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post 1481045411 01-28-2017, 08:54 AM
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have had females approach me in social situations. can confirm females have 0 game and make the most fa miscers look charismatic.

brb sloot approaches me and repeatedly tells me 'you're so amazing' within 2 mins of casual conversation. she was sober.

brb sloot tries to trip me up multiple times at party. figured she's being a cheeky drunk kent so i say hi, brb she's sober and can't hold a conversation for 30 seconds.

brb sloot walks over and keeps giving me compliments on my watch with her puppy eyes and i keep saying thanks. the whole conversation became about my watch. she then randomly asks what's you fav type of tuna. wtf m8
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post 1481045501 01-28-2017, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
It's not that I believe the same. I have just never met any, 5'5 fat guys that I would consider a ladies man. Why do you think that is? Yet I have met multiple people that do very well with women, in general they are on the more attractive side. Or are atleast average looking, with a very extrovert personality.

Yet somehow a guy will always post nah man I know a 5' obese guy, biggest slayer out of everyone. Is such a guy just in hiding LOL?
I know this guy, 5'4" with saggy breasts, yes, breasts. Big puffy nipples. He will fearlessly walk up to a group of girls and have them all laughing in under 2 minutes. He gets it in too!
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
Yet somehow a guy will always post nah man I know a 5' obese guy, biggest slayer out of everyone. Is such a guy just in hiding LOL?
Short men who are confident and can talk to girls always seem to have a bunch of girls around them, because girls think that the short guy is safe since he doesn't appear threatening.

For some reason, upon seeing this, a lot of guys assume that the short dude in question is a player by hanging around so many girls, when really they just see him as a friend.

I know this. Back in highschool I used to have two girl friends who were 5'10-6ft, and they would often walk at my sides. Every dude thought I was a player, when I didn't phuck either of them.
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Originally Posted By exyl
I know this guy, 5'4" with saggy breasts, yes, breasts. Big puffy nipples. He will fearlessly walk up to a group of girls and have them all laughing in under 2 minutes. He gets it in too!
See reply below
Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
Short men who are confident and can talk to girls always seem to have a bunch of girls around them, because girls think that the short guy is safe since he doesn't appear threatening.

For some reason, upon seeing this, a lot of guys assume that the short dude in question is a player by hanging around so many girls, when really they just see him as a friend.

I know this. Back in highschool I used to have two girl friends who were 5'10-6ft, and they would often walk at my sides. Every dude thought I was a player, when I didn't phuck either of them.
post 1481045921 01-28-2017, 08:59 AM
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Just came in to share my opinion that this thread is fkn stupid - didn't read a single word past the title srs. Thanks, I'm out.
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post 1481046021 01-28-2017, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Imaneya
have had females approach me in social situations. can confirm females have 0 game and make the most fa miscers look charismatic.

brb sloot approaches me and repeatedly tells me 'you're so amazing' within 2 mins of casual conversation. she was sober.

brb sloot tries to trip me up multiple times at party. figured she's being a cheeky drunk kent so i say hi, brb she's sober and can't hold a conversation for 30 seconds.

brb sloot walks over and keeps giving me compliments on my watch with her puppy eyes and i keep saying thanks. the whole conversation became about my watch. she then randomly asks what's you fav type of tuna. wtf m8
lol I know this feel.

Once in college, I was eating in the cafeteria. Girl comes and sits down "what are you eating?" I say "pasta"
She says "what classes are you taking?" So I start naming off the classes and in mid sentence she interrupts me, awkwardly handing me her phone and says, "here!"

