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Thread: Vick's Dating Log (v. 2.0) and Miscellaneous Advice

post 1489526681 04-02-2017, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
It happens to everyone man, really not a huge deal and any chick that makes a big deal out of it isn't worth your time. Yeah it tends to fuk with your head a little but you'll bounce back.
Yep, not a big deal. Realistically, no one expects the first time to be perfect, and women stress about it just as much as men do.
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post 1489531401 04-02-2017, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I hope so, man. This is new to me and yesterday it really fuucked with my head. However after talking with her back and forth for a little while, things were cool. I made a joke out of it to break the ice and then we got on as usual. I am planning on seeing her tomorrow night and am confident I'll get the job done.
It's either you don't get it up or you bust super quickly, like fuel said if they are understanding they're worth your time if they mock/insult you they're not worth your time. With that said I think your superman just met it's supergirl, sadly I do not have the comic like saligia so I cannot tell you how it ends.
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post 1489552801 04-02-2017, 04:48 PM
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Vick lol I felt the exact same way back in early Feb as you do now when you failed to get hard. But at least for me, it ended up working out. Chit like that happens and they understand that it's not a reflection of your manliness or anything, especially after you give them a good fuking the next time around heh
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post 1489553991 04-02-2017, 04:59 PM
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Update:

27YO from Fri night texted me this morning asking if I was at that park, which I was. I guess she saw me running, but I was in a zone and wasn't paying attention and by the time she realized it was me I was gone. I called her when I got back to my car and read the text, but she had just left. She told me that she was telling her friend, that she was walking with, about me when she saw me. That's obviously a good sign if she's already telling her friends about me, so I took advantage of the situation to tease her a bit about it and ask her out to lunch on Tuesday and she agreed.

There is another woman that I had been talking to, but she went MIA earlier in the week, so last night I unmatched her from tinder, knowing it would get her attention. LOL. It worked and she texted me this morning apologizing about not getting back to me. I did the whole "who is this" routine, but she wasn't falling for it and said she would make it up to me and wants to meet this week.
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post 1489557821 04-02-2017, 05:32 PM
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So its turns out that girl I was smanged was married



Tours over boyos. I'm not trying to get shot or etc.
post 1489558751 04-02-2017, 05:40 PM
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[QUOTE=otakutrevan post_id=1489557821]So its turns out that girl I was smanged was married

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Tours over boyos. I'm not trying to get shot or etc.[/QUOTE]Did she even bring up any relationship talk? A woman that is not curious about your past relationships means she doesn't want to talk about her own. Just sayin'.
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post 1489559471 04-02-2017, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Did she even bring up any relationship talk? A woman that is not curious about your past relationships means she doesn't want to talk about her own. Just sayin'.
She mentioned it on her own.

Just sayin. I don't ask about what people have going on.Never done that. Seems clingy, beta, and etc. I do have an understanding of how this works even though you think I have no idea.
post 1489559651 04-02-2017, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
So its turns out that girl I was smanged was married

Tours over boyos. I'm not trying to get shot or etc.
Savage. How exactly did that come up in conversation?
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
post 1489560171 04-02-2017, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
Savage. How exactly did that come up in conversation?
Just shot a text. Turns out once again I was used for sex. I'm not sure what this is about but this is how it goes. Every 6-8 months ish some girl will let me rail her brains out, and then they have some weird excuse why we can't do stuff in public or or they arent looking for anything serious but sex.

Then they'll immediately get into a LTR with a guy. It always goes down this way.

post 1489560511 04-02-2017, 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Just shot a text. Turns out once again I was used for sex. I'm not sure what this is about but this is how it goes. Every 6-8 months ish some girl will let me rail her brains out, and then they have some weird excuse why we can't do stuff in public or or they arent looking for anything serious but sex.

Then they'll immediately get into a LTR with a guy. It always goes down this way.
These hoes ain't loyal. It could certainly be a racial thing for some of those cases, they want to experience the bbc but it's taboo in their eyes/social circle/family for them to be in a relationship with a black guy. I've talked to many women who think this way, not just with blacks but any other race.
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
post 1489561381 04-02-2017, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
These hoes ain't loyal. It could certainly be a racial thing for some of those cases, they want to experience the bbc but it's taboo in their eyes/social circle/family for them to be in a relationship with a black guy. I've talked to many women who think this way, not just with blacks but any other race.
I know thats a major case in many of my historical flops. Theres no reason girls will let me smash their brains out, but refuse to get lunch or go on a legit date because "my personality sucks" or "I didn't calibrate properly".

