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post 1488032181 03-21-2017, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By jizzfarmer⏩
And this is where you lose all credibility with the FAs. Don't get me wrong, I think there's definitely some worth to what you're saying but every time one of you brahs make a thread about helping and the whole "it's all about confidence" thing they always possess some level of well above average aesthetics. Whether it be face, height or shredded physique, I'm thinking you probably have at least 2 of the 3.

This modesty bs, no one is buying it and the only other brahs that do are the aesthetic ones themselves. Confidence is huge but try telling a 5'6 indian manlet to text that sht and they'll get phukin arrested and restraining order brah. At the end of the day it's all about aesthetics.
I'm ex FA. I didn't go on one date in three years with a girl from my hs. I didn't even ask a girl to the prom and I was a football star at the largest hs in NC. My class voted me most likely to become a pro athlete.

Zero confidence. Wouldn't even talk to a girl I figured it was a waste of time.
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post 1488032321 03-21-2017, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I'm ex FA. I didn't go on one date in three years with a girl from my hs. I didn't even ask a girl to the prom and I was a football star at the largest hs in NC. My class voted me most likely to become a pro athlete.

Zero confidence. Wouldn't even talk to a girl I figured it was a waste of time.
Why did you had such low confidence though?
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post 1488032401 03-21-2017, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Insanity_SC⏩
There is no fuking way I am sending a woman this.
I have others you might like.
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post 1488032811 03-21-2017, 12:44 PM
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post 1488033351 03-21-2017, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Why did you had such low confidence though?
I looked in the mirror and thought damn you're ugly.

I had success with girls throughout but not the elite girls and I had elite taste. Just gave up by 10th grade. I wanted trophies and never got one by then and figured well that's that.
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post 1488033771 03-21-2017, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By LegDayLol⏩
Looks to have potential, can believe his stories no problem, that pic is not flattering at all lol
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I looked in the mirror and thought damn you're ugly.

I had success with girls throughout but not the elite girls and I had elite taste. Just gave up by 10th grade. I wanted trophies and never got one by then and figured well that's that.
yeah im the same. I dont bother with average looking girls even for one night stands. I need a strong HBB
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post 1488033931 03-21-2017, 12:52 PM
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How did you break that mental barrier of feeling ugly? I know at 20 you pulled a 35yo, but what was the catalyst and steps you took to break down that issue?

repped btw, no-frills poster in RH
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post 1488035011 03-21-2017, 01:00 PM
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Alright so you can see how little looks matter this is how fat I was when I met my oneitis.





Those were 2 weeks after the first time we had sex.





It was my fun personality and the fact that she said I was the most confident man she ever met. She actually said you're so confident you're Rico Suave.

It always comes back to that. It sure as hell ain't my wallet.
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post 1488036441 03-21-2017, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Alright so you can see how little looks matter this is how fat I was when I met my oneitis.





Those were 2 weeks after the first time we had sex.





It was my fun personality and the fact that she said I was the most confident man she ever met. She actually said you're so confident you're Rico Suave.

It always comes back to that. It sure as hell ain't my wallet.
fuuuuuak bro. Now this... is encouraging. Thank you.
post 1488037181 03-21-2017, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
It was my fun personality and the fact that she said I was the most confident man she ever met. She actually said you're so confident you're Rico Suave.

It always comes back to that. It sure as hell ain't my wallet.
how does an FA like me get into that confident mindset tho? especially when i've had zero success with women in the past? i pretty much have no IRL friends either.

mirin hard btw
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post 1488038851 03-21-2017, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
That and others works all the time. Girls have gone home on their lunch break and taken out their toys.

The reason you don't see it is you're reading it on a forum instead of reading it from your husband at a random moment.

Do you see the difference? It's not being directed at you so you're not putting yourself in the scenario.

The girl I sent that to is a journalist btw.
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post 1488039561 03-21-2017, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted By psai⏩
how does an FA like me get into that confident mindset tho? especially when i've had zero success with women in the past? i pretty much have no IRL friends either.

mirin hard btw
How do you eat an elephant brother?

One bite at a time. It's never too late to believe in yourself. Talk to yourself in the mirror.

Work on it aim a little lower looks wise on women and use them for practice. Don't worry about results because you only have control of your actions.

It's a process that I had gone thru. I was less FA after HS but I was at a football school and I attributed it to groupies because I was a football player and not because of me. I had an issue and my playing was cut short.

I then joined the military. I'm telling you the way I pulled that girl that night was just a decision. I told myself I was sick and tired of this bull****. Nobody knew me in this town and I'm going out and finding a girl. It was my third day in town and simply I got tired of being a pussy.

Thinking back I laugh at it. I could take on guys who outweighed me by 100lbs and would go onto long NFL careers without blinking an eye.
I saw no difference between them and me. But I wouldn't go up to women except at a club.

Plus I was often clueless at 18 of sexual signals girls would put out. I shake my head how bad it was.

But again I met that girl. I turned out to be a natural in bed and she had a pretty big count by the time I met her. I just know what to do to women's bodies.

So a long slow journey till I had a break thru.
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post 1488040501 03-21-2017, 01:39 PM
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Honestly, it seems like you could write a book or make a YouTube channel with this knowledge. That's assuming if you're interested in even doing that.
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post 1488040981 03-21-2017, 01:43 PM
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Whoa those pics Leo blimey
Not sure how to process

But I agree there's nothing wrong with wanting someone better than you can actually get. I did this for years ...fa but there's more than one way to rot.

Then i actually eventually got someone better than I can get. Wake up every morning pinching myself and idk why the fuk he's with me but I'm making the most of it.
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post 1488041451 03-21-2017, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By LittleLexodus⏩
Honestly, it seems like you could write a book or make a YouTube channel with this knowledge. That's assuming if you're interested in even doing that.
I guess. I don't think it's earth shattering but more me trying to tell you guys if I can do it you all surely can.

