Fuaaaaark. Is this equivalent to "real estate agent" in the United States? The default fallback job for 30-something sloots with no skills here, too.

Some cities they all get implants because the only way they can differentiate themselves in the market is by showing some skin while they're showing houses.

Was on Tinder at age 42 and matched with very aesthetic bodybuilders, NFL linemen when they came to town and local college athletes. All 8s and 9s + and some (usually 25-29) would take me to nice dinners.

As a former college athlete and woman who lifts, they said they could relate. Saw a couple of guys for over a year.

It was very addictive to have so many good looking young men that it turned into an obsession and I was asked by a professional to delete it. I can see how this can make a person egotistical and feel like she is in a candy shop.

But that was during the height of Tinder in 2014. The negative was the number of creepy men sending nonstop sexual messages so I don't miss that one bit.

Some of the athletes were really cool to hang out and lift or play tennis with. One at 26, I even spent a weekend in a bed and breakfast on the beach, and he was really into lifting and had the 8 pack of peace. We started lifting together after that.

Alas, he was a Chad and had quite a rotation of women worldwide, so I confronted him about his other women on Tinder, and that ended it.

when you get to that age and still single, you'll feel the same way as you now...

you guys act as if the female was like 60 years old...

"Everything you're saying is very interesting. I can relate to you." *ZIP*

I dun goofed my age range search on bumble was 30-38... i met a 35 hbb and going strong.

lmao, theory confirmed

I am happier and more stable as a born-again Christian.

Tinder is the devil's work. To give women over 40 a ton of hot young guys is just too tempting. Life was easier and less stressful before Tinder.

It would match me with guys at my gym who wouldn't come up and talk to me, but they'd message me. Strong balls and social skills.

I'm sure if men over 40 would match with hundreds of 20 year old HBBs, they would get addicted to Tinder, too. That's why a therapist recommended deleting it.

I guess the equivalent for men is seekingarrangement.com

To give young guys a ton of women over 40 is... basically my fetish, so...

If a woman is a 5, 7-9's will still bang her.

Then, that woman thinks she deserves a 7-9 for a serious relationship because hey, she can get laid by them so that makes sense yeah?

Then, after a few years of getting smashed and dashed, she gets depressed realizing she can't actually land a good man, blaming men and not her own over inflated sense of tier.

Then, they turn to religion or something.

lmao a women 35 without a partner is NOT happy

I dunno... I'm 36 and only recently stopped e-dating as I have a gf now, but I had a successful run from 33-36 or so. very successful.

granted my age range was 18-29... so kind of in line w your thoughts... but come on man... maybe they're just looking for happiness too? I'm thinking if my sister's husband passed away, in a few years she might want to meet people again... or friends my age who are divorced, or been fukked over by a guy they dated too long?

I guess I'm in agreeance that it's not for me... but to laugh or think they should LDAR is a bit shallow and mean spirited I think.

A lot of these women are recently divorced, so they are excited to be single after 10 years of marriage.

Then they get non stop matches with men, inflated egos and ride the cawk carousel.

Then they realize that isn't very fulfilling and either turn to religion, cats, or Zumba.

I never understood this rationale on here. Women settle for beta providers without looks all of the time. Some prioritize looks and sex and don't want to settle with a guy she is not attracted to, is alcoholic, is on crazy hormone rages if he's a bb, etc. It's not easy to find someone stable when you're out of college.


When she is 20 years older than the guy, then it's more of a MILF fetish, something to brag to his friends about or create a thread on the Misc. But it's usually not a serious relationship. Some women fear commitment and go the route of obsessing over a young jacked bodybuilder.

> "if you are a woman in your 30's and you are not dating or married"

So it's a red flag if someone got divorced or broke up from a LTR?
Everyone should follow the same systematic progression of school, smashing, career, dating, marriage, kids, retirement, death?

You guys are seriously narrow minded, naive, and judgmental af.
Miscers get rustled that women judge them on looks, height, career, etc, then judge women simply on age.

Wait.

Are you putting your own religious embrace in line with being a cat lady or a Zumba junkie?

You've spit so much truth it's almost disturbing.
Basically the point I first meet a woman (usually on short notice if I'm travelling) or even before when messaging they immediately think I'm a "player" and ask like "how can u even be single?". I honestly don't feel like a player because I am genuinely interesting in meeting new and intriguing people, get to know the world, get to know myself, have adventures, fall in love, etc. It just so happens that that can be often easier to find and more enjoyable with women who are romantically or sexually interested in you.

