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Thread: Girl I've been dating for 3 months suddenly stopped texting

post 1484604291 02-22-2017, 12:28 PM
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Maybe she got tired of waiting? If you guys have been dating for 3 months and still aren't comfortable calling her your girlfriend, assuming she wanted something serious, I'm pretty sure she got tired of waiting and got to another call. I know if I was interested in someone and after three months of dating we wouldn't even call ourselves a couple, I would just go get what I want somewhere else.
post 1484604371 02-22-2017, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Always keep women at arms length. They love to use men until the next best thing comes along
Nah fuk that. Don't let fear and insecurity control you like that. Scared of opening up in case she hurts you. And if does go south, you got hurt but you're a stronger man.
post 1484604831 02-22-2017, 12:31 PM
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Op another guy is in the picture lmao, 3 months of casual dating and she didn't bring up being exclusive? You shouldn't be surprised lol, you were a place holder.
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post 1484605001 02-22-2017, 12:33 PM
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cliffs and pics?
post 1484605451 02-22-2017, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Op another guy is in the picture lmao, 3 months of casual dating and she didn't bring up being exclusive? You shouldn't be surprised lol, you were a place holder.
Man I'm fuking crushed... I'm in grad school and feel like this **** is going to kill my semester.
post 1484605481 02-22-2017, 12:37 PM
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Op she is putting you on NC because she knows she has you fuked up lmao
I wouldn't call it NC I'd say you're more like "on call" when she's bored of her new Chad. When he is at work she will talk to you because she knows you'll be there
post 1484605951 02-22-2017, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted By LuisEnrikee⏩
Op she is putting you on NC because she knows she has you fuked up lmao
I wouldn't call it NC I'd say you're more like "on call" when she's bored of her new Chad. When he is at work she will talk to you because she knows you'll be there
I'm 100% sure she isn't seeing anyone though. She's gonna leave for her masters in 2 months and I'm thinking if she doesn't wanna get serious because of that?
post 1484606311 02-22-2017, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
I'm 100% sure she isn't seeing anyone though. She's gonna leave for her masters in 2 months and I'm thinking if she doesn't wanna get serious because of that?
She's probably pissy about something stupid and playing the who will make contact first game. I think everyone's over thinking this, even though sloots gonna sloot.
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post 1484606421 02-22-2017, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By hammerman1964⏩
Nah fuk that. Don't let fear and insecurity control you like that. Scared of opening up in case she hurts you. And if does go south, you got hurt but you're a stronger man.
No amount of times you get hurt will make you 'stronger'.
post 1484607461 02-22-2017, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By LuisEnrikee⏩
Op she is putting you on NC because she knows she has you fuked up lmao
I wouldn't call it NC I'd say you're more like "on call" when she's bored of her new Chad. When he is at work she will talk to you because she knows you'll be there
THIS! my friend had this same thing happen to him. Was funny af to see his face when he realized.
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post 1484607681 02-22-2017, 12:55 PM
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If she was really into you she wouldn't read your stuff and then proceed not to respond for 12 hrs... Why? Because if she was into you she wouldn't want you to think shes ignoring you and get back to you. If you were on her mind she'd shower you with texts or call whatever.. like the other dude in here said.

Even assuming she was busy, it's not hard to reply "talk later" takes like 1 second.

Honestly my man, you gotta keep them at bay.. nice to be around but if she leaves its whatever. Basically have her like you more than you like her. I've had your situation with EX where she wouldn't reply for hours (for no reason also first gf) and it drove me nuts. Then I was like why should I even care? she isn't better or more important than me and theres other women THAT DO reply and make an effort.
post 1484608231 02-22-2017, 12:59 PM
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you just seem like you show her way too much attention and she got bored.

stop texting your prospects all day, stop making plans for the weekend on a fuucking tuesday, and start acting like you have some actual shiit going on.

you should rarely be initiating conversations via text. it's for logistics. that is the #1 way for someone to get bored of you easily.

make fun plans, execute fun plans, disappear for awhile, lay solid pipe and make that bitch cum. if she strays despite all of that, nothing you can do cuz.
post 1484609311 02-22-2017, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
you just seem like you show her way too much attention and she got bored.

stop texting your prospects all day, stop making plans for the weekend on a fuucking tuesday, and start acting like you have some actual shiit going on.

you should rarely be initiating conversations via text. it's for logistics. that is the #1 way for someone to get bored of you easily.

make fun plans, execute fun plans, disappear for awhile, lay solid pipe and make that bitch cum. if she strays despite all of that, nothing you can do cuz.
Yes on all fronts.

It's sad that it becomes very much like a game, but such is the nature of dating in 2017. The market is skewed in women's favor, so we have to use some strategy to gain the upper hand. I've been burned almost exactly in the same way you were. I didn't even go after the chick, she initiated the whole dating and hanging out, fawned over me. I started to divulge my feelings cause the sex was awesome and I was hooked, and texted her whenever I got the chance, and poof, suddenly she faded away. Started taking longer to reply, flaked on plans and eventually told me she wasn't ready to be too involved with someone or some bull. Even though just weeks before she was texting me goodnight every night.

