Sloth Thread Part XII: No Sway13 Club

01-18-2017, 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted By dattrance⏩

This past weekend and this week so far has been on fire for me. Got a bunch of matches but I'm focusing on two blonde Europeans and another blonde who lives here. The blonde who lives here has some insecurity issues lol. She said she's really submissive and wants me to dominate her. So we exchange snaps and numbers and start texting. She sends me a nude pic and as we start texting again she says "Wait did I tell you I'm 16" WTF BRAHS. Her profile said 19. I'm in my early twenties but fuk that threw me off guard. How to approach this?

hahaha get used to it brah, i was saying to CXVII that in uk pretty much half the sloots either say 15-17 in their profile with an age of 21, or they say 'not actually 21' but dont give an age....

stay safe brah

01-18-2017, 01:57 AM

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Brah's smashed my first black chick finally. Was light skinned, Jamaican. But I am still counting it. Was great, smelled great all around, and she just wanted to keep going and going. Will be putting in rotation.

01-18-2017, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩

what kinda stories u make brah?
on snap

Also Misc Spring break in cancun 2017
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=173331121

whos down? Chad spade? silence? RM? TX animal brah?

aw fuuuk, i was gunna go cancun for my 21st! (around spring break time) - but it costs so much for us all since we're UK.....going to prague instead - its deffo on my list to do though....love cancun....only been when i was like 15....., maybe i'll wait till im 23/24?

01-18-2017, 02:03 AM

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Originally Posted By dazeeman⏩

Brah's smashed my first black chick finally. Was light skinned, Jamaican. But I am still counting it. Was great, smelled great all around, and she just wanted to keep going and going. Will be putting in rotation.

01-18-2017, 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩

jesus fukkin christ

hnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng

spade is on fire, jelly for how well the lines are going.....

01-18-2017, 02:06 AM

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First time visiting this thread in months. You boys still slaying on tinder I see.

Keep doing the lords work fellas. Some real good quality in this thread

01-18-2017, 03:36 AM

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Has anyone tried spade's line of "how does getting dominated sound"?

lol wonder how it'll work on an average guy

01-18-2017, 03:57 AM

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Originally Posted By NLNFunKti0nz⏩

Has anyone tried spade's line of "how does getting dominated sound"?

lol wonder how it'll work on an average guy

unmatch, reported, NC, or if shes attracted to you then you may get a moody reply - pretty much it

unless you happen to be their niche type, in their eyes, an 8/10, and is into that and open about it and confident - then you may get some play ball from her haha

i used a 'how about we skip to the part where you call me daddy?' to this mexican sloot (booty bruuuuh) whilst spoofing ages of pages ago, and ended up with sexy snaps so.... it can work if you happen to be their type...

01-18-2017, 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted By NLNFunKti0nz⏩

Has anyone tried spade's line of "how does getting dominated sound"?

lol wonder how it'll work on an average guy

i get a lot of "what do you mean's lol

01-18-2017, 04:07 AM

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Originally Posted By SUPERDUKE1290⏩

i get a lot of "what do you mean's lol

I tried his mind if I'm direct with you line. I didn't get chit out of it so I just went straight to the get drinks and see we if we vibe part. Got 3 numbers so far and 2 ghosted after a few days of texting and the one that was down has a baby with my friend's friend. Had to abort

Damn this sucks brahs

01-18-2017, 04:09 AM

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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩

unmatch, reported, NC, or if shes attracted to you then you may get a moody reply - pretty much it

unless you happen to be their niche type, in their eyes, an 8/10, and is into that and open about it and confident - then you may get some play ball from her haha

i used a 'how about we skip to the part where you call me daddy?' to this mexican sloot (booty bruuuuh) whilst spoofing ages of pages ago, and ended up with sexy snaps so.... it can work if you happen to be their type...

How many chicks have you banged on tinder so far? I'm starting to like coffee meets bagel more cause it seems more active. Connected with 5 so far and I'll message them tomorrow

01-18-2017, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted By NLNFunKti0nz⏩

How many chicks have you banged on tinder so far? I'm starting to like coffee meets bagel more cause it seems more active. Connected with 5 so far and I'll message them tomorrow

well im currently seeing a bird from my gym (see pages back for pics nomsayin....) so i just tinder to troll and have a laugh with now - help my brahs out on here....

but over the whole time ive had it, ive banged 12 total - all 5/10-7/10, mainly closer to 5/10, but occasionally i had a girl for whom i happened to be their 'niche type' (most are like 4-5/10 face but 7+/10 body, perfect when hitting doggy nomsayin)

dont have coffee meets bagel in UK - bumble is also pretty dead and nonexistent in UK - its basically tinder or IRL approach...thats it!

