Would you allow your wife to have a gf?

04-18-2017, 10:12 PM

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Would you allow your wife to have a gf?

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I have a friend that I have known almost all my life. We are very close so we talk about everything. I know that she has experimented with other women and the other night the topic of her and her husband having a threesome came up.
They did MFF a few months back for her husband's bday and ended up liking it.

She now wants a girlfriend /**** buddy for herself . She's fine with sharing her "friend" every now and then and having threesomes but she wants a gf just for herself sometimes without her husband.

She says she feels like it would be a double standard (which it would be) for her to be able to do this without her husband having a girlfriend for himself(which she's not ok with I'm guessing) and he's not gay so he isn't interested in having a bf lol

Her husband has teased her about starting at another woman's ass and they regularly go to strip clubs together. He seems like he may be ok with this (?) She doesn't want to rock the boat Because they have been having a bit of trouble lately in their marriage.

So should she ask her husband if he would be ok with this or just let it be? She joked that she's having an almost midlife crises...She's 32

I promise this isn't my current situation but if you wanna pretend ..Whatever

Something similar though: I have wanted to go to a strip club but wouldn't want my husband to. He says he would be ok with me going but I don't go because of the double standard.

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Had a MFF 3some with husband and liked it
Now wants a gf/ **** buddy for herself
Double standard
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04-18-2017, 10:16 PM

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No but that pretty much means the marriage is over.

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04-18-2017, 10:18 PM

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Did you want to go to male strip club or female strip club

04-18-2017, 10:21 PM

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04-18-2017, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted By ElCaballo33⏩

No but that pretty much means the marriage is over.

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04-18-2017, 10:24 PM

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That's cheating. If I am married and I tell my wife I want to fuk another man she is gonna lose her chit. Why shouldn't the guy do the same? It's cheating, no and's if's and but's. I dont' play that ****

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04-18-2017, 10:24 PM

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how would u feel if ur husband wanted to have a relationship with some gay dude?

04-18-2017, 10:25 PM

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I remember my old RA(Residential Assistant) asked all the roommates living in the dorms, "Would you consider it cheating if you saw your gf kissing another girl?" All the guys just said, "That's hot!" All the girls were the ones having a big debate about it. lmao.

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04-18-2017, 10:26 PM

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idk XD

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04-18-2017, 10:28 PM

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I guess if you want an FWB instead of a wife, sure.

04-18-2017, 10:31 PM

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Yeah.. that marriage is definitely over.

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04-18-2017, 10:33 PM

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So what ur saying is ur a sloot, we already knew this.

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04-18-2017, 10:35 PM

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04-18-2017, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩

That's cheating. If I am married and I tell my wife I want to fuk another man she is gonna lose her chit. Why shouldn't the guy do the same? It's cheating, no and's if's and but's. I dont' play that ****

I agree. I personally wouldn't ever have a threesome. Ain't nobody ****ing my husband but me lol

Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩

Did you want to go to male strip club or female strip club

Female. I like tities and am open about being turned on by female bodies but I am not emotionally attached/attracted to women. Have never been with a woman besides messing around when younger (teens)

Im sure I'd be turned on if I went but I would really like to go just to see what it's like. I'm facinated by strippers....but I won't go because like I said I wouldn't be comfortable with my husband going and I almost feel like it's bordering on cheating. So I'll probably never satisfy my curiosity

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04-18-2017, 10:36 PM

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If I had a wife and she asked a phucked up question like that I would prolly file for divorce.

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04-18-2017, 10:36 PM

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I would let my GF/Wife have a girl **** buddy as long as the sex with me didn't stop

I'm not threatened by a girl lmao

" She doesn't want to rock the boat Because they have been having a bit of trouble lately in their marriage."

OK with this statement in mind, No

But If everything in the relationship was fine and healthy and she wanted to **** girls too, go ahead as long as no dudes are involved and we still have sex/connection I couldn't care less

04-18-2017, 10:37 PM

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That marrriage is over. If this is your situation you're fuked up. Just divorce the poor badtard

04-18-2017, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted By Mcfreako⏩

So what ur saying is ur a sloot, we already knew this.

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Thread not about me. Friend just dropped this bomb on me last night and thought it would be interesting to ask yall

Originally Posted By ElCaballo33⏩

No but that pretty much means the marriage is over.

