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post 1491666351 04-19-2017, 09:02 AM
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I've been thinking about quitting my job too, but I keep buying stupid **** so I don't have that money laying around to live off of
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Originally Posted By HeBrewHammah⏩
Back to the street corner you go
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Even if you were looking for a relationship?
What does that have to do with anything?

Whether i have sex on the first date or 3rd date it has had zero bearing on how the relationship turns out.
All I can say is if i haven't had sex by date 3 it never happened and some of them were banging another guy while stringing me along.

Also, i want to know i'm sexually compatible with a woman before i invest too much in her.
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
What does that have to do with anything?

Whether i have sex on the first date or 3rd date it has had zero bearing on how the relationship turns out.
All I can say is if i haven't had sex by date 3 it never happened and some of them were banging another guy while stringing me along.

Also, i want to know i'm sexually compatible with a woman before i invest too much in her.
It attests to their quality IMO. Being reserved in terms of how quickly she throws down CAN suggest she is not a sl00t and respects her body to not just give it up to anybody. This is one of my biggest turn on's tbh and something I do look for given I want to settle. If she would of thrown down first date, she would never be considered for a relationship with me, even if all else was 100% on point. I guess I am different than you in this regard, I am willing to put in the time. Its not like we high school and she going to make me wait 6 months.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
It attests to their quality IMO. Being reserved in terms of how quickly she throws down CAN suggest she is not a sl00t and respects her body to not just give it up to anybody. This is one of my biggest turn on's tbh and something I do look for given I want to settle. If she would of thrown down first date, she would never be considered for a relationship with me, even if all else was 100% on point. I guess I am different than you in this regard, I am willing to put in the time. Its not like we high school and she going to make me wait 6 months.
Me personally at this point, idc if a woman gives it up on the first date, like NitrogenWidget said, it has no bearing on how the relationship turns out. Plus I have a high sex drive and I'm not looking for anything serious so I really don't feel like waiting several weeks, I mean I could but having sex on the first date doesn't bother me.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
It attests to their quality IMO. Being reserved in terms of how quickly she throws down CAN suggest she is not a sl00t and respects her body to not just give it up to anybody. This is one of my biggest turn on's tbh and something I do look for given I want to settle. If she would of thrown down first date, she would never be considered for a relationship with me, even if all else was 100% on point. I guess I am different than you in this regard, I am willing to put in the time. Its not like we high school and she going to make me wait 6 months.
I can go many months without sex and it doesn't bother me, I've gone years without. Low sex drive I guess. Companionship was the main reason I started dating.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I can go many months without sex and it doesn't bother me, I've gone years without. Low sex drive I guess.
No you're just not addicted to the dopamine it releases. I know plenty of people that go 6 months to a year without sex. People that need sex daily are addicts, no difference than an alcoholic.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
it has no bearing on how the relationship turns out
Sure it does. The woman who gives it up on the first date is far more likely to cheat or easily stray when love in paradise is rocky. Its about probability in my mind. Yes the same is possible with any women, I just think its less likely with a woman who respects herself.
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
No you're just not addicted to the dopamine it releases. I know plenty of people that go 6 months to a year without sex. People that need sex daily are addicts, no difference than an alcoholic.
Perhaps. My libido was extremely high as a teenager, but it died down - it spikes sometimes. I still enjoy sex (most of the time), depends on whether there's good anticipation/buildup or not. Fap maybe 1/2x a week. I was gonna get my testosterone levels checked (on advice of miscers a while ago).
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
It attests to their quality IMO. Being reserved in terms of how quickly she throws down CAN suggest she is not a sl00t and respects her body to not just give it up to anybody. This is one of my biggest turn on's tbh and something I do look for given I want to settle. If she would of thrown down first date, she would never be considered for a relationship with me, even if all else was 100% on point. I guess I am different than you in this regard, I am willing to put in the time. Its not like we high school and she going to make me wait 6 months.
but...you are banging your ex.
How can i even take this train of thought from you seriously?
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so thursday's date just remembered she is going out of town friday and needs to clean her one bedroom apartment/pack up thursday instead of coming over for the hot tub.

sunday she gave me bob's enthusiastically so it wasn't like i was moving to fast for her on what was going to be date 3.
She hasn't tried to reschedule either.
hold me brah's.

