Thread: should i tell her or nah ?
05-08-2017, 06:54 AM
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update;
yesterday she tells me when will you invite me to eat something because i am hungry, i tell her tomorrow and she tells me she is available after box training, and that i should wait her at 21H30 when she get outs i tell her all right. so today i am meeting with her at night so we can eat something.
misc i think there is nothing good coming from this, and don't tell me she's using me for free dinners because it's dirty cheap like 10€, and she once paid herself.
what's the best way to go no contact ? i am planning to tell her after dinner that we should stop talking together because i can't be friends with girls, or only tell her we should stop talking without giving any explication ?
trust me NC on this case is the best answer, only need help how to say it
yesterday she tells me when will you invite me to eat something because i am hungry, i tell her tomorrow and she tells me she is available after box training, and that i should wait her at 21H30 when she get outs i tell her all right. so today i am meeting with her at night so we can eat something.
misc i think there is nothing good coming from this, and don't tell me she's using me for free dinners because it's dirty cheap like 10€, and she once paid herself.
what's the best way to go no contact ? i am planning to tell her after dinner that we should stop talking together because i can't be friends with girls, or only tell her we should stop talking without giving any explication ?
trust me NC on this case is the best answer, only need help how to say it
05-08-2017, 06:58 AM
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05-08-2017, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
Flirt with her over text. That will give you an idea about what she wants.update;
yesterday she tells me when will you invite me to eat something because i am hungry, i tell her tomorrow and she tells me she is available after box training, and that i should wait her at 21H30 when she get outs i tell her all right. so today i am meeting with her at night so we can eat something.
misc i think there is nothing good coming from this, and don't tell me she's using me for free dinners because it's dirty cheap like 10€, and she once paid herself.
what's the best way to go no contact ? i am planning to tell her after dinner that we should stop talking together because i can't be friends with girls, or only tell her we should stop talking without giving any explication ?
trust me NC on this case is the best answer, only need help how to say it
yesterday she tells me when will you invite me to eat something because i am hungry, i tell her tomorrow and she tells me she is available after box training, and that i should wait her at 21H30 when she get outs i tell her all right. so today i am meeting with her at night so we can eat something.
misc i think there is nothing good coming from this, and don't tell me she's using me for free dinners because it's dirty cheap like 10€, and she once paid herself.
what's the best way to go no contact ? i am planning to tell her after dinner that we should stop talking together because i can't be friends with girls, or only tell her we should stop talking without giving any explication ?
trust me NC on this case is the best answer, only need help how to say it
Text her: "I've reconsidered. I'll only take you out to dinner if you're really nice to me, stare deep into my eyes when you hold my hand"
If she blows you off you know where it's headed.
Dont go NC if you didnt even try like a FA *******. So what if she rejects you. You should always escalate sexual energy in the early phase. You screwed up. My suggestion is your chance to recover
05-08-2017, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
tell her you want to beat it up like the war machine2 months ago a girl from college asked my ******** so we can chat up about boxing and mma,
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05-08-2017, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Andre3000FA⏩
This. Except not exactly what u wroteLmao not only do you feel beta but you are beta
Grow some fkin balls and go up to her and say exactly what you just said *******
Grow some fkin balls and go up to her and say exactly what you just said *******
05-08-2017, 07:07 AM
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Don't overcomplicate it by using so many words.
Call her and tell her you're taking her out on a date, dinner, movie, walk in the park ... whatever you fancy.
On the date, you tell her you like her and give her a kiss. Then let the chips fall as they do.
Ps: she likes you too. It's obvious. But she's waiting on you to make the above move.
Call her and tell her you're taking her out on a date, dinner, movie, walk in the park ... whatever you fancy.
On the date, you tell her you like her and give her a kiss. Then let the chips fall as they do.
Ps: she likes you too. It's obvious. But she's waiting on you to make the above move.
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05-08-2017, 07:08 AM
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
nah brah i can't get rejected it will hurt my pride, better i reject her than she rejects me, the only card i can play is to tell her i can't be friends with girls, i can't take rejection and she is not interested at least if am thinking right. the faster this is over the better it will be for me, i don't have yet any strong feelsFlirt with her over text. That will give you an idea about what she wants.
