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post 1481036231 01-28-2017, 07:01 AM
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that's been the majority of the cases for me. They've all been like 5-6/10 though, so nothing to brag about . Still autistic though, classic miscer i guess
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post 1481036291 01-28-2017, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Peasantfighter
and there lies your problem, you have 0 confidence, girls pick up on that and find it unattractive AF.
Unless you bench 315 for reps, you have no chance of a girl approaching you at the gym boyo
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post 1481036411 01-28-2017, 07:03 AM
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Originally Posted By FailedPotential
Unless you bench 315 for reps, you have no chance of a girl approaching you at the gym boyo
Unless you have the face
post 1481036431 01-28-2017, 07:03 AM
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So a girl wants your D and...
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The whole time I was wondering what's wrong with her, because she could easily get Chad if she wanted.
post 1481036561 01-28-2017, 07:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Melis689
I have quite a few times
No you Haven't. You just think you did.
post 1481036641 01-28-2017, 07:07 AM
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Yes women do approach. I get chit from my female friends bc I mainly pull girls from tender or girls approaching me at bars so they claim I have horrible social skills lel. The bold ones approach but I notice a lot more women will go 90 percent to show they're interested you just have to make the very easy first move

I've also been approached at the gym, restaurants, grocery store, and other places (although this is all rarer than at bars obviously). If you're good looking you don't have to work for it really
post 1481036661 01-28-2017, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted By MikesApartment
No you Haven't. You just think you did.
Please read her response you soft shyte
post 1481036751 01-28-2017, 07:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Melis689
On both occasions I approached them, spoke about lifting or some dumb chit like "it's so warm in here today!" (Lol). Got talking, introduced myself, asked their name etc. One I asked for their number, the other asked for mine. There was another who I'd struck up conversation with on a few occasions but I was under the impression that he wasn't interested
He was.

What happened on both these occasions. I'm curious.
post 1481036811 01-28-2017, 07:10 AM
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Originally Posted By MikesApartment
No you Haven't. You just think you did.
Why is it hard for you to grasp the very concept that I did?
Originally Posted By Tangential
He was.

What happened on both these occasions. I'm curious.
I explained it my posts after that one
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post 1481036851 01-28-2017, 07:11 AM
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Never did directly, although had no issue starting conversations with someone if not interested in that way. That's kind of odd looking back, I would never have even considered making overt approaches.
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Originally Posted By Melis689
Why is it hard for you to grasp the very concept that I did?



I explained it my posts after that one
Not really

u said one wasnt interested and I dont even know what happened to the other
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I generally dont like it; feels emasculating

Typically, fat girls. Hot girls are indirect dropping hints

Only in a club is it ok to me, or if she just wants to fuk
post 1481037001 01-28-2017, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Never did directly, although had no issue starting conversations with someone if not interested in that way. That's kind of odd looking back, I would never have even considered making overt approaches.
So much for being a feminist
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Originally Posted By Tangential
Not really

u said one wasnt interested and I dont even know what happened to the other
Strong 'impatiently sitting in a dark room with palm full of lotion' vibes.
post 1481037121 01-28-2017, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Tangential
Not really

u said one wasnt interested and I dont even know what happened to the other
My bad, I didn't realise you'd quoted my post where I said how I approached them. Do you mean more detail of what happened then or what came of it?
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I dont think women should really be approaching either way. Maybe I am just jello but it makes one look desperate and slooty depending on how socially adept on is. Similar to the way more aggressive guys seem sexy whereas socially awkward dudes seem like creeps.

I would also say that getting approached does not start and stop with aesthetics. I get hit on on Tinder a lot, but I rarely ever get approached in an environment which is not filled before. Interestingly enough, I used to get approached far more when I was a lot less unapproachable. I think a lot of it is about looking attractive AS WELL as safe. That...simply wont be happening if you're jacked to the nines and shredded.

This doesnt count when clubbing of course, preceisely because of the overwhelming amounts of alcohol and bad decision making.
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Originally Posted By exyl
Strong 'impatiently sitting in a dark room with palm full of lotion' vibes.
Yup. Not really going to even pretend as if I'm not looking for fap material.
Originally Posted By Melis689
My bad, I didn't realise you'd quoted my post where I said how I approached them. Do you mean more detail of what happened then or what came of it?
Just what happened. Smash/date/fizzle out?
post 1481037331 01-28-2017, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted By FailedPotential
Unless you bench 315 for reps, you have no chance of a girl approaching you at the gym boyo
Lmao, that's what you think. All you need to get approached at the gym is a nice face and a decent body. Girls don't really care about lifting numbers I find.
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Originally Posted By Tangential
Yup. Not really going to even pretend as if I'm not looking for fap material.



