100% this

i would never send texts like those, but its also a circular pattern

i wouldnt send them = me sending them wouldnt be right = they wouldnt work

lmao WHAT
the **** is this thread!?!

Became content, well adjusted. Decent enough income to live comfortably and enough experience with women to become confident.

Yeah I was a bit of an ******* about the age of 20 or 21.

For pure ego purposes only I wanted to see how many FWB ( we didn't have term then) I could maintain at once.

It required a lot of planning and I had a system.

I was such an ******* the stuff I'd tell chicks to get them out of my place so the next one could come in.

ITT it was requested background info.

Considering the weird success of 50 Shades Slootier this might just work

I'm sorry I can't answer that. I can't recall someone I know growing up without parents.

If you're not comfortable yeah don't do it. I just know once I started doing it I saw a lot if success with it.

Honestly female porn ( romance novels read like that.) Most women are more mental than visual so it makes sense that painting a detailed mental picture of what you're going to do to them will turn them on before you get there building anticipation.

Women love the anticipation and build up.

When I get one of those romance/erotic lit type texts, I know it's not gonna go well. Anticipation and build up I agree on.

Lol good stuf. Don't get the hate on Leo.

Would you agree that you need some kind of experience before you fully believe it though leo? Like you mentioned something with the mirror and giving positive reinformenced to yourself. You could tell yourself something, but i'd wonder if you'd ever truly believe it if you don't experience the fruits of it as well.

For example, I tried out investing/speculating (demo) with an online broker one day. Beforehand, my thoughts I'd associate with investing would be negative, very risky, undoable, etc. Once I got some good results, my mindset completely changed and I was already envisioning myself becoming a millionair in a year tops which I'd never come up with before. . Gone were the thoughts of doubt, negativity, etc. that I had before and replaced with genuine confidence because I already experienced it (kinda).

Sure, maybe older chicks who are just looking to **** can be picky. But most older women are looking to settle down, and they are not therefore interested in a 20 yr old (most younger brahs who have tried to smash older women can attest to this), they are interested in someone whom they view as stable and a potential mate. Thus, shooting fish in a barrel.

And no, the worst that could happen is not being told no. It is getting publicly shamed. In this day and age, you can't be irresponsible about what you send to women, as it is so easy for them to "blast" you on social media and try to ruin your life--there are many threads on here where this has happened.

I am not knocking you for doing what you are doing. But these brahs here should realize that your advice may not be applicable to their situation. Moreover, if they copy & paste the "explode inside of you" copypasta they could be publicly known as some sort of psycho rapist on their campus.

My view would be yes with success comes more confidence.

But I also believe consistent correct actions lead to results.

If you consistently lift weights you will eventually get results. Might results be slower than others? Sure. But it's still results.

alright

this is pretty good stuff

just keep posting more about your transformation mentally and I think youll actually help people even more. too much negativity on the misc.

You said you were in a new town right? Howd you build up your social life?

what are the physical techniques, specific things women have consistently commented on over the years.

My phone is low I'm not ignoring you I'll get to this asap.

This thread is gold serious, it should be stickied, thank you leoslayer1 for all of this knowledge, repped!

If you're talking about when I was 19 the guys from work were my main friends for a while. Then I expanded from there.

As I mentioned I don't think I've ever slept with a woman thru a social circle contact. They were all women I went out and met or they walked up to me.

If my friends didn't want to go out and I wanted to meet someone new then I'd go to a club by myself and find someone.

Women are everywhere. You guys remember that hot Jordanian girl I met in line at the gas station a couple years ago?



That's all you have to do. If a hot girl gets within three feet of you introduce yourself.

You don't have to have support groups of friends just go for it.

I know this all sounds arrogant as phuck and I am when it comes to women.

But I don't act arrogant to them. I'm not an ******* I'm a nice guy that doesn't run around at their feet like some kind of puppy dog.

I want you guys to take what I'm saying the right way. I'm no better than anyone here and the confident things I'm saying out loud to you is typically an internal dialog.

