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Thread: Fuark man. Just had another fight with Fiance. Life going nowhere

post 1487380981 03-16-2017, 05:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Rayzor84⏩
If you're engaged, you need to really think. I was engaged when it started and got married anyway thinking the security would calm her down. Once the wedding ring was on it got much worse. Good luck.

Don't be afraid either, I have a fantastic girl now. It works out.
Exactly this, brah. Not even misc bullchit. Listen to the older guys. You're already saying in your OP "life is chit".

It WILL get worse after marriage if you have issues now, and you will then have to deal with the complications of getting divorced. It does work out regardless, and if you have issues you'll later find a better girl, but it saves a lot of pain and embarrassment cutting it off early (before marriage) if it's truly bothering you.
post 1487381021 03-16-2017, 05:02 AM
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2017 and miscers are still getting engaged. Some brahs just want to watch the world burn.
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post 1487381051 03-16-2017, 05:02 AM
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wow 2 pages and nobody mentioned go NC?

misc i am disappoint


so you have 2 jobs and she doesnt have 1? - do you have children? if not, then she has ZERO reason to call you out, and ZERO reason to not have a job?? - sounds like she's leeching off you OP, would have a srs chat about it, or cut her off...

maybe you need a big fight to get this all out in the open?? srs


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post 1487381171 03-16-2017, 05:04 AM
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Help her find some outlets other than you to spend time at, I'm always a HUGE fan of my girlfriends to stay really close to friends/spending a good time with them(no cuck ****).

My girl also likes to run, so I try to amp it up like random messages about how cool I think it is she runs and how proud I am. The girl runs like a mile/mile and a half a time tops ,which in the grand scheme of things isn't much, but it's something for her to spend time at away from me.
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post 1487381191 03-16-2017, 05:04 AM
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Divorce and find a hot 18 year old hbb. srs
post 1487381271 03-16-2017, 05:06 AM
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Pull the plug op, you are wasting your life and your energy on a choice you are making
post 1487382001 03-16-2017, 05:22 AM
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What the f- are you all doing getting married in your 20's anyhow? If you already have huge issues while being engaged I don't see chit getting better while being married. Either you sit down and talk things through like adults or you grab your nuts and walk away from it all.

Never, fcking, settle. This goes to OP and everyone else out there. Draw a line in the sand, **** you are willing to put up with and **** you ain't. The moment that person crosses that line, cut her/him off.
post 1487382481 03-16-2017, 05:32 AM
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You got engaged to a girl who doesn't work and sits at home all day mooching from you? You can't be serious... It's bad enough when they get to sit around in their pajamas watching DVD's and having naps with a child or two while you sit in traffic, work all day, and then come home to more responsibilities. But, you guys don't even have kids yet. Lmao...
post 1487382601 03-16-2017, 05:34 AM
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Allowing your woman to fucking control you will be the death of your manhood
post 1487382851 03-16-2017, 05:38 AM
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lets just say youve made some bad decisions in terms of your relationships ausbrah
post 1487382881 03-16-2017, 05:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Zwicker⏩
You got engaged to a girl who doesn't work and sits at home all day mooching from you?
Add watching Oprah and eating bonbons and OP is engaged to Peggy fromMarried with Children.....
post 1487383291 03-16-2017, 05:46 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
wow 2 pages and nobody mentioned go NC?

misc i am disappoint


so you have 2 jobs and she doesnt have 1? - do you have children? if not, then she has ZERO reason to call you out, and ZERO reason to not have a job?? - sounds like she's leeching off you OP, would have a srs chat about it, or cut her off...

maybe you need a big fight to get this all out in the open?? srs


also

pics?
She is trying to get a job but haven't been successful so far. Fuarkin been like 2-3 months. Also her family is also kinda very well off. So she practically has never kinda worked apart from like crappy McDonald's jobs here and there when in school.
She is good at academics but that doesn't Kinda pay the rent.
Also, the thing that pisses me off is that any event/party/etc etc in her family should be considered with utmost priority. With fuarking 2 jobs last thing I want to do is spend half my day off at her parents place.
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post 1487383441 03-16-2017, 05:47 AM
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Lol @ 'life going nowhere'. Yeah because one woman dictates he direction your life should go.

What is wrong with you people.

People literally staking their lives on how someone else's life and decisions contributes to it.
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Sorry to hear it bro.

I'm not saying the same will happen to you, but this chit started right after I got married.

It only got worse.

I tried to grin and bear it since we were married, and I made a committment...

she bitched more, I drank more, she bitched about my drinking...

Been divorced about 5 years now, and life is good.

Good luck boyo
post 1487383511 03-16-2017, 05:49 AM
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Might just have to ride this out until she gets a job and can help out. Then you can quit 1 job and be more chilled out and willing to spend more time together.

