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post 1481665391 02-01-2017, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
I recently went out on a date with a woman.

Her drinks apparently hit her harder than she expected.

So, she asked me if I had put something in her drink.

I was like wtf, no. Why is your first thought after having a stiff drink if I had spiked your drink?

she apologized, and said she didn't mean anything by it


Then I asked her what she would have expected me to respond if I had in fact put something in her drink, "yes, yes I did put something in your drink"
Hope you didnt smash or there be some rape claims coming your way soon brah
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Originally Posted By MuckSnapper⏩
Apparently you have a high level of corruption.

What other chitty stuff are you referring to though?
A big problem we have is that highly educated people are leaving the country to work abroad as there aren't as many/as good oppurtunities here, the biggest city (capital) has just over 300k people so if you're into big metropolitan cities there aren't any.
If your aspirations are to have a family and live a normal, modest life I honestly don't think you can do much better than this though.
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It's really not that much effort, and kind of becomes second nature. What else are you going to do while walking around? Day dream?
Yes, i can literally day dream, have headphones on and walk through the the city any time of the day and have never felt scared.
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post 1481665431 02-01-2017, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17⏩
I used to be like this until I got jumped in broad daylight in Paris
I'm not really surprised. Paris is sketchy as hell. That was one city I really did watch my back everywhere I went.
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post 1481665521 02-01-2017, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By f00d⏩
Only when I'm alone at night. I'm not worried on campus in the middle of the day when everyone is around. That's a little silly.
That IS silly, not caring because the sun is out.

Good luck to you.
post 1481665831 02-01-2017, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
TBH u do not even have to be hot, just vulnerable
I think its testament to just how inferior miscers are socially...people seem to attribute everything to looks

abuse of the sexual kind, rape, hell most crime in general is really aboutpower. People get off of feeling more powerful than others, some will actually work towards becoming powerful people...plenty others will simply target those who are weaker.

Whilst harassment may decrease if you're not as attractive as a HBB there will still be harassment if you've even remotely fukkable (which is the case for about 70% of the female population)
I just think the number of actual men that will willingly rape is a very, very small percentage of the population. And someone whos going to do so likely will not care if you have a weapon. Thats a mighty big risk to take. Were definitely talking less than 5% of the population that would randomly rape, within the u.s. at least

Homeless people are prob the biggest worry
post 1481666121 02-01-2017, 10:40 AM
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I remember walking down the sidewalk at night in my parents suburban neighborhood that is extremely safe and nothing ever happens. Two girls were coming the opposite direction. They crossed to the other side of the street not to cross paths with me. Just fukin lol.

My job is in the ghetto. Most people are scared to go far from the building. I go out on runs at lunch no fuks given.

I think females have just been evolved to be super paranoid because for most of history, a lot of situations were really risky for them. In most places in first world counties, it's just completely unnecessary paranoia. I know they'll all disagree with this, but there are a lot of risks you take in life that are more risky than any of these situations they are acting crazy in yet no one is paranoid (every time you get in a car for example).
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post 1481666241 02-01-2017, 10:41 AM
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Did you miss the part where I said there are tons of people around...you know since most people work and go to school and therefore are on campus during the day?

I'm just confused since you did quote that part of my post. Do you even read brah?
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post 1481666391 02-01-2017, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By bustermac⏩
That IS silly, not caring because the sun is out.

Good luck to you.
He's right you know. It's even more dangerous for hot girls.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...City-home.html

hbb gets raped and killed while out for a jog
post 1481666541 02-01-2017, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted By krazy33⏩
I just think the number of actual men that will willingly rape is a very, very small percentage of the population. And someone whos going to do so likely will not care if you have a weapon. Thats a mighty big risk to take. Were definitely talking less than 5% of the population that would randomly rape, within the u.s. at least

Homeless people are prob the biggest worry
Rape isn't the only crime committed against women you know.
post 1481666621 02-01-2017, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Intruder26⏩
Hope you didnt smash or there be some rape claims coming your way soon brah
Never smash crazy
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post 1481666751 02-01-2017, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By bustermac⏩
Rape isn't the only crime committed against women you know.
Murder?