Unless someone pissed me off. I treat women well I'm not an ******* till they require it and I've ethered some women.

I apologize if I've hurt any feelings so far. Again I'm just trying to offer info from my experience.

Ok nuts and bolts. I'll do my best to articulate things.

As I've said I am completely average so fellas don't let that be an excuse or a source of insecurity. Matter of fact the girl I was with last night is a size queen. Before our first date years ago she said I don't sleep with average sized men. I simply said you do now.

Things women like about me. Consistency is mentioned alot. Girls talk about my strokes staying the same depth and speed. I've been told a lot of guys start and stop too much or the speed and depth varies to the point it's harder for them to lock in.

I'm not going to bore you with the standard stuff everyone knows about gspot stim vary position etc.

Toys I like toys. I might not use a toy everytime but they should be in your arsenal along with some restraints ( please make sure she trusts you before getting into restraints choking etc make sure boundaries for her are clear this is supposed to be fun)

I highly recommend this. Get one and put it in your kit. If you have a GF or Wife buy her one today. It's extremely versatile.

https://www.amazon.com/Sensuelle-Rec.../dp/B00EKH8O8E

Girls love to hold it on their clit while you pound them or another thing from time to time is to run it across one side of their clit while you lick the other side. The two different sensations drive them nuts.

Lots of foreplay I want them to cum a minimum of once before piv. Exceptions are obviously quickies and if in a LTR every now and then you should just take her. For example I might have to go out and cut the grass and she's doing stuff in the kitchen well I might hard initiate right there. Pin her up against the counter then bend her over the table. Get done walk out and cut the grass. Never ever with your partner do you push past a no. NEVER.
This kind of quickie can be fun for her because it sends the signal that you're still so passionate about her that you have to have her.

Speaking of that. No matter what kind of relationship you have ONS all the way to wife make her feel like your passion that you're expressing feels like it's directed to her not that you were just horny and she was the first hole available. ( I've had women say things like even though you were pounding me and had me folded up like a contortionist nothing you ever did felt dirty like other guys with you it felt fun passionate and pure) am I making sense here?

I have a date in two hours. I'm sorry I'm taking a while with responses. If I haven't conveyed my thoughts effectively please let me know.

I will get back to more nuts and bolts as soon as I'm free but I'm with a third girl tomorrow night so please bear with me.

I'm sorry brother I'll keep working on it.

I'm sure it's nothing earth shattering for you guys .

Well I wanna hear about your sex club shenanigans even if no one else does
Spill slayer.....

no worries, just thought u didn't see it
If I do this I would finish so quick lmao... feelsbadman. I've been alternating between like 7 shallow thrusts and a few deep thrusts, trying to be unpredictable. makes me last much longer, and they always lose their breathe during deep strokes.

how do u last long with consistent deep strokes

Ok right after nuts and bolts

Last post for a few hours. You are much better off going hard and consistent for a short period of time than the inconsistent stuff. Especially if you do a great job with foreplay or bring in the above toy.

I ain't looking to run a marathon but I can get most girls there 1 to 4 times in about five minutes after what I did to them with foreplay.

any advice on getting a non-sloot girl to fuk?

was in her bed, feeling her up and kissing up on her but she didnt let me smash. should i just be patient and wait until shes ready? i want her as a gf and not just for sex.

mental repair is exactly what i need, in for breakdown on that

I'm pretty slammed today and will do my best to catch up.

Date went well last night turns out she's a former world class downhiller.

Why do you guys think I attract so many world class athletes or high level athletes? That's a serious question. This girl, ex wife world class swimmer, a national level swimmer and that young wnba player.

Dont athletic girls have higher sex drives? Probably know a man when they see one

damn leoslayer is on another phucking level. he's the bill gates of poossy. are we worthy to have such a man posting here on the misc?

This forum is weird.


Also, I'm a firm believer in people using the angle that best fits their personality. There's no way in hell I would ever text any of that crap to a woman. Lol. I can just see some of the FA's in here trying to be overly aggressive in their fedoras and failing miserable.