I look down at her phone and it's the "add new contact" page

Fkn LOL
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Had a few approach me. Met my girlfriend of 1 year on a datingsite. She was the one who chatted me up and asked if I wanted to go out.
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post 1481049001 01-28-2017, 09:35 AM
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I have been and I don't like it. It boosts confidence but I dont think it is feminine of a woman to behave like that. Makes them look thirsty AF

Then again I am a person who always wants the girls that dont want me srs. When a girl doesn't reply i get thirsty as fuk
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post 1481050251 01-28-2017, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
See reply below
You're quoting another dude who gets no pussy

stop putting pussy on a pedestal, u think women are that hard to fukk?
Even if she doesnt see the fat guy as a threat, she will still open her legs if he says the right lines
post 1481050321 01-28-2017, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Tangential
You're quoting another dude who gets no pussy

stop putting pussy on a pedestal, u think women are that hard to fukk?
Even if she doesnt see the fat guy as a threat, she will still open her legs if he says the right lines
If that's true then there is something seriously wrong with the female brain
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Nope. Girls will come up to you and talk or smile when making eye contact and call that approaching. They never ask you out.
post 1481051061 01-28-2017, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
If that's true then there is something seriously wrong with the female brain
not really, its just looks are not the be all and end all

women value men who are providers...what use is shredded abs and "face" anyway??
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Only huge sloots approach guys. If a girl approached me it's a turnoff and I know she has had a lot of cock.
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
It's not that I believe the same. I have just never met any, 5'5 fat guys that I would consider a ladies man. Why do you think that is? Yet I have met multiple people that do very well with women, in general they are on the more attractive side. Or are atleast average looking, with a very extrovert personality.

Yet somehow a guy will always post nah man I know a 5' obese guy, biggest slayer out of everyone. Is such a guy just in hiding LOL?
5'11 fat guy checking in.
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Originally Posted By exyl
lol I know this feel.

Once in college, I was eating in the cafeteria. Girl comes and sits down "what are you eating?" I say "pasta"
She says "what classes are you taking?" So I start naming off the classes and in mid sentence she interrupts me, awkwardly handing me her phone and says, "here!"

I look down at her phone and it's the "add new contact" page

Fkn LOL
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post 1481052201 01-28-2017, 10:11 AM
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Yes. But I have also been told that I am intimidating somehow, even though I am the friendliest person. Have had girls tell me that.
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Absolutely. It is all about the t-shirt boyos. Chicks love guys with a sense of humor.









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I have resting "Phuck off" face or constant meanmug as someone has put it. I'm really friendly usually though. I don't get cold approached by girls but those that are already familiar with me in some way will often make the first move.

If it's a girl in a club or something most of them will usually linger a touch on my arm or ass as they're walking past me; look at me while I'm at the bar a bunch or otherwise. Fairly rare I get a girl come up and say "Hey how are you?" or some variation. Probably because I'm usually with my boys.
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To my knowledge, no I have never been approached.
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Originally Posted By Zer0Wolf
Absolutely. It is all about the t-shirt boyos. Chicks love guys with a sense of humor.
Only if you have a good physique, otherwise you'll be labelled as a "creep".
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant
It seems like the extent of the girl making an approach is to stand right in front of the guy and smile, but they still expect the guy to talk to them first. I found that's as obvious as they get.

Problem is I don't even know what to say when this happens, then my anxiety acts up and I end up leaving. Then they think I reject them and ignore me comletely afterwards. Wat do?
They just want you to make small talk with them.

Just say hi and ask them about themselves. If you keep the topic on them that will be the way to go and you will seem like a nice person.

If you are nervous the way to go is to pretend you're talking to a guy, your mom, or whoever doesn't matter much to you in terms of impressing.
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Yes it happens. Happens to me quite often. In the gym its obviously lifting related, But im so in the zone that I keep it short and sweet. ( I dont like socializing when im at the gym / in the zone).

In college sometimes. Mainly from chicks in my classes.

Happened alot when I live in Virginia Beach and used to hit up the beach during the summer.

As for what to say. Idk. Just go with the flow.
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There was this girl I used to work with in an analyst position. Anyways, everytime we would have lunch (4-5 coworkers), she would always randomly say "(my name) hates me"... idk why... I didn't even hate her.. hell we didn't even talk much. Everytime I would walk into a room with her and her friends there, one of her friends would randomly be like "oh look, (girls name) hates that guy." I'm like wtf is wrong with this bich. Turned out, she had a huge crush on me. But, was too late at that point as I had to go back to school. Girls need to be more direct in my opinion... if you're going to approach, might as well just be direct...
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