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Thread: Vick's Dating Log (v. 2.0) and Miscellaneous Advice

post 1490912531 04-13-2017, 06:42 AM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
She loves aquariums. Have you been there before? I think I can drive there no prob.
Na, never been. I was supposed to go with "don't tell me what to do girl" but I was running late as usual so we never went.
Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
He's less than 2 hours away =O.
How far are you from Niagara Falls, Canada border bruh?
Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
If she is taking her sweet time to reply back, I'll just ghost or take longer to reply back or something.
Disagree. Remember, you are in competition so until the fish takes the bait (provides number or wants to meet) you need to keep working as others have casted their line out as well. Makes sense right? IMO, the ONLY time you want to delay messages with dating app girls is when she says "text me, here is my number". This way, you don't come off desperado/like you may have options. By delay I mean a few hours, especially when she offers number. From the moment she gives the number she is thinking about you till you text. Yes, I'm mean. Make damn sure you do this and always open with something funny in your first text to her like "Creepy Tinder girl, is that you? Its BlackScorpio". You can also say something funny that may have come about in your convo or send some silly pic like other brahs have suggested in the past.
Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I don't care what anyone else says. If you say something sarcastic or cheeky, you have to use emojis to show you are being playful and not just being a dick.
This. It has never hurt me, neither has "lol". Although I do begin to refrain once she realizes I can be cheeky.
post 1490915101 04-13-2017, 07:08 AM
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Yes I am back from one week ban camp.

Good news is after a 3 year hiatus, I went back to see my Dialectical Behavioral Therapist (DBT) Tuesday night. DBT is clinically proven to help those with Borderline Personality Disorder, bulimia and depression.

She immediately called me out on my bull**** and excuses.

She said it was good that I went 5 months without dating but need to get back on track with that. She said riding the cawk carousel with young guys distracts me from my crappy living situation and that I need to stay present, so that I feel the pain and do something vs. escape from it.

She also wants me back in the Skills group. I did 6 months of Skills group in 2013, which is with other Borderline Personality Disorder people. They recommend you repeat the program a 2nd time, but I didn't do it as it's $100 a week for 6 months.

Immediately my stomach problems went away. I literally looked 6 months pregnant and couldn't digest food for the past few months. She's coming up with a plan of action to modify negative behaviors and focus on getting a new job and moving forward with the divorce I put on hold last year.
post 1490917291 04-13-2017, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Na, never been. I was supposed to go with "don't tell me what to do girl" but I was running late as usual so we never went.

How far are you from Niagara Falls, Canada border bruh?

This. It has never hurt me, neither has "lol". Although I do begin to refrain once she realizes I can be cheeky.
Yeah, same. I've never been there before either, but this girl LOVES wildlife and stuff and I think we might check out a few aquariums in the coming weeks. She is speaking to me as if she plans on sticking around for quite a while, which is a little bit quick but it doesn't bother me. Kind of a little exciting. I guess that's when you know you're down for someone.

I can probably throw a rock from my bedroom and have it land at the border. Exaggerating of course, but from where I currently sit, I can get to the border within about 10 minutes.

I use emojis all the time. I love emojis. I used to think they were bitch mode but they actually help a lot provided you only use them to be cheeky.
post 1490926101 04-13-2017, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
This is my last batch:

Girl 1 - 35YO - Lunch on 3/31. Haven't talked to her since and do not plan on it.
Girl 2 "L1" - 27YO, Dinner 3/31, Lunch 4/4, She asked me to lunch again 4/6, but cancelled due to lack of time and has not contacted me to schedule another date.
Girl 3 "L2" - 34YO, Lunch 4/3, Lunch 4/7, Dinner, and fell asleep in her bed 4/8, She is now in Europe until 4/20. Pretty sure she is into me.
Girl 4 - 27YO, sent me nudes, still in contact, but I have not locked down a date yet.
Girl 5 - 32YO, Got coffee 4/6, I talked my ass off and don't think I made a good impression. She hasn't contacted me. Very nice woman, but I also was not all that attracted to her, though I would go out with her again if she wanted.
Girl 6 - 38YO - Def my type, but flaky as ****. Basically scheduled 2 days to meet up, but she never followed up to set the plans in concrete. Done with her, which is a shame because she seems like she would be a good match based on our conversations and phone calls if she wasn't so undependable.
Girl 7 - 38YO - Last talked to her Wednesday. Said she wanted to meet this week. She was going out of town this weekend and would be busy yesterday and today. I'll probably follow up with her tonight or tomorrow morning.