How much more school left? Only you can answer if you love her or not.
post 1487383521 03-16-2017, 05:50 AM
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Oh im sorry i didnt know this was your personal diary...... Oh wait it IS the misc, weird
post 1487383551 03-16-2017, 05:51 AM
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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩
- Fuarkin swear to god brahs, life has been chit lately apart from the sex part.

- Also saying i dont spend enough time with her blah blah.She fukin sits at home 24/7 where i got 2 jobs.the fuark how am i suppose to get more time for her.
- Fiance not happy i declined invitation to one of her dad's gatherings. Picking stupid things to fight on. This has been going for days now.

So sick of this bullchit bros

Sorry, but misc is the only outlet i got.
That's your problem right there. You're gonna GG your entire life marrying this lazy bum. Good luck on your spousal support goals of 2017
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OP's fianc is having multiple trains ran on her while OP is at work. Tour is over boyo.
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Originally Posted By Scrizzle⏩
Might just have to ride this out until she gets a job and can help out. Then you can quit 1 job and be more chilled out and willing to spend more time together.

How much more school left? Only you can answer if you love her or not.
Yea thanks man.
Got 2 more years. Lmao. But she can kinda make some money off her placements after the third year.

Yea I mean I do love some aspects of her and also pulling the plug as people here are saying, ain't that easy. Fuarking it's such an effort getting engaged to someone and then their families etc etc. It's hard thinking about going back to square one after all that.
Would be sad though if it comes to that.
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Getting married in 2017

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You're currently at the point of the relationship BEFORE it is supposed to be a pain in the ass and you're already wound up - seemsgood.
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You work 5 RN shifts per week?


Is she in dental school or dental assistant
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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩
She is trying to get a job but haven't been successful so far. Fuarkin been like 2-3 months. Also her family is also kinda very well off. So she practically has never kinda worked apart from like crappy McDonald's jobs here and there when in school.
She is good at academics but that doesn't Kinda pay the rent.
Also, the thing that pisses me off is that any event/party/etc etc in her family should be considered with utmost priority. With fuarking 2 jobs last thing I want to do is spend half my day off at her parents place.
She needs to get a job. Whether it's her ideal dream job or not, it's the principal of it. You work two jobs, she doesn't contribute anything. And, she has the gall to complain? Lmao... It's no wonder there are so many delusional daddy's little princesses out there. Guys are willing to foot the bill for them with no questions asked. Imagine if the roles were reversed. Would her family be okay with her working two jobs to support you? I bet your family would call you a bum as well. Double standards of 2017. She needs to do more.
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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩
She is trying to get a job but haven't been successful so far. Fuarkin been like 2-3 months. Also her family is also kinda very well off. So she practically has never kinda worked apart from like crappy McDonald's jobs here and there when in school.
She is good at academics but that doesn't Kinda pay the rent.
Also, the thing that pisses me off is that any event/party/etc etc in her family should be considered with utmost priority. With fuarking 2 jobs last thing I want to do is spend half my day off at her parents place.
has she actually made a real effort tho? if shes got it easy, and has had it easy all her life - she wont have the drive to really focus on it

2-3 months? has she even had an interview??

if shes academic asf then interviews should be strolling in


something doesnt add up - either shes lying to you - or she has the worst luck in the world
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You sound like my buddy whos going through divorce. His wife constantly complains about him not being home when hes at work meanwhile shes sitting at home laying on her azz all day. Marriage is a death sentence when you have an unmotivated woman. Next on the list will be having a kid, becoming a whale, and blaming the baby for not being able to lose the weight, and ultimately leaving you while you pay the child support and alimony so she can stay at home swiping right on chad while she milks you for every last dollar you have. My mind is still blown men get married in the year 2017.
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
becoming a whale, and blaming the baby for not being able to lose the weight, and ultimately leaving you while you pay the child support and alimony so she canstay at home swiping right on chadwhile she milks you for every last dollar you have. My mind is still blown men get married in the year 2017.
why would a chad give a whale the time of day?
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Originally Posted By mrcarter1990⏩
She is studying dentistry. Looking for a job in her field.
Every Fukien Tom dik and Harry is eligible to work as entry level dentist jobs. So her chances are slime. Also she doesn't really have a car right now. Long story.
Yea so basically study at home and watch TV.
marriage is a lot of work and you have to sit through the good and bad. If she has potential then just support her for now as she will most likely support you too when the time comes.










































or she will become a dentist and divorce you for some dentist chad at her office.
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Abort, the idea of marrying a woman from a well off family is nice and all, the reality of it is different.

Fuking LOL @ her life right now. Completely useless.
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