Really wish black girls that werent obese gave a **** about me. Fuk breh. Being an outlier within your own racial group culturally is one of the biggest cock blocks on the planet. I'm all about multicultural koombayah, but it really screws some people (specifically males) socially over that are raised around white people for whatever the reason it was.

I've seen this time and time again.
post 1489562341 04-02-2017, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
She mentioned it on her own.

Just sayin. I don't ask about what people have going on.Never done that. Seems clingy, beta, and etc. I do have an understanding of how this works even though you think I have no idea.
I mean before you smashed, not after. I never bring it up either, but I've noticed that most women do, unless they have something to hide.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1489562481 04-02-2017, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I mean before you smashed, not after. I never bring it up either, but I've noticed that most women do, unless they have something to hide.
I did not ask nor inquire about her relationship status pre smash.
post 1489566691 04-02-2017, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
I did not ask nor inquire about her relationship status pre smash.
Right, you are still missing what I am saying. It's a sign if a woman does not bring it up before you smash. She has something to hide.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1489567851 04-02-2017, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Right, you are still missing what I am saying. It's a sign if a woman does not bring it up before you smash. She has something to hide.
I wasn't missing it. You weren't being clear, but I gotcha. This will be noted in the future.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
She mentioned it on her own.

Just sayin. I don't ask about what people have going on.Never done that. Seems clingy, beta, and etc. I do have an understanding of how this works even though you think I have no idea.
Fcuk that, I will bring it up for sure. And if the woman brings **** straight up I'll respect her for it and knowing what she wants. E.g if I'm ready to find a woman to settle down with, I'll make that clear. No time wasting.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Just shot a text. Turns out once again I was used for sex. I'm not sure what this is about but this is how it goes. Every 6-8 months ish some girl will let me rail her brains out, and then they have some weird excuse why we can't do stuff in public or or they arent looking for anything serious but sex.
Most men tell me they would love to be used for sex.

For years you complained you didn't get that many women. Now you are, but still complaining. At least you have made progress from one complaint to another!
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
Then they'll immediately get into a LTR with a guy. It always goes down this way.

Most men tell me they would love to be used for sex.

