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post 1479675441 01-18-2017, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler
Get off your moral high horse. I have all kinds of friends and they all have their own vices. Would hate to be boys with a judgemental square like yourself you pissant.
Lol dude your moral compass is so broken that being a decent human being is considered a moral high horse. That's why there's an increasing number of degenerates in the world.
Lol at not throwing ur cheating friend under the bus. It's not a mistake u fuking idiot. It's selfishness. He had a girlfriend and he chose to risk the relationship for some foreign puss, he didn't give a fuk about anyone else but himself so he should lay on the bed he made. Goddammit enablers.
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post 1479675471 01-18-2017, 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted By PKneyr
The truth, *******s will try to deny it though.
Also we are not sexually monogamous, "cheating" is normal biologically speaking.

I have never cheated, but I'd lie if I said I don't think about banging other women, if it was socially accepted I'd have 3+ partners at the same time.

As for the topic, it is none of my business. I don't mind especially if they are married men, as long as they go back home and provide for the family, it's ok to bang on the side.
Evolutionarily speaking cheating is still bad. Women need men that they trust. No trust=danger to their children. Yes it is normal to think about banging other women but women aren't that way.
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post 1479675631 01-18-2017, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
Evolutionarily speaking cheating is still bad. Women need men that they trust. No trust=danger to their children. Yes it is normal to think about banging other women but women aren't that way.
Yeah buy 'evolutionarily speaking' the main priority is to source a mate who is fit for reproduction. Keeping him around is secondary
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Originally Posted By RC2008
Lol i have had at least a few girls still willing to fuk me after they found out i had bang others...

This is real life. I had a tinder girl tell me to 'get it out of my system' with all the girls on tinder i wanted first, before messing with her... because she wanted something serious...
That's completely different than finding out somebody you're in a relationship with cheated. They might forgive the person if they already invested a lot of time into them or really like them, but dont you think saying they won't care is stretching it?
post 1479675881 01-18-2017, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008
Why you so mad? Lmfao @ this woman hounding me its cute

Also you talk about bedroom skills... you are proving my point by mentioning this lmao
I'm not mad ? Why you think that ?

My opinion is based on what I have seen and how my friends react.

If you are talking about married couples and why people stay in ****ty relationships generally because people do not like the unknown , unknown of being able to start life again without the person who has always been there. It also survival mechanisms as well our brain does not like change because change can threaten survival ---- that whole another topic all together
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post 1479675901 01-18-2017, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted By webcam
That's completely different than finding out somebody you're in a relationship with cheated. They might forgive the person if they already invested a lot of time into them or really like them, but dont you think saying they won't care is stretching it?
Of Course I am not saying they won't care. But, assuming that alpha is good enough, they WILL be willing to put up with sharing him as long as he still shows them attention
post 1479675941 01-18-2017, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Azn00Superman
Lol dude your moral compass is so broken that being a decent human being is considered a moral high horse. That's why there's an increasing number of degenerates in the world.
Lol at not throwing ur cheating friend under the bus. It's not a mistake u fuking idiot. It's selfishness. He had a girlfriend and he chose to risk the relationship for some foreign puss, he didn't give a fuk about anyone else but himself so he should lay on the bed he made. Goddammit enablers.
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post 1479676011 01-18-2017, 11:07 PM
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post 1479676291 01-18-2017, 11:11 PM
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No one is saying its ok to cheat. But, 'awaring' a woman about the boyfriend cheating does not mean a huge deal if she is into him enough. Women leave men these days for being 'emotionally unavailable' and other stupid, abstract reasons. They would sooner leave for that, than leave for being abused.
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Originally Posted By RC2008
Of Course I am not saying they won't care. But, assuming that alpha is good enough, they WILL be willing to put up with sharing him as long as he still shows them attention
They will not be willing to share him , if you were in a relationship and your partner found out you cheated I can gaurantee that if you said too bad I'm going to continue cheating your partner would say that fine hun. I bet more the case of you would say it will not happen again and she will forgive you

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post 1479676331 01-18-2017, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008
Of Course I am not saying they won't care. But, assuming that alpha is good enough, they WILL be willing to put up with sharing him as long as he still shows them attention
the only people I can think of that are ok with sharing their partner are people in open relationships. Most women in a closed serious relationship won't be ok with that. They'd forgive a one time mistake at most but after that gg
post 1479676511 01-18-2017, 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat
They will not be willing to share him , if you were in a relationship and your partner found out you cheated I can gaurantee that if you said too bad I'm going to continue cheating your partner would say that fine hun. I bet more the case of you would say it will not happen again and she will forgive you

LOL
Lol, ok, whatever you say. If you are dating up in points as a woman, you are very likely to be a lot more forgiving to that guy. Its not the same as marrying a guy for resources, you have this fuked up... which is expected. No one is gonna disagree with this but you can argue it a bit more if you want though.

Youre gonna say if you snagged a male model at your age of 32 you would not want to keep him if you were very attracted to him lmfao. You will AUTOMATICALLY assume he was a player on some level just by seeing him anyway

Cant really argue this with a woman though, they say something and usually mean the opposite lol
post 1479676601 01-18-2017, 11:15 PM
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Cheaters are worse than scum. And if you're perfectly okay with your friends being cheaters, it says a lot about your character and morals.

