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post 1503745491 05-06-2017, 03:47 PM
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should i tell her or nah ?

2 months ago a girl from college asked my ******** so we can chat up about boxing and mma, because we have both love these interests, i gave her my FB she adds me and from that day, everyday we are writing on fb, from morning to night, we went 2-3 times to eat something together but i didn't do any moves, i acted like a friend,

the problem is the next that i started having feeling for her, but i don't know if she shares the same for me, she is pretty jealous, because once i commented something on fb and she immediatly asked me who is that girl and tells me this "i see you are popular on fb with girls", she nevers also speaks about other guys, she once asked me why i was watching this chick in the classroom

i really don't know what she wants but she is pretty funny as a friend but fking feeling are starting to growing, i want to say this to her tell me if chit is going to work

"i have to tell you something, i started developing feelings for your and i can't anymore offer you the friendship you seek , i think we should stop speaking"

will she tell me if she got some feelings ? or she will tell me okay let's not speak anymore ? wut to do miscc ??

i feeel beta as fuk writing this holy fuk


TL DR;girl adds me on fb,
i start getting feelings for her,
don't know what to do
post 1503745631 05-06-2017, 03:48 PM
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Sounds like a classic case of the nice guy blues.
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post 1503745951 05-06-2017, 03:51 PM
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post 1503746121 05-06-2017, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
This was over before it began
ayyyy lmaooo can i have some sort of comeback ?
post 1503746161 05-06-2017, 03:52 PM
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post 1503746181 05-06-2017, 03:52 PM
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Sad to say but you have already put yourself into the friend zone. She has sent you every possible signal but they went right over your head.

She likes boxing and mma? women dont like that other then they get to see sweaty men. She told you that so you would be interested in her.

So here is what you have to do. Ditch the whole developed feelings for you crap. That will just creep her out.

Ask her out, make the plans solid not like some day but solid like tuesday at 7pm. If she agrees then you have just escalated enough to assume she wants a relationship.

Come date time on tuesday,by your actions, let her know you are interested in more the friendship. She will either go for it or let you know where you stand.

Dont assume friends, assume sex.
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post 1503746431 05-06-2017, 03:55 PM
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Lol'd @i have to tell you something, i started developing feelings for your and i can anymore offer you the friendship you seek , i think we should stop speaking"

Most autistic thing I've ever read. Definitely say that, op.
post 1503746501 05-06-2017, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
Sad to say but you have already put yourself into the friend zone. She has sent you every possible signal but they went right over your head.

She likes boxing and mma? women dont like that other then they get to see sweaty men. She told you that so you would be interested in her.

So here is what you have to do. Ditch the whole developed feelings for you crap. That will just creep her out.

Ask her out, make the plans solid not like some day but solid like tuesday at 7pm. If she agrees then you have just escalated enough to assume she wants a relationship.

Come date time on tuesday,by your actions, let her know you are interested in more the friendship. She will either go for it or let you know where you stand.

Dont assume friends, assume sex.
all right but let's say she wants to come tuesday at 7pm, what should i tell her ? i really don't know how to proceed the next steps but the problem is i don't want to get rejected holy fuuk i feel miserable
post 1503747451 05-06-2017, 04:05 PM
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It's not too late OP. Ask her to grab dinner with you....call it a date and treat it like one.
post 1503749531 05-06-2017, 04:27 PM
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Lol no, you never tell her. You need to kiss her instead srs, and maybe you can tell her during/after.
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post 1503750331 05-06-2017, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted By vt2medellin⏩
Lol no, you never tell her. You need to kiss her instead srs, and maybe you can tell her during/after.
i don't get it someone tells me that i tell her i want more than friendship and someone a kiss ? which is the good choice, and i asked if she's available so we can eat something, she tells me that something is strange with that invitation really strange
post 1503750661 05-06-2017, 04:38 PM
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holy shyt....don't tell her your feelings unless you want to see her with tyrone the next day.
Just meet up with her, dinner, movie, a game, w/e the fuk it is....don't act like a beta kunt. Touch her in a non-friend way, and kiss her. If you get rejected, boo-hoo.
post 1503750961 05-06-2017, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By KillahJon⏩
holy shyt....don't tell her your feelings unless you want to see her with tyrone the next day.
Just meet up with her, dinner, movie, a game, w/e the fuk it is....don't act like a beta kunt. Touch her in a non-friend way, and kiss her. If you get rejected, boo-hoo.
idk brah, she may act really bad, she's a muslim, the best i can do is to tell her i want more than friendship, the other thing touching, kissing is too much i think
post 1503752371 05-06-2017, 04:57 PM
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If you invited her to eat something and she said it was strange. She's not interested. Find another woman and I guarantee when she sees you with that other woman she will want you.
post 1503752451 05-06-2017, 04:58 PM
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if a girl is going OUT of her way to contact you and go out with you..

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post 1503752501 05-06-2017, 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
idk brah, she may act really bad, she's a muslim, the best i can do is to tell her i want more than friendship, the other thing touching, kissing is too much i think
Does she wear a hijab? If not, she may be more open to PDA.
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post 1503752671 05-06-2017, 05:00 PM
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post 1503752811 05-06-2017, 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted By MrDanielRamos⏩
If you invited her to eat something and she said it was strange. She's not interested. Find another woman and I guarantee when she sees you with that other woman she will want you.
she told me something this time something is different, it's so strange, she didn't rejected it nor accepted it
post 1503752981 05-06-2017, 05:04 PM
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post 1503753361 05-06-2017, 05:08 PM
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Stop being a ******* and make a move already. Will you succeed? Most likely not. But it's better than wasting your time like you are right now.
post 1503753601 05-06-2017, 05:10 PM
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Who the fk says they have feelings so they need to stop talking? I think the normal course of action is to ask her out.
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post 1503838891 05-07-2017, 01:34 PM
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she didn't gave me the answer to my question, but today i didn't logged for a whole day then, the she send me 3 messages, "where are you", "???", "???!", every 30 min, i then answered her that i was out with my boys and she keeps asking me where exactly, what did i do.

misc is she playing mind games ?
post 1503839391 05-07-2017, 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
she didn't gave me the answer to my question, but today i didn't logged for a whole day then, the she send me 3 messages, "where are you", "???", "???!", every 30 min, i then answered her that i was out with my boys and she keeps asking me where exactly, what did i do.

misc is she playing mind games ?
Tell her,"I can't give you vital info like that if you're not my lady....or trying to be."

Gauge her reply. if she's on that bullish**, keep it as friends. If she responds positively, you're in.
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Originally Posted By YIAMSOMEBODY⏩
Tell her,"I can't give you vital info like that if you're not my lady....or trying to be."

Gauge her reply. if she's on that bullish**, keep it as friends. If she responds positively, you're in.
fuark i already answered it, but holy fuk tha quote t i will using that very soon, do you think shes is interested ?
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ask her out to movies or some chit and just go from there
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
fuark i already answered it, but holy fuk tha quote t i will using that very soon, do you think shes is interested ?
Seems like it....
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