For years you complained you didn't get that many women. Now you are, but still complaining. At least you have made progress from one complaint to another!
Some of us do want to find a good woman to be with
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Originally Posted By dimitri1013⏩
Some of us do want to find a good woman to be with
That's why the wise ones use Luc1fer's approach when they meet a female they click with, you say what you want, if they opt out you move along. Some of us have a lot going on in life and don't have time for games, unless of course you're just going for a quick nut.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I hope so, man. This is new to me and yesterday it really fuucked with my head. However after talking with her back and forth for a little while, things were cool. I made a joke out of it to break the ice and then we got on as usual. I am planning on seeing her tomorrow night and am confident I'll get the job done.
If she's cool, eventually this will be something that you can give each other **** about, which from you other posts seems congruent with your current "relationship" anyhow. To me, I'd rather not be able to get it up then not finish in my opionion. When that happens I seriously go mental, but it's only happened twice and both times I had some alcohol and it was our first time. Could be worse, from reading it sounds like you're golden already, and it's always important to be able to laugh or poke fun at yourself.
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So the other 27yo msged me tonight asking if I could get drinks because her friend she had plans with cancelled on her. I told her I couldn't, but we've been texting the past two hours or so. She tells me she has paint all over her and is going to hop in the shower (she paints). I asked to see what she was working on and she sends me a pic of the canvas and then a semi nude pic of her with pain all over her. Then she asks for a sexy pic of me and I'm like, "Naw, I don't do that." She wasn't very happy I wouldn't send her a pic. She's hot as ****, but I hate it when women I haven't even met yet send me pics like that. It has a serious negative affect on me.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
She's hot as ****, but I hate it when women I haven't even met yet send me pics like that. It has a serious negative affect on me.
My slutmeter would be ringing.
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Originally Posted By SeanGarrity⏩
If she's cool, eventually this will be something that you can give each other **** about, which from you other posts seems congruent with your current "relationship" anyhow. To me, I'd rather not be able to get it up then not finish in my opionion. When that happens I seriously go mental, but it's only happened twice and both times I had some alcohol and it was our first time. Could be worse, from reading it sounds like you're golden already, and it's always important to be able to laugh or poke fun at yourself.
My first text message to her to break the ice after the fact the next day was "I hope you're not having trouble walking around after the hurting I put on that pussy last night." She replied instantly laughing and said she'd been icing it all day. So we've already started with that. Still have plans to see each other later on tonight unless she flakes out, which I doubt. I plan on grabbing some food to bring over to her place and I got her cat a toy to occupy herself with. After that, it's all on me to deliver or ruin myself again. I am feeling much more confident about this time, but I'd still like to not mess this up because this is the most natural fit for me out of any of the girls I've met thusfar.
Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
So the other 27yo msged me tonight asking if I could get drinks because her friend she had plans with cancelled on her. I told her I couldn't, but we've been texting the past two hours or so. She tells me she has paint all over her and is going to hop in the shower (she paints). I asked to see what she was working on and she sends me a pic of the canvas and then a semi nude pic of her with pain all over her. Then she asks for a sexy pic of me and I'm like, "Naw, I don't do that." She wasn't very happy I wouldn't send her a pic. She's hot as ****, but I hate it when women I haven't even met yet send me pics like that. It has a serious negative affect on me.
I don't like that either. I asked for a pic of this current girl who I keep mentioning and she sent me a screenshot from our favorite show after building it up with a few texts. I thought it was hilarious. Getting a sexy pic of her that early on probably would have made me take her way less seriously. It's like a test we have.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
My slutmeter would be ringing.
Yeah, same.

If tonight doesn't go right boys, I'm gunna be pretty down.
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
Seriously how do you guys deal with it? Like banging your head against a brick wall. Not only do you have to message them first but they also expect you to do all the talking and hand feed them the answers you ask. WTF?
Oh ya, you know what I'm sayin now. I have started just ghosting women who offer nothing to the conversation as I'm slowly learning that if they quiet over an app, they even more quiet in person when they don't have time to think about what to say next.
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Now I'm almost at 5 months of this:

- No dating
- No Tinder or any dating sites
- No texting
- No sex
- Just focus on You and Your children

I have challenged pretty much every guy going through a divorce on this subforum, but he rejects the challenge and wants to date, date, date!! I've heard excuses like "I may be dead in a 6 months" and long PMs about the male sex drive.

I have come to the conclusion that men do not like being alone. When I look at my friends who are divorced, the men will remarry within a year or two. The women will remain single 10+ years.....

Most men cannot be alone with themselves so it is what it is.
Really though, what good are these "planned breaks" doing for you though? You said yourself you are pondering/engaging in new vices. Your answer is simple, respect yourself and find a man who likes you for you, not your poutine. How? Make him wait!!!
Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
One thing that threw me off is that towards the end of dinner she said she wanted to get home to her dog. I'm was thinking, "if you want to cut the date short, just tell me." So, I def got a mix signal there, though, she said not yet and suggested the bar close to her apartment, but no signals that she was trying to get me back to her apartment or anything.
Sounds like a thirst/chit test to me brah and you passed with flying colours
Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
Last night was a complete and utter disaster. I'm on mobile right now but for the first time in my life I failed to get hard. It was completely emasculating and embarrassing. I totally psyched myself out because I'm catching serious feels. I feel horrible today.

