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post 1480056021 01-21-2017, 05:14 PM
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I've dealt with mental illness for my entire life and have recently gotten worse. I used to hide it all and act like everything was ok and simple to cure. I refused meds and help. Now I have taken advantage of support groups, my friends and family. I went to the psych ward to get help and feel confident in getting better. Its a race that can never be one, but I can find the silver lining in my illnesses black cloud.

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post 1480058491 01-21-2017, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted By l2ambo
Please tell me this quote isn't real life.
Fairly certain I remember her saying that too.
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post 1480058901 01-21-2017, 05:40 PM
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Can I recommend that any male requiring a psychologists help see a male psychologist.

I cant believe a woman can be as good a psychologist for a male patient as a male psychologist.
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post 1480059281 01-21-2017, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Evil_D
Can I recommend that any male requiring a psychologists help see a male psychologist.

I cant believe a woman can be as good a psychologist for a male patient as a male psychologist.
I disagree. I have met with both and a lot of times the men game off a douches. I think they view other men as stupid compared to themselves. I notice when I meet with women psychologists they lack this whole male ego thing and see me as just a person seeking help.

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post 1480060071 01-21-2017, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Evil_D
Can I recommend that any male requiring a psychologists help see a male psychologist.

I cant believe a woman can be as good a psychologist for a male patient as a male psychologist.
Assuming she's not a ****, I would assume the maternal nature of a woman is better suited to interacting with patients and making them comfortable.
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post 1480060161 01-21-2017, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Power_Strike92
I disagree. I have met with both and a lot of times the men game off a douches. I think they view other men as stupid compared to themselves. I notice when I meet with women psychologists they lack this whole male ego thing and see me as just a person seeking help.
I dont know how psychologists are trained but lets say you go to a psychologists office and there are 4 of them there.
They are all women.
I would be a little concerned of female bias/what is considered normal or acceptable by female standards.
There are plenty of healthy hobbies that are typically male hobbies. MMA could be a good example. A female psychologist probably isn't going to understand that.

Dont get me wrong. Not saying male alone makes someone a better psychologist.
You will need maybe a few visits to get a feel for the psychologist and decide if you're a good fit.
But a male will understand male motivations better I have to believe.

(Cucked male psychologist obviously not, hence my point about deciding if you're a good fit).
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post 1480060371 01-21-2017, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By zknarc
Men are the disposable sex which is why chit like this gets said and no one bats an eyelid

Please tell me she didn't actually say this.
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Originally Posted By PeteJonesHTX
High expectations for us white folk. Don't meet all expectations = depression ---> bullet to the dome.
You guys need to take into account the fact that white people make up most of the population. So even if the rate of suicide was exactly the same for every race, you'd still have white males being above 50% simply because they're over-represented in the demographic
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post 1480061971 01-21-2017, 06:05 PM
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People are waking up to it. The Red Pill documentary is really gaining momentum, hopefully it starts getting mainstream attention
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post 1480069121 01-21-2017, 07:06 PM
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I just realized I posted the picture of the bloke dressed as a woman in the wrong thread, haha! Sorry guys, had my hands full earlier. Kind of almost fits the subject though.
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What counts as a mental illness ? don't mean to be rude but some people just need to grow a pair.
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Because women are generally mentally insane, and men are generally not.
post 1480070461 01-21-2017, 07:18 PM
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men don't make big scenes when it comes to mental health a guy will go for help when he feels like he has no other choice. Women on the other hand will have 1 bad day and they go and say they're depressed and need pills
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Because men have such a big ego and don't want to be seen as weak. Women talk openly about their problems ( which is very helpful) . Men tend to keep their problems to themselves and go cry in their room. I've never told anyone that I was feeling depressed , not even my mother. I always have my fake smile on. that's why I'm more likely to die of suicide compared to my sister.
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Originally Posted By JD805
What counts as a mental illness ? don't mean to be rude but some people just need to grow a pair.
I think the difference between the need to grow a pair and clinical depression is the point where you begin to lose control of your life. For instance, losing the will to get up in the morning so you constantly miss work. It may manifest itself with physical ailments as well like migraine headaches or impotence or high blood pressure. The state of your mental well being can impact virtually everything in your life.
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My comment isn't directly pertaining to men or women but mental health in general the exposure it's gets is so pathetic most people who are not sad all the time or whatever may not be phucked in the head but that doesn't mean their mental health is alright I see many people men & women who do alright they are able to regulate their emotions etc but you can just tell they're a shell of who they could be if they had a truly great mindset coupled with impressive mental health
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there's not much u can do against suicide except attacking the roots. there isn't really a solution to nation-wide suicide itself.

