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post 1481041751 01-28-2017, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
This is the thing. How can you be unsure that he was interested? I dont really want to gas you up, but look at your profile. Do you genuinely think a red blooded man would turn down the opportunity to fukk you if you asked? He WAS interested, he just didnt know how to express said interest. When considering that you have already gone out of your way to express sexual interest, I would say thats an L on his part. Otherwise, how would you two even had been talking? To be friends???

A subtle interest to me would be a woman even being in my vicinity for an extended period time. In truth I dont even always use that, if I see an attractive woman and she seems approachable then I take my shot. Women in the gym like to sit and pretend they dont want to be hit on (they do, I've slept with a lot of them) and men like to pretend as if they're above talking to other women in the gym.
I guess I was just comparing his response levels to how mine would be if the situation was reversed and someone who I liked approached me. He was kinda reserved, not that chatty etc. So I assumed maybe he's not that interested which is fine, or maybe he has a girlfriend/wife.

Alright..brb going to stand next to a guy for a while to express my interests. I'll neg you if it doesn't workactually it's funny you should mention that cause in the past I've always felt awkward if I've accidentally followed guys round the gym (using different areas etc, not literally following) and wondered if I'd came across like a stalker
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I'm not gonna quote you cause you wrote a lot, but I stand by my claim:

It's not that black and white.

And don't compare me to a feminist, because I said I'm solid in my identity. You can't just make random assumptions and draw stretchy connections based on such little information. I've seen you do this a few times in this very thread. I'm just saying it isn't a deal breaker if I'm approached, it honestly depends on a number of factors. More often than not, I am uninterested in girls who approach me. And it doesn't happen often. I still approach the girl 19/20 times. And that 1 time she approaches me, if I end up being interested, it's because she saw me before I saw her, and happened to walk up to me. So what?
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
I guess I was just comparing his response levels to how mine would be if the situation was reversed and someone who I liked approached me. He was kinda reserved, not that chatty etc. So I assumed maybe he's not that interested which is fine, or maybe he has a girlfriend/wife.

Alright..brb going to stand next to a guy for a while to express my interests. I'll neg you if it doesn't workactually it's funny you should mention that cause in the past I've always felt awkward if I've accidentally followed guys round the gym (using different areas etc, not literally following) and wondered if I'd came across like a stalker
If you want to approach a guy, do it. Fuk this nerdy *******.
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Sometimes they approach you, but mostly it's just up to you.
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What do you female miscers do when you cold approach a brah and he comes off as nervous.

Rarely ever but there are some days where I'm just completely out of it or avoid human interaction all together and someone tries to strick up a conversation with me. I go full FA/pull out phone to pretend I'm texting.
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
I guess I was just comparing his response levels to how mine would be if the situation was reversed and someone who I liked approached me.He was kinda reserved, not that chatty etc. So I assumed maybe he's not that interested which is fine, or maybe he has a girlfriend/wife.

Alright..brb going to stand next to a guy for a while to express my interests. I'll neg you if it doesn't workactually it's funny you should mention that cause in the past I've always felt awkward if I've accidentally followed guys round the gym (using different areas etc, not literally following) and wondered if I'd came across like a stalker
You're making my point for me here. The more you post, the more it sounds like he isnt particularly socially adept. I think you know this too. Social ability is a big sign of masculine appeal. "Confidence/charisma" and all that jazz.

You should kinda already know this or have seen it in practice. A look here, a smile, a brief but assured gaze is often more than enough to spark some kind of call to action of a confident man. You dont even need to follow people around, simply be mindful of their physical presence. Anyone who is remotely aware will pick up on it.
post 1481042951 01-28-2017, 08:23 AM
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Judging by tangential's distinctive pseudointellect writing style, and new join date, he appears to be bishamon. A huge black guy that spends his time making close to 100 new accounts since he was banned. This is him

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Originally Posted By exyl⏩
If you want to approach a guy, do it. Fuk this nerdy *******.
I agree. She should approach if she wants

Im just saying i dont like it

I dont need any indication of her interest

Anyways, im very intense. My interactions turn sexual just by body language
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Originally Posted By exyl⏩
If you want to approach a guy, do it. Fuk this nerdy *******.
She knows I am right, no point pumping your e-muscles. Most women dont feel comfortable approaching, even when they approach.
I'm not gonna quote you cause you wrote a lot, but I stand by my claim:

It's not that black and white.

