The key to it is to establish the right rapport. Sometimes I might send something like that before I meet them. Sometimes I don't ever send one. Sometimes after the first date.

It's situationally dependant. I would definitely send something like that to someone I'm already having sex with in between dates. Especially if it's going to be 10 or 14 days before I see them again.

Sorry for the delays. I'm doing a big project right now trying to finish up the job.

I'm sure nothing I talk about in nuts and bolts is new info but maybe a couple of you could use it to get results.

Alright so what I did last night to really set her off is I combined standard gspot manipulation with my middle two fingers. Do this while standing beside the bed or kneeling next to her. Then at the same time have her use the toy on her clit while you very very lightly also stimulate her nipple in a circular motion.

The last four girls I've done this to have had full body shut down orgasms to where they are out of commission for a few minutes. (Kinda like a tasering)

The first shut down orgasm of the night I provided orally. My particular oral technique involves very slight and subtle dominance.

I don't know how detailed I should get and my pressure and overall style varies based on the preliminary signals I'm getting. Her body will give you directions the whole time without her having to say a word.

I start very light with a flat tongue think eating soft serve ice cream. My signature though is that I'll push the hood back with my lips. Depending on how rough she wants to be I'll make my lips firm so they massage the base while I suck on it and run my tongue across the tip. So I'm providing three sensations at once. I'll make sure to grab one of her legs around the hip flexor and give a gentle steady pull towards me. ( subliminally saying you're mine and I'm going to do what I want to)

I can get more detailed if you need me to.

But I typically use subtle dominance and ramp it up as we get into the session.

For those without much experience you can use subtle dominance on a first kiss. If she's in jeans take your first two fingers put them in her front pockets and tug her into you when you kiss her. Don't give her whiplash ffs but let her feel how powerful you are. Also sends a subtle sexual ownership/I go after what I want with you.

Please remember a hard no never gets ignored.

I'm going to get to my PMs and I'll hit some sex club/party adventures when I get home.

Again I apologize for the slow response I had dates every night this week plus tons of work.

Alright since the thread lacks interest I will keep my promise to MelDorado and tell some sex club swinger stories. I'll start with some that just didn't go my way and something funny that happened to a very good friend of mine.

So my girl and I get invited to a private party on a lake. This couple with a good looking wife but the guy wasn't invited us to stay at their place because we were from out of town and they were going too.

As soon as the four of us get into the party this creature makes known she wants to phuck me. Ok big deal I move on and head downstairs to the dance area. Another wife wants to bang but my girl vetoed the guy. No probs. I start dancing with my hostess for the night she starts giving me a hj over my pants I know she's good to go and my girl is giving me a hall pass.

I then see this really hot chick from Turkey. Her date is a first timer and really insecure. Dance with her she's grabbing my cawk I start finger banging her and she says I want to phuck you so bad but I promised him tonight we would just flirt with people. PHUCK!

So then I see this smoking hot ballerina ( a different one than from two months ago) I start dancing with her. Her BF is a DA and my girl is good to go. The couple goes upstairs for a while so my girl and I go out to the jacuzzi ( January and cold af) my hostess is in there and flirting with me so I'm thinking of going that way again but I get out go in see ballerina and invite them in the tub.

We get in she's next to me and just then The Thing comes running up and asks is there room for me? I say no and she gets in anyway right between me and ballerina trying to cawk block. PHUCK!

Evening goes on and somehow they get invited back to the house for the night with us. I'm as giggity as Quagmire.

We all head back and as soon as we pull up I notice puke all over DAs car. Yep ballerina is sick goes to bed and my original hostess is mad because I didn't choose her.

So yeah I had a guarantee upgraded twice everything in the world went wrong and only had sex with my girl.

I'll share a couple more losses in the morning.

I'm sure there's still people reading. Got this bookmarked just in case.

Ever dealt with a girl that's never had an orgasm before? Not from other people nor by herself. I do G-spot stimulation while licking her out, but after a few minutes she says it's too sensitive and stops me, even if I'm going really slow.

How would you make someone like that cum?

My ex was like that, had never had an orgasm and super sensitive clit, which was frustrating cos I like to go to town. My advice would be spend plenty of time before even getting to that - kissing, pay attention to nipples, use your hands over her body, inside of her thigh etc. Don't apply too much pressure with your tongue and make sure she tells you what feels good and what doesn't. Then use the finger or two on G-spot. You need to prime her mentally as well as physically.
It could also be a psychological thing, so don't make a big deal about orgasm if she is still enjoying the intimacy of sex. She needs to relax more so don't put extra pressure on her. How long have you been with her? It took a few months for my ex to have her first one and then it happened a lot easier from then on in. One day it just clicked. I'm sure it will for you too.

tfw all of your strokes are shallow strokes

Ok what do you mean exactly?

As long as you're consistent you're probably going to be ok.

