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04-28-2017, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Possibly. I'm just giving them a try for running and squatting/deadlifting should be easier in these. Normal shoes always make me lean forward a bit.Probably would have been better with thicker soles like on the 880's.
04-28-2017, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
1500.. damn, I would not survive.Back in the gym. Realized Im sitting at a whopping 250lbs. Granted I realized I had gained weight, but I didnt realize it was that much. Just got back from the track. Also got 93/7 lean Ground Turkey in the sink right now. Gonna stay at 1500 calories a day until I hit about 200lbs.
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04-28-2017, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I gotta lose this weight asap breh.1500.. damn, I would not survive.
04-28-2017, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
What were you at 2 years ago?I gotta lose this weight asap breh.
04-28-2017, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
I lean mean 190lbs at 6'0.What were you at 2 years ago?
04-28-2017, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Oh wow.I lean mean 190lbs at 6'0.
I gained weight too during my deep times of depression when I gave up men. I also need to get it off. Getting back in the gym more but damn I forgot how much cardio makes you hungry. I need to do it for tennis though.
Good luck with the cut!! I feel ya with how hungry and annoying it is .
04-28-2017, 05:07 PM
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Aaaaaand best/most intense clitoral orgasm you've ever had. Shall I send you my fees schedule?Tall, Serbian and girthy? I need to start Finding Nedo.......!

What is it about Serbs that does it for you? I actually hold out on telling women this until she asks because our men have a B-A-D rep for being alcy, controlling and abusive. If they haven't been with one, their friends will legit remind them of these things nearly every time I find lol.
Nitro: it sounded like her beta ex wanted her back but she doesn't want him because he doesn't want marriage. She fully admitted to keeping him on back burner until she found someone lol. Even if I didn't catch her in this massive lie, we wouldn't be sexually compatible to sustain a LTR. I need a fukin pig not "ewww you were inside me, I'm not sucking it now" nomsayin. Hate getting the "my jaw hurts" aka say goodnight to BJ's if we get comfy! Ughhh.
Pondus: don't be salty bruh, maybe she'd be interested in MMF

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Here we go boyos!! So I decided to reactivate one of my online dating profiles. I guess I'm just a masochist. Anyway, I message this chick who I have an 86% match with. We both answered over 200 questions. Seems like we may agree on quite a few things/possibly get along well.... a lot of the same interests. We both love Marvel and DC comics and any/everything to do with it. Seems logical for me to message her. So, here's how that went.....
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"Hey! So I'm a big Norrin Radd fan. You should know who he is. He's one of the strongest in the Marvel Universe. Who do you think would win a battle between him and Kal....as in Kal-El and why? BTW, I don't think you have whips and chains big enough for me." (she mentioned in her profile that if whips and chains excite you then you should definitely message her).
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"Thank you for your interest. However upon reading your profile, I do not believe we will suit. I enjoy going out all the time. (I say that I don't really have a lot of free time to go out in my profile...which is true) There are other discrepancies. Good luck im your search"
Now, it was "nice" of her to send me a message back but that's about it. LOL โ Feel free to scrutinize how/where I went wrong in my message etc. Leggo!!
Me:
"Hey! So I'm a big Norrin Radd fan. You should know who he is. He's one of the strongest in the Marvel Universe. Who do you think would win a battle between him and Kal....as in Kal-El and why? BTW, I don't think you have whips and chains big enough for me." (she mentioned in her profile that if whips and chains excite you then you should definitely message her).
Her:
"Thank you for your interest. However upon reading your profile, I do not believe we will suit. I enjoy going out all the time. (I say that I don't really have a lot of free time to go out in my profile...which is true) There are other discrepancies. Good luck im your search"
Now, it was "nice" of her to send me a message back but that's about it. LOL โ Feel free to scrutinize how/where I went wrong in my message etc. Leggo!!
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04-30-2017, 04:23 PM
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Solomon you didnt do anything wrong. If that girl liked how your face looked then she would have ate it up.
Sidenote. The fitness chick that I've been semi seeing that is separated. We had hung out with all her friends and they all seemed pretty nice. Apparently after I left she told me they were all harping on her about how I was ugly, couldnt believe she was seeing me and she could do so much better.
I legit loled and was like "well arent they a cheery bunch and just changed the subject. However afterwards she said she didnt know what wanted us to be and we shouldnt rush anything. Seems like she is backing out already. Same **** different girl as usual. I can see the interest fading before my eyes.
