Pitfalls of not living in a big city, matched/messaged a lot of girls and their friend's lately.

1. Went out on a date a couple months ago, went well, made out at the end. She acted kinda weird after first she didn't seem that interested, then she did, then timing didn't work out on both our parts, kinda was just unfinished. Few weeks later message a girl on pof, her response is "You got drinks with my friend _______. Threesome?" She wasn't srs.

2. Messaged girl 1 on pof, got number, made plans for a few days later. Message girl 2 that night, discussed drinks, got number. Couple days later girl 2 messages me "You're going out with my friend girl 1 on Tuesday" Messaged girl 1 she laughed it off, said it was fine. I was worried cuz i used the exact same game on both, same opener, same i'll text you something dirty, etc. Went out with girl 1 and after a few drinks she started complaining that i texted the same stuff to her friend acted all emotional about it. She still initiated making out at the bar, and then hooking up in her car afterwards. Ended up texting for a couple days then she ghosted me. Think my texts after implied i was mainly just looking for sex, which for her, was true.

3. Talked to a girl on OKC a couple months back, we just lost touch, but then she matched me on bumble yesterday. Exchange a couple messages and ask her for drinks and she says yes. As that's going on i check a match with a girl im waiting to open me, who's even hotter, and they are in each other's pictures lol. Don't know if she'll even open me, but not sure how to play it.


Also when i first signed up for tinder a couple years ago, one day i messaged 2 girls the bf and gf line, and they both kept responding to me with the exact same responses. After like 5 messages i checked their pics and they were in each others pics.

And thought of another one, messaging a girl on tinder, all of a sudden i get a snap from a girl i had matched with a ways back and she flaked, its a picture of her friends phone with our convo they were together at the bar during our convo. We laughed about it, but the new girl went nc

Had some nuclear meltdowns from girls who are sat together receiving the same openers from me.
'You're sending the exact same msgs to my friend you ****!'
'So, ive got tons of matches to get through. Btw you're the uglier out of the 2'

Lol, if you like one of them and have matched with her friend, delete the uglier one to salvage your chances

Essentially this. Unless you determined via messaging then you're on a somewhat "regular date", but it's with a Tinderella so chances are at midnight her glass slippers fall off and she just wants the D. You won't know until you get there because every moment leading up she'll play the princess.

Once had two brazilian girls fuk with me. Made plans to see #1 then on the way to the bar to meet her matched #2 and convod #2 (not even realizing #1 was in one of her profile pics)... Then #1 txts me shes gonna be late and a few minutes later txts me a pic of her and #2, both with their phones by their faces and on both their screens was my tinder profile. Must have been a #3 that took the pic.

Ive gotten messaged; "you fuked my friend" or something like that but never figured out who the friend was.

Also when you deal with brazilians, latinas, even jews and italians to some extent in some parts - they keep together- so Ive matched Colombians then seen other Colombians ive mTched on thier ig, match brazilians, then seen other brazilians i matched on their ig etc...

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This was interdasting. Im running the same tinder account on an iphone and droid. This match disappeared on the iPhone but remained on the droid. I thought she unmatched me and there was a bug with the droid so messaged her thinking it will say "error message could not be sent" or some chit. But nope.

Hahahahah OK. Hope you're a Chad.

Bumble is a flawed premise. Women *can not* and will not initiate, no matter how much feminism tells them they need to take charge. It's not in their biology.

I've gone to 15-20 messages a week on Bumble this time last year to one message every two weeks, and my profile has gotten better. Bumble is dead in San Francisco, or the Chads have taken over.

I've had success on bumble and im definitely not a chad. I definitely get less matches on bumble, but there's less people. And if tinder didn't have superlikes or boosts it'd probably be pretty similar.

It is a flawed premise though.

Just because women "initiate" doesn't change anything. It really doesn't matter who messages first, when you've already matched. The mutual right swipe is the initiating. And then secondly, once the girl messages, typically with "hey," it goes right back to normal dating roles, im driving the conversation, asking her out, etc.

