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04-30-2017, 11:44 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
High-five! LOLLook good, feel good, play good nomsayin
You can do the same in Houston! You are already making it.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Tell me about it. I met so many down-to-earth people in Florida. I walk through the Winn-Dixie store and men white knight me, but not in a beta, desperate way like Bay Area men do, and women will just come up and talk about where they are from and ask where I am from. Here women are guarded.Quality people leave Cali because it's full of superficial, vapid people. I'll get the fcuk outta here soon enough.
At least you can leave. I have 5 elderly family members to care for (aunts, uncles and parents) who don't want to move because they like the Mediterranean weather in the South Bay. I'm tempted to tell them all to retire in Florida so I can care for them there, once daughter hits 18.
The people here are ridiculous, and it's getting worse as hi-tech firms bring in all of these Ivy-league grads who can only talk about their BMW and investment portfolio.
05-01-2017, 04:58 AM
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bumble girl hits me up friday.
we chat a little friday night, i get number.
she texts me sat morning.
i'm trying to ask her questions and learn a little about her and while she is providing info and ask me some questions she appears to just want to sext.
everything is sexual with her, telling me what she wants to do to me ect.
Women like this who i haven't even met are usually just wasting my time and looking for some mental masturbation.
i was right on that.
I get her on the phone and she is quiet as a church mouse.
She isn't saying anything unless I ask her a question and i can barely hear her.
I feel like i'm carrying on both sides of the convo.
Time to get off the phone. I suggest we meet for at a local brew pub because she likes craft beers and she agrees and we pick a date.
Then she tells me she needs to goto bed and to text her tomorrow.
so right there i can tell something changed.
Next day and I get super long text about how she feels i'm not interested because i didn't ask her any questions. wait-wut?
I told her she was too quiet over the phone and i could barely hear her.
She tells me she was so quiet because she didn't think i cared about anything she said.
I wasn't going to argue and left the ball in her court.
I wouldn't bother posting about this one except I found it noteworthy she was a licensed psychologist.
strong WTF?
I have another one who is persistent.
she is kind of cute but also kind of chubby and suspiciously likes almost everything i do including TV shows and books.
claims to not have orbiters and basically presenting herself as wifey material as if she reads this forum.
so she is either very desperate / female FA or intends to make a skin-suit out of me.
we chat a little friday night, i get number.
she texts me sat morning.
i'm trying to ask her questions and learn a little about her and while she is providing info and ask me some questions she appears to just want to sext.
everything is sexual with her, telling me what she wants to do to me ect.
Women like this who i haven't even met are usually just wasting my time and looking for some mental masturbation.
i was right on that.
I get her on the phone and she is quiet as a church mouse.
She isn't saying anything unless I ask her a question and i can barely hear her.
I feel like i'm carrying on both sides of the convo.
Time to get off the phone. I suggest we meet for at a local brew pub because she likes craft beers and she agrees and we pick a date.
Then she tells me she needs to goto bed and to text her tomorrow.
so right there i can tell something changed.
Next day and I get super long text about how she feels i'm not interested because i didn't ask her any questions. wait-wut?
I told her she was too quiet over the phone and i could barely hear her.
She tells me she was so quiet because she didn't think i cared about anything she said.
I wasn't going to argue and left the ball in her court.
I wouldn't bother posting about this one except I found it noteworthy she was a licensed psychologist.
strong WTF?
I have another one who is persistent.
she is kind of cute but also kind of chubby and suspiciously likes almost everything i do including TV shows and books.
claims to not have orbiters and basically presenting herself as wifey material as if she reads this forum.
so she is either very desperate / female FA or intends to make a skin-suit out of me.
05-01-2017, 11:18 AM
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Luc, DLB - get out of the city/silicon valley.
Update:
L2 - Getting lunch on Wednesday. I haven't seen her for over 3 weeks, so I'm not sure if there is really anything there anymore. We have never really texted much. Most of our interactions have been in person, so we will see.
T1 - (Girl from Sat night) - Super attached to me already. Asked her to slow her roll a bit this morning. She want to come over to my place instead of get lunch, but I might have to insist on lunch just to slow things down a bit.
M1 - Woman I msged on match last week. We've been having good text convos. Trying to figure out a time we can meet up.
Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
I've gone out with two psychologists and they where the exact opposite of her. Very vocal and asked lots of deep questions. I vote skin suit.I wouldn't bother posting about this one except I found it noteworthy she was a licensed psychologist.
