Don't do it man, I rather stick a toothpick up a lion's ass in a phone booth than be desperate enough to have sex with some really fat black chick. You will regret it. Years ago, I almost had sex with an older woman that was not that good looking but something inside told me no. You might have to break that no fap.

Im not even on no fap dude. I just have a really high drive. To the point where its almost torture

Yours bro

Tried to setup something one more time with girl from class and she says "just started seeing someone, bowling sounds fun but I understand if this changes things".

My question now is do I just cut my losses and cut contact to just school, or do I say **** it and just go bowling anyway and at least build a friendship if possible?

Happy vibes all around, this great!Congrats bruh, so happy for you!Sigh, he does have it in him. I knew it!!!!Thanks for the kind words breadrin!

Regarding your sitch: absolutely go for it man. Fact of life is that more often than not, LTR's are established when 2 people are introduced to each other by fam/friends right? The only bad part about it is that if you guys have a falling out, it may affect your relationship with your buddy. You seem like a good dude though so even if it does happen, I would expect you to be civil.Cupcake!!!! Where you been?? Sounds like things are going well with you, good to hear!Horry chit, FU3L tells us something about his life. The only thing I knew about you before this is that you got a gf lol.

Sounds like you got a solid girl, I like how she never pressured you at all or suggested moving into your place like most would. Also, sounds like this will be good for you guys as it'll give you more time together. Awesome brah!

Update on sitch with my girl: went on 3rd date on Friday. We met up at my house and we naturally kiss each other after greeting with a hug. Went to dinner, casino and then back to my place. Start making out, I try to escalate and she says no. 4th meet up on Sunday night at her house. I came 20min late because I'm late for everything and she didn't seem too impressed by it lol. We exchanged our position on lateness and then immediately picked up where we left off on Friday at my house; heavy making out, etc. This time, she is throwing in more teasing but NOT letting me escalate, all advances shut down despite her knee even pressing up on my member (verifying size if you will). I think she is trying to gain some power between us/make me chase (homie don't play dat, obvy) and she is being cautious because she wants to ensure I am in this for the right reasons. She has been lead on by guys in the past who just used her and then dip. I'm okay with waiting it out just she's being mean with the teasing, hate that chit lol. Last night she sends hotttt l|nger|e pics as we say our good night's. Hnnnnnnng. She is gone on a business trip till the weekend so I went over to the ex's last night as its been a couple weeks for me. Epic as usual, legit needed that.

She isn't interested in dating.
You are not interested in just friends.

Only talk to her for school.
She know what you want and she knows how to reach you if she changes her mind.

Hold on a sec, you went over to your ex's place? Son, I am disappoint.

Why would you ever be disappointed in that? Homie got his nut.

Thanks, Nedo. Things are good for sure.

Update:

I think I am close to leaving my job. I have a backup already secured. I am continuing my education in the fall as well, and this job will work with that. So I think a restructuring of my life is in the distance.

So you're gonna get your master's? Your master's in what?

Mental health counseling, but in a clinical setting. I have certs that allow me to work in counseling however this will allow me to work in any clinical setting out there.

I am disappoint cause he had sex with his EX! He is too much of a sex-hungry monkey to move on. Even if she reached out first, Nedo should have ignored her. Nothing good can happen from going back to an EX. If he wanted to bust a nut, he could have just fapped.

Nedo, I do not care what you have to say about this. IMO that was a simp move and your stock price has fallen.

Be cute, athletic, mature, align with my belief system, good communicator, good with kids, good with money, have a good career, no kids, or at least not younger than mine.North CarolinaDef interested in how this plays out. From my recent experiences, I'd say she's definitely on the fence and stringing you along until she figures out which way to fall. I'm pretty sure she knows she has you and is giving you just enough to stick around until she figures it out. You speak as if you are in complete control, but you aren't, she is. It's pretty sickening how good women are at this.

I'd say completely pull back from any physical intimacy and make her chase you.I didn't say anything, but on Friday after I got home from the gym my ex-wife came over to get some things. She didn't know I was home, but I was laying in bed relaxing and she came over and laid with me. We ended up chatting for a few and I just pounced on her and we started going at it for like 3 hours. Seriously the best sex we've ever had, not that it was ever bad. Still the best lay and kisser I've ever experienced and I've been making out with a lot of women lately. lol. Not sure I'll ever find the same level of physical chemistry with another woman.