Just what happened. Smash/date/fizzle out?
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Originally Posted By krazy33
I generally dont like it; feels emasculating

Typically, fat girls. Hot girls are indirect dropping hints

Only in a club is it ok to me, or if she just wants to fuk
Exactly.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
Lmao, that's what you think. All you need to get approached at the gym is a nice face and a decent body. Girls don't really care about lifting numbers I find.
This one girl approached me the other day and handed me a pen and a piece of paper, she then told me to write down my height, bodyfat %, weight, my 1RM on bench and my penis size.

Not sure if you guys are joking, but where i'm from it's getting ridiculous with these standards, they want it all.
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Originally Posted By krazy33
I generally dont like it; feels emasculating

Typically, fat girls. Hot girls are indirect dropping hints

Only in a club is it ok to me, or if she just wants to fuk
Originally Posted By Tangential
Exactly.
Brb feeling emasculated bc an attractive girl walks up and starts showing interest

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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
Lmao, that's what you think. All you need to get approached at the gym is a nice face and a decent body. Girls don't really care about lifting numbers I find.
LOL BRB u need to bench 225 for me to date u

as stated, I never really got the "face" thing on the misc but I do know being hit on had more to do with being approachable than simply looking a certain way. Men with prettier, more softer features will likely be hit on more.

As a dude who has a made a considerable amount of progress, I tend to find women become far more open on places like Tinder/POF or when the alcohol is flowing.
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Originally Posted By Tangential
Yup. Not really going to even pretend as if I'm not looking for fap material.



Just what happened. Smash/date/fizzle out?
Went out a few times with both; one I found out was 6 years younger than he claimed (and 6 years younger than me lol) and it didn't go anywhere after that. I think he felt awkward after I pulled him up on it. The other just sort of fizzled out after getting to know eachother a bit more. I can't put my finger on why; I'd say our personalities/interests were very different except for fitness. Same with our senses of humour too. Still talk in the gym, no hard feelings or anything. Didn't smash either, srs.
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Only sloots. I remember in college girls with bf's would flirt with and complain about their bf's. Was an ego boost but at the same time made me disinterested in their disloyalty and lack of a challenge
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yeah they do and it's all about how you carry yourself as awhole... just cause you gain aesthetics, new haircut, clothes, physical traits, etc.. in most cases, if you still have a beta aura going on, no one wants to talk to you... even dudes, for those who complain about making friends

if you genuinely seem confident, cool, etc... it can make you seem more approachable and good looking as well, a common misconception on the misc is that you have to be a 10/10 male to get a girl, no... as long as you're not fukking groce and fugly, you can get girls, even hot girls, there's billions of girls on this planet, stop limiting yourself to 1-2 girls you wish would approach you.. mind blowing huh... but it comes down to how you carry yourself and if you're actually gonna make an effort and approach or if you're gonna cope and tell yourself it's not worth it cause you're a little beta chit ... this is the reason why you see regular dudes with hot gf, and handsome af with normal gf, and so on... as long as you aren't mr. fugly, you meet the requirements to get girls cot dam

and op you always make these chit fa threads, quit feeling sorry for yourself and grow a pair and start approaching, get rid of that 'does she like me' mindset and adopt the 'she's cute, im talking to her' mindset... change is only gonna happen if you actually make an effort and not by trying to get advice from these ******* threads

and to the girl poster somewhere above... gym is the worst approaching place imo, when girls talk to me at the gym or say some random chit, it's the most awkward and annoying time for me... which is why i never really approach in gym unless she's gorgeous or her ass is out of this world... but most times, even if the girl is attractive and wouldn't mind getting to know her, i barely show real interest like i normally would.. im not mean or a dik but gives off the wrong vibe, honestly too much chit going on in the gym to try to flirt and focus on making my lifts for the session
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Originally Posted By Melis689
Didn't smash either, srs.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
It seems like the extent of the girl making an approach is to stand right in front of the guy and smile, but they still expect the guy to talk to them first. I found that's as obvious as they get.

Problem is I don't even know what to say when this happens, then my anxiety acts up and I end up leaving. Then they think I reject them and ignore me comletely afterwards. Wat do?
I've had hot chicks grab me by the arm as I was walking by and say, "Will you sleep with me one time?"
Had a hot chick with her mother in tow chase me down the street yelling hey wait, wait.

Had girls chase me thru the airport a few times.

It's very common.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
I've had hot chicks grab me by the arm as I was walking by and say, "Will you sleep with me one time?"
Had a hot chick with her mother in tow chase me down the street yelling hey wait, wait.

Had girls chase me thru the airport a few times.

It's very common.
Okay, that kind of chit only happens with teenage girls. They're the ones that are very direct. Too bad they're illegal.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Had girls chase me thru the airport a few times.

It's very common.
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