And don't compare me to a feminist, because I said I'm solid in my identity. You can't just make random assumptions and draw stretchy connections based on such little information. I've seen you do this a few times in this very thread. I'm just saying it isn't a deal breaker if I'm approached, it honestly depends on a number of factors.More often than not, I am uninterested in girls who approach me.And it doesn't happen often. I still approach the girl 19/20 times. And that 1 time she approaches me, if I end up being interested, it's because she saw me before I saw her, and happened to walk up to me. So what?
Once again the point is being made for me. Women approaching is an all round waste of time.
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I don't get why some of you get so wrapped up in this.

They're just girls not some alien creature or supreme deity.

Just talk to them like normal human beings.

Have some fng confidence in yourself.
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
Judging by tangential's distinctive pseudointellect writing style, and new join date, he appears to be bishamon. A huge black guy that spends his time making close to 100 new accounts since he was banned. This is him

I was picturing some guy who wears a pocket watch with john lennon style glasses and a long ponytail lol
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Originally Posted By exyl⏩
I was picturing some guy who wears a pocket watch with john lennon style glasses and a long ponytail lol
Yeah he's an oddity, guy is jacked, wears sure tight clothes and rolled up jeans. And can't leave the misc.
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
Yeah he's an oddity, guy is jacked, wears sure tight clothes and rolled up jeans. And can't leave the misc.
Is this true tangential?
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
Yeah he's an oddity, guy is jacked, wears sure tight clothes and rolled up jeans. And can't leave the misc.
says the FA dickhead who constantly cries about getting no pussy
continue begging for women to hit on you because you cant invest in a set of balls
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Fak U say? Cheeky kent ya, i'll fakin fak ya, ya lil sloot
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
says the FA dickhead who constantly cries about getting no pussy
continue begging for women to hit on you because you cant invest in a set of balls
Bishamon confirmed

Also I haven't posted that I want girls to approach
post 1481043901 01-28-2017, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By jiujitsubro⏩
What do you female miscers do when you cold approach a brah and he comes off as nervous.

Rarely ever but there are some days where I'm just completely out of it or avoid human interaction all together and someone tries to strick up a conversation with me. I go full FA/pull out phone to pretend I'm texting.
There's a difference between coming across as nervous and ignorant though lol. If you pulled out your phone as I spoke to you I wouldn't necessarily class that as being nervous unless there were other actions displayed
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
Bishamon confirmed

Also I haven't posted that I want girls to approach
Nah, you're just sitting here crying about being an FA rotter
thats so much better I guess


Seriously, I dont even get it. Most of you cry about not getting laid and then want women to magically turn into men for you to do so. Me telling you that women approaching only ends up looking silly for both parties a lot of the time is some kind of affront to humanity because I didnt tell u that women will be falling to your knees to suck your cawk once u look like Francisco Lachowski

This forum really blows my mind
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I get approached in odd ways when at bars or clubs and what not. It's never like "hey i'm so and so". They'll ask me what i'm drinking (when its obvs a poverty beer), say they think i'm in their class(trust me i'm not in your poverty business class), or "accidently" bump into me and start talking



Not too often tho, but it does happen. Mostly just heavy eye contact to the point it's awk
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
Nah, you're just sitting here crying about being an FA rotter
thats so much better I guess


Seriously, I dont even get it. Most of you cry about not getting laid and then want women to magically turn into men for you to do so. Me telling you that women approaching only ends up looking silly for both parties a lot of the time is some kind of affront to humanity because I didnt tell u that women will be falling to your knees to suck your cawk once u look like Francisco Lachowski

This forum really blows my mind
I haven't complained about being a fa rotter either. Only laughed at the guy bringing up the elusive fat short slayer, that gets mentioned a lot, but I have never ever met in person.

Nevertheless, what keeps you coming back and making new accounts if you despise this forum?
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Originally Posted By Peasantfighter⏩
don't be fat and look like a burns victim and your good to go provided you're not an autist and can hold a conversation like a normal human.

the misc is absolutely deluded when it comes to thinking what girls want/find attractive
This, OP.