Was talking to 2 other chicks but they were making zero effort. no asking questions, boring AF so I stopped initiating.
then they started initiating but i'm no longer interested.
It's like i'm no longer paying attention and NOW they are making an effort?
fook that. massive turn-off.

I got another one off tinder who gave me her FB because she said tinder wasn't for her.
She can at least form complete sentences.
so messaging her a little trying to find out if i want to meet.
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
but...you are banging your ex.
How can i even take this train of thought from you seriously?
Kind of agree, Nedo.

I'm totally being a hypocrite here because I just f-ed my ex, while technically dating L2, but my sitch is a bit different since it's still new and I have no idea if she is even going to want to see me once she gets back from Europe tomorrow, so...

The fact that you know she is being cautious because of previous experiences and you still went and ****ed your ex because she didn't give it up, makes me think you are not ready for a relationship.

Guarantee if she knew, she would not want to see you again. Even though the two of you are not committed yet, she is under the impression that is what you two are working towards.
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Vic, have you secured the next gig for sure yet or what brother?
Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
but...you are banging your ex.
How can i even take this train of thought from you seriously?
Kind of agree with him Nedo...I am with Nedo on the chicks making me wait thing, I believe that them giving it up super quick shows no value on their part, and my mental thought processes will always be geared like that. But you shouldn't have gone to bang your ex man...I dunno that just isn't cool, and also what CheekyChris said, exes should stay there! But we're all different!

Pondus...no clue that you and your ex still got it on...don't you think that takes some mental toll on you in some sort of way at all?
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
but...you are banging your ex.
How can i even take this train of thought from you seriously?
Nedo is the type of guy who berates someone (me) for having strong ethics and principles; what behavior do you expect from a guy like that, lmao
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Originally Posted By bassinyoface⏩
Pondus...no clue that you and your ex still got it on...don't you think that takes some mental toll on you in some sort of way at all?
No mental or emotional toll on me. The last time we had slept together was on what would have been our 10th anniversary almost a year ago. After that I was like, "no more." She had asked me quite a few times over the past year, but I declined, mostly due to the fact that each time she asked I was looking to get into a relationship with a woman I was seeing (*cough* Nedo). Now that I have slept with another woman since our separation that emotional connection is now gone for me.

Though...damn, the sex this time was so good I want more. I wonder if it is because I am over it and it was 100% passion and nothing else.

I'm pretty sure it had an emotional toll on her though. She accidentally started calling me "babe" again, and keeps having to correct herself. Fairly certain no one has ever sexed her as good as I have, and in my limited partnerships she's still the best I've had.

I even told her I hoped I can find someone that I have the same physical chemistry with.
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Originally Posted By bassinyoface⏩
Vic, have you secured the next gig for sure yet or what brother?
The door is always open at a previous job I left three years ago, however I don't know which direction I wanna go in yet.

Haven't seen my gf since Sunday but we have plans for tomorrow night and Friday afternoon. She is heading out of town for the weekend for a friend's birthday so I'm just gunna say peace out and let her do her thing. Definitely looking forward to seeing her tomorrow, can't wait actually.
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I prefer to be roasted at 400 degrees broski's

What's the issue with seeing the ex??? Me and new girl are not exclusive, I ain't cheating. It really doesn't seem like she is but new girl could be getting side piece too for all I know. We are both still on POF and I'm waiting on her to say something about it first.

Admittedly yes I'm sure she wouldn't be impressed if she knew. What woman would be pleased to learn of competition though?