We had an amazing couple of hours hanging out together before we got into it a little bit and I just completely psyched myself out. Afterwards we were together for a few more hours and things were normal but today I feel legitimately sick and disgusted with what happened. Never thought in a million years it'd go down like that. First time for everything, I guess.
Happens often to me bro, very normal. I've never been able to get truly 100% hard first time with someone, even with Viag. Fair warning, your mind will race now and this may even happen a second time because you will be psyched and thinking about your past failure. If it happens again, the best thing to do is to let her slop on pop for a little while (eases tension on you) or start munching on her and get back to you when you calm down a bit, srs. I always tell them its my nerves in the beginning and how its not them and find a way to laugh about it so they don't think it rustles me. If you get mad, then they might think its a problem for you. Go to doc and get a prescription until you get comfortable with her. The assistance is nice when new with someone, makes for epic times. Key is to not think about your past failed attempt as hard as it is. Do not think about performance whatsoever.
Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
So its turns out that girl I was smanged was married



Tours over boyos. I'm not trying to get shot or etc.
Ayyyy...atleast you moisturized! Didn't they teach you how to avoid gettin capped as part of your training?
Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
She's hot as ****, but I hate it when women I haven't even met yet send me pics like that. It has a serious negative affect on me.
Agreed. This repulses me too and shows no self respect on her part, such a turn off. Good girls don't do this.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Happens often to me bro, very normal. I've never been able to get truly 100% hard first time with someone, even with Viag. Fair warning, your mind will race now and this may even happen a second time because you will be psyched and thinking about your past failure. If it happens again, the best thing to do is to let her slop on pop for a little while (eases tension on you) or start munching on her and get back to you when you calm down a bit, srs. I always tell them its my nerves in the beginning and how its not them and find a way to laugh about it so they don't think it rustles me. If you get mad, then they might think its a problem for you. Go to doc and get a prescription until you get comfortable with her. The assistance is nice when new with someone, makes for epic times. Key is to not think about your past failed attempt as hard as it is. Do not think about performance whatsoever.
I can't let it happen again or else that's probably all she wrote with this one. It was strange because the other night she wanted to literally get right into it and that threw me off. I'd ideally prefer to get her off at least once before I even put it in, so I'll make sure tonight leads exactly to that. I did a sufficient job at laughing it off and kind of was honest with her about my feelings afterward (bad move but had no choice) and things have been fine since then. I'm just gunna go get comfortable and try to settle in and make it great for both of us.

I'm just going to be sick about it and lack confidence if it somehow happens again. I've always worked very well under pressure and to have that happen was just so out of left field for me that it was a huge shot to my ego.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I can't let it happen again or else that's probably all she wrote with this one.
I can tell you are psychin yourself out and putting alot of pressure on yourself brah. Can you get some "assistance" before seeing her tonight?
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I can tell you are psychin yourself out and putting alot of pressure on yourself brah. Can you get some "assistance" before seeing her tonight?
Yep, I have some assistance although I am pretty inexperienced with it of course. Dunno how it even really works tbh.
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Take one of what you got just before leaving your house and do not mix it with food for best results. It is better to take it 1-2 hrs before food than after food I find. If after food, then wait 2 hrs, especially if Viag. This in itself will ease your anxiety, especially when you start smooching and the Italian stallion lets you know he is ready and waiting.

Milk one out in advance boyo, get her GOOD
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Take one of what you got just before leaving your house and do not mix it with food for best results. It is better to take it 1-2 hrs before food than after food I find. If after food, then wait 2 hrs, especially if Viag. This in itself will ease your anxiety, especially when you start smooching and the Italian stallion lets you know he is ready and waiting.

Milk one out in advance boyo, get her GOOD
I'm not eating at all and I'm taking it before I leave to go there. I have no idea what to expect. But I'd love for it to hit hard and arousal with her is not an issue. It's jsut an unknown element to me that I hope makes things easier.

No idea why I even need to turn to this at this age but I'm hoping it does the job for me. I begrudgingly got one out of me this morning.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I'm not eating at all and I'm taking it before I leave to go there. I have no idea what to expect. But I'd love for it to hit hard and arousal with her is not an issue. It's jsut an unknown element to me that I hope makes things easier.

No idea why I even need to turn to this at this age but I'm hoping it does the job for me. I begrudgingly got one out of me this morning.
You thinking about this waaaay too much, you don't need to starve yourself bro. Keep an empty, not starved stomach and it will guaranteed hit hard if you keep your anxiety in check. Know that anxiety will also ruin it even if you on assistance. I find bunnin one helps too, IDGF bout nothing at that point lol.
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