There's a couple more that I wasn't really interested in that I let die.
post 1490937201 04-13-2017, 10:27 AM
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[QUOTE=deadliftbrah19 post_id=1490926101][img]https://i.imgflip.com/19bz1u.jpg [/img[/QUOTE]While you were gone I realized that I am a much happier person when you are banned.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1490937531 04-13-2017, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
While you were gone I realized that I am a much happier person when you are banned.
Ask your therapist what he thinks about that.

Do you prefer CheekyChris?
post 1490938081 04-13-2017, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
While you were gone I realized that I am a much happier person when you are banned.


lmaooooo
post 1490938991 04-13-2017, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Kinda off topic, but curious about your opinions on this.

In the past two weeks you've dated all of these girls, in order to find the best, most compatible partner. Which is pretty typical in modern dating. Chances are you won't find 1 in this batch, and mill through another 10 over the next couple of months.

How is it, that only a few decades ago, people dated a small handful of people and ended up getting married - and, in my own parents/grandparents cases they stayed together for life and love one another deeply.

- Do we have too many options, where we become hyper selective and never settle?
- Do you see older generations as probably matching with the sub-optimal person, but made it work anyway?

Which model do you overall think is better; I can see the logical level reasoning behind the modern methods - date higher #'s and you'll land on the best one - in theory... right.

My own opinion is that the modern way is overall worse - as humans we see options - we don't care to work on incompatibilities anymore, but rather just move on. Everyone is flawed, no two people will connect perfectly but we are conditioned to think otherwise - and it's easier to just give up and move on.

A balance would be great. And I've proposed my own approach before - date 1 at a time - giving it at least a fighting chance to survive.
I agree. When I look at my parents and grandparents, they both met in school. There was no online dating nor a cawk carousel.

In both generations, there was no birth control, so premarital sex was frowned upon for obvious reasons. If you clicked well with someone you met at school, then you married her within a few years.

They also stayed with each other during tough times. Financial problems will send couples to divorce court today. They stuck by each other and eventually Grandpa's business turned around. My parents are MUCH happier in retirement than they were working and raising children.

My Dad was also WAY more alpha than today's men. He would never allow someone to come on our property or present harm to us. I felt safe with him. My Mom never cheated on him. I don't blame her. I would never cheat on him with his temper either! He laid down the law and ran the household but was flexible enough to stay home when my Mom earned more money. He still was a strict disciplinarian with me when he was home and didn't just sit home as he was working on his MBA.

Online dating is a joke. The only marriages I've seen IRL are from eHarmony, and even now those people are struggling. Online dating is good for the boner buffet but that's about it.

Our parents and grandparents had it right. We are the fuk ups.
post 1490939481 04-13-2017, 10:47 AM
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Update: The chick from Tinder actually did reply back but 3 days later......just lol. She said: Yay we can be gym buddies ������. I asked for her number to schedule a gym meetup and to figure out what gym we're gonna workout at. She responded relatively quicker and gave me her number, I told her I would text her sometime.

Now I wasn't expecting her to respond back at all so she surprised me again. At the same time, she's probably not too interested or doesn't take Tinder that seriously but I was like fuk it and went for it. I'll see where it goes even though she might flake.

How long should I wait again to text if you got a Tinder Chick's number?
post 1490940161 04-13-2017, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
While you were gone I realized that I am a much happier person when you are banned.
Awwww don't say that....