i think one of the major things people overlooked about obama is that he had thought about people more than they give him credit for. he talked about suicide in his legal gay marriage, anti-bullying campaigns, he was for an anti-suicide when he signed the clay hunt act as well.

https://obamawhitehouse.archives.gov...ntion-day-2016
The Affordable Care Act provides the largest expansion of mental health coverage in a generation, and it has helped increase access to quality, affordable health insurance for all Americans. The Act prohibits insurers from discriminating against people based on pre-existing conditions like depression, expands mental health and substance use disorder parity policies to more than 60 million Americans, and requires that Health Insurance Marketplace plans cover mental health and substance use disorder services. Additionally, my Administration proposed a new $500 million investment to increase access to mental health care. And because more than 20,000 Americans each year take their own lives with a firearm, we must do all we can to ensure people who need help get it and improve gun safety technology that can help prevent suicides.

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NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim September 10, 2016, as World Suicide Prevention Day. I call upon citizens, government agencies, organizations, health care providers, and research institutions to raise awareness of the mental health resources and support services available in their communities and encourage all those in need to seek the care and treatment necessary for a long and healthy life.
this chit just flies past people's heads unfortunately.
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I think there has been more talk about it recently. The problem is that men have to open up too. No one will know you are suffering if you keep it bottled up.
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Originally Posted By ggMoe
You guys need to take into account the fact that white people make up most of the population. So even if the rate of suicide was exactly the same for every race, you'd still have white males being above 50% simply because they're over-represented in the demographic
Do you think white men are over 50% of the population or are you just bad at math?
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Erosion of the importance of the family unit and big pharma

Big pharma and their behavioral specialists/therapists/etc pawns honestly lack integrity. Without a proper diagnosis patients will immediately be thrown on all sorts of meds

Nonethleless, a good father and mother who raise their son properly is probably the most important factor in mental health for anyone
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I haven't seen a therapist because I don't want to have my parents pay for it.
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Originally Posted By caseyo7
I haven't seen a therapist because I don't want to have my parents pay for it.
If you're at university or live in/near a town with one, check their on-campus psych/counseling centers. Students often receive free services, and locals can frequently receive services at a significantly reduced cost (e.g., used to see clients for $5-25/session, unless you need testing and then rates increase).
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Originally Posted By Melis689
There was a big social campaign called "its ok to talk" recently if I'm right in thinking? To raise awareness on male mental health issues? I'm stating the obvious but I guess it's to do with the fact that it's seen as being more "acceptable" (for lack of a better word) for females to openly discuss their emotions/cry/vent etc. And men over the years have been taught by society to "man up" and deal with whatever they're feeling. I agree it's not fair, and its heard of way too often where a male falls victim to it and everyone is shocked cause he'd never expressed any form of battling whatsoever


Does that look like it is designed for men to you?

Also take heforshe which in its manifesto talks about getting rid of clinics for men completely (even though there are tons of female only ones already) and you can see how no one cares about men.

"Meanwhile, in Watsons native England, activists from womens organizations recently blamed the shortage of services for abused women on efforts to accommodate abused men (despite the fact that, as Guardian columnist and blogger Ally Fogg demonstrated, even the lowest estimates of the prevalence of domestic violence against men suggest that male victims are far less likely than women to get help)."
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Originally Posted By saligia
If you're at university or live in/near a town with one, check their on-campus psych/counseling centers. Students often receive free services, and locals can frequently receive services at a significantly reduced cost (e.g., used to see clients for $5-25/session, unless you need testing and then rates increase).
Didn't know that but, not on campus, dropped out of school, haven't left house in a year due to body dis morphia.
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Nobody gives a chit about men in general, especially young men.
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Because men don't have special interest groups. Much like politicians don't listen to youth, we don't have an AARP for youth.

Create a lobbying group or awareness group to raise awareness.
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Originally Posted By Rambostyne
I think the difference between the need to grow a pair and clinical depression is the point where you begin to lose control of your life. For instance, losing the will to get up in the morning so you constantly miss work. It may manifest itself with physical ailments as well like migraine headaches or impotence or high blood pressure. The state of your mental well being can impact virtually everything in your life.
My point is that some people are depressed over things that aren't a big deal in my opinion. I can understand why someone who lost their child to suicide would be depressed and have a hard time getting out of bed but when someone is depressed because they feel like life has no purpose or something along that line it makes it difficult for me to sympathize with them.
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Originally Posted By caseyo7
Didn't know that but, not on campus, dropped out of school, haven't left house in a year due to body dis morphia.
Do you still live in the area though? If so, I would encourage you to check them out to see what they have to offer. If not, search for local "community mental health centers." They're largely income-based and often work with "scholarship" clients (pro bono).
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