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Update:
L2 - Getting lunch on Wednesday. I haven't seen her for over 3 weeks, so I'm not sure if there is really anything there anymore. We have never really texted much. Most of our interactions have been in person, so we will see.
T1 - (Girl from Sat night) - Super attached to me already. Asked her to slow her roll a bit this morning. She want to come over to my place instead of get lunch, but I might have to insist on lunch just to slow things down a bit.
M1 - Woman I msged on match last week. We've been having good text convos. Trying to figure out a time we can meet up.
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05-01-2017, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
You're being dramatic dude smh
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You're taking it too personally. Just continue on as normal and if she hits you up next week go for it, if not - there's always another female. Don't expect anything from anybody until you've at least met them in person.
Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
You guys are right but my time is personal. She's already texted me today. I've been spoiled with women in the past......before social media really took off. I've said this before on here. Those women set a high fuking bar and I refuse to waste even a second on women who don't meet that bar. It's simple, say what you mean and mean what you say. Of course, most of these women were confident as fuk too. I know how it looks when a woman is into me. When I don't see that......bye Felicia.I've never had a woman agree to meet me the same day we started chatting unless it was her idea. If you want a woman to feel safe, you have to put in the time.
She didn't completely blow you off, so take control of the situation. If she flakes again, then yeah, next her.
Definitely taking it too personally.
She didn't completely blow you off, so take control of the situation. If she flakes again, then yeah, next her.
Definitely taking it too personally.
I might as well be transparent. I've had quite a few women that I knew were interested but I allowed myself to live inside my own head and I blew them off. It was almost like I was getting revenge on the other women who wasted my time.......keeping balance in the universe. Who the fuk do I think I am?? Yeah, I'm pretty fuked up. I know.
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05-01-2017, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
She said it was her and not you. Based what she said, I don't think she was lying and the fact that she is still hitting you up, proves that. Some women simply do not have that confidence. Especially when they are just getting out of a relationship...You guys are right but my time is personal. She's already texted me today. I've been spoiled with women in the past......before social media really took off. I've said this before on here. Those women set a high fuking bar and I refuse to waste even a second on women who don't meet that bar. It's simple, say what you mean and mean what you say. Of course, most of these women were confident as fuk too. I know how it looks when a woman is into me. When I don't see that......bye Felicia.
I might as well be transparent. I've had quite a few women that I knew were interested but I allowed myself to live inside my own head and I blew them off. It was almost like I was getting revenge on the other women who wasted my time.......keeping balance in the universe. Who the fuk do I think I am?? Yeah, I'm pretty fuked up. I know.
So now you are going to do it again? Give her a chance... I mean, she said she wasn't looking for anything serious, so what do you really have to lose? Just another lonely night.When I go out with women, I expect absolutely nothing except to show her a good time. If it it progresses to more, cool. If not, at least you got out and had fun and maybe put a smile on someone's else's face.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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05-01-2017, 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Is that an invitation for Luc, his girlfriend, me and a 23 year old dude to move in with you? lolLuc, DLB - get out of the city/silicon valley.
05-01-2017, 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
You're new at online dating. Just like anything, it takes practice and mistakes before you learn what works and what doesn't.You guys are right but my time is personal. She's already texted me today. I've been spoiled with women in the past......before social media really took off. I've said this before on here. Those women set a high fuking bar and I refuse to waste even a second on women who don't meet that bar. It's simple, say what you mean and mean what you say. Of course, most of these women were confident as fuk too. I know how it looks when a woman is into me. When I don't see that......bye Felicia.
I might as well be transparent. I've had quite a few women that I knew were interested but I allowed myself to live inside my own head and I blew them off. It was almost like I was getting revenge on the other women who wasted my time.......keeping balance in the universe. Who the fuk do I think I am?? Yeah, I'm pretty fuked up. I know.
I might as well be transparent. I've had quite a few women that I knew were interested but I allowed myself to live inside my own head and I blew them off. It was almost like I was getting revenge on the other women who wasted my time.......keeping balance in the universe. Who the fuk do I think I am?? Yeah, I'm pretty fuked up. I know.
05-01-2017, 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
There's a reality TV show in the making.Is that an invitation for Luc, his girlfriend, me and a 23 year old dude to move in with you? lol
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05-02-2017, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
You know how to trigger them so you shouldn't be surprised that they get attached so quickly IMO. I don't know how you do it; but I could never decline poutine lolT1 - (Girl from Sat night) - Super attached to me already. Asked her to slow her roll a bit this morning. She want to come over to my place instead of get lunch, but I might have to insist on lunch just to slow things down a bit.