01-18-2017, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

How should I go about this? I never flirt in person and don't really know how to do it. It's a small gossipy gym so I don't want to be obvious because everyone would watch. I've learned how to talk to guys online and on dates in the past year but that's when I already know they are interested so this is different.

Just keep talking to him, keep eye contact and touch him tease him idk. Guess to some flirting comes naturally. These are signs girls usually send me and I know they are interested and also keeping close borderline invading my space rofl. Do all these and he'll know your interested and will most likely flirt back. Flirting with girls is hard at the gym for most men so gotta show interest so we don't feel like creepers

01-18-2017, 05:31 AM

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Had a girl that I picked up and brought back to my place, and on the car ride home they mention in past tinder dates that they've gone bad because guys have tried to make moves (so in my head I'm like well.. I might as well turn around)

Then when we get to my place and she doesn't talk, doesn't initiate conversation, just speaks when spoken to. So I put on a movie and I lay in bed and she sits on the opposite corner of the bed with her knees hugging her chest and stays like that for the whole movie (lol..)

To top it all off she was fukn texting through half of the movie so I take her back when it finishes and just park in the driveway no hug or anything and say bye

The best part: I just checked her twitter and it she posted something a few hours after our "date" about how she will accept being single forever.. lmao! bish you barely spoke the entire night of course no one is going to want to see you again

2017

Meetups: 2
Smashes: 0

01-18-2017, 06:07 AM

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Originally Posted By VitaCrave⏩

Then when we get to my place and she doesn't talk, doesn't initiate conversation, just speaks when spoken to. So I put on a movie and I lay in bed and she sits on the opposite corner of the bed with her knees hugging her chest and stays like that for the whole movie (lol..)

I would say either she had diarrhea or was holding a fart ahah. Hope the movie was great anyway, feels bad to read such story. You made me laugh at the end with the Twit ahah

01-18-2017, 06:50 AM

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^^^ that sucks. I've had dates with girls that were weird/boring af that didn't go anywhere.

Also guys the dominated opener is psychos, the pin you against the wall line some miscer dropped in this thread a couple months ago (was an older line) said he'd rep brahs that post results than didn't rep me lmao.

Also to be clear a lot of these girls have pics of male models with beards, tattoos and physique as their "man crush Monday" on Instagram. So while these guys are 8-9-10/10's, these girls may never get them so they will settle their fantasy with a 7/10 like me. Then to top it off with aggressive game that matches my look/profileis how I compete with Chads on 20yo sorority girls.

Something to keep in mind tho. Remember that innocent looking 18 yo that I used the kiss you against the wall line on a couple months ago? She responded positively then went NC?

Here's the thing. Girls like this won't be seen in public with me. I'm 38 (can pass for late 20's), beard, tattoos showing in the summer, etc... these girls will only be seen in public with 18-24 yo blonde hair blue eyed clean shaven brooks brother cardigan wearing brads. They might be thinking of me when the brads fuk them, but meeting me in public is out of the question. So I become part entertainment/part fantasy for them to chat with, excite them, etc... but the reality is even if Iwas the 9/10 model on their ig mcm they would be reluctant to meet me. The older they get the more they realize nobody gives af so they are more open to the idea of having some random tall tattood bearded guy 10+ years older then them with muscles fuk them like a whore.

Tl;dr being the older dominant bearded guy with tattoos may get the young pretty college girls who like my type wet - but they are more likely to fuk a younger "nice guy" they meet at a keg party off campus.

Edit: someone please translate "how does getting dominated sound?" in Spanish. Backed myself in a corner with this Colombiana, but I think she'll be down. Also check out my double message "??????"... I've used that before on Latinas and they respond. Think it's because they don't understand/don't know how to respond so get shy and go quiet so a strong "wtf bish answer me" is assertive - and although it may look kinda needy/beta it's actually pretty alpha in the context I used it here.

01-18-2017, 07:21 AM

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01-18-2017, 07:23 AM

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[QUOTE=spadelexus post_id=1479557861]
Edit: someone please translate[b]"how does getting dominated sound?" in Spanish[/b]. Backed myself in a corner with this Colombiana, but I think she'll be down. Also check out my double message "??????"... I've used that before on Latinas and they respond. Think it's because they don't understand/don't know how to respond so get shy and go quiet so a strong "wtf bish answer me" is assertive - and although it may look kinda needy/beta it's actually pretty alpha in the context I used it here.