Luc1fer: you take your moral compass too far sometimes IMO
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Originally Posted By bassinyoface⏩
Vic, have you secured the next gig for sure yet or what brother?



Kind of agree with him Nedo...I am with Nedo on the chicks making me wait thing, I believe that them giving it up super quick shows no value on their part, and my mental thought processes will always be geared like that. But you shouldn't have gone to bang your ex man...I dunno that just isn't cool, and also what CheekyChris said, exes should stay there! But we're all different!

Pondus...no clue that you and your ex still got it on...don't you think that takes some mental toll on you in some sort of way at all?
so you actually think because a woman makes you wait she has never had a ONS or slept with someone on the first date?
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I prefer to be roasted at 400 degrees broski's

What's the issue with seeing the ex??? Me and new girl are not exclusive, I ain't cheating. It really doesn't seem like she is but new girl could be getting side piece too for all I know. We are both still on POF and I'm waiting on her to say something about it first.

Admittedly yes I'm sure she wouldn't be impressed if she knew. What woman would be pleased to learn of competition though?

Luc1fer: you take your moral compass too far sometimes IMO
the issue is you are banging an ex while saying "she is relationship material because she makes me wait" how do you not see how silly that sounds.
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So my boss got me a Surface Book and I am laterally writing this with a pen in my own handwriting with out any calibration.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
No mental or emotional toll on me. The last time we had slept together was on what would have been our 10th anniversary almost a year ago. After that I was like, "no more." She had asked me quite a few times over the past year, but I declined, mostly due to the fact that each time she asked I was looking to get into a relationship with a woman I was seeing (*cough* Nedo). Now that I have slept with another woman since our separation that emotional connection is now gone for me.

Though...damn, the sex this time was so good I want more. I wonder if it is because I am over it and it was 100% passion and nothing else.

I'm pretty sure it had an emotional toll on her though. She accidentally started calling me "babe" again, and keeps having to correct herself. Fairly certain no one has ever sexed her as good as I have, and in my limited partnerships she's still the best I've had.

I even told her I hoped I can find someone that I have the same physical chemistry with.
hmm..sounds like it could get sticky, in a good way but also in a bad one too!
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The door is always open at a previous job I left three years ago, however I don't know which direction I wanna go in yet.

Haven't seen my gf since Sunday but we have plans for tomorrow night and Friday afternoon. She is heading out of town for the weekend for a friend's birthday so I'm just gunna say peace out and let her do her thing. Definitely looking forward to seeing her tomorrow, can't wait actually.
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
so you actually think because a woman makes you wait she has never had a ONS or slept with someone on the first date?
phuck no, but at the same time you will NEVER know that. You gotta take all the character assessments, stories, talks, etc in consideration. I am pretty good at figuring out when people are lying or hiding things, or the best way is to just casually talk about life like the dawg that I am and that usually puts them at ease to open up about their promiscuity. The goody goods usually get wide eyed, and just show alot of signs of insecurity, etc.

I dunno. I don't disagree with ya! I haven't been duped in this aspect YET, but who's to say it wont happen with the next one!
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
So my boss got me a Surface Book and I am laterally writing this with a pen in my own handwriting with out any calibration.
*literally

*without

Improve your spelling or get down on your knees and drag yourself over to my unzipped fly.

The mic hath dropped. Ur move *******.
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Originally Posted By CheekyChris23⏩
*literally

*without

Improve your spelling or get down on your knees and drag yourself over to my unzipped fly.

The mic hath dropped. Ur move *******.
auto correct, bish.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
It attests to their quality IMO. Being reserved in terms of how quickly she throws down CAN suggest she is not a sl00t and respects her body to not just give it up to anybody. This is one of my biggest turn on's tbh and something I do look for given I want to settle. If she would of thrown down first date, she would never be considered for a relationship with me, even if all else was 100% on point. I guess I am different than you in this regard, I am willing to put in the time. Its not like we high school and she going to make me wait 6 months.
Sounds like you need to talk to that misc chick who made the thread about making dudes wait for sex because arbitrary numbers are what matters.