05-02-2017, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I don't think it's anything special I am doing. I think it's all her.You know how to trigger them so you shouldn't be surprised that they get attached so quickly IMO. I don't know how you do it; but I could never decline poutine lol
I love sex, it's just not something I HAVE to have whenever I can get it. I can wait.
I got msged last night from another Tinder match. Extremely hot 39 YO Latina woman. Describes herself as a tomboy in heals, sports junkie, and a comic nerd. She actually sounds perfect. I guess when it rains, it poors.
I had to cancel "lunch" with T1. I forgot I had a meeting at the school for my kids this afternoon. We rescheduled for Thursday and we are actually going to get lunch.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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05-02-2017, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Then we add psycho and octaku and advertise the show on the Misc. Invite FU3L and his gf (he would love that) and Vick and his gf.There's a reality TV show in the making.
Great chance that this could go viral and be huge.
The Real Misc World
We could advertise it on the front page of the Misc. Maybe get some of the big characters there. Honestly it would get a good audience from the Misc.
Lots of drama when psycho and Pondus argue about Tinder when Pondus calls psycho salty.
I always tease Pondus about his "text game" so of course there would be my sarcastic sense of humor.
otaku would rage that I would bring young guys to the house.
FU3L would tell Luc1fer that they need to look at his relationship as an example of a healthy relationship so there would be that portion.
Nedo would show his big Serbian side, talk about his BWC, and have a fight with the ex of his latest woman.
Vick would be chilling in the living room, the master of the ceremonies.
USRanger would have his 19 year old drama queens showing up at the front door.
05-02-2017, 08:29 PM
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05-02-2017, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
I'm happy for him, just hope he don't cheat on herWhat happened to Vick?
Typical chump...ghosting his bros when he gets a gf.
Typical chump...ghosting his bros when he gets a gf.
05-02-2017, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
Na, he checks in once a week now to tell us how great his girl is.What happened to Vick?
Typical chump...ghosting his bros when he gets a gf.
Typical chump...ghosting his bros when he gets a gf.
05-02-2017, 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
Yup. I wonder if he's going to have the Vegas gathering now that he has a gfWhat happened to Vick?
Typical chump...ghosting his bros when he gets a gf.
Typical chump...ghosting his bros when he gets a gf.
05-02-2017, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
Highly unlikely. Nice knowing you VickYup. I wonder if he's going to have the Vegas gathering now that he has a gf
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05-03-2017, 12:02 AM
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A bit unsure whats the best way to do this. Since breaking up with girlfriend, we have been chatting on and off, and have met a few times, purely as friends. Mainly because there were things to sort out and take/bring, plus we have no hard feelings between us. We dont hate each other, and had the case been otherwise, we would make very good friends.
But i would like to move on with my life, and keeping in touch with her is not helping me, even though i do not want to be back together. But old feelings and regrets are there.
Questions is, can I just tell her that im cutting contact and moving on through text, or better do it in person? Again, i dont want to be a dick and ghost all of a sudden, I dont hate the girl she is a good person, so not sure whats the best way.
But i would like to move on with my life, and keeping in touch with her is not helping me, even though i do not want to be back together. But old feelings and regrets are there.
Questions is, can I just tell her that im cutting contact and moving on through text, or better do it in person? Again, i dont want to be a dick and ghost all of a sudden, I dont hate the girl she is a good person, so not sure whats the best way.
05-03-2017, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By deaderinred⏩
Personally, I would meet with her one more time and say " Although I know you are a great person and I have no hard feelings towards you, I believe we can't properly move on if we are still in constant communication. So moving forward let's avoid contacting each other.A bit unsure whats the best way to do this. Since breaking up with girlfriend, we have been chatting on and off, and have met a few times, purely as friends. Mainly because there were things to sort out and take/bring, plus we have no hard feelings between us. We dont hate each other, and had the case been otherwise, we would make very good friends.
But i would like to move on with my life, and keeping in touch with her is not helping me, even though i do not want to be back together. But old feelings and regrets are there.
Questions is, can I just tell her that im cutting contact and moving on through text, or better do it in person? Again, i dont want to be a dick and ghost all of a sudden, I dont hate the girl she is a good person, so not sure whats the best way.
But i would like to move on with my life, and keeping in touch with her is not helping me, even though i do not want to be back together. But old feelings and regrets are there.
