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post 1492690191 04-27-2017, 11:26 AM
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Ex-GF hit me up after 14 years, wants me to come visit her in FL

We broke up on good terms, her fam was moving away. I was 22 she was 23.... Fast forward 14 years.

Woke up this morning to FB messages, then started texting. She using words like babe and honey. Asked why she messaged me, she replied she was thinking about me. This escalates to her saying I should come visit.

I do have like 3+ weeks of vacation left for the year and enough funds book a chitty Allegiant Air flight...

Since we left each other on good terms, should I say fuk it and visit for a weekend? Almost seems pointless because we live 1500 miles apart.

Thinking of just going NC instead of FL, why drag up old feels?

Thoughts?

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post 1492690421 04-27-2017, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Mcfreako⏩
Ugly as fuk
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post 1492690511 04-27-2017, 11:29 AM
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I wouldn't make a special trip for it, but if you're already in the area then why not?


Ex-sex is usually pretty great and a long weekend with her would be like having a brand new piece of ass with the bonus that you can skip the awkward introduction phase.
post 1492690551 04-27-2017, 11:29 AM
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If you get stirred up easily and catch feels, just move along. 1500 miles for a piece of puss.... you'd get a 8/10 escort for $300 locally. (and save vacation time)
post 1492690691 04-27-2017, 11:30 AM
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would only go if you havent had sex in years and have no prospects of it

1500 miles is so ****ing far and expensive to hang w/someone you havent seen or talk to in 1.5 decades
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So shes 37 and single?


Prepare to be love bombed. You can pretty much ask her to suck your ******* all night long and she will. Shes trying to lock you down.
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whoa whoa whoa, back it up

What happened in between there. Do you have a gf? What's her story?
What's the point of all this?
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'bout a 4/10, but if you're single and have the vacation time: Florida with pretty much guaranteed poos can't be a bad way to spend a weekend.
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Originally Posted By tats27⏩
I wouldn't make a special trip for it, but if you're already in the area then why not?


Ex-sex is usually pretty great and a long weekend with her would be like having a brand new piece of ass with the bonus that you can skip the awkward introduction phase.
Have another ex FWB that lives within 15 miles of her, could kill two sloots with one flute
Originally Posted By Teux⏩
If you get stirred up easily and catch feels, just move along. 1500 miles for a piece of puss.... you'd get a 8/10 escort for $300 locally. (and save vacation time)
Already have a FWB and getting laid isn't a prob. Was more thinking of just catching up, but yea, 1500 miles only work like once a year.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
So shes 37 and single?


Prepare to be love bombed. You can pretty much ask her to suck your ******* all night long and she will. Shes trying to lock you down.
This...at this point you're "the one that got away"...Guaranteed she hits you with the "I don't know why we ever broke up" line.
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post 1492691111 04-27-2017, 11:33 AM
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post 1492691181 04-27-2017, 11:33 AM
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Did she have glow 14 years ago mate?
Any pics from way back then
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post 1492691211 04-27-2017, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By tats27⏩
I wouldn't make a special trip for it, but if you're already in the area then why not?


Ex-sex is usually pretty great and a long weekend with her would be like having a brand new piece of ass with the bonus that you can skip the awkward introduction phase.
This, but gotta make sure you dont get the feels unless you want to up and move your life for her. Or if you have a good enough time, maybe she will move to you?

Guess its worth a shot OP, especially if y'all broke up because of a move. Its happened to me a few times and i would definitely at least meet up with one of them if we ever reconnected.
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post 1492691281 04-27-2017, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
So shes 37 and single?


Prepare to be love bombed. You can pretty much ask her to suck your ******* all night long and she will. Shes trying to lock you down.
Basically this, clearly things havent worked out for her so she's going back to the well.

However, if things ended on good terms, and you really liked her, could be fun. Chat about old times, etc.

I say go for it.
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Originally Posted By velvetmudhole⏩
whoa whoa whoa, back it up

What happened in between there. Do you have a gf? What's her story?
What's the point of all this?
She moved, I met someone and forgot about her. No GF right now, just rando Tinder sloots and FWB. I just woke up to some FB messages, I was thinking about you, etc type of chit.
Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
This...at this point you're "the one that got away"...Guaranteed she hits you with the "I don't know why we ever broke up" line.
Already hit me with the "I should have stayed in Ohio, instead of moving to FL with parents"
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She is using you like a savings account. She got dumped and knows that you will give her positive attention. Soon as she gets it she will be full of confidence again and you will be back out the door.

Dont waste your money and time, lots of nice places in NC.

Why did it end last time? all the old feelings and thoughts will come right back and you will both assume those roles. What heppened to her current relationship? You know what happened, she dumped him and thought it would be easy to find someone else right away like it used to be and realized its not.
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She has a 14 year old hidden kid, doesn't she?
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Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
She is using you like a savings account. She got dumped and knows that you will give her positive attention. Soon as she gets it she will be full of confidence again and you will be back out the door.
brutal yet accurate
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Originally Posted By Tornach⏩
Did she have glow 14 years ago mate?
Any pics from way back then
Lost all my pic from back then, or they were on this chit that was called film.

Maybe I picked a bad pic, who nose?

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Originally Posted By GirthKwake⏩
She moved, I met someone and forgot about her. No GF right now, just rando Tinder sloots and FWB. I just woke up to some FB messages, I was thinking about you, etc type of chit.




Already hit me with the "I should have stayed in Ohio, instead of moving to FL with parents"
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Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
She is using you like a savings account. She got dumped and knows that you will give her positive attention. Soon as she gets it she will be full of confidence again and you will be back out the door.
Could be a lot of this.

However, 14 years is a long gap to just then use someone for attention.

If that were the case you'd expect her to do it with someone more recent.
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Lol high chance of turning out to be a single mother and wants some cash.

She looks like gutter trash, sorry OP.
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Originally Posted By Mcfreako⏩
Ugly as fuk
fuking lost it as the first reply lmao

As for OP, since you guys broke up because of chitty circumstances, and not cause either of you were just chitty, I wouldn't say it's stupid to give it another go if YOU are willing to try.
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Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
She is using you like a savings account. She got dumped and knows that you will give her positive attention. Soon as she gets it she will be full of confidence again and you will be back out the door.

Dont waste your money and time, lots of nice places in NC.

Why did it end last time? all the old feelings and thoughts will come right back and you will both assume those roles. What heppened to her current relationship? You know what happened, she dumped him and thought it would be easy to find someone else right away like it used to be and realized its not.
Who cares, if I get to go fishing at the ocean, get head, and she still likes anal... Flight to FL for a weekend is pocket change, not like I have to pay for a place to stay. I am sure she got dumped quite a few times before this, why not hit me up then?
Originally Posted By 7rmr⏩
Could be a lot of this.

However, 14 years is a long gap to just then use someone for attention.

If that were the case you'd expect her to do it with someone more recent.
This is what I was thinking.
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