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post 1483427041 02-13-2017, 05:33 PM
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You're giving her everything she wants, time, attention, conversation, compliments and you're not getting what you want in return. So instead of punishing her so to speak, you fall into the trap of continuing down the path of this weird friendzone stage. She knows that even if she doesn't kiss you she's still going to get what she wants.

You need to cut this BS snapchat/messaging gay friend **** and deal with her in person. If after a reasonable time she keeps witholding physical affection towards you, firstly ask her why, but then you need to break it down to her and explain that, you like her and would like to explore your options, but she's going to need to start giving up more from her side for it to continue.

You're playing the scarcity game over abundance.. I know it's easier said than done but that's how you've gotta go.

Also, dinner is terrible for first dates
Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Bruhs! Update!
So I asked to see her tomorrow night and she said she has plans with her friends and they'd be mad if she canceled. Instead she wants to see me after noon around 1 when she gets out of class. What are the chances she's playing me and seeing someone else later that night? Legit sketched out right now.
Now she's making you work around her. Say you're busy during the day and ask her when shes free later in the week.
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post 1483428551 02-13-2017, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Rocawear11⏩
You're giving her everything she wants, time, attention, conversation, compliments and you're not getting what you want in return. So instead of punishing her so to speak, you fall into the trap of continuing down the path of this weird friendzone stage. She knows that even if she doesn't kiss you she's still going to get what she wants.

You need to cut this BS snapchat/messaging gay friend **** and deal with her in person. If after a reasonable time she keeps witholding physical affection towards you, firstly ask her why, but then you need to break it down to her and explain that, you like her and would like to explore your options, but she's going to need to start giving up more from her side for it to continue.

You're playing the scarcity game over abundance.. I know it's easier said than done but that's how you've gotta go.

Also, dinner is terrible for first dates


Now she's making you work around her. Say you're busy during the day and ask her when shes free later in the week.
Too fukin late. Already agreed on it. And I'm going to break it down to her tomorrow, srs. I got options, I ain't trippin. If chit doesn't workout tomorrow and I feel like I'm friend zoned, which I will for sure get a clarity of whether I am or not, then I will delete her from everything and won't awknowldege her anymore. I've been nice but I won't be taken advantag of. Thanks for your advice though
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post 1483428621 02-13-2017, 05:49 PM
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post 1483428871 02-13-2017, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Too fukin late. Already agreed on it. And I'm going to break it down to her tomorrow, srs. I got options, I ain't trippin. If chit doesn't workout tomorrow and I feel like I'm friend zoned, which I will for sure get a clarity of whether I am or not, then I will delete her from everything and won't awknowldege her anymore. I've been nice but I won't be taken advantag of. Thanks for your advice though
Good job, just don't come in too hostile as chicks hate confrontation. Make sure you listen to what she has to say first.
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post 1483429181 02-13-2017, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Rocawear11⏩
Good job, just don't come in too hostile as chicks hate confrontation. Make sure you listen to what she has to say first.
Thank you brotha. Would rep but on rc
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post 1483440021 02-13-2017, 07:19 PM
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If you are just trying to get laid gl brah. At this point I would just friendzone her to piss her off lol.
post 1483440711 02-13-2017, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Bruhs! Update!
So I asked to see her tomorrow night and she said she has plans with her friends and they'd be mad if she canceled. Instead she wants to see me after noon around 1 when she gets out of class. What are the chances she's playing me and seeing someone else later that night? Legit sketched out right now.
Idk brah, if she really wanted to see you, she'd ditch her friends.

Also agree with the brah above, this seems like too much work/bullshyt. This the only sloot you're talking to rn?
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post 1483441001 02-13-2017, 07:27 PM
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You should just ask her face to face about it the next time you see her, straight up
post 1483441921 02-13-2017, 07:36 PM
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post 1483442421 02-13-2017, 07:41 PM
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Op what exact country is she from ?

have talked,dated east euros in the past, so i can give you my 5cents once you tell me
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post 1483443041 02-13-2017, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted By PeteJonesHTX⏩
Idk brah, if she really wanted to see you, she'd ditch her friends.

Also agree with the brah above, this seems like too much work/bullshyt. This the only sloot you're talking to rn?
She is other than the thirsty sloots that hit me up on SC that I ignore. I'm not trying to just sleep with her to answer other posters questions.
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post 1483443151 02-13-2017, 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted By ItzcoolBrah⏩
Op what exact country is she from ?

have talked,dated east euros in the past, so i can give you my 5cents once you tell me
She's from Ukraine. I think I mentioned it in the op brotha
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post 1483443541 02-13-2017, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
She's from Ukraine. I think I mentioned it in the op brotha
Man, ukrainian girls seem extremely detached, ive seriously never seen one ukrainian girl get attached to a guy, its like in their dna not to lol.

man call me paranoid, but even in your pic she has this cold look in her eyes like she knows shes gonna let you down.

Idk what youre after, if she keeps hanging out with you then most likely youll atleast hook up but I'll tell you right now bro this girl will never ever get attached to you, not your fault either

slav chicks are weird, theyre extremely independent but at the same time put extreme emphasis on a man having money and being able to look after them


you seem handsome, if you have money too, i reckon you should keep it up and see what happens, but i wouldnt get attached
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post 1483443631 02-13-2017, 07:50 PM
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Op what are you trying to achieve here? If you are just trying to get laid, move on.