A legit skinny 2/10 wanted me to take her home a few days ago and I just could not do it. Her face was so bad...
. I really wish bigger women and bad looking women were more attractive so I could just bite the bullet and get over all this ****.
Had also spammed 200+ messages on eharmony ( guess I enjoy self tortue or something). All sorts and sizes of women. A single very overweight single mom sent back a smile. Das it mayne.
Gonna go run and lift in a few hours.
Sidenote. The fitness chick that I've been semi seeing that is separated. We had hung out with all her friends and they all seemed pretty nice. Apparently after I left she told me they were all harping on her about how I was ugly, couldnt believe she was seeing me and she could do so much better.
I legit loled and was like "well arent they a cheery bunch and just changed the subject. However afterwards she said she didnt know what wanted us to be and we shouldnt rush anything. Seems like she is backing out already. Same **** different girl as usual. I can see the interest fading before my eyes.
A legit skinny 2/10 wanted me to take her home a few days ago and I just could not do it. Her face was so bad...
. I really wish bigger women and bad looking women were more attractive so I could just bite the bullet and get over all this ****.Had also spammed 200+ messages on eharmony ( guess I enjoy self tortue or something). All sorts and sizes of women. A single very overweight single mom sent back a smile. Das it mayne.
Gonna go run and lift in a few hours.
04-30-2017, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
You should PM kimm4 as I've seen her post that those who go too low in calories lose muscle mass and then the rebound effect is massive weight gain after the loss.I lean mean 190lbs at 6'0.
1500 always meant a relapse in the eating disorder for me, and obsessively thinking about food, and I'm much smaller than you. Don't try to go too fast and rebound. She's a great resource to PM.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Aaaaaand best/most intense clitoral orgasm you've ever had. Shall I send you my fees schedule?
Pondus: don't be salty bruh, maybe she'd be interested in MMF

Pondus: don't be salty bruh, maybe she'd be interested in MMF


So the tinder chick that msged me a few days ago went out to dinner with me last night. I was the only one she msged before deleting her account "because of all the creeps". She was basically only on there the day we matched. We've had a ridiculous connection over text and it continued right into our date. She asked to come to my house and sit on the front porch and talk, so we did. She ended up straddling me on the bench and we made out for a while. Both of use were like, "we have to stop this." but I mentioned how awesome it would be just to cuddle naked even if we didn't have sex and she agreed, so we went inside. She got naked and hopped in my bed and 30 seconds after we started cuddling she started giving me a BJ and then jumped on top of me and started riding me. I don't know what came over me because I've turned down so many women on the first date for sex. I've never lost control like that before and we weren't even drunk! It was damn good, too. No regrets. We are going out to lunch on Tuesday.
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04-30-2017, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
No disrespect to you or kim, but I have self control. I know how to drop fat and build muscle. One of the few things I'm good at in this life.You should PM kimm4 as I've seen her post that those who go too low in calories lose muscle mass and then the rebound effect is massive weight gain after the loss.
1500 always meant a relapse in the eating disorder for me, and obsessively thinking about food, and I'm much smaller than you. Don't try to go too fast and rebound. She's a great resource to PM.
1500 always meant a relapse in the eating disorder for me, and obsessively thinking about food, and I'm much smaller than you. Don't try to go too fast and rebound. She's a great resource to PM.
04-30-2017, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
stop with the bro science.You should PM kimm4 as I've seen her post that those who go too low in calories lose muscle mass and then the rebound effect is massive weight gain after the loss.
1500 always meant a relapse in the eating disorder for me, and obsessively thinking about food, and I'm much smaller than you. Don't try to go too fast and rebound. She's a great resource to PM.
1500 always meant a relapse in the eating disorder for me, and obsessively thinking about food, and I'm much smaller than you. Don't try to go too fast and rebound. She's a great resource to PM.
PSMF.
discussion over.
04-30-2017, 05:52 PM
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Here's another....I saw she checked out my profile several times so I messaged her. I actually thought I was going to get laid for the first time in almost 9 years. LMAO Nope.
Me:
Hey. Listening & being brave? What? So how have you been brave lately?(She said she was really good at listening and being brave on her profile)
Her:
Putting my real photo on a dating site (she put a sweating emoji here). I like reading the missed connections alsoโ
Me:
I must be fearless then. I have several photos up. So you're a fellow weirdo? I mean craigslister? (On my profile I said I browse craigslist missed connections when I'm bored b/c they're funny... they really are lol). Nice. So have you found what you're looking for on here yet? What are you looking for?
