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post 1484599991 02-22-2017, 11:53 AM
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Found out my sister is cheating on her fiance, do i aware him? (srs)

Im going with no since there is family involved.


So my sister is getting married in June with this cuck who is like one year away from becoming a doctor, he has done all the **** and he will open his medical care facility after he's done. He has been busting his ass for the last 6 years or so, working with minimal pay just learning to be a doctor and ****. The dude is super nice, i picture him as the typical miscer focused on work and making money thinking his girl would love him for that.


I really like the dude, he comes to visit like every 4 months or so and stays for a weekend at our house. He's cools as fuk, a legit nice dude but just seems so insecure, and on the other hand my sloot sister gets bored im guessing and has gone out with multiple dudes while he's out of town working his ass off, claiming they are "Just friends". Pretty sure the DR doesnt know **** about that. Now just today while i was going out for fasted cardio early in the morning, she was just getting home with some random chad and i saw them kiss while on the car srs.



Long story short she's fuking chads while her soon to be husband is working his ass off out of town to give her a good life. On top of that they already have talked about how the marriage will be, the contract and ****, and she will buttfuk him when they sign that contract, basically she gets super easy life for the rest of times.



Dont know what to do, on one hand shes my sister and id be ruining her future, she's already 30 dont know how could she recover from this slut expose, on the other hand the guy is super nice and is going to become one of those miserable cucks that probably end up shooting themselves on the head. What do?







Cliffs:

-Sister marrying in june with doctor cuck
-Doctor cuck is a super nice, hard working dude but kind of cucky and beta
- Sister is a sloot, has cheated on him with multiple chads and a few Todds
- Doctor thinks she stays home every weekend reading and watching movies while she's actually out with chads lol
-They gonna marry and she's gonna sing a hell of a good contract for her
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You tell your sister to break the news to him before you do....but secretly...you don't plan on breaking the news at all. Put some pressure on her to come clean, but I wouldn't destroy your relationship over it.
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post 1484600541 02-22-2017, 11:58 AM
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Tell him. Your sister sounds like an awful person and deserves it.
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Damn...


Edit: At the very least, I would confront her about it...not sure what to do otherwise..
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Originally Posted By TelephoneLines⏩
You tell your sister to break the news to him before you do....but secretly...you don't plan on breaking the news at all. Put some pressure on her to come clean, but I wouldn't destroy your relationship over it.
This. You have to put the ball in her court, otherwise you'll probably destroy any relationship you had with your sister.
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Originally Posted By JT11RTR⏩
Tell him. Your sister sounds like an awful person and deserves it.
She's a very good sister with me though, has bailed me of problems many times. Why would i end my RS with her because of some cuck?
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piittb of ur sister
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Originally Posted By TelephoneLines⏩
You tell your sister to break the news to him before you do....but secretly...you don't plan on breaking the news at all. Put some pressure on her to come clean, but I wouldn't destroy your relationship over it.
Honestly would do this.

she is family, and awaring him will make things extremely complicated not only for her and you, but possibly also the rest of your immediate family, depending on their relationships with you and her. The dude deserves to know though.
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He is probably the biggest pushover ever. I say tell him anonymously. They will both be miserable in a marriage, because he doesn't know how to be a Man. He will be working his ass off and coming home to a woman that doesn't respect him. And for her, she will resent this pushover the entire time, and abuse him and wave her big dick around whenever she can, all the while cheating.

Best for both of them to not be together. She needs a man, and he needs to learn how to be one.

I see this as saving them both from a miserable marriage, destined to fail
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Would confront my sister for sure. speak out my mind and tell her that the end result is her fault. Can only imagine that if the marriage will go through, after 5, may 10 years, she will want a divorse and he will end up losing most of the things he probably paid for and sleeping on the couch of his parents.
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Doesnt really matter what you do. This will play itself out in its own time. he most likely wont beleive you as he will have to start doubting himself and thats hard for men to do. especially high performing men like a doctor.

telling her wont do any good because she will try to female logic her way out of it which will make no sense to anyone but her.

It will play itself out in due time, most likely after the wedding when it will cost him more money. sad but this is how it will go down 99.999% of the time.
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Aware him. She doesn't deserve anything. It's on her for being a fkn idiot if she can't recover.

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Personally, I'd go a different route. I'd probably just tell close family about it and let her know I'm not coming to her ****-show of a wedding if she doesn't call it off. Will embarrass the **** outta her forever if she decides to go through with it because the people closest to her will know she's twisted.
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post 1484601241 02-22-2017, 12:03 PM
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Your sister is a sloot and scum. Aware the husband, or at least make her do it. Only reason she's nice to you is because she probably gets something out of it.
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Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
Doesnt really matter what you do. This will play itself out in its own time. he most likely wont beleive you as he will have to start doubting himself and thats hard for men to do. especially high performing men like a doctor.

telling her wont do any good because she will try to female logic her way out of it which will make no sense to anyone but her.