Even still.. pretty large risk

All of them with pretty severe consequences if theyre carried through

Better to be safe than sorry but like i said i think its largely made up
post 1481666891 02-01-2017, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By MrGreenTea⏩
He's right you know. It's even more dangerous for hot girls.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...City-home.html

hbb gets raped and killed while out for a jog
What university campus did this take place on?
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post 1481667291 02-01-2017, 10:48 AM
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You should always be aweir of your surroundings imo. I like to keep relaxed but alert at same time, never had a problem, Im not small I guess thats that, also military confidence and growing up in poor neighbourhood u just dont give AF, brb every weeking walking back home semi drunk at 3am no ****s given
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post 1481667521 02-01-2017, 10:49 AM
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There's international students from countries where rape is like saying hello and they eyeball every woman.
Then you have the guys, reading PUA blogs, who hangout on campus pretending to be engineering students and slipping roofies into drinks.
post 1481667811 02-01-2017, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By f00d⏩
What university campus did this take place on?
Says it was along a beach near some tall marsh, so not on a college campus.

Never mind. I can see you're being sarcastic.
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Men are victims of violent crime more than women are overall. We're murdered at around a 2:1 rate compared to females.
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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2nd post in this thread but wanted to lol just lol @ broad daylight.

You think everything happens after midnight? Certainly nothing good does, but there are way more targets out in "broad daylight". Combine that with the sense of security the sun provides, and the pluralistic ignorance people apply to extreme situations, and you have a prime hunting ground for anyone deranged enough.
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I make my girl carry around pepper spray, and also taught her the keys between the fingers technique. So she can burn and punch stab a motherfu*ker if I'm not around.
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im always on alert when im out with family, otherwise no im not on alert unless out of town
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Originally Posted By lntense⏩
I make my girl carry around pepper spray, and also taught her the keys between the fingers technique. So she can burn and punch stab a motherfu*ker if I'm not around.
Rest easy brah. Jamal and Tyrone are taking good care of her when you aren't around.
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Originally Posted By f00d⏩
What university campus did this take place on?
Well if you believe it always safe no matter where you are, as long as it is day time, then more power to you.
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Originally Posted By FriendOfFrank⏩
Rest easy brah. Jamal and Tyrone are taking good care of her when you aren't around.
I am Jamal you cuck.
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ITT: i should rob miscers
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I am not aware at all and I like to walk everywhere by myself, even at nights. I should be more aware, though.
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Not too much worry during the day out in the open. But for evenings or night, yeah.
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Originally Posted By Arkileon⏩
ITT: i should rob miscers
But aren't you a manlet?
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I am not aware at all and I like to walk everywhere by myself, even at nights. I should be more aware, though.
I swear if I saw you walking alone at night....








































I'd probably be too afraid to approach, go home, play games, cry myself to sleep.
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Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff⏩
So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like and do we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer. Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night, checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks she checks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
If you arent constantly aware of your surroundings you are just a future victim. The false sense of security some guys have is mind blowing.

The wear headphones thing is actually bad though you shouldnt block your hearing so people dont talk to you, walk with purpose and a slight scowl and not many people are likely to talk to you, also saying no and keep walking if someone tries to grab your attention. You want to be able to hear if someone is coming up behind you
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Yeah I'm aware of my surroundings at night. There's a difference between going places where bad stuff is known to happen, but being alert and just walking without giving anything regarding your safety a mere thought.

Where you live/used to live when you grew up, could very well be a big reason for why you're aware or not aware or your surroundings.
If you replied "I DON'T BECAUSE I'M ALPHA AS FUKKKK", my bet is you're middel/upper middle class and actually 'soft'. Ayyy
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