Honest Question: Isn't it a double standard that you "had an obsession", "so many good looking young men", etc. from this tool, yet disregarded what sounds like a nice guy and a nice relationship because Senior Chad was simply doing the same?

No, I was just giving examples of what some single women my age focus on.

Older women need dink too bruh!

Oh, well when I started seeing this guy, I deleted Tinder and became faithful to him without him asking. Then it turns out he had a Tinder profile going, so I became paranoid about STDs. Honestly seeing him on social media with other women in Australia and Europe just turned me into a ball of anxiety.

I felt insecure because he was in much better shape with 9% body fat and I was competing with women he dated 20 years younger. Then I started dieting heavily and became physically very ill, so it was unhealthy relationship and very stressful for me to constantly compare myself to other women. I couldn't sleep much for weeks.

But he did start off by being a gentleman and taking me to nice dinners, I give him credit for that. Plus he had no qualms about spending a weekend away with a woman 15 years his senior. He was OK with walking around town in public. Most men on Tinder just want you over to smash.

You're right, he travels a lot so I did label him as a player, but why would I expect him to sit alone in a hotel room? I just had a tough time with the other women and comparing myself, but I was battling an eating disorder, so he just fueled the flame there.

If I was normal and not obsessed with how other women look and compare myself to him and feel upset that I couldn't get his level of body fat natty, then I could have handled it.

I know this is frowned upon on here, but I give women credit on those types of apps. Think about if you were a single dude and could basically pick and choose who you wanted to sleep with. Most guys would have 365 different lays a year in that case. For any women that isn't a land beast that is a reality on those apps.

Kind of true seeing as the Sea Beasts still do extremely well

It sad to think someone who seems as level headed as you do, could get swept up in the world of tinder so easily. Given how much of a confidence boost it gave you, would you say it was enough to have effected a LTR or marriage had you been in one at the time?

What worries me is let's say you found your 'perfect' girl and you've been together for a decade, and for whatever reason she finds tinder and ****s around on it and gets all these feelings of being wanted again, even the most loyal may steer it seems. ****ty

Id go as far to say LOL at anyone 28 or older on tinder thats a female.

I love girls that are 20-25 living the yolo life, then out of nowhere become old and undesirable.

This is ridiculous. What about women who couldn't have kids? Or just plain didn't want them? Or maybe decided that becoming a doctor and joining Medecins sans frontieres was more of a calling than squeezing out a few more human beings that the world just doesn't need? I consider myself fairly red pill but draw the line at labeling women who haven't sprogged as insane, lol.

Why thank you. Not many men on here will call me level-headed. I appreciate the compliment.

Yes I have seen this with married women at my tennis club.

Husband doesn't give her much attention, she downloads Tinder or gets an Instagram with non stop white knights. Technology is a beast.

I remember the days before online dating and cell phones. In order to have an affair, a woman would have had to go to a bar alone to meet a man. She couldn't give him her phone number as her boyfriend/husband might pick up. She couldn't go out with her girlfriends because they'd think she is a sloot.

So it was very difficult for a woman to cheat before 2000. Now with technology in 2 minutes she can download Tinder or create an Instagram account and ride the cawk carousel, and throw away 15 years of marriage and kids for the hit of constant attention.

Even my female friends get hit up on ******** from high school boyfriends who ask them to have affairs.

The happily married women I know have zero social media, because there is too much temptation from thirsty orbiters out in the digital world.

Meh, I'm 35, have used the app several times. Usually go under 30 tho for less craziness.

Jesus' mother didn't have trouble cheating on Joseph.

One of the criteria I had for who I want to marry, is a woman who doesn't have any social media. Guys would laugh at me whenever I brought this up, saying it's impossible/unrealistic/over-controlling, but your post reaffirms my thoughts on the matter. Thank you for your brutally honest posts, it's so interesting to read from a female's POV.

Lol seen from other married women?


YOU ARE A MARRIED WOMAN YOURSELF who cucks her husband any chance you get. Just lol.

Question: do you refer just to desperation causing drama, or do you mean real psycho stuff tends to break out in 30s?