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Originally Posted By RC2008
No one is saying its ok to cheat. But, 'awaring' a woman about the boyfriend cheating does not mean a huge deal if she is into him enough. Women leave men these days for being 'emotionally unavailable' and other stupid, abstract reasons. They would sooner leave for that, than leave for being abused.
I see what youre getting at, if somebody has low self esteem or a history of being abused they want to feel wanted more than they want to feel respected. But that's really only people like that. But yeah, in most cases ratting them out does nothing, since theyll either keep doing it and eventually be caught, or realize it was a mistake and never do it again.
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Originally Posted By Podunks
Assuming they stay, they are still going to have serious trust issues that will manifest into issues in other ways, almost always resulting in the decline and destruction of the relationship. However, if the person who cheated really cared about any of that, they would have kept their pants up in the first place.
This, i am inno way condoning cheating just fyi
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Originally Posted By RC2008
Lol, ok, whatever you say. If you are dating up in points as a woman, you are very likely to be a lot more forgiving to that guy. Its not the same as marrying a guy for resources, you have this fuked up... which is expected. No one is gonna disagree with this but you can argue it a bit more if you want though.

Youre gonna say if you snagged a male model at your age of 32 you would not want to keep him if you were very attracted to him lmfao. You will AUTOMATICALLY assume he was a player on some level just by seeing him anyway
Big difference in forgiving a guy because you have this illusion they will stop than staying with a guy after he has told you straight out I will continue cheating on you.
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post 1479676791 01-18-2017, 11:18 PM
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If people found out I knew and said nothing, and maintained the relationship with the cheater then it affects my reputation. Also, lol if you think someone who is willing to betray the trust of their partner won't act in the same manner to you when it benefits them.
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat
Big difference in forgiving a guy because you have this illusion they will stop than staying with a guy after he has told you straight out I will continue cheating on you.
No one is going to straight up tell a woman he will continue cheating. They just do it, get caught, and still get what they want afterwards... scumbags? Sure, but that's not really the point im trying to make
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Originally Posted By Podunks
Assuming they stay, they are still going to have serious trust issues that will manifest into issues in other ways, almost always resulting in the decline and destruction of the relationship. However, if the person who cheated really cared about any of that, they would have kept their pants up in the first place.
Yeah, but people make mistakes and trust can be rebuilt. Some people have been in a relationship for decades/live together/have kids/built their lives around the person/can't find somebody they're that compatible with, so it might be more convenient to try to rebuild the relationship.
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post 1479677501 01-18-2017, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008
No one is going to straight up tell a woman he will continue cheating. They just do it, get caught, and still get what they want afterwards... scumbags? Sure, but that's not really the point im trying to make
What point ??? I know people who stay in ****ty relationship and guy isn't alpha
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If he was one of my good friends, I likely would know his wife or girlfriend well enough to know what kind of person she is. If she was a total ****, I would tell my bro that he should come clean with her and break it off. If she was a great girl and didn't deserve to be cheated on, you bet I'd cut my bro loose and tell his girl.

I remember a female miscer here once telling a similar story. She ended up losing a bunch of friends as a result. I have srs respect for her.
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Scum OP.

Basically if your friend is dating a chick and you and her become friends what do you do. What do you say when your friend tells you to lie to his wife for you? What if the wife becomes suspicious and you tell her "he isn't" cheating on you "you are just being paranoid". What happens when all your buddies are hanging around and he brings the girl he is cheating with around. Do you all come up with stories to cover for him?

Idk about you but when my friends have gfs we all hang out and all of us become close. Just bc you have no morals doesn't mean that others shouldn't.
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Originally Posted By webcam
Yeah, but people make mistakes and trust can be rebuilt. Some people have been in a relationship for decades/live together/have kids/built their lives around the person/can't find somebody they're that compatible with, so it might be more convenient to try to rebuild the relationship.
Rebuild or not that is the decision of theirs. And for that to happen the girlfriend has to know.
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Originally Posted By RC2008
Women who get themselves a true alpha mate dont give a rats ass deep down if he cheats as long as she still gets his attention
You mean like the wives of Tiger Woods, Michael Jordan, Arnold Schwarzenegger?
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I wouldn't tell but it would make me rethink my opinion of them for sure... I have had friends who stole sh!t I never called the cops on them but I sure as fuk had a lower opinion of them. Also makes it hard to trust them.
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Originally Posted By Kangayfish
You mean like the wives of Tiger Woods, Michael Jordan, Arnold Schwarzenegger?
Or the wife of Brendan Fraser...

They will give a rats ass if he has become the providerand they are no longer sexually attracted to him. Following that, they will use the law to achieve their goals of finacial stability.

Those guys you mentioned either got cucked, or are very advanced now
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat
What point ??? I know people who stay in ****ty relationship and guy isn't alpha
People do this because of lack of options/low self esteem or being dependent on other person. I know a woman who complains about her bf for years and she still wants him to marry her but he won't. She even thought he was a cheater becuase he seemed "emotionally distant" lmao. She has no job and a kid and freeloads. She will stay even if he had an orgy in their house.
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Originally Posted By webcam
the only people I can think of that are ok with sharing their partner are people in open relationships. Most women in a closed serious relationship won't be ok with that. They'd forgive a one time mistake at most but after that gg
As someone in a closed serious relationship I think you're wrong. Cheating is not a mistake, it's a purposeful act and I wouldn't ever forgive it. I never would have even without the tie of a family together. That's why you pick serious partners on their character and you value them.
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