All that's fine, its another way to meet girls, but its not any different than other apps.

If they made an okcupid type site where the girls had to message first that might change things. If girls were the ones going through profiles, and reaching out to guys who may or may not find them attractive. But that app would probably fail, because most girls don't want to actually take control, and they enjoy the ego boost of non stop messages coming in, even if they are from guys they have no interest in

I just cannot believe someone would threaten me like that last night.

Then he told me to come fight him at 8am, just lol...


@spade here go brah!



Actually there are so many of these unicorn chicks that I'm thinking about changing my profile to something along the lines of scoring a gf for access to the unicorns.



Shucks! Gonna straight invite her over later tho.

How do you even converse with them when things that you totally disagree on come up? (like the liberal stuff?)
Do you just fake it till you make it?

If I totally disagree on some chit where I passionately believe whatever it may be, I get totally turned off and can't even get hard to fuk unless theyre really hot.

fuk bumble. I get matches on every platform, including Okcupid but bumble.. literally none. Using the same pics too.
On the other hand, friend gets matches left and right on bumble but cant pull when they meet him and find out hes 5'5" and no muscle

have no idea wtfs going on

Things have been going really well for me recently.. dates increasing, better response rates, less NC's. Most dates have been a turn off for me where I didn't even want to kiss them or they didn't spark my dink.

This beauty tonight is most likely going to spark my dink. Taking the 40 min drive to her place (she suggested I go to her place rather than her come to mine).
I am going to make her dinner and we're drinking red wine.

Any tips on keeping a sexual mood, fast escalation or talking about stuff that makes me more attractive?

Yup. Can I ask what city you're in? I think it's really city-specific.

OC area

Maybe SF just has your opinion ruined on these datings apps. I'm on the other side of the country.

same, i get fk all on Bumble compared to Tinder and CmB.

do you have a valentine- me

here - no i dont


any good replies to get this date? she is very picky when she replies but she looks good.

@spadelexus which book did you read i have some of them like a whole collection from a long time ago.

was is the game by Neil Strauss

I also have the pickup artist book collection.

Let me know which one could be the best to read I never read them because they were very long lol I do not read at all it is one of my new year's resolutions.

I have read Eliot's book.

Found a chad on bumble

speaking of friends situations, this happened a bit ago

I had messaged one of my first matches after a reset using one of my typical openers + game and talked with her for a bit, got her snap but she ended up just going nc after like 3-4 snaps back and forth. I match with this other girl a bit later and start using the exact same opener + game and end up hooking up/seeing her for a week until all of a sudden I get a snap from girl #1 saying "I see you know my friend" and its a pic of girl #2. Girl #1 kinda laughed it off and went nc again and when I see girl #2 she's kinda pissed I used the same opener/messages but ends up telling me its no big deal although at one point her friend said to her "would you care if i went and ****ed him?" and she tells her its gross and weird.

rip. her friend was hotter

Help brahs

Lol need some advice boyos. Matched w/ a girl and been having a hard time setting up meet cuz of logistics, hit her with direct game, how does sharing a couch and having a deep intellectually driven convo sound, pin you against the wall and kiss you etc. and she said sounds good so likely dtf but she seems hesitant to meet when her flatmate is home and I can't host as I live with family. Anyway I texted her last night asking her what she's doing today and she said nothing - was supposed to be going out but has injured her back so she not sure anymore. Told her it'd be the perfect time for a physiotherapist to come through (that's what I do lol) and she asked if I'd be able to sort her out.

Problem is: I've recently had an acne breakout lol, nothing widespread but I got two big ass cystic pimples on my face, one on the side of my nose and one on the other side next to my nose, and some cystic acne on the back of my neck. Tbh I don't know if this will be healing up any time soon cause they've already been around a week and they're the types without whiteheads lol. Now you're probably thinking stop being a ****git and just go, but I'm not really a chad and already think the pics of me on my profile are quite flattering as it is, so don't wanna show up as an ugly kunt and blow it with her. Just to remind you, I've removed my profile from the stack after the whole catfish thing so this is one of the last few match's whose number I have. Should I try and get myself an invite or should I just go NC and hope her flatmate is out and she still has interest another day somewhere down the road where I don't feel so gross?