I've had completely psychotic women not put out on the first date and the best woman I ever dated in my life put out on the first date.

Your anecdotal evidence doesn't cut it just like mine doesn't cut it. But if you think some random waiting of X days is what makes someone relationship material....just lol.
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Guys, making me wait is 1 quality I would look for in a girl when considering a relationship. There are more qualities I look for than just that obviously lol. If you've followed my updates on this girl, you would know that we have hit it off really well. Yes, she could still turn out to be a bad one but I am not going to be a negative Nancy like some of you until she gives me a reason to be.

I think it is safe to assume that the PROBABILITY of a good woman is higher if she makes you wait as opposed to giving it up right away. On the contrary, absolutely its possible to find a good one even if she gives it up right away. You betcha that ain't her first rodeo though and that just turns me off from the get go.
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
No you're just not addicted to the dopamine it releases. I know plenty of people that go 6 months to a year without sex. People that need sex daily are addicts, no difference than an alcoholic.
Absolute dogshiit

You sound like someone who has never had a great sex life for a prolonged period of time. The memories don't fade.

Try having a hot gf who ****s like a porn star for a few years and then see how happy you are with not having sex for 6 months.

Sex can be very awesome and wanting/needing it isn't simply an addiction.

The whole "sex is overrated" argument is for people who have never experienced awesome sex - eg - people who simply bang sluts while drunk, people with boner anxiety or body image issues, people who don't know wtf they're doing and have average experiences and feel like shiit afterwards and then withdraw into a land of self esteem preservation - "sex is overrated man" - it's a depressingly common thing in the modern world.
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How do you deal with mental gymnastics that are happening in your mind when you caught the stories and explanations that contradict? I am learning a sport, running and lifting to occupy my mind. I have supportive siblings as well to pull my mind away from things like this. They were so tired of me talking about this and suggested to stop doing anything and to ignore her.

The girl, that I am seeing, communicates to me clearly on the things that she wants and doesn't want to do. She also explains things to assure me. Who and what etc.

But, in our last meeting, I caught her contradicting things that she said to me. Do you call her out?
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Originally Posted By stu4rt⏩
How do you deal with mental gymnastics that are happening in your mind when you caught the stories and explanations that contradict? I am learning a sport, running and lifting to occupy my mind. I have supportive siblings as well to pull my mind away from things like this. They were so tired of me talking about this and suggested to stop doing anything and to ignore her.

The girl, that I am seeing, communicates to me clearly on the things that she wants and doesn't want to do. She also explains things to assure me. Who and what etc.

But, in our last meeting, I caught her contradicting things that she said to me. Do you call her out?
In short. Words mean little to nothing. Always trust a person's behavior.
post 1492078801 04-22-2017, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted By idontknowbro⏩
Absolute dogshiit

You sound like someone who has never had a great sex life for a prolonged period of time. The memories don't fade.

Try having a hot gf who ****s like a porn star for a few years and then see how happy you are with not having sex for 6 months.

Sex can be very awesome and wanting/needing it isn't simply an addiction.

The whole "sex is overrated" argument is for people who have never experienced awesome sex - eg - people who simply bang sluts while drunk, people with boner anxiety or body image issues, people who don't know wtf they're doing and have average experiences and feel like shiit afterwards and then withdraw into a land of self esteem preservation - "sex is overrated man" - it's a depressingly common thing in the modern world.
I can say the same thing with vodka and wine. I don't have an addiction even though as soon as I get off work it is my first drink.
post 1492249761 04-24-2017, 05:05 AM
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OK, i've been on bumble and tinder and one thing that i find completely weird is when a woman gives you her number then ignores you when you text.
why even give me the number if you are going to do that?
Why not just un-match me?

just the weirdest thing.
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