Questions is, can I just tell her that im cutting contact and moving on through text, or better do it in person? Again, i dont want to be a dick and ghost all of a sudden, I dont hate the girl she is a good person, so not sure whats the best way.
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Originally Posted By deaderinred⏩
You are already broken up. I don't see anything wrong with just telling her through text that it's hard for you to move on while still in contact.A bit unsure whats the best way to do this. Since breaking up with girlfriend, we have been chatting on and off, and have met a few times, purely as friends. Mainly because there were things to sort out and take/bring, plus we have no hard feelings between us. We dont hate each other, and had the case been otherwise, we would make very good friends.
But i would like to move on with my life, and keeping in touch with her is not helping me, even though i do not want to be back together. But old feelings and regrets are there.
Questions is, can I just tell her that im cutting contact and moving on through text, or better do it in person? Again, i dont want to be a dick and ghost all of a sudden, I dont hate the girl she is a good person, so not sure whats the best way.
But i would like to move on with my life, and keeping in touch with her is not helping me, even though i do not want to be back together. But old feelings and regrets are there.
Questions is, can I just tell her that im cutting contact and moving on through text, or better do it in person? Again, i dont want to be a dick and ghost all of a sudden, I dont hate the girl she is a good person, so not sure whats the best way.
I think if an ex asked to meet me just to say that, I would feel like she was wasting my time.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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05-03-2017, 12:18 PM
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Technically, I was on a 'break' with my girlfriend that I had mentioned a page or so back
Well, since I deleted social media accounts, one particular nosy friend of mine couldn't get ahold of me. Instead of finding me in a logical way, she did a wellness check at my house, and then upon finding I wasn't home, immediately contacted my (ex)girlfriend to tell her she's worried something happened to me.
I got a panicked text from her, and it sent me into a blind rage. I feel like my friend's are the dumbest ****s on the face of the earth for doing this.
It made me realize that this break makes me look pathetic as ****, despite however noble the initial reasonings were for it. So I texted the ex and told her the break doesn't work for me, and that it is over.
Restart stages of grief in 5..4..3..2..1
Well, since I deleted social media accounts, one particular nosy friend of mine couldn't get ahold of me. Instead of finding me in a logical way, she did a wellness check at my house, and then upon finding I wasn't home, immediately contacted my (ex)girlfriend to tell her she's worried something happened to me.
I got a panicked text from her, and it sent me into a blind rage. I feel like my friend's are the dumbest ****s on the face of the earth for doing this.
It made me realize that this break makes me look pathetic as ****, despite however noble the initial reasonings were for it. So I texted the ex and told her the break doesn't work for me, and that it is over.
Restart stages of grief in 5..4..3..2..1
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Update on the sloot who backed out on me this weekend. She's been texting me this week. I've been short and to the point. Zero fuks. She JUST texted me. "God I need those hugs! Where should we meet this weekend?" The thing is, I've been talking to this chick who has reciprocated, engaged me, carried the conversation along with me etc...... interested without a doubt.
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
My suggestion is you hang out with both because that abundance will give you confidence when dealing with the other... I hang out with chicks that I have no intention of banging when I'm single just so I don't feel like a foreveralone when a girl I pursue goes coldUpdate on the sloot who backed out on me this weekend. She's been texting me this week. I've been short and to the point. Zero fuks. She JUST texted me. "God I need those hugs! Where should we meet this weekend?" The thing is, I've been talking to this chick who has reciprocated, engaged me, carried the conversation along with me etc...... interested without a doubt.
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
05-03-2017, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
I just texted her back "I'm not really sure I'm going to have the time this weekend." Which is the truth though. She replied right back with "Ok." If a sloot is not rapid fire texting you back, you're wasting your time. LOL. Like I said I know how it looks. She's a day late and dollar short. I can't hang out and "fake it".My suggestion is you hang out with both because that abundance will give you confidence when dealing with the other... I hang out with chicks that I have no intention of banging when I'm single just so I don't feel like a foreveralone when a girl I pursue goes cold
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05-03-2017, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
What you did was reject her, and she's trying to act like she doesn't care.I just texted her back "I'm not really sure I'm going to have the time this weekend." Which is the truth though. She replied right back with "Ok." If a sloot is not rapid fire texting you back, you're wasting your time. LOL. Like I said I know how it looks. She's a day late and dollar short. I can't hang out and "fake it".
I don't really get you man. You seem to be your own worst enemy with dating. Granted, I've only seen a handful of your posts, but in every single one you are taking typical girl behavior way too personally.