Haha bro know what u mean. I stop taking fish oil and my acne popped up a lot for some reason. Don't know if its correlated

About her, if she is still talking to u after so long, waiting until acne clears doesn;t seem bad

But if chance is bad, might as well go but u risk fukin it up unless she is very nice

gonna type u guys a disgusting whale story rn. I will have night mares.big shoulders brah
how big was she?

FAT tinder story = DISGUSTING
CLIFFS only

-Match with cute white girl on tinder, aka whale hunting. Angel pics
-Snaps some pics and its fat disgusting from chest down, it explodes.
-Make an excuse she is too far
-She gets mad that she been tryin to get laid off tinder for the past 5 hrs. (LOL even for whales), guys wanted to take her bar hopping instead of going to her hotel to fuk or want to plan it for tomorrow she complained. WTF
-She says she is on her PERIOD and is horny as hell. WTF
-I say WTF u tryin to get laid on ur peroid.
-Whale says she fuked 2 guys in 2 days on it "and they liked it" "one was a porn star"
-I threw up and said, "cause they are sexless losers who get the scrapes of whatever they can"
-I tell her to get an STD test cause HIV takes 6 months to show and I am sure she fuked more then just 2 guys in 2 days lol. Blood all over it.
-She says I am offending her. I said "Whale you DISGUSTED me, I cant sleep tonight. gonna go tell my misc brahs" SRS

Also when I called later for the laughs, I pretended to be some random black guy with a BBC and she was getting excited tryin to lure him into her hotel. LOL. TOld the sloth I would have been mad as fuk if she was on her period if i had came over.

the above story is what makes me very cautious with these sloths man. SHe was only 25, white and from WI in for a biz trip.


So glade I asked for live pics and continued interrogating. I'm sure she is spreading dem superSTDs. Said she would be down for giving head, ass and period sex. WTF

Wash your face every day, eat fruit, drink tea, get enough sleep. If it starts to get better, plan something a few days ahead and do something at night/drive out/watch a movie.

Learned this the hard way. I found that detective work + talking for a modest (not everyday or for hours at a time) amount helps substantially. The last 3 I went NC because I found ******** profiles and they flat out didn't look like their pictures.

^Lol! What's wrong with period sex? I just had it yesterday. You're on spread too brah.



I was trying to find the perfect gif for this girl and accidentally sent a random gif. wentbetterthanexpected.jpg



Aloof game is where it's at.

[QUOTE=American Psycho post_id=1483079061]^Lol! What's wrong with period sex? I just had it yesterday. You're on spread too brah.



I was trying to find the perfect gif for this girl and accidentally sent a random gif. wentbetterthanexpected.jpg

[img]http://i.imgur.com/vHvBpVYl.jpg[img]

Aloof game is where it's at.[/QUOTE]What percentage of your convos go like this? I like your style but if I'm not being super deliberate about everything I type it usually just fizzles out. Guess I need to improve my physique a bit, or maybe it's just the location, but mirin' how chill your girls always seem.

Had more matches on my fresh fake ******** with 70 random friends in one day with Plus than I have had on my non plus account with an old fake ******** I've reset once, with basically the same pics, which i've had for weeks (but recently reset).

It seems worth creating fake ********s, getting over 50 friends so you dont need to enter your cell number, otherwise im sure Elo is throttled on multi-reset accounts.

Once a ******** account has been reset on Tinder, i change my name to something random like, 'Donu Usa' (don't use) deactivate it then delete the Yahoo email account associated with it. I'm sure FB will delete it in a few months if it's never reactivated again

Also lmao, what is that a scene from? So appropriate