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post 1479693521 01-19-2017, 05:14 AM
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Originally Posted By SheenRambi⏩
I could understand if the female in question was your own mother. But to snitch on a friend or family because you feel you have a moral obligation with some chick that you have little to no association with? Fuk off mate. You're getting straight up knocked out if you ever did that to me in person. I'm telling you now, don't be surprised when someone gives you a good hiding or worst because you felt you had to be a hero in every situation around you that doesn't involve you.

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This is a tough nut to crack, and I look at it two different ways.

I will not tell his wife if...He sincerely confides in me that he fuked up, made a mistake in a moment of weakness, regrets it dearly, and won't allow it to happen again. At that point he's expressed remorse, and I can't in good conscience destroy his life. However; If I find out he's cultivated a relationship with another woman, I'm telling. At that point it's not a mistake, there is no remorse, he's willfully cheating on his wife, and I can't be apart of that.

People might not think they're connected but they are. If you can chit on one relationship, you can chit on them all. Platonic or Romantic.
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You don't need to aware any woman because they already know that they are being cheated on. Men are really sloppy at discretion because cheating won't affect your reputation. Some women will leave you if your cheating is such an open secret that her entire social circle knows and views her as a pathetic, doormat....if you manage a degree of discretion and only she knows, it's unlikely to lead to a break up.

Unlike men, who truly care about a woman's vagina and who has been in it.... most women are completely unbothered about what you do with your penis...just as long as you are useful to her in some way, be it via your "love/committment" or resources

Unless you are being used as an alibi and you are put in a position to lie for your friend to their partner...you have no business getting into other folks affairs
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depends

if it's a male friend of mine who's doing the cheating, I'll probably just talk with him and try and figure out why he's in the relationship and not tell the girl

if it's a close female friend of mine and the guy they're with cheats, I'm sure as sh*t telling them, because in the end, I'm loyal to my friends
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Every single one of my close friends has cheated at one point (two of them do it regularly too). I'm the only one who hasn't and i would never. I also would never aware their bishes either, they're my friends not their girlfriends so what he does in his relationship is up to him. I have however told them they're all slimy kunts for doing it every time they do and tell them they're ****s for doing it.
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Pretty sure all my friends have cheated on a GF once or twice.
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i wouldnt aware the wife/gf atleast not at first. I would definitely try to reason with him and give honest advice. I would try to help him aware her himself and to stop cheating in the first place. If it was a one time thing then it is definitely his responsibility and not mine to aware anyone.

now, if he becomes a serial cheater and its a wife we are dealing with, not just a gf, then there is too much at stake for me to not get involved more. at that point he has proven the unability to stop and or aware her himself. at that point the marriahe is destroyed either wat and its best for everyone if shes awared and the marriage ends
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Love when multiple women have chimed in and said "ya we don't really care as long as it's out of sight out of mind" and there are still beta white knights with honor codes straight out of Victorian England. Just lmao
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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler⏩
Love when multiple women have chimed in and said "ya we don't really care as long as it's out of sight out of mind" and there are still beta white knights with honor codes straight out of Victorian England. Just lmao
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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler⏩
Love when multiple women have chimed in and said "ya we don't really care as long as it's out of sight out of mind" and there are still beta white knights with honor codes straight out of Victorian England. Just lmao
Lol you got negged into fuking oblivion and a few degenerates took your side and you think you got it figured out. Fuking imbecile. Lol at thinking a couple female Miscers represent every other girl out there. Goddamn **** tier ethics, **** tier friends. You won't make it.
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post 1479706351 01-19-2017, 07:43 AM
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I stay out of other peoples relationships. I am also an information vault and ruinous news never escapes my mouth.

The most I would do is council my bro to seriously evaluate the health of his relationship and to commit ritual seppeku with me as his second to preserve his honor from being such a ****bag cheater.
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Originally Posted By Isabeli⏩
Unlike men, who truly care about a woman's vagina and who has been in it.... most women are completely unbothered about what you do with your penis...just as long as you are useful to her in some way, be it via your "love/committment" or resources
"Most women". You'really talking out of your ass.
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I couldn't be friends with said person for this reason. You want to be a POS do it on your own time.
post 1479707841 01-19-2017, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By SheenRide⏩
where are you from? Prove me wrong
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post 1479708711 01-19-2017, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By PKneyr⏩
The truth, *******s will try to deny it though.
Also we are not sexually monogamous, "cheating" is normal biologically speaking.

I have never cheated, but I'd lie if I said I don't think about banging other women, if it was socially accepted I'd have 3+ partners at the same time.

As for the topic, it is none of my business. I don't mind especially if they are married men, as long as they go back home and provide for the family, it's ok to bang on the side.
Bring me evidence that conclusively proves what youre saying..

I dont have a prob with your opinion, just your declarative statement.