No kids, she's young 24 - popular/model doing masters etc. Not sure where she lives, kinda flakey with texts and half replies days later. Not sure this one can be saved. Do you have a shorter text than that erotic novel?

have only read a couple posts ITT so far, but good on ya for finally making it leo

tried to rep but on spreadyou'll find a way brah

in general, yeah you can apply the rules and it'll work for ~85% of chicks but some just have a tough time getting there.

usually with this kinda case your natural response can be to try harder, but you gotta try... easier. it'll take a lot more time. back and forth between different types of stimulation. one girl i was with who was like this, the way i could guarantee she'd comealmostevery time was her on top of me in reverse cowgirl, gently rubbing her clit (for fukn ages)

Leo wtf?

Ok I'll stress that you should not stress about it. You stressing about it or trying too hard/ focusing on her orgasm will make her feel pressured.

That pressure will kill everything. You need to keep everything fun and light. You can work on it but don't lose track of your own pleasure. This will also cause a negative feedback.

Oh and not to brag but those of you that think what I do and sat only works on old women I'm setting up a phuck date with a 23yo from Bumble next week.

I'll let you know how it goes if I get around to her.

holy **** youre a meme

cringiest thread of 2017

Mel wanted sex club sex party stories.

Let me think about it for a bit.

HAHAHAHAHA this is a CUCK strategy. I don't even have sex anymore since I'm far too desirable for any woman to safely handle. I don't want her to go into cardiac arrest upon mounting my magnificent body. I have an average physique but women just imagine it as a rippling bod thanks to my Zeus-like aesthetics. Like a desert oasis mirage.

check ur PMs

Copy pasta actually works, like really well, on an 18 year old even. She even went as far as screenshotting it lmao. I did shorten it/remove some parts and rewrote it into my own, but the essence is the same.

Lol @ hating on OP

pics of her reaction? and what type of rapport do you have with her

Be attractive, charismatic, confident and have a good personality overall

/thread

#You're to cum for me

Was on snapchat and didn't ss reaction, but it was basically: ''holy ****'' ''that's extremely hot''

It's a girl that I've smashed a few times before, but later on wanted to be friends bc she has feelings for someone else (she was really fixated on this, she was having none of it). Working my way around that and the text helped quite a bit, received a nice snap after and now she's feeling guilty: ''you really shouldn't have sent that text'' lmao

I've had some requests via PM for another copy pasta so here goes I'm going to write it here in one take. This is for a girl with big dominance needs that you haven't played with in a while. This girl has particular tastes and isn't for every situation so don't act stupid.

Hearing from you the other day has had me thinking about your sexy little body non stop. Thinking about all the things I used to do to you and all the ways your body would move to my touch.

It's been too much and I've been climbing the walls so I just drive over to your place I have to see you.

You aren't home so I wait. I see your car so I get out and you don't notice me. I walk up behind you and pull you into me my hand over your mouth.

I growl in your ear I'm going to **** you it's been too long as I bite your earlobe. You smell so good and you can feel my hard cock pushing into your ass. You moan for me giving me the only answer I need.

I pick you up and carry you to your bed. I throw you down and pin your arms down as my mouth moves across your body.

I take my belt off and use it to tie your hands to the headboard. Reaching under your skirt I rip your thong straight off. You protest a bit but I don't care. I'm too turned on to care. I force your legs apart and run my tongue up the length of your entrance. You're dripping wet and when I get to your clit it's already so swollen for me.

I put my tongue barely on the tip but I don't move it. I just hold it there and soon your hips just start to move all by themselves. It's so sexy (insert name) I love the way your clit feels against my tongue. I start moving it back and forth back and forth just the way you remember. Just the way you need.

I can feel the tension start building deep inside you so I quicken my pace back and forth back and forth pulling you into me my hands on your ass. I know you're close then it happens your whole body let's go spasm after spasm moving thru your pussy.

But I'm not done and I'm not untying you. I have to **** you. I move my way up your body and just as you feel my head against your lips I whisper, I'm taking my pussy back!

I slam my whole length in you. You're so tight and so wet for me. Your walls are squeezing me. Pulling me in. I know you've missed this.

I put both your legs on my shoulders ****ing you as hard as I can. All the way in and all the way out on each stroke.

Damn you're body was made to ****ed by me. I can feel you cumming over and over again as I thrust deeper and deeper. I love how every ridge inside you feels around my cock. In and out in and out. We are both getting close and I reach up and squeeze your throat pushing you over the edge.

It's so ****ing hot watching you cum that I can't hold back and you feel jet after jet of my cum deep inside your pussy.

^^ Do women even bother reading copy paste? If a guy sent me the above on dating site I would next. No one writes that much unless they are creepy.

Pretty sure this is illegal

Jesus do you read. That was for a girl he's already slept with but hasn't played with in a while. It's not for tinder.

Lol it's not illegal why would you say that?