And thats quite the "heater" you got there with all those women...
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Update: The chick from Tinder actually did reply back but 3 days later......just lol. She said: Yay we can be gym buddies ������. I asked for her number to schedule a gym meetup and to figure out what gym we're gonna workout at. She responded relatively quicker and gave me her number, I told her I would text her sometime.

Now I wasn't expecting her to respond back at all so she surprised me again. At the same time, she's probably not too interested or doesn't take Tinder that seriously but I was like fuk it and went for it. I'll see where it goes even though she might flake.
I do not recommend first date being gym. Get her to meet up with you outside of the gym first. She needs to see you as a viable sexual partner, not a "gym buddy."

Use the gym as a carrot, not the cabbage.
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post 1490940951 04-13-2017, 10:58 AM
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Ex finally signing divorce papers and sending to me, she publically admitted to adultery by putting up new relationship status on FB, state is pro-military/deployed contractors' so win win for me if she pulls any bs, also I will get back $50k+ I made in mortgage payments the past 5 years no fault states are a beautiful thing for men. I feel bad for my kids but I have a few months left on contract and will have enough to buy a house in cash once I'm finished so I'll be set...her on the other hand she's fuked. All I can say is stay patient and karma will slowly come to those that wrong you.
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post 1490942791 04-13-2017, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
She is speaking to me as if she plans on sticking around for quite a while, which is a little bit quick but it doesn't bother me. Kind of a little exciting. I guess that's when you know you're down for someone.
My new girl is doing the same thing and saying all kinds of sweet chit and I share the same view as you as she seems very genuine. Apparently were going to 5 star all inclusive in Mayan Riviera for her business trip in Feb, paid for by her work "if I play my cards right". I didn't know when it was at the time so I replied "got all aces, when we going?" lol. Things are looking REALLY good right now, got a feeling I just might be off the market soon boyos.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I do not recommend first date being gym. Get her to meet up with you outside of the gym first. She needs to see you as a viable sexual partner, not a "gym buddy."

Use the gym as a carrot, not the cabbage.
Like should I say: "Hey I already had a workout today so how about we get some drinks sometime and next time on the day I workout, you can come workout with me" and how long should I wait to first text a Tinder chick? Even though my workout is tomorrow, would it still be viable to say that?
post 1490948121 04-13-2017, 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
Ex finally signing divorce papers and sending to me, she publically admitted to adultery by putting up new relationship status on FB, state is pro-military/deployed contractors' so win win for me if she pulls any bs, also I will get back $50k+ I made in mortgage payments the past 5 years no fault states are a beautiful thing for men. I feel bad for my kids but I have a few months left on contract and will have enough to buy a house in cash once I'm finished so I'll be set...her on the other hand she's fuked. All I can say is stay patient and karma will slowly come to those that wrong you.
I wish I believed in the same things. I'm glad things are turning for you bud, truly. She sounds fuucking vile.
Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
My new girl is doing the same thing and saying all kinds of sweet chit and I share the same view as you as she seems very genuine. Apparently were going to 5 star all inclusive in Mayan Riviera for her business trip in Feb, paid for by her work "if I play my cards right". I didn't know when it was at the time so I replied "got all aces, when we going?" lol. Things are looking REALLY good right now, got a feeling I just might be off the market soon boyos.
Yeah, you're in. My girl says little things like "you're gunna hate it here in my apartment during the summer" and "I will get you this (gag gift) for your birthday" and both of these things are a ways away. So I actually like that kind of thing. I have a similar feeling. I showed James a pic and I have his blessing so everything is working well for me. She's coming over tonight and I'm taking her to a few spots within walking distance of my place, and then we are going to walk my dog. Can't wait to see her, brahs. Probably not a good thing since I've only known her for a month, but it's the truth.
Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Like should I say: "Hey I already had a workout today so how about we get some drinks sometime and next time on the day I workout, you can come workout with me" and how long should I wait to first text a Tinder chick? Even though my workout is tomorrow, would it still be viable to say that?
No, don't even mention the gym thing. Offer actual date-like plans and if she gives you questions about it or mentions the gym just say something like "I mean, I can't let just anyone work out with me. Gotta see if I trust you to make a good spotter first." Don't even mention the gym. Just invite her to a bar or whatever you like.
post 1490957651 04-13-2017, 01:16 PM
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Boyos, Fabi pulled the same **** on me. She always talked about my kids and doing things with us once the time was right and making plans for the summer, even suggesting we save money to take a trip to Italy early next year.