It will play itself out in due time, most likely after the wedding when it will cost him more money. sad but this is how it will go down 99.999% of the time.
So just take the back seat and watch the **** hit the fan? (Mostly for him, she will be ok im sure lol)

Sounds like the best option TBH
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Yes you should but not without solid evidence to back these accusations up. Cause lets be real if you were to say '' yeah bro my sister is cheating on you with a couple of Chads and Todds '' pretty sure he would think you're bull****ting. Would it make him concerenced certainly would but not enough to actually not marry her. I suggest to just take pictures of her and her chads when they're together but in secret ofcourse so just stay under the radar don't let your sister know that you know about it though however nor should you tell her that you might aware the dude as this could make things end up bad for you aswell

On the other hand is it worth ruining your RL with your sister? Yup it is, think about it this way relationships can be restored but your sister is basically leeching off of a friendly and kind hearted man and is eventually gonna end up ruining that dudes life and if that doesn't convince you enough your sister is an sloot and you approve of it by allowing her to give bj's to random chads whilst she's in a relationship
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Aware him so your sister can continue to be the sloot she is and he doesn't get fukked over by marrying someone who's likely to take half his money. Bros before hoes even if it is your sister
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That's a tough spot to be in...
Originally Posted By TelephoneLines⏩
You tell your sister to break the news to him before you do....but secretly...you don't plan on breaking the news at all. Put some pressure on her to come clean, but I wouldn't destroy your relationship over it.
Would probably do this^ I'd definitely let sloot sister know she's put you in chitty situation and make her feel like chit for being a piece of chit person.

Edit* on second thought I would aware the guy if he is the way you describe him. This could destroy his life if they get married and divorce because she is a sloot.. all of his hard work being taken away from him. Fuk that.
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It's not right letting this guy marry your sister and almost certainly end up divorced and losing half his wealth to her KNOWING she is slooting already. Put yourself in the guys shoes.

However, I know blood is thicker than water, and if she's as good of sis as you say this isn't easy.

I would suggest what the other miscer said:
You tell your sister to break the news to him before you do....but secretly...you don't plan on breaking the news at all. Put some pressure on her to come clean, but I wouldn't destroy your relationship over it.
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Initially my thought was "just talk to her about it, try to get her to see what a POS it makes her." But then I read that she's basically already said she'd f*ck him (not in a good way) as soon as they got married and he signed the papers. She seems like a terrible person dude. You should tell the guy. Srs.
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No. You set your SISTER straight.

Also: pics of sister.
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no pics

this happened

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I just want to know what the outcome in the misc would be if it was:

"Brother is cheating on his fiance, do I aware her before she makes the biggest mistake of her life?"


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Negotiate with sister. When she gets half his stuff you want half of that stuff.
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Get some proof and then tell him anonymously. With proof he can't say it's a lie, and doing it anonymously will save your relationship with your sister. But honestly why would you WANT a relationship with such a terrible person?
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Originally Posted By joeysmokes⏩
this happened

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this x2
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Aware him so your sister can continue to be the sloot she is and he doesn't get fukked over by marrying someone who's likely to take half his money. Bros before hoes even if it is your sister
What? That doesnt make sense, why would i aware the guy, he's a basically stranger to me, why would i betray my sister for a stranger dude, not sure if srs.


The cuck is going to definitely break down and when she tries to deny it, say **** like "YOUR BROTHER TOLD ME, HE SENT ME PROOF, HE KNOWS EVERYTHING I KNOW EVERYTHING"


Fuk that, my parents would hate me as well, we are a close family i dont need this ****. The cuck should learn to be a man without someone else sacrificing his fuking family for it
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Originally Posted By TelephoneLines⏩
You tell your sister to break the news to him before you do....but secretly...you don't plan on breaking the news at all. Put some pressure on her to come clean, but I wouldn't destroy your relationship over it.
Do this OP. Either way the man needs to find out, I realize it's your sister and all but man is that ****ed up. I could not knowingly let something like that happen to someone just for **** to hit the fan later and him lose so much.
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As said above, id talk to your sister and threaten her u will tell him if she doesn't but don't tell him of course..
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Originally Posted By HYMENATOR⏩
Negotiate with sister. When she gets half his stuff you want half of that stuff.
Now thats better lol. I kinda dig the guys BMW.



JK i dont want anything to do with this ****ty situation, i never saw **** srs, i dont know ****.
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Force your sister to aware him herself, but if she doesn't, you're going to have to.


Sorry ur sister is a fukkin sloot, but allowing this chit to happen would ruin both of their lives, and you'll hold yourself responsible.
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