tu ne perdres beaucoup de temps en Tinder et tu peux t'concentrer dans les autres choses dans ton vie.I'm definitely on the same boat. Not want to make dramatic posts so I keep smiling, but man, that **** hirts. I was on dynamite when I used Tinder for this first time by the end of the year. 1 month with hella girls, 2 dates per week.
Now I don't have barely match anymore. 1 match / 2 weeks, if not more.... I tweeked all my pictures, change everything, add a good bio. Can't do more. Looks like I'm a ghost in this app. I'm only swiping like a zombie now, and wait for "THE" profile of the day which I will super-like to have a small chance. Last time it worked, that was this girl from Argentina (still no news after my selfie).
So yeah, kind of depressing. You're trying everything, and your mindset is slowly disturbed. Makes you think : hey I'm not tall enough, not healthy, to young, not enough masculine, too lame, not enough funny, too many friends on my picture, I'm looking dumb, and so on. You lose spontaneity, it's scary. So I try to keep away from all these, and read you guyz here cause you make me laugh. America is different from France but yeah, can feel the pain.
My 2 requests over Tinder support never had any answers. I talked to them about Elo score and really deep **** about their algorithm. Looks like they do not want to reply to someone who knows a little bit how it works behind.
Now I don't have barely match anymore. 1 match / 2 weeks, if not more.... I tweeked all my pictures, change everything, add a good bio. Can't do more. Looks like I'm a ghost in this app. I'm only swiping like a zombie now, and wait for "THE" profile of the day which I will super-like to have a small chance. Last time it worked, that was this girl from Argentina (still no news after my selfie).
So yeah, kind of depressing. You're trying everything, and your mindset is slowly disturbed. Makes you think : hey I'm not tall enough, not healthy, to young, not enough masculine, too lame, not enough funny, too many friends on my picture, I'm looking dumb, and so on. You lose spontaneity, it's scary. So I try to keep away from all these, and read you guyz here cause you make me laugh. America is different from France but yeah, can feel the pain.
My 2 requests over Tinder support never had any answers. I talked to them about Elo score and really deep **** about their algorithm. Looks like they do not want to reply to someone who knows a little bit how it works behind.
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01-17-2017, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
damn brah.....even the best fail sometimesAlmost every time a girl was dtf and i "decided not to" it backfired on me. Met one brazilian for drinks, this was one of my first tinder meets a couple years ago, then took her back to my hotel. She was hot as fuk, probably an 8/10 on my scale with one of the juiciest asses ive ever laid my hands on. Some guys might think it was too thick so would give her a 6-7/10, but it was almost perfect for me. In any event she said before we met she isnt looking for a hookup. I would have waited to smash this so being a tinder rookie i didnt buy condoms since i thought sex was off the table. Long story short we end up back at my hotel room naked and shes giving me the best bj ive ever had and she asks "you got a condom?". I said no but ill go get one, and she was like "nevermind it wasnt meant to be tonight"... Im still thinking im gonna hit it next time we meet, so like a fool i dont even let her finish me off i say some stupid chit like "ill save my cum for you..." txt her a few times after she was busy then she went no contact.
I'm using free tinder. lol. Got money refunded but it took a while. Still getting matches. Match rate % went up on free like I suspected
Spade, how long do you stay in contact with girls if they want to meet but logistics prevent it? Mine usually fall off after 1-2 weeks.
01-17-2017, 09:30 AM
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01-17-2017, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
had two separate scenarios where i texted em 10-15 times back and forth over the course of a couple days and they seemed interested, made plans and both ghosted when it came to actually making those happenDid you ask her out?
one of them was weird too cause she was responding really fast/enthusiastic and lived close, made pretty specific plans on a set day but when I went to follow up after a day she ghosted
chits killing me cause i still havent gotten over the last girl i was seeing and i keep getting really attractive matches but they dont go anywhere, why cant i just be a chad
01-17-2017, 12:37 PM
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@pancake yeah I was a rookie then. Now I keep at least one of these on hand.

Or the magnum ultra thin or bareskin if the drug store has them.
@ineed$ it's different for every girl. I've got #'s off tinder, moved the convo to whatsapp - told the girl I'll be near her in a few weeks, then did zero maintenance for weeks/months only to message her a couple days before I arrive to line up a smash.
I've also had girls I forgot about message me when they see I'm close to them on bumble. This is after we match, I leave their town, we convo and I say I'll hit them up next time I'm in their area, then forget to hit them up when I'm in their area so they hit me up, we meet and smash.
Also had a 19yo girl last year I spoofed to her area a couple months prior, matched, convod on whatsapp, sent nudes, had phone sex, and had almost daily maintenance chats about her dog and whatever else, then met her 2 months later and smashed.
Butmost of the time girls flake, like this one I matched a couple weeks ago, opened to her last week, got the dtf confirmation, confirmed logistics for this week - all looks good - then I message her yesterday and she doesn't reply.