Don't start let your guard down until you get past the 3 month mark. I don't think that is healthy behavior.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1490959491 04-13-2017, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Boyos, Fabi pulled the same **** on me. She always talked about my kids and doing things with us once the time was right and making plans for the summer, even suggesting we save money to take a trip to Italy early next year.

Don't start let your guard down until you get past the 3 month mark. I don't think that is healthy behavior.
Which one was Fabi? And I feel ya man. I haven't let my guard down, but I'd be lying if I said those things weren't nice to hear. At some point, I need to trust my gut a little bit.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
Which one was Fabi? And I feel ya man. I haven't let my guard down, but I'd be lying if I said those things weren't nice to hear. At some point, I need to trust my gut a little bit.
The Brazilian chick that basically made me feel like she thought we were perfect for each other then pulled the "You aren't ready, wait, I'm not ready" BS on me out of no where.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
The Brazilian chick that basically made me feel like she thought we were perfect for each other then pulled the "You aren't ready, wait, I'm not ready" BS on me out of no where.
I know the chance of that happening is always there, but I'm just choosing to be optimistic about this one because 1) it feels slightly different and 2) I've sifted through months of shiit to get here and I think this is the result of all of that work and garbage. But I understand your point and appreciate you raising it. However, I'm going to put my faith in things because my gut just tells me that this could be what I've been looking for.

But we'll see. I know things can end at any time and to not enjoy things until they happen, but hearing those things is really nice when you can feel yourself starting to trust someone a little bit.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I wish I believed in the same things. I'm glad things are turning for you bud, truly. She sounds fuucking vile.



Yeah, you're in. My girl says little things like "you're gunna hate it here in my apartment during the summer" and "I will get you this (gag gift) for your birthday" and both of these things are a ways away. So I actually like that kind of thing. I have a similar feeling. I showed James a pic and I have his blessing so everything is working well for me. She's coming over tonight and I'm taking her to a few spots within walking distance of my place, and then we are going to walk my dog. Can't wait to see her, brahs. Probably not a good thing since I've only known her for a month, but it's the truth.



No, don't even mention the gym thing. Offer actual date-like plans and if she gives you questions about it or mentions the gym just say something like "I mean, I can't let just anyone work out with me. Gotta see if I trust you to make a good spotter first." Don't even mention the gym. Just invite her to a bar or whatever you like.
Will do, it seems like she doesn't text a whole lot of words. Idk if she ain't interested, flaky or just she doesn't like texting but I will see. I've dealt with flaky chicks before. Sent her a pretty funny first text btw.
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Meenman good ****. And breh. Are ya'll hiring or nah?
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I know the chance of that happening is always there, but I'm just choosing to be optimistic about this one because 1) it feels slightly different and 2) I've sifted through months of shiit to get here and I think this is the result of all of that work and garbage. But I understand your point and appreciate you raising it. However, I'm going to put my faith in things because my gut just tells me that this could be what I've been looking for.

But we'll see. I know things can end at any time and to not enjoy things until they happen, but hearing those things is really nice when you can feel yourself starting to trust someone a little bit.
That's exactly why I started letting my guard down. Women that can get that hot that fast, can also get cold just as fast. I'm not saying it's going to happen, but keep a healthy attachment level. If it's mean to work, it shouldn't matter.