Like others have said, you can go about your business and just live better without her, and she'll probably come back to you. However, will you still want her after all of that? Unlikely. Sometimes it just doesn't work out, despite how much potential you might have seen in it.
post 1484610131 02-22-2017, 01:17 PM
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Man this chit sucks

There are women out there who wont do this chit, but the vast majority do.

Sucks you have to either plow through bishes or be on the losing end of a lot experiences
post 1484610591 02-22-2017, 01:22 PM
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OP where did you meet this girl?

If you say it was on a dating app/site, then you shouldn't be surprised in the least.
Stop it. Get some help.
post 1484610631 02-22-2017, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By krazy33⏩
Man this chit sucks

There are women out there who wont do this chit, but the vast majority do.

Sucks you have to either plow through bishes or be on the losing end of a lot experiences
or you can just wise up and don't play.
post 1484621001 02-22-2017, 02:44 PM
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Originally Posted By butteredtoast⏩
OP where did you meet this girl?

If you say it was on a dating app/site, then you shouldn't be surprised in the least.
Tinder :/
post 1484621321 02-22-2017, 02:47 PM
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OP still aint said whether he smashed or nah, don't lie bruh, did you or not? it's no shame if you didnt, but it will explain the situation better
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Originally Posted By MitchellPhil⏩
OP still aint said whether he smashed or nah, don't lie bruh, did you or not? it's no shame if you didnt, but it will explain the situation better
I didn't brah, she's way too conservative and I'm pretty sure she'd have freaked the **** out if I made any move. Was just playing it safe and she seemed to be interested as well
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
Tinder :/
Let it go, opie.

There are other bish in the sea. Better just move on.
post 1484621971 02-22-2017, 02:53 PM
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Shes getting fuked by another dude obviously, who cares man, move on with your life.
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
But thing is she was super interested like a week ago, messaging me long paragraphs and making plans to meet up all the time. Wtf happened suddenly, don't get it at all
I guarantee you she probably sucked someone off and she feels absolutely no regret for doing it.
Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
I didn't brah, she's way too conservative and I'm pretty sure she'd have freaked the **** out if I made any move. Was just playing it safe and she seemed to be interested as well
Well w8 this changes the whole discussion...3 months and u haven't fuked her? Lmfao she probably thinks you're gay. Probably explains why she left you.
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lol omg @ all these game playing *******s and their dysfunctional PUA advice. There are so many reasons she could be doing this, you need to tell her straight up how you feel about this, get the actual answer, then make your decision. Don't play games back, you are not a child. Ask her to be honest, who cares if you were too needy or too whatever, because you didn't text back .75 times for each of her texts or because you spoke to her 23% more often than you should or whatever bull**** these ppl do. This is not the path to a loving relationship dude.
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
I didn't brah, she's way too conservative and I'm pretty sure she'd have freaked the **** out if I made any move. Was just playing it safe and she seemed to be interested as well
3 fukin months, you didnt hit it, and you wondering why she aint responding to your bum ass texts?




Well there's your answer. C'mon bro, she see's you as a weak guy, not to mention I can tell you're clingy and giving her way too much attention. Honestly mate, you couldn't have played the game worst, but it's fine, you will learn from this. All that conservative nonsense is bullchit I bet, she'll be fukin other guys. No girl joins tinder to not fuk

You need to be way more assertive and dominant, you should be smashing by the 3rd date. Take the L and move on. And for fuks sake I hope you haven't been splashing cash on this broad, plz learn from this boyo. Onwards and upwards.
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It's over. And you know it.

You can salvage whatever dignity you have left and go NC, or you can look like a little bitch and reaffirm why she left you.
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Originally Posted By Solbrah⏩
lol omg @ all these game playing *******s and their dysfunctional PUA advice. There are so many reasons she could be doing this, you need to tell her straight up how you feel about this, get the actual answer, then make your decision. Don't play games back, you are not a child. Ask her to be honest, who cares if you were too needy or too whatever, because you didn't text back .75 times for each of her texts or because you spoke to her 23% more often than you should or whatever bull**** these ppl do. This is not the path to a loving relationship dude.
So I should call her out on it or just go NC like misc suggested?
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
It's over. And you know it.

You can salvage whatever dignity you have left and go NC, or you can look like a little bitch and reaffirm why she left you.
idk man she was super interested like a week ago
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
So I should call her out on it or just go NC like misc suggested?
End it mate, don't fukin text her again. She or you hasn't escalated any sexual chemistry after 3 months, the relationship is a joke. Move on
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
I didn't brah, she's way too conservative and I'm pretty sure she'd have freaked the **** out if I made any move. Was just playing it safe and she seemed to be interested as well
lmao. Boy oh boy
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
idk man she was super interested like a week ago
If you haven't even smashed she's probably unaware she's even in a relationship.
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