Text her: "I've reconsidered. I'll only take you out to dinner if you're really nice to me, stare deep into my eyes when you hold my hand"
If she blows you off you know where it's headed.
Dont go NC if you didnt even try like a FA *******. So what if she rejects you. You should always escalate sexual energy in the early phase. You screwed up. My suggestion is your chance to recover
Text her: "I've reconsidered. I'll only take you out to dinner if you're really nice to me, stare deep into my eyes when you hold my hand"
If she blows you off you know where it's headed.
Dont go NC if you didnt even try like a FA *******. So what if she rejects you. You should always escalate sexual energy in the early phase. You screwed up. My suggestion is your chance to recover
05-08-2017, 07:08 AM
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I'm not getting a troll vibe but shirley this isn't srs
05-08-2017, 07:12 AM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
nah brah i can't get rejected it will hurt my pride, better i reject her than she rejects me, the only card i can play is to tell her i can't be friends with girls, i can't take rejection and she is not interested at least if am thinking right. the faster this is over the better it will be for me, i don't have yet any strong feels
This is the gayest thing i've ever seen. Being scared of rejection will only make you lonely and miserable. 99.9% of all human beings dont like you,most dont even care whether you're dead or alive.
05-08-2017, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Psychotropic⏩
I'm not getting a troll vibe but shirley this isn't srs
That's not shirley, that's Michael JordanI'm not getting a troll vibe but shirley this isn't srs
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05-08-2017, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
This is the gayest thing i've ever seen. Being scared of rejection will only make you lonely and miserable. 99.9% of all human beings dont like you,most dont even care whether you're dead or alive.
lmao at that gif, but brah i know when female are interested and when they are not, in this case it's clearly she want's me as her emotinal tampon, even though she never speaks about males, and what's the deal of trying when you know you will get rejected ? at least if i go no contact i will feel a lot better mentally that it's me who rejected her, i either tell her we should stop speaking and leave, or tell her we should stop speaking because i can't be friends with girls. i will update this thread in like 8 hours when i get home, but probably she will say okay and that's it i will move into next slootThis is the gayest thing i've ever seen. Being scared of rejection will only make you lonely and miserable. 99.9% of all human beings dont like you,most dont even care whether you're dead or alive.
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
Are you phucking srs right now? This looks like a case strongly in your favour. From the details you've given, there's a high chance of her wanting your ass and you're here making conclusions to go phucking NC, without even knowing her feelings for you?? Phuck is dis chit OP? Recover your balls from whichever Michael Kors handbag you left them in and tell her how you feel. Worst case she'll tell you Nah just friends but who gives a phuck. It's not a big deal. The worst is giving up without even knowing for sure. Go phucking get her OP.update;
yesterday she tells me when will you invite me to eat something because i am hungry, i tell her tomorrow and she tells me she is available after box training, and that i should wait her at 21H30 when she get outs i tell her all right. so today i am meeting with her at night so we can eat something.
misc i think there is nothing good coming from this, and don't tell me she's using me for free dinners because it's dirty cheap like 10€, and she once paid herself.
what's the best way to go no contact ? i am planning to tell her after dinner that we should stop talking together because i can't be friends with girls, or only tell her we should stop talking without giving any explication ?
trust me NC on this case is the best answer, only need help how to say it
yesterday she tells me when will you invite me to eat something because i am hungry, i tell her tomorrow and she tells me she is available after box training, and that i should wait her at 21H30 when she get outs i tell her all right. so today i am meeting with her at night so we can eat something.
misc i think there is nothing good coming from this, and don't tell me she's using me for free dinners because it's dirty cheap like 10€, and she once paid herself.
what's the best way to go no contact ? i am planning to tell her after dinner that we should stop talking together because i can't be friends with girls, or only tell her we should stop talking without giving any explication ?