Most of you are incredibly good looking guys (semi homo?) I've never had your physiques.

You all have so much going for you and on your side and I just wish you could all see it for yourselves.

Fellas look I'm nothing special just an average guy. You can do what I do.

I didn't want to make this thread but a lot of others asked me to.

What do you guys want me to hit next? The physical aspect or stay on the mental stuff for a while?
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post 1488041801 03-21-2017, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
Whoa those pics Leo blimey
Not sure how to process

But I agree there's nothing wrong with wanting someone better than you can actually get. I did this for years ...fa but there's more than one way to rot.

Then i actually eventually got someone better than I can get. Wake up every morning pinching myself and idk why the fuk he's with me but I'm making the most of it.
I did I went nuts on a bulk. I was full whale a year ago. But I want them to see that you can overcome physical disadvantages.

I won't embellish or lie to you all. You ask I'll tell.
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post 1488044231 03-21-2017, 02:07 PM
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As corny as the fanfic-style erotica is, the man is right. The FAs are pathetic not because they're ugly manlet baldcels - but because they have no sense of self worth.

Negging any FA on site from now on.

Edit: also notice his honest answers? That's REAL confidence -- not the bs try hard stuff that gets passed around here
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So, how do you mainly meet new woman? of tinder or walking up to girls you don't know and chat?

I guess if you have a big circle of friends, it's way easier to get girls than if you go in cold
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Give me some more of that erotic novella, Leo. I'm on no fap and no porn so I wanna get imagination boners no homo
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Originally Posted By RRiddlemethis⏩
So, how do you mainly meet new woman? of tinder or walking up to girls you don't know and chat?

I guess if you have a big circle of friends, it's way easier to get girls than if you go in cold
I've never done social circle dating.

These days. Mostly online. I don't put much effort into it. I mess around get a batch of three or four girls then see how that goes. I'll usually wind up with a girl or two out of a batch unless I get lazy.

Typically I only talk to girls that message me first my oneitis is the only girl I've ever opened on POF.

Right now I just have bumble and Tinder. No other sites.

Currently I have three active local partners one in the city I live and two in the city I work.

I have a date tomorrow. I have two others I've kinda let go of.
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Should be mentioned that OP likes to watch his GF get ****ed by other guys and thus has happily admitted to being a willful cuck (dead srs).
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Can ask you anything right?

Have you ever been to like sex clubs or done swinging?
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
Should be mentioned that OP likes to watch his GF get ****ed by other guys and thus has happily admitted to being a willful cuck (dead srs).
I never said that. When did I say I have voyeuristic fantasies or a cuckold fetish?
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Wow those pics. Need to get my confidence game up lol.
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
Can ask you anything right?

Have you ever been to like sex clubs or done swinging?
Yes I had one GF that I did that with. My ex wife and I were monogamous. Out of all my relationships over 6 mths only two were openish. The 35yo when I was 20 and the swinging partner.

Of course I've tons and tons of girls I've dated non exclusively.
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Gaawd I can't stand anything fake or non genuine, do women really eat that crap up?
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Just texted my lab partner this and she blocked my number, got a restraining order on me, dropped the class, posted a screenshot of the story on Social Media, now everyone in my college thinks I'm a virgin who jacks off to erotic porn novels.



thanks op.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Gaawd I can't stand anything fake or non genuine, do women really eat that crap up?
If you read usually I write these to women on a personal level. Putting specific things about them and hitting on each girls specific tastes.

I can try to round up some responses. There's so many I've deleted tho.

I have a National Level Bikini competitor in Tennessee that had some unbelievable ones but I think I erased all that honestly.
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late to the thread but hehe. I was on of the ppl who requested the slayer macbook, do u rmmber me senpai?

but in all seriousness, mind blown that u would send that before the first date. My strategy was always to text as little as possible, and just get them out on the date. After that, I'm confident that my personality would win them over.

Wouldn't doing something like this turn a lot of girls off? Or is that what ur looking for? basically filtering out girls who aren't dtf. I guess most of the time, u can tell who would be receptive to it.

Cus I met some amazing girls who weren't dtf on the first date due to cultural upbringings, etc. and that msg would have definitely blown it.

I know there's no right answer and there's many approaches, just curious to what u think about that.
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Originally Posted By Hashfoo⏩
late to the thread but hehe. I was on of the ppl who requested the slayer macbook, do u rmmber me senpai?

but in all seriousness, mind blown that u would send that before the first date. My strategy was always to text as little as possible, and just get them out on the date. After that, I'm confident that my personality would win them over.

Wouldn't doing something like this turn a lot of girls off? Or is that what ur looking for? basically filtering out girls who aren't dtf. I guess most of the time, u can tell who would be receptive to it.

Cus I met some amazing girls who weren't dtf on the first date due to cultural upbringings, etc. and that msg would have definitely blown it.

I know there's no right answer and there's many approaches, just curious to what u think about that.
I've never had a girl say something back negative to me and really can't remember one dropping me over a text. Most love it.

But I have to set it up. This girl I rushed it with this morning might go bad for me but there's tons others to talk to instead.

Again I don't just do this with new girls. I did stuff like this randomly with my wife. I'd leave a very detailed note of what I planned to do to her when I got home or random other things and she loved it. (Pre texting)

I've never said I push for sex on first meet. I'm in no rush because I get plenty and have had plenty. So girls see my desire or passion without seeing me frantic or desperate to have sex.

Plus I'll often stack two or three first meets on top of each other so I really don't have time those days. Meet for a drink see if there's chemistry if so move forward if not move on.

Lots of times a girl is physically attractive but I'm not attracted to her ( no chemistry )
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