Her:
I just got back on this a couple days ago. To be honest I'm going through a breakup and just need a few laughs over coffee and some sexy time right now. Who knows the future, but that's on my agenda. What are you looking for?โ
Me:
I see. I have no expectations in what I'm looking for. I try to let things happen naturally. I'm Solomonlike btw but not like (another name my name gets mispronounced as). You sound like you need a hug to go with those laughs. I'm free for a little bit later on this evening. Exactly where are you in (our city)?
Her:
Yeah I need to do a little homework here (grad school) and then I'll be free. I live in (blah blah part of our city). Where are you?โI mean Where do you live and when are you free?โ
Me:
I live off blah blah...close to blah blah. I have to run out and pick a few things up from the store and then I have to go by my brother's in (next state over but really close to us). I'll be free after 8.
Her:
Ok!
Me:
โName and number?โ Blah blah blah 1234567890
After that I text her and say: "This is Solomonlike. Lock me in."
She replies back "Cool." Then about 20 mins ago I get this text from her as I'm leaving the store after buying condoms. LMAO "Hey. I sent you a message on blah blah but I don't think you got it. I'm not feeling 100% social tonight, but I'd love to meet next weekend if you are up to it."
I text back " I understand." and she says "Ok thanks. It's all me not you".
I haven't responded and I don't plan to. Chad/Jamal strikes again! I guess they'll be in those walls instead of me. I just needed a little reminder as to why I don't do this shiit anymore. It's not worth it to me. I know, I know. I'm sure I did something wrong.
Meanwhile, Pondus is knocking them down! More power to you bro. Good for you. (srs)
Me:
Hey. Listening & being brave? What? So how have you been brave lately?(She said she was really good at listening and being brave on her profile)
Her:
Putting my real photo on a dating site (she put a sweating emoji here). I like reading the missed connections alsoโ
Me:
I must be fearless then. I have several photos up. So you're a fellow weirdo? I mean craigslister? (On my profile I said I browse craigslist missed connections when I'm bored b/c they're funny... they really are lol). Nice. So have you found what you're looking for on here yet? What are you looking for?
Her:
I just got back on this a couple days ago. To be honest I'm going through a breakup and just need a few laughs over coffee and some sexy time right now. Who knows the future, but that's on my agenda. What are you looking for?โ
Me:
I see. I have no expectations in what I'm looking for. I try to let things happen naturally. I'm Solomonlike btw but not like (another name my name gets mispronounced as). You sound like you need a hug to go with those laughs. I'm free for a little bit later on this evening. Exactly where are you in (our city)?
Her:
Yeah I need to do a little homework here (grad school) and then I'll be free. I live in (blah blah part of our city). Where are you?โI mean Where do you live and when are you free?โ
Me:
I live off blah blah...close to blah blah. I have to run out and pick a few things up from the store and then I have to go by my brother's in (next state over but really close to us). I'll be free after 8.
Her:
Ok!
Me:
โName and number?โ Blah blah blah 1234567890
After that I text her and say: "This is Solomonlike. Lock me in."
She replies back "Cool." Then about 20 mins ago I get this text from her as I'm leaving the store after buying condoms. LMAO "Hey. I sent you a message on blah blah but I don't think you got it. I'm not feeling 100% social tonight, but I'd love to meet next weekend if you are up to it."
I text back " I understand." and she says "Ok thanks. It's all me not you".
I haven't responded and I don't plan to. Chad/Jamal strikes again! I guess they'll be in those walls instead of me. I just needed a little reminder as to why I don't do this shiit anymore. It's not worth it to me. I know, I know. I'm sure I did something wrong.
Meanwhile, Pondus is knocking them down! More power to you bro. Good for you. (srs)
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04-30-2017, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
I don't think you should give up on her quite yet. I don't think she would have said that if she was completely disinterested.She replies back "Cool." Then about 20 mins ago I get this text from her as I'm leaving the store after buying condoms. LMAO "Hey. I sent you a message on blah blah but I don't think you got it. I'm not feeling 100% social tonight, but I'd love to meet next weekend if you are up to it."
I text back " I understand." and she says "Ok thanks. It's all me not you".