If you are trying to get a gf material girl, then have some patience and see what she is about. But also don't spend hours of your time doing chit with her.

It's not rocket science.
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You look familiar OP, you live on the east coast?
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post 1483445351 02-13-2017, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By whiteIveySon⏩
You look familiar OP, you live on the east coast?
Nah, pnw
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post 1483445531 02-13-2017, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Nah, pnw
Jebi se
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She has someone back in the Ukraine. Srs
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Originally Posted By whiteIveySon⏩
Jebi se
Lolol *******
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post 1483446171 02-13-2017, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By JohnTS1⏩
Eastern European girls who live stateside can fuk right off.

All conniving materialistic money hungry kunts, srs.

Date a latina and you'll be much much happier.
This

USSR women are the most evil of girls ive dated. Legit understand why every vampire story takes place over there
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
This

USSR women are the most evil of girls ive dated. Legit understand why every vampire story takes place over there
Why? Please elaborate. She's the first EE girl I've talked to since I spent 6 years with a mixed girl. Are they likely to cheat? Tell me tell me
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post 1483446661 02-13-2017, 08:16 PM
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chick looks fat as phuck bruv....steer clear
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Originally Posted By miscinginbed⏩
chick looks fat as phuck bruv....steer clear
She's not. Her body is perfect imo
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post 1483447731 02-13-2017, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Why? Please elaborate. She's the first EE girl I've talked to since I spent 6 years with a mixed girl. Are they likely to cheat? Tell me tell me
The ones i met were cheaters and liars across the board. Especially if physically attractive. Im sure ugly russian girls dont cheat (less options) but hot ones ive met do and feel entitled to it.
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Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
The ones i met were cheaters and liars across the board. Especially if physically attractive. Im sure ugly russian girls dont cheat (less options) but hot ones ive met do and feel entitled to it.
Dang lol.
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Originally Posted By ItzcoolBrah⏩
Man, ukrainian girls seem extremely detached, ive seriously never seen one ukrainian girl get attached to a guy, its like in their dna not to lol.

man call me paranoid, but even in your pic she has this cold look in her eyes like she knows shes gonna let you down.

Idk what youre after, if she keeps hanging out with you then most likely youll atleast hook up but I'll tell you right now bro this girl will never ever get attached to you, not your fault either

slav chicks are weird, theyre extremely independent but at the same time put extreme emphasis on a man having money and being able to look after them


you seem handsome, if you have money too, i reckon you should keep it up and see what happens, but i wouldnt get attached
Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
This

USSR women are the most evil of girls ive dated. Legit understand why every vampire story takes place over there
Originally Posted By GravityLee⏩
The ones i met were cheaters and liars across the board. Especially if physically attractive. Im sure ugly russian girls dont cheat (less options) but hot ones ive met do and feel entitled to it.
You gotta be a slav to date a slav lol
Most clingy women ever. Worse than mamasitas srs. One added my parents on russian social media, another hit up my grandparents? Apparently her parents have connections to the other side of the country LMAO
You guys are weak if you think of them as cold lol do you expect her to think about you every breathing minute? And if you can't play games expect to come in last place.
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Good looking couple, srs. But your shirt is ripped oP.
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Originally Posted By Tormoz⏩
Slavic girls either put out immediately or never do. You have been friendzoned so gl.

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Originally Posted By Tormoz⏩
You gotta be a slav to date a slav lol
Rubbish.

Slovakian girl I was friends with for a while in college several years back, I slept with after 10-12 months.

Another Russian student chick I met from Tinder last year (who wasmarried to some guy back home), I ended up going out with a few times and smashing.
Originally Posted By ItzcoolBrah⏩
slav chicks are weird, theyre extremely independent but at the same time put extreme emphasis on a man having money and being able to look after them


you seem handsome, if you have money too, i reckon you should keep it up and see what happens, but i wouldnt get attached
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Originally Posted By Tormoz⏩
You gotta be a slav to date a slav lol
Most clingy women ever. Worse than mamasitas srs. One added my parents on russian social media, another hit up my grandparents? Apparently her parents have connections to the other side of the country LMAO
You guys are weak if you think of them as cold lol do you expect her to think about you every breathing minute? And if you can't play games expect to come in last place.
This.

Have dated a few eastern european chicks myself...never really had any bad experiences, but then I never even contemplated the concept of them offering me any kind of emotional support nor did I show them any weakness. I also notice German women arent very far off either.

Unlike western women they dont feign independence when they're, in truth, desperate for affection and they genuinely like sex. Most of the english women I smashed hated sex/had no particular liking for it but would do it to seek male approval as they didnt have much to offer in way of looks.
Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
Rubbish.

Slovakian girl I was friends with for a while in college several years back, I slept with after 10-12 months.
This.

Miscer fear the imaginary friendzone because they're beta and spend way too much time consuming feminist ideas of female sexuality. Women are NEVER that black and white. Plenty of girls who made me wait and I smashed...if a girl wants to fukk u she will fukk u. Difference is that women dont really have an off/on "wanna fuk" switch like men...their sexuality works more like a threshold because they dont desire sex the way we do.

The very idea of the "friendzone" is why so many miscers sit there crying about getting cheated on/meeting whores...they fukk the lowest hanging fruit

Can guarantee the sloot in the OP WILL put out. Provided OP doesnt overdo it and remains persistent and aggressive.
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