[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/ZyFZjEf.jpg[/I MG][/QUOTE]
[b]Te gustara ser dominado[/b]

01-18-2017, 09:15 AM

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any pickup/openers to a bio referring to "looking for a sugar daddy"?
pm me if you want.

01-18-2017, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩

confirmed miscer reveal yourself, this was a go to pickup line a about 1.5yrs ago in a thread on here

something about mallory if i remember correctly

01-18-2017, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted By jasonpullar⏩

confirmed miscer reveal yourself, this was a go to pickup line a about 1.5yrs ago in a thread on here

something about mallory if i remember correctly

bringing back memories, for the unaware;

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=162143711

01-18-2017, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩

Te gustara ser dominado

There's no real great way to translate a lot of these English openers in Spanish.

Best I've got is: "Como te parece ser dominada?" In any case make sure you get the -a, ending, otherwise you're calling her a dude.

Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩

any pickup/openers to a bio referring to "looking for a sugar daddy"?
pm me if you want.

unmatch immediately, don't waste your time

01-18-2017, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩

any pickup/openers to a bio referring to "looking for a sugar daddy"?
pm me if you want.

"Are you ok with anal?". I usually try to see if they are interested in a non sugar relation, then when its clear they arent i go nc. Ill probably entertain this type of relationship in a few years, but i wouldnt put down more than a drink or two upfront- then after a smash id be ok with paying their t-mobile bill.

Lmao at that mallory convo is goat. Ill try your translation pancake, thx m8.

01-18-2017, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted By pancakemouse⏩

There's no real great way to translate a lot of these English openers in Spanish.

Best I've got is: "Como te parece ser dominada?" In any case make sure you get the -a, ending, otherwise you're calling her a dude.

Mais combien de langues tu parles ?? ahah. Brah can speak to hotties in 20 differents languages lmao

01-18-2017, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted By VitaCrave⏩

Had a girl that I picked up and brought back to my place, and on the car ride home they mention in past tinder dates that they've gone bad because guys have tried to make moves (so in my head I'm like well.. I might as well turn around)

Then when we get to my place and she doesn't talk, doesn't initiate conversation, just speaks when spoken to. So I put on a movie and I lay in bed and she sits on the opposite corner of the bed with her knees hugging her chest and stays like that for the whole movie (lol..)

To top it all off she was fukn texting through half of the movie so I take her back when it finishes and just park in the driveway no hug or anything and say bye

The best part: I just checked her twitter and it she posted something a few hours after our "date" about how she will accept being single forever.. lmao! bish you barely spoke the entire night of course no one is going to want to see you again

2017

Meetups: 2
Smashes: 0

I had something similar like that to me so I'm glad it isn't just me. I don't understand why women are so awkward like that. They come off great through texting and snapchat then when you have them over they pull that bs. Then they wonder why nobody wants them. It's unbelievable.

01-18-2017, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted By VitaCrave⏩

Then when we get to my place and she doesn't talk, doesn't initiate conversation, just speaks when spoken to. So I put on a movie and I lay in bed and she sits on the opposite corner of the bed with her knees hugging her chest and stays like that for the whole movie (lol..)

To top it all off she was fukn texting through half of the movie so I take her back when it finishes and just park in the driveway no hug or anything and say bye

Why did you have a girl on your bed and not make a move? The way I see it you either make a move, start with kissing her neck, touching her legs etc. and work your way up to more sexual contact slowly until she says no or stop. Might not have gone all the way but might have gone further than nowhere.

Worst case scenario she rejects you and you can take her back sooner. At the end of the day you want to make her reject you, you have nothing to lose by doing so and everything to gain.

Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩

they would be reluctant to meet me.

Use money, not necessarily paying them, but you can give them the 50 shades of grey fantasy. Take them out to classy bars, nice dinners, even offer the odd gift. I took one of my past long term side girls (19yo fashion model) I saw for about a year out shopping and she bought a pair of shoes, $50, easy to please that one. The other recent long term one I bought a gift voucher for $150 and some expensive specialty soaps she wanted ($20). No big deal, but feel free to tell girls you are happy to take them out on nice dates and spoil them etc.

Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩

Something to keep in mind tho. Remember that innocent looking 18 yo that I used the kiss you against the wall line on a couple months ago? She responded positively then went NC?

Yeah, 18yo's are 18yo's. Nothing you can do about that. A few months back I was dating an 18yo 9/10, stunner/head turner. Took her on 3 dates and assumed the 3rd date we'd have sex... Nope. Ok, I gave her the benefit of the doubt, maybe she was on her period or something. So against my better judgement I organised a 4th date, but we were going to be having sex for sure. She stood me up. I was there trying to call her and she just completely ghosted/ignored me after confirming the date was still on an hour before.