Dude I've had chicks ghost me for a month plus, then hit me up and come over and have me blast a load down their throat after they make me dinner. Who the **** cares what they do, just take it in stride and don't let it deter you from getting anywhere with them. It's not like they're committed to you nor them..
05-03-2017, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
The bold is not something I'm use to from the women I've dealt with in the past. If you guys want to tolerate that kind of behavior that's your choice. The same way it's my choice NOT to tolerate it or want to deal with it. That's all brah.What you did was reject her, and she's trying to act like she doesn't care.
I don't really get you man. You seem to be your own worst enemy with dating. Granted, I've only seen a handful of your posts, but in every single one you are takingtypical girl behaviorway too personally.
Dude I've had chicks ghost me for a month plus, then hit me up and come over and have me blast a load down their throat after they make me dinner. Who the **** cares what they do, just take it in stride and don't let it deter you from getting anywhere with them. It's not like they're committed to you nor them..
I don't really get you man. You seem to be your own worst enemy with dating. Granted, I've only seen a handful of your posts, but in every single one you are takingtypical girl behaviorway too personally.
Dude I've had chicks ghost me for a month plus, then hit me up and come over and have me blast a load down their throat after they make me dinner. Who the **** cares what they do, just take it in stride and don't let it deter you from getting anywhere with them. It's not like they're committed to you nor them..
"Don't be afraid of being different. Be afraid of being the same as everyone else."
“Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, but you can’t make more time. When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you’ll never get back.”
Ecclesiastes 9:11 - True wisdom
05-03-2017, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
Fair enough. I don't know your age, but everything you've described regarding the actions of these girls seems pretty standard to me. Especially if you met them online.The bold is not something I'm use to from the women I've dealt with in the past. If you guys want to tolerate that kind of behavior that's your choice. The same way it's my choice NOT to tolerate it or want to deal with it. That's all brah.
05-03-2017, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
IMO, she only threw out the 'where do we meet this weekend' because you've been more distant/cold than the previous week and that's her way of getting you 'invested' again. Typical female play to keep a guy around....for attention. With that being said...if you do have the time to meet her this weekend it doesn't hurt to give a second chance - and if she blows it again then you can write her off for good. If you can't meet up, and don't even want to meet anyway you don't have to - focus on the other chick that's reciprocating better.Update on the sloot who backed out on me this weekend. She's been texting me this week. I've been short and to the point. Zero fuks. She JUST texted me. "God I need those hugs! Where should we meet this weekend?" The thing is, I've been talking to this chick who has reciprocated, engaged me, carried the conversation along with me etc...... interested without a doubt.
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
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Originally Posted By Solomonlike⏩
I know this feel.Update on the sloot who backed out on me this weekend. She's been texting me this week. I've been short and to the point. Zero fuks. She JUST texted me. "God I need those hugs! Where should we meet this weekend?" The thing is, I've been talking to this chick who has reciprocated, engaged me, carried the conversation along with me etc...... interested without a doubt.
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
Now, I was going to try to hang out with her this weekend. The only reason I didn't ghost the other chick was b/c of you fukers. I seriously do not want to even fuk her anymore at this point. I have no interest. She should have struck when the iron was hot. Now it's cold. LOL Not sure what to do with her, especially when the other chick has been flirtatious as hell. Suggestions?
Tell her you have plans this weekend.
Tell her you are free during the week.
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
yeah.What you did was reject her, and she's trying to act like she doesn't care.
I don't really get you man. You seem to be your own worst enemy with dating. Granted, I've only seen a handful of your posts, but in every single one you are taking typical girl behavior way too personally.
Dude I've had chicks ghost me for a month plus, then hit me up and come over and have me blast a load down their throat after they make me dinner. Who the **** cares what they do, just take it in stride and don't let it deter you from getting anywhere with them. It's not like they're committed to you nor them..
I don't really get you man. You seem to be your own worst enemy with dating. Granted, I've only seen a handful of your posts, but in every single one you are taking typical girl behavior way too personally.
Dude I've had chicks ghost me for a month plus, then hit me up and come over and have me blast a load down their throat after they make me dinner. Who the **** cares what they do, just take it in stride and don't let it deter you from getting anywhere with them. It's not like they're committed to you nor them..
me also.
but guess what?
Women who ghost and come back are 99% not GF material.
so when faces with dating potential vs soot i go with the chick who hasn't ghosted on me.
Plus i got chit to do and two women in one week more than a few weeks in a row is too much for me.
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