You are probably right. Which is sad if so because they have 3 kids together

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04-18-2017, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩

Thread not about me. Friend just dropped this bomb on me last night and thought it would be interesting to ask yall

You are probably right. Which is sad if so because they have 3 kids together

lol having kids changes everything. would not want my wife to be such a whore. why are u friends with such a whore?

04-18-2017, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩

Female. I like tities and am open about being turned on by female bodies but I am not emotionally attached/attracted to women. Have never been with a woman besides messing around when younger (teens)

Im sure I'd be turned on if I went but I would really like to go just to see what it's like. I'm facinated by strippers....but I won't go because like I said I wouldn't be comfortable with my husband going and I almost feel like it's bordering on cheating. So I'll probably never satisfy my curiosity

Ild honestly be cool with a full I was seeing going to a female strip club.

There's even ones where I'm from where touching is allowed, and even tit sucking

04-18-2017, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted By zhengterry⏩

lol having kids changes everything. would not want my wife to be such a whore. why are u friends with such a whore?

Every girl tends to have one extremely slooty friend that gives bad advice and does horrible chit.

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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩

You are probably right. Which is sad if so because they have 3 kids together

I'm just putting myself in the husband's shoes. I would feel like if she asked for that to my face that I am no longer sexually adequate for her. I'm all for spicing things up maybe together looking at the Kama Sutra book or doing some role play kinky chit but not with other people, guess I'm old school but it just feels like opening marriages and/or relationships is more of a selfish thing to fulfill your own desires, too much instant gratification for oneself in today's society while simultaneously disregarding your partner's feelings. And that is sad about the children, would never want to be in that situation.

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Originally Posted By ElCaballo33⏩

No but that pretty much means the marriage is over.

This. It will out 100% bad for the man. Guaranteed she will leave him. Its not so much that she would have sex with a different person, of course thats bad enough but its that she will have an emotional bond with that person. Thats the relationship killer.

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04-18-2017, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted By ExtinctionOG⏩

Every girl tends to have one extremely slooty friend that gives bad advice and does horrible chit.

She actually JUST started really being "out there" sexually like this. Shes a really good mom and responsible. I was kind of surprised for her to tell me all this tbh

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04-18-2017, 10:52 PM

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Long term too much risk of her catching feels. I think just have some more threesomes if that's their thing.

04-18-2017, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted By ElCaballo33⏩

I'm just putting myself in the husband's shoes. I would feel like if she asked for that to my face that I am no longer sexually adequate for her. I'm all for spicing things up maybe together looking at the Kama Sutra book or doing some role play kinky chit but not with other people, guess I'm old school but it just feels like opening marriages and/or relationships is more of a selfish thing to fulfill your own desires, too much instant gratification for oneself in today's society while simultaneously disregarding your partner's feelings. And that is sad about the children, would never want to be in that situation.

Totally agree. To me it doesn't matter if it's another female or not, it's cheating.
I think even if her husband is ok with it it would go downhill from there.

I'm gonna talk to her about it tomorrow. Don't want her to ruin her marriage over some "wild oats" kinda thing

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Originally Posted By Girlgoneweird⏩

Totally agree. To me it doesn't matter if it's another female or not, it's cheating.
I think even if her husband is ok with it it would go downhill from there.

I'm gonna talk to her about it tomorrow. Don't want her to ruin her marriage over some "wild oats" kinda thing

Its not cheating if you set ground rules like adults

Let her ask her husband and let them talk through it, she shouldn't hide what she wants a good relationship is all about communication.

If he husband says no and she still wants it, she obviously doesn't value the relationship as much as her selfish desires. If her husband says no and she respects it even tho she wants it, that's a compromise and its part of being in a mature relationship.

We all have wants and unless you believe in reincarnation this is the only life you get, you should chase after what you want if you are willing to deal with the consequences of your actions.

This could be an underlying issue in their relationship and sex life, and if she bottles it up she is going to be miserable and in turn make him miserable. If she brings it up and they talk they can solve their problem even if it means divorce.

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OP, listen up SRS (If your not a low-life troll)

1.) Have the wife scanned for a potential brain tumor and have her speak to a therapist. SRS No joke. Sudden psycho-motor deviations are never a good sign.

2.) If there are no physical or psychological anomalies, then the marriage is over and the wife is already most likely checked out.

3.) The wife is already f*cking around behind the husbands back and has probably been doing this for a LONG time. She is just now desensitized enough to bring it up to her husband with out large amounts of guilt.

I legit feel bad for the kids.... what a sad situation.

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