Thank your lucky stars she went NC so early, you could have wasted ALOT more time on her.

Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩

any pickup/openers to a bio referring to "looking for a sugar daddy"?

Hi <slothname>, I'd love to be your sugar daddy. I can offer you $1000 a week cash and shopping trips for L0ubotin, Gu cci, Prada, Valentino etc. does this sound like something you'd be interested in?

01-18-2017, 10:40 PM

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Hey boyos after a couple weeks in SoCal I can once again confirm, tinder is about 95% or more about location. Girls straight up giving me their number and less straight up asking me over to theirs, these aren't usually white girls, but sometimes it is... Then they set up the dates, pretty sweet deal.

So many outstanding matches I can't even. One chick I could only reply with the David at the dentist gif, "is this real life?" They're almost all looking for more than I can offer.

After the first smash of the year I got a little more picky and then the last girl was fine. Here's some pics:

So really here is why people are having problems:

Girls aren't usually looking for hookups outside their social circle. Why would they? Why are they going to go to a random guys place and smash? Because you have something special to offer them. But you don't, because you're a bunch of sad kunts.

01-18-2017, 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted By American

Girls aren't usually looking for hookups outside their social circle. Why would they? Why are they going to go to a random guys place and smash? Because you have something special to offer them. But you don't, because you're a bunch of sad kunts.

Something *special* to offer them?

Dude... based on your "game" and the responses you get, you have nothing to offer these girls but your looks.

I have an Instagram linked with 4500+ followers, nice body, all DSLR photos, suit photo, tons of DHVs, solid text game, etc. Doesn't matter. I'm in LA right now, have autoswiped every single girl in a 10 mile radius, and can't match higher than a 5.

Looks are nearly everything on tinder, if you don't have looks, you can't even get started in the hardest markets (like SoCal). Doesn't matter what else you have to offer.

01-18-2017, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted By pancakemouse⏩

Something *special* to offer them?

Dude... based on your "game" and the responses you get, you have nothing to offer these girls but your looks.

I have an Instagram linked with 4500+ followers, nice body, all DSLR photos, suit photo, tons of DHVs, solid text game, etc. Doesn't matter. I'm in LA right now, have autoswiped every single girl in a 10 mile radius, and can't match higher than a 5.

Looks are nearly everything on tinder, if you don't have looks, you can't even get started in the hardest markets (like SoCal). Doesn't matter what else you have to offer.

What's DHV's?

San Diego is the hardest market? Wat? Girls aren't quite as slutty as Portland girls but they're better looking and not even a little bit flaky (knock on wood.) Also I'm dating one who is down af but we didn't smash on the first date and might not on the second, but she's legit cool and just my type. We're just having a good time with no dtf expectations and she knows I've smashed in between our dates, and seems the type that will always be cool with it especially since I'm doing a little bit of chasing, and shown no interest in the other girls. (We've seen each other's apps)

4,500 people care enough about your life to follow you on instagram but you can't match a 6 in tinder? Lol?

Examples of "solid text game"?

01-18-2017, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted By American

What's DHV's?

San Diego is the hardest market? Wat? Girls aren't quite as slutty as Portland girls but they're better looking and not even a little bit flaky (knock on wood.) Also I'm dating one who is down af but we didn't smash on the first date and might not on the second, but she's legit cool and just my type. We're just having a good time with no dtf expectations and she knows I've smashed in between our dates, and seems the type that will always be cool with it especially since I'm doing a little bit of chasing, and shown no interest in the other girls. (We've seen each other's apps)

4,500 people care enough about your life to follow you on instagram but you can't match a 6 in tinder? Lol?

Examples of "solid text game"?

Demonstrations of Higher Value, in my case I'm successful in my field, I work for an interesting startup, speak six languages, have founded several different enterprises, have been a professional athlete, pretty well-dressed, etc.

... but none of it matters if you can't close decently-attractive girls on Tinder because of my face. Interestingly enough I do fine in real life because IRL these girls don't have 1000s of Chads hitting them up, and I'm confident enough to ask them out in person.

No idea about San Diego as I haven't Tindered there but LA is death if you aren't a male model, Chad, or celebrity.

People on Instagram are following me because of my body and workout photos, not because of my face.

I've posted examples of my texting in previous posts. Honestly, I figured out a couple months ago that text "game" doesn't really matter, because most girls just go NC after a while due to so many more attractive options than me, so now 80% of the time I just DTF pitch girls with the "mind if i'm direct with you" line, at least the ones that I wouldn't want to be seen out with in public.

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