Which is why having regulars is crucial for me to remain confident and not get thirsty. Having at least 2-3 girls in close proximity that I can call weekly if I wanted to, then drive to their place have a glass of wine and smash - keeps me sane and not giving a fuk about flakes. If I had my own place this would be so much easier.
Brb match 19-23yo's that live at their parents home but can't do chit cuz I'm almost out of Hilton honors points and I'm not paying for a hotel unless she's a solid 8+/10 and a freak.

Or the magnum ultra thin or bareskin if the drug store has them.
@ineed$ it's different for every girl. I've got #'s off tinder, moved the convo to whatsapp - told the girl I'll be near her in a few weeks, then did zero maintenance for weeks/months only to message her a couple days before I arrive to line up a smash.
I've also had girls I forgot about message me when they see I'm close to them on bumble. This is after we match, I leave their town, we convo and I say I'll hit them up next time I'm in their area, then forget to hit them up when I'm in their area so they hit me up, we meet and smash.
Also had a 19yo girl last year I spoofed to her area a couple months prior, matched, convod on whatsapp, sent nudes, had phone sex, and had almost daily maintenance chats about her dog and whatever else, then met her 2 months later and smashed.
Butmost of the time girls flake, like this one I matched a couple weeks ago, opened to her last week, got the dtf confirmation, confirmed logistics for this week - all looks good - then I message her yesterday and she doesn't reply.
Which is why having regulars is crucial for me to remain confident and not get thirsty. Having at least 2-3 girls in close proximity that I can call weekly if I wanted to, then drive to their place have a glass of wine and smash - keeps me sane and not giving a fuk about flakes. If I had my own place this would be so much easier.
Brb match 19-23yo's that live at their parents home but can't do chit cuz I'm almost out of Hilton honors points and I'm not paying for a hotel unless she's a solid 8+/10 and a freak.
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Originally Posted By Insanity_SC⏩
Picstinder is becoming soul sucking. anyone get like a post bang funk/depression? I wouldnt say it's as severe as a depression, but I have a week-long low where I just want to read, sip bourbon, talk to no one, and definitely not mindlessly message randoms on tinder. Started off 2017 with an amazing 8-9/10 19 y/o in Scottsdale for 3 nights straight. subtle brag, but srs.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
LMAO @ "ill save my cum for you..."Almost every time a girl was dtf and i "decided not to" it backfired on me. Met one brazilian for drinks, this was one of my first tinder meets a couple years ago, then took her back to my hotel. She was hot as fuk, probably an 8/10 on my scale with one of the juiciest asses ive ever laid my hands on. Some guys might think it was too thick so would give her a 6-7/10, but it was almost perfect for me. In any event she said before we met she isnt looking for a hookup. I would have waited to smash this so being a tinder rookie i didnt buy condoms since i thought sex was off the table. Long story short we end up back at my hotel room naked and shes giving me the best bj ive ever had and she asks "you got a condom?". I said no but ill go get one, and she was like "nevermind it wasnt meant to be tonight"... Im still thinking im gonna hit it next time we meet, so like a fool i dont even let her finish me off i say some stupid chit like "ill save my cum for you..." txt her a few times after she was busy then she went no contact.
Best part of the story. Good one spade
01-17-2017, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By pragIntents⏩
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Ive been giving my face a deep wash 1-2x's a week and have been using natural Shea butter ($4.99 on Amazon lasts 3-4 months) as a moisturizer/anti-wrinkle treatment. I have no clue if it works - I read it did and prefer to use natural products anyways. I "feel" like my face is fresher and glows after I put it on. I just added Vitamin E oil at night around the eyes for wrinkles.
I rarely take a razor to my face. Maybe close shave 2-3x's/year.
I also use the highest SPF lotion on my face in the sun/try to shield my face from the sun.
I also have had a fairly healthy diet my entire life. Was never into burgers at fast food joints, or candy/chocolate as snacks. Would always eat granola bars and baby carrots for snacks instead - even before I started to pay attention to my diet when I started to lift. Also not big on Soda. Prefer juice/water/ice tea. Don't get me wrong nothing goes better with pizza than a coke, but I'll rarely drink it.


Shes 27. What's crazy is I've been smoking most my life which is horrible for the skin. Been trying to quit but stress...
I rarely take a razor to my face. Maybe close shave 2-3x's/year.
I also use the highest SPF lotion on my face in the sun/try to shield my face from the sun.
I also have had a fairly healthy diet my entire life. Was never into burgers at fast food joints, or candy/chocolate as snacks. Would always eat granola bars and baby carrots for snacks instead - even before I started to pay attention to my diet when I started to lift. Also not big on Soda. Prefer juice/water/ice tea. Don't get me wrong nothing goes better with pizza than a coke, but I'll rarely drink it.