So of course, while trying to lay low this week I have two matches on tinder msg me. One is super cute 31, no kids, and doesn't seem to mind that I have kids. Seems like she is down to go out. The other one is 32 and has two young kids. She's cute, but I'm not giving her much attention yet.

L2 has been in constant contact with me while in Europe.

Oh, and the woman I got coffee with last week also msged me, but she's never really been the engaging type so I lose interest in our text conversations pretty quickly and haven't asked her out again.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Meenman good ****. And breh. Are ya'll hiring or nah?
They aren't and it's gone downhill fast...I am headed to Iraq in a few months anyways. Once I get settled I'll fire off your resume brother, but it'll mostly be Area Security/QRF chit to be honest if you're comfortable with that type of stuff.
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They aren't and it's gone downhill fast...I am headed to Iraq in a few months anyways. Once I get settled I'll fire off your resume brother, but it'll mostly be Area Security/QRF chit to be honest if you're comfortable with that type of stuff.
Fuark and I don't really care. Free food, gym, and some cash flow. I'm in.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Fuark and I don't really care. Free food, gym, and some cash flow. I'm in.
Noted, it'll be a few months once I get there...my buddy just got my resume put to the top, it is all who you know in this world sorta lol
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
Noted, it'll be a few months once I get there...my buddy just got my resume put to the top, it is all who you know in this world sorta lol
Gotcha and that is very true.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Boyos, Fabi pulled the same **** on me. She always talked about my kids and doing things with us once the time was right and making plans for the summer, even suggesting we save money to take a trip to Italy early next year.

Don't start let your guard down until you get past the 3 month mark. I don't think that is healthy behavior.
Def not letting my guard down. I'm just being positive and going with the flow and showing her a fun time. Hard not to when she has not revealed any red flags (I did dig) and seems very genuine.

As I've gotten older and even from reading this chit on here, I disconnect rather easy if it's required. If you don't try you won't succeed!
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have opportunities to attend events with people I know to socialize and have fun but the thing is I cannot run. I can go to a event next month, a small 5k run but if I do my back could go out for six months+... Sucks that I use to be big into running then one day docs are like please don't run or do any impact sports due to my back.. Fml I may still go but just walk idk.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
That's exactly why I started letting my guard down. Women that can get that hot that fast, can also get cold just as fast. I'm not saying it's going to happen, but keep a healthy attachment level. If it's mean to work, it shouldn't matter.
You sound exactly like me. The moment I let my guard down I freaked out, and even told my girl that I'm not used to letting my guard down this fast. She was understanding, and guard has been in full force ever since. She definitely was an instagram sloot like 2 years ago, entering in bikini contests, has 4k followers, etc. She went on a hiatius a few months before we started talking and has only posted twice since and both of which were dates that I took her on. We texted for 3 months almost everyday before even going out once, I've dug for red flags, but can't really find any outside of the ex instasloot and that she does like to club about twice a month. However, when she has gone out, she sends me selfies/pictures of her and she textes me continuously throughout the night even after I tell her just to go out and enjoy a girls' night out. Outside of that small blip, which I've expressed to her, she realizes and attempts to address any doubts that I have about her, she's amazing.

I feel like I'm going to let my guard down very soon, and honestly it scares the **** out me. I've also told her as much. Hold me misc.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
That's exactly why I started letting my guard down. Women that can get that hot that fast, can also get cold just as fast. I'm not saying it's going to happen, but keep a healthy attachment level. If it's mean to work, it shouldn't matter.

So of course, while trying to lay low this week I have two matches on tinder msg me. One is super cute 31, no kids, and doesn't seem to mind that I have kids. Seems like she is down to go out. The other one is 32 and has two young kids. She's cute, but I'm not giving her much attention yet.

L2 has been in constant contact with me while in Europe.

Oh, and the woman I got coffee with last week also msged me, but she's never really been the engaging type so I lose interest in our text conversations pretty quickly and haven't asked her out again.
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