As far as im concerned im pretty sure theres more proof for the opposite.
post 1479711331 01-19-2017, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler⏩
To be totally honest my age probably has something to do with it. I just don't see it as a big deal. It's a judgement lapse.
Nah. Don't fall for other people's believe. Stand strong in your belief. The event is clearly circumstantial and the people ITT are saying they would never be friends with a cheater. I'd NEVER be friends with someone as jUdgemental as the people ITT.

Strong loyalty, who was family, who was mistake.

Maybe it was the way I was born but family over everything. And your friends are family. If you disown family quickly for something as circumstantial as that, you were never family to begin with. You're just as bad as the person you're hating on imo, srs

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Just read entire thread. This became a battle of different philosophies thread. There's no point in debating it.

From my view, the judgemental people were never really friends and from their point of view, the cheaters were never really friends.

It is what it is.
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Just for the record my dad cheats all the time lmao and he has never fukd me over. I ain't even mad.
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Men who cheat have no code. Regardless of awaring their significant other, I'd still discontinue spending time with them. Men who behave this way will have no problem fukking over their friends as well. Lack of integrity means there can be no trust within the friendship. Making it pointless.
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If my friend is cheating on his wife he is no longer my friend because his personal values do not align with mine.

Why would I want someone to be my friend who is willing to deceive someone they loved?
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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler⏩
Love when multiple women have chimed in and said "ya we don't really care as long as it's out of sight out of mind" and there are still beta white knights with honor codes straight out of Victorian England. Just lmao
Anyone with that attitude, man or woman, will throw you under the bus if the stakes are high enough. Good luck surrounding yourself with people without integrity. Don't come crying to us when you're the one on the receiving end because it will happen to you.
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Originally Posted By Dirtymanjames⏩
If my friend is cheating on his wife he is no longer my friend because his personal values do not align with mine.

Why would I want someone to be my friend who is willing to deceive someone they loved?
Quoting ftw. Repped.
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You are 100% a ***got if you get involved either way, let people have their own drama and stay out of it SRS. The truth always comes out, from guilt or the 3rd person telling the gf/bf from jealousy.
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If it's a good friend it would be a tough situation to be in, especially if I knew both of them well. And it depends. Some couples I'm good friends with them both, and most I barely know the girl. If I knew they were both bored and sexless it would be different than a couple who seemingly had it together. I'd probably have a talk with the dude at first if it bothered me but luckily it hasn't ever came up.
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It's obvious by your making multiple accounts daily, for months on end, to troll a bodybuilding forum, that he did in fact screw you over, in life.
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I feel sad that so many of you would ditch a mate for a single mistake..

So you have your set of morals and values, and if your mate doesn't align with them perfectly they get the cut? That's such a narrow paradigm if there's no margin for error at all

das not it mane, i'd do anything for my mates.. we're all gonna make it
fuk i'd stick by a mate even if he killed another man. killing people doesn't align with my morals or values but i'd look to the good in him and do my best to nurture those qualities
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Originally Posted By lced⏩
I feel sad that so many of you would ditch a mate for a single mistake..

So you have your set of morals and values, and if your mate doesn't align with them perfectly they get the cut? That's such a narrow paradigm if there's no margin for error at all

das not it mane, i'd do anything for my mates.. we're all gonna make it
fuk i'd stick by a mate even if he killed another man. killing people doesn't align with my morals or values but i'd look to the good in him and do my best to nurture those qualities
Iced you seem like a good guy and to understand the concept of loyalty and brotherhood. I think it's apparent from this thread that a lot of miscers don't have very strong friendships.
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I look down on anyone that cheats, especially in a marriage or serious relationship. I don't trust anyone, man or woman that cannot be loyal and honest. Fukk your brocade. In this day and age? Your "bro" will sell you out for a few dollars. It may be my fault. I have high standards and integrity. I also have a small circle of people that I trust and aren't pieces of chit. Including my GF.

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Originally Posted By WPIALwrestler⏩
Iced you seem like a good guy and to understand the concept of loyalty and brotherhood. I think it's apparent from this thread that a lot of miscers don't have very strong friendships.
that real forever kinda friendship is one of the greatest gifts life has to offer and i'd do fukken anything for my bros.

i've seen one of my bros catching a beating in town by 6 guys. there were too many of them for me to even try to fight so i just jumped on his body and shielded our heads while we were getting stomped out. next day we're all batted and bruised drinking our beers through straws having a laugh about the whole thing

another mate came to my house at 3am bawling his fukken eyes out saying his mrs has left him for some other guy and he just wants to die. i quit my job on the spot and used my savings to take us on a 5day roadtrip to take his mind off things.

those are just a few times. i've been there for my friends a countless amount of times and they have done the same for me. we've travelled the world together, done almost every drug for the first time together, pulled some of the hottest sloots together travelling all over europe. my life would be a shell of what it is now if i couldn't share it with my brothers

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