One sex cares almost entirely about looks and body. However the OTHER CARES ABOUT GAME AND CONFIDENCE BRO!
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Originally Posted By exyl⏩
If you want to approach a guy, do it. Fuk this nerdy *******.
Oh I have and I don't mind doing so, but as below, in an ideal world I'd prefer to be approached by them, but it doesn't always happen that way. Wouldn't necessarily stop me though cause I find with a lot of things in general once I get an idea in my head I have to follow through with it. But still..
Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
Most women dont feel comfortable approaching, even when they approach.
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[QUOTE=Sanguivorant post_id=1481031561]It seems like the extent of the girl making an approach is to stand right in front of the guy and smile, but they still expect the guy to talk to them first. I found that's as obvious as they get.

Problem is I don't even know what to say when this happens, then my anxiety acts up and I end up leaving. Then they think I reject them and ignore me comletely afterwards. Wat do?[/QUOTE]Try saying something completely normal just to get yourself started. For example, "Hello. My name is [X]. What is your name? ... How are you doing this evening?".
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
Nah, you're just sitting here crying about being an FA rotter
thats so much better I guess


Seriously, I dont even get it. Most of you cry about not getting laid and then want women to magically turn into men for you to do so. Me telling you that women approaching only ends up looking silly for both parties a lot of the time is some kind of affront to humanity because I didnt tell u that women will be falling to your knees to suck your cawk once u look like Francisco Lachowski

This forum really blows my mind
Is this how you comprehended what I said? Lol
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
I haven't complained about being a fa rotter either. Only laughed at the guy bringing up the elusivefat short slayer, that gets mentioned a lot, but I have never ever met in person.

Nevertheless, what keeps you coming back and making new accounts if you despise this forum?
LOL which is funny, because when I was as inexperienced and clueless as u I used to believe the same

and then I started meeting socially successful short and fat slayers who misc told me should never be getting laid...and yet there they were smashing the women you're addicted to fapping to
Your opinion on the opposite sex is juvenile
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i've had quite a few girls approach me, it's pretty much the only way I pick up girls because I'm too awkward to approach


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Never been approached by a girl in my life except for once, story time.

One time I was at a bar after work, having a drink and watching the game, just minding my own business. I look over to the other TV and my eyes wander down and back to the right to the TV I was on previously. 5 minutes later this girl comes up to me, and with a rude ass attitude asks me, "Is there a reason you were looking at me?" I said, "I wasn't looking at you." She responded with, "I saw you looking at me, my friends and my boyfriend saw you looking at me too." Anger was starting to build up in my enormous forehead. "I said, I was looking at the TV above you, not at you." I knew she was one of those drama starting kunts and I could feel her anger that her little game didn't work. I don't fuking play that bullchit srs. Don't fuking play that chit with me. If I was looking at her, so what? Would she be offended if a Chad was looking at her? No, so why would it be such a big fuking deal that I am looking at her? Thinking about this situation just pisses me the fukk off even more
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Tangential, i think we agree for the most part. I just don't like to speak in absolutes (I.e. Always/never)
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Originally Posted By exyl⏩
Is this how you comprehended what I said? Lol
Maybe, just maybe...that post was not in reference to you.
Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Oh I have and I don't mind doing so, but as below, in an ideal world I'd prefer to be approached by them, but it doesn't always happen that way. Wouldn't necessarily stop me though cause I find with a lot of things in general once I get an idea in my head I have to follow through with it. But still..
Once again. I'm not saying women should not approach, but that it often doesnt really work out as well as it would if the guy took initiative first. Most women agree with me and plenty of other women in this forum would too. What I find so mind boggling about here is that people genuinely think women's mind work just like men's. That they're attracted or driven by the same things...henceforth why most people loft excessively and still cant get laid.
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
LOL which is funny, because when I was as inexperienced and clueless as u I used to believe the same

and then I started meeting socially successful short and fat slayers who misc told me should never be getting laid...and yet there they were smashing the women you're addicted to fapping to
Your opinion on the opposite sex is juvenile
It's not that I believe the same. I have just never met any, 5'5 fat guys that I would consider a ladies man. Why do you think that is? Yet I have met multiple people that do very well with women, in general they are on the more attractive side. Or are atleast average looking, with a very extrovert personality.

Yet somehow a guy will always post nah man I know a 5' obese guy, biggest slayer out of everyone. Is such a guy just in hiding LOL?
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