No ragrets.Dooooo it!.

Well, you already have some experience in mental health counseling on here - get this forum on your resume.

I've already decided to. This job is a dead end and they do nothing to help us do better work. It's frustrating and the only thing wrong with my life presently.Haha, if only. I'd be elevated to psychotherapist.

Sincerest apologies kind sir, I hope you can forgive me. But..but...but you don't understand the skills of the ex man lol. To put it into perspective, first of 3 rounds was beejer and I was basically shaking the entire 15-20min. I'm still in awe.

I've been dry for like 3 weeks almost and needed to release bruh. No leading ex on, she knows the deal although was very sad when I saw her. I should of never told her about this new girl but I didn't want to blind side her with it either as its looking like it will turn into a relationship (still care for her as a person). I can't have her texting me either for new girl to see especially after we discussed boundaries and not keeping in touch with ex is one of them. Although we should be soon, things aren't official, so I can still see who I want technically but I don't want to explore jelly avenue with this one given she has been genuine and I suspect it may put her off as well. Furthermore, when we discussed on Friday, we both mentioned not dating anyone else and I didn't think I would see ex at the time so it could be seen as lying. I also figured last nights release would allow me to keep my composure with the new girl as well given she has been teasing me. I ain't used to this teasing nonsense lol. Wouldn't even sleep over (on separate beds even) and drove home 45min at 3:30AM dead tired. She just keeps scoring points with me.

Its always been said that ex's always sniff out competition. Get this brahs: no word from ex in 2 weeks then as soon as I start dating this new girl she sniffs it out. I saw new girl 4 times and ex texted me 3 times WHILE I WAS WITH THE NEW GIRL wtf lol.

Female nature of peace.

Was going to say exactly this.

I'd also start losing interest at this point.
doesn't matter how hot she is either.

It's all good dude, it ain't the end of the world. Just make sure that if things get serious with the new girl, cut the ex out of your life.

That is a weird coincidence that she texted you 3 times while you were with your new girl. Strong spidey senses lol.

Be Careful Mr. Cheek. I could have a #relapse2017 and hit on you.

cradle robber

Lmao, you will relapse eventually. Get in line, I have many suitors who want to smell my dink. However, they will all be disappointed because I ain't sharing my genitals with anyone!

Girls have the keen sense, but especially exes for whatever reason. First time I asked my girl out, my ex hit me up the same day to grab drinks and "catch up". It's freaky.

She was probably stalking your social media and patterns. A lot of women are so incredibly interesting their main hobbies are gossip, social media, and calling/texting. Aka "traveling and adventures".

Hi guys I am going to Atlanta to that Indian thing this weekend. I'll update you guys if anything happens

Interesting, I don't get that vibe at all. The only thing she is in control of is the key to the treasure chest, as all are. I told her I hold the key though lol. She's said herself that men don't respect women who give it up right away and stupid me agreed on the first date (I shouldn't have confessed, this ain't helping me). I would say she is chasing me; messages daily, gives more effort than I to keep text convo going, always looking to see me, etc. Last night she specifically mentioned "I am really excited to be with you". Also asking me what I want for my bday which is in May (more than once). Sacrifices her sleep on work night drastically to spend maximal time with me. Seems like I am in her future plans, only time will tell. If not, butt hurt for a day and rinse and repeat, right?

What suggests to you that she is in complete control? Because she is not ready to give it up? She is using her box to have some form of control over me and to ensure I want a relationship. That's out the window though when she does give it up. Once it does happen, I would not tolerate her using her box for leverage over me. I am simply respecting the fact that she wants to wait and I like that given she seems relationship caliber. I don't want her to feel pressured. Before we even met, she REALLY grilled me with questions to ensure I am looking for a relationship and not hook up.Even if you were looking for a relationship?

I've left my job.

Time to sugar momma it ups bro

I have enough to live for quite a while but I am a bit nervous and anxious to get to the next step already. It's nice not having to worry for a little while, though.

Can relate to what Nedo and Pondus are saying about ex's. I had to give my ex some stuff the other week that was still at my flat, we ended up sat in my office from like 1900 till 2100 and ended up ****ing on the sofa with the main office door unlocked. It was absolutely ridiculous. If we haven't seen each other for a while we cannot be in the same room without ****ing each others brains out regardless of whether we are happy with each other or pissed off.

Back to the street corner you go....lol. I had much bigger dreams for you brah. Stay safe.