Shes 27. What's crazy is I've been smoking most my life which is horrible for the skin. Been trying to quit but stress...
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
ALL i do is get the snap then i see how they look currently etc etc lol.get their snapchat - or spoon pics hahaha srs
My snap brings my value up a ton bishes be mirin a good gym bro lifestyle well if you have a crazy personality like me haha.
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Damn... had a good thing going with this girl, but then she dropped me because I guess she didn't like how I sounded on the phone. wtf?! anyone go through this?
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Had an ok date with a girl a couple nights ago. Not some amazing connection but it was fun so i figured id keep talking to her and feel it out. Sent her an "i had a nice time text" she replied she didn't feel a connection but she wanted me to meet her friend. ******** stalked the friend and shes hotter than the first girl was.
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Originally Posted By nyjets88⏩
That's much better than getting blocked. Go get her dude.Had an ok date with a girl a couple nights ago. Not some amazing connection but it was fun so i figured id keep talking to her and feel it out. Sent her an "i had a nice time text" she replied she didn't feel a connection but she wanted me to meet her friend. ******** stalked the friend and shes hotter than the first girl was.
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This past weekend and this week so far has been on fire for me. Got a bunch of matches but I'm focusing on two blonde Europeans and another blonde who lives here. The blonde who lives here has some insecurity issues lol. She said she's really submissive and wants me to dominate her. So we exchange snaps and numbers and start texting. She sends me a nude pic and as we start texting again she says "Wait did I tell you I'm 16" WTF BRAHS. Her profile said 19. I'm in my early twenties but fuk that threw me off guard. How to approach this?
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Originally Posted By dattrance⏩
if you're from the u.s abort immediately, if canadian/uk go for it but be careful?This past weekend and this week so far has been on fire for me. Got a bunch of matches but I'm focusing on two blonde Europeans and another blonde who lives here. The blonde who lives here has some insecurity issues lol. She said she's really submissive and wants me to dominate her. So we exchange snaps and numbers and start texting. She sends me a nude pic and as we start texting again she says "Wait did I tell you I'm 16" WTF BRAHS. Her profile said 19. I'm in my early twenties but fuk that threw me off guard. How to approach this?
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Originally Posted By dattrance⏩
Das not it. Tell her to hit you up when she's 18.This past weekend and this week so far has been on fire for me. Got a bunch of matches but I'm focusing on two blonde Europeans and another blonde who lives here. The blonde who lives here has some insecurity issues lol. She said she's really submissive and wants me to dominate her. So we exchange snaps and numbers and start texting. She sends me a nude pic and as we start texting again she says "Wait did I tell you I'm 16" WTF BRAHS. Her profile said 19. I'm in my early twenties but fuk that threw me off guard. How to approach this?
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
its legal in a lot of places other than the whole nudes situation, definitely tell her to miss you with those lolDas not it. Tell her to hit you up when she's 18.
but yeah 16 is a bit much even early/mid 20s so id pass
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^^^ yeah I ask any girl that's 18 if she's really 18 and if she will be ok showing me her ID to prove it if we meet.
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01-17-2017, 10:35 PM
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using flamite actively is actually killing my confidence/self esteem, its making me realize how many girls immediately no contact or ghost when you ask for a # or just generally have quick moving convos with. Ive had like 4-5 girls who were responding in super interested seeming ways and complimenting me after i open (these are usually ones i end up meeting up with/having a good chance with)
they could even gradually have plans to reply/give their # since before I used flamite I would get #'s a while after initially asking and in hindsight it was probably because the few chads that were talking to them/smashing started ghosting em
they could even gradually have plans to reply/give their # since before I used flamite I would get #'s a while after initially asking and in hindsight it was probably because the few chads that were talking to them/smashing started ghosting em
01-18-2017, 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted By AnimalStrength⏩
what kinda stories u make brah?ALL i do is get the snap then i see how they look currently etc etc lol.
My snap brings my value up a ton bishes be mirin a good gym bro lifestyle well if you have a crazy personality like me haha.
My snap brings my value up a ton bishes be mirin a good gym bro lifestyle well if you have a crazy personality like me haha.
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Damn, Spade is getting harder with the game. 2-3 girls I will never touch in my whole life lmao. Well done brah. I really need to fit more and more. 1 month and a half since I start to hit the gym 200%. Hope results will come fast.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
im guilty of these hahahahaJust randomly listing some pics that appear over and over in guys' profiles, nothing wrong with these but they're just very common:
Machu Picchu, contravention of sign, tigers,dogs, babies,hot girls, bathroom/car selfies,snapchat dogor crown filter (yes on guys), boats, private jets (not sure how), pics with celebrities.
Machu Picchu, contravention of sign, tigers,dogs, babies,hot girls, bathroom/car selfies,snapchat dogor crown filter (yes on guys), boats, private jets (not sure how), pics with celebrities.
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