I haven't responded and I don't plan to. Chad/Jamal strikes again! I guess they'll be in those walls instead of me. I just needed a little reminder as to why I don't do this shiit anymore. It's not worth it to me. I know, I know. I'm sure I did something wrong.
Meanwhile, Pondus is knocking them down! More power to you bro. Good for you. (srs)
I text back " I understand." and she says "Ok thanks. It's all me not you".
I haven't responded and I don't plan to. Chad/Jamal strikes again! I guess they'll be in those walls instead of me. I just needed a little reminder as to why I don't do this shiit anymore. It's not worth it to me. I know, I know. I'm sure I did something wrong.
Meanwhile, Pondus is knocking them down! More power to you bro. Good for you. (srs)
I 100% try to make a connection before ever asking a woman to meet. I think it really helps with the flakiness. She won't do it if she feels like you are a complete stranger.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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04-30-2017, 06:20 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Thanks but I'm not wasting anymore of my time on her. In fact, I've already blocked her on the site. I'm about to delete my profile so it doesn't really matter. If she does text me/call me I'm going to hit her with the "Who is this?".......that's if I don't block her number too.I don't think you should give up on her quite yet. I don't think she would have said that if she was completely disinterested.
I 100% try to make a connection before ever asking a woman to meet. I think it really helps with the flakiness. She won't do it if she feels like you are a complete stranger.
I 100% try to make a connection before ever asking a woman to meet. I think it really helps with the flakiness. She won't do it if she feels like you are a complete stranger.
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04-30-2017, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
You're being dramatic dude smhThanks but I'm not wasting anymore of my time on her. In fact, I've already blocked her on the site. I'm about to delete my profile so it doesn't really matter. If she does text me/call me I'm going to hit her with the "Who is this?".......that's if I don't block her number too.
04-30-2017, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
You're taking it too personally. Just continue on as normal and if she hits you up next week go for it, if not - there's always another female. Don't expect anything from anybody until you've at least met them in person.Thanks but I'm not wasting anymore of my time on her. In fact, I've already blocked her on the site. I'm about to delete my profile so it doesn't really matter. If she does text me/call me I'm going to hit her with the "Who is this?".......that's if I don't block her number too.
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
I've never had a woman agree to meet me the same day we started chatting unless it was her idea. If you want a woman to feel safe, you have to put in the time.Thanks but I'm not wasting anymore of my time on her. In fact, I've already blocked her on the site. I'm about to delete my profile so it doesn't really matter. If she does text me/call me I'm going to hit her with the "Who is this?".......that's if I don't block her number too.
She didn't completely blow you off, so take control of the situation. If she flakes again, then yeah, next her.
Definitely taking it too personally.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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Ya'll need to start suggesting to me some hobbies that I can do to ride out this post breakup depression pls
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
The best therapy for me was running, riding my motorcycle, getting with a new circle of friend that I could hang out, drink and play pool with.Ya'll need to start suggesting to me some hobbies that I can do to ride out this post breakup depression pls
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I've put a good 500 miles on the Aprilia since it happened and it hasn't even broke 60f here yet :|The best therapy for me was running, riding my motorcycle, getting with a new circle of friend that I could hang out, drink and play pool with.
I've been losing all my lazy fat like crazy, diet is totally up to spec lately, gym frequency is at a maximum. Still dragging my feet mentally, and it's getting in the way of work.
Sucks, but that's life
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I went to Atlanta last weekend for this matrimonial thing. It was in one of the conference rooms of the hotel. I met a lot of cool people. Only one other person from Texas lol. Met a lot of girls too. Got a few numbers. Out whole group went out to a bar on Friday and Saturday night. It was a 2 floor bar, the top floor was filled with fuking Indian people lmao. I was the best dressed one there srs. While everyone else was still in their dress clothes, your boy put on some jeans, nice red shoes, my UH hat and my XO hoodie. I was comfortable as fuk and feeling confident as fuk and approached many different people and had a good time. No I didn't meet my wife. I used this trip as a learning experience and as sort of a test for myself
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
For me I find that painting, cooking, tennis (because you take out your frustrations on the ball), lifting obviously, volunteering with animals, taking care of my own animals, spending time with family and same-sex friends, Bible study, etc. help with clinical depression.Ya'll need to start suggesting to me some hobbies that I can do to ride out this post breakup depression pls
If it gets worse, then seek professional help.
Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
Good for you!!! That sounds like you made a lot of progress on this trip.I went to Atlanta last weekend for this matrimonial thing. It was in one of the conference rooms of the hotel. I met a lot of cool people. Only one other person from Texas lol. Met a lot of girls too. Got a few numbers. Out whole group went out to a bar on Friday and Saturday night. It was a 2 floor bar, the top floor was filled with fuking Indian people lmao. I was the best dressed one there srs. While everyone else was still in their dress clothes, your boy put on some jeans, nice red shoes, my UH hat and my XO hoodie. I was comfortable as fuk and feeling confident as fuk and approached many different people and had a good time. No I didn't meet my wife. I used this trip as a learning experience and as sort of a test for myself
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
Dont do the things your used too, do the things you arent used to. Go join an outdoor yoga class, the sun will make you feel good, and you'll prob get a lot of attention from the ladies. Or join an indoor climbing club, climbing is adventurous and those sorts of people are fun to be around.Ya'll need to start suggesting to me some hobbies that I can do to ride out this post breakup depression pls
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
I did. It also opened my eyes too. This whole matrimonial thing is fake and phony as fuk. There were many different people from many different walks of life there. Some of these girls were fake as fuk. They would tell you one thing and then when it came to talking to other guys who were doctors/pharmacists they would tell them something completely different. I was just being myself and not worrying about whether the girls liked me or not. The only reason I know this is because I asked these other guys what they talked about with the same girls I was talking to and it was completely different from what I was talking with her about and what some other guys were talking with her about. I told these girls straight up I don't care about their occupation, I care about the type of person they are srs. Some of them were kind of taken aback by it but I don't care , it is what it is. I even was talking to some of the girls and they were saying "this guy seems like a loser lol." Later that night at the bar who do I see at a booth yucking it up?Good for you!!! That sounds like you made a lot of progress on this trip.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
That is good that you made that observation. Yes, sadly in this world there are a lot of people who will lie and are phony. That's why when you find the genuine, honest people, hang on to them.I did. It also opened my eyes too. This whole matrimonial thing is fake and phony as fuk. There were many different people from many different walks of life there. Some of these girls were fake as fuk. They would tell you one thing and then when it came to talking to other guys who were doctors/pharmacists they would tell them something completely different. I was just being myself and not worrying about whether the girls liked me or not. The only reason I know this is because I asked these other guys what they talked about with the same girls I was talking to and it was completely different from what I was talking with her about and what some other guys were talking with her about. I told these girls straight up I don't care about their occupation, I care about the type of person they are srs. Some of them were kind of taken aback by it but I don't care , it is what it is. I even was talking to some of the girls and they were saying "this guy seems like a loser lol." Later that night at the bar who do I see at a booth yucking it up?
Most of my friends I made 20 years ago, because people I meet since then just aren't the same. I was actually just down in Florida visiting my female friends while you were in Atlanta. It's too expensive to live in Cali so they all move away, but gosh why do the quality people have to move across the country?!!
So your clothing made you feel more comfortable to approach?
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
People with Cluster Bs have little to no self control. I admit it, which is why after a 3 year break I'm back in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy to help increase my self control.No disrespect to you or kim, but I have self control. I know how to drop fat and build muscle. One of the few things I'm good at in this life.
I either starve down to 115 lbs or binge up to 180 lbs, I never stay in between. Moderation is not something that my brain grasps easily in all areas of life so I'm in constant distress and anxiety. Life should not be this miserable.
If you know how to drop fat and build muscle, how did you gain 60 lbs?
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
Look good, feel good, play good nomsayinThat is good that you made that observation. Yes, sadly in this world there are a lot of people who will lie and are phony. That's why when you find the genuine, honest people, hang on to them.
Most of my friends I made 20 years ago, because people I meet since then just aren't the same. I was actually just down in Florida visiting my female friends while you were in Atlanta. It's too expensive to live in Cali so they all move away, but gosh why do the quality people have to move across the country?!!
So your clothing made you feel more comfortable to approach?
Most of my friends I made 20 years ago, because people I meet since then just aren't the same. I was actually just down in Florida visiting my female friends while you were in Atlanta. It's too expensive to live in Cali so they all move away, but gosh why do the quality people have to move across the country?!!
So your clothing made you feel more comfortable to approach?
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
Quality people leave Cali because it's full of superficial, vapid people. I'll get the fcuk outta here soon enough.It's too expensive to live in Cali so they all move away, but gosh why do the quality people have to move across the country?!!
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