trust me NC on this case is the best answer, only need help how to say it
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05-08-2017, 07:24 AM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
Cheesus Christ mane, are you hearing yourself right now? Tempted to neg you for being so weaknah brah i can't get rejected it will hurt my pride, better i reject her than she rejects me, the only card i can play is to tell her i can't be friends with girls, i can't take rejection and she is not interested at least if am thinking right. the faster this is over the better it will be for me, i don't have yet any strong feels
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
i can tell how i feel but not with actions, i simply can't brah, i can tell her with words that i have some slight feeling for her and that's it, pride before everything, fuk me i want to kill myselfAre you phucking srs right now? This looks like a case strongly in your favour. From the details you've given, there's a high chance of her wanting your ass and you're here making conclusions to go phucking NC, without even knowing her feelings for you?? Phuck is dis chit OP? Recover your balls from whichever Michael Kors handbag you left them in and tell her how you feel. Worst case she'll tell you Nah just friends but who gives a phuck. It's not a big deal. The worst is giving up without even knowing for sure. Go phucking get her OP.
05-08-2017, 07:29 AM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
"If you dont ask,the answer will always be NO"lmao at that gif, but brah i know when female are interested and when they are not, in this case it's clearly she want's me as her emotinal tampon, even though she never speaks about males, andwhat's the deal of trying when you know you will get rejected ?at least if i go no contact i will feel a lot better mentally that it's me who rejected her, i either tell her we should stop speaking and leave, or tell her we should stop speaking because i can't be friends with girls. i will update this thread in like 8 hours when i get home, but probably she will say okay and that's it i will move into next sloot
I'd rather live with a rejection, that i'll get over in a few minutes, than to live with regret and wondering what could've been for the rest of my life with the ones who got away.
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05-08-2017, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
Fine then. Go tell her with words that you have some slight feeling for her srs. Oh and my pride would be hurt a lot more if I couldn't even muster the courage to tell a girl I strongly like that I have feelings for her. Do it man and update us.i can tell how i feel but not with actions, i simply can't brah, i can tell her with words that i have some slight feeling for her and that's it, pride before everything, fuk me i want to kill myself
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05-08-2017, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
brah, the answer will be always no, but what is important who gives that "no" if i go NC it's me who gives the No and i will feel a lot better than if someone else gives me a no, that's the deal, thanks for you offer but your brahs from misc are changing my opinion maybe i will tell her that i have only slight feeling for her when we finish eating, that's the best i can do srs, and it's also pushing it, will keep thread updated for dem lulz, because you deserve it, you want to help miscbrah to get laid"If you dont ask,the answer will always be NO"
I'd rather live with a rejection, that i'll get over in a few minutes, than to live with regret and wondering what could've been for the rest of my life with the ones who got away.
EDIT: Send her the text. I will coach you threw it. My offer is valid for the next hour
I'd rather live with a rejection, that i'll get over in a few minutes, than to live with regret and wondering what could've been for the rest of my life with the ones who got away.
EDIT: Send her the text. I will coach you threw it. My offer is valid for the next hour
Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
will consider this srs, i think while we will dine i will chose what to sayFine then. Go tell her with words that you have some slight feeling for her srs. Oh and my pride would be hurt a lot more if I couldn't even muster the courage to tell a girl I strongly like that I have feelings for her. Do it man and update us.
05-08-2017, 07:41 AM
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
brah, the answer will be always no, but what is important who gives that "no" if i go NC it's me who gives the No and i will feel a lot better than if someone else gives me a no, that's the deal, thanks for you offer but your brahs from misc are changing my opinion maybe i will tell her that i have only slight feeling for her when we finish eating, that's the best i can do srs, and it's also pushing it, will keep thread updated for dem lulz, because you deserve it, you want to help miscbrah to get laid
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You're a fuarking idiot.
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OP I am rooting for you but you gotta change your mindset.
Why are you so scared of her rejecting you?? you won't even remember that chit the next day.
Why are you so scared of her rejecting you?? you won't even remember that chit the next day.
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This is possibly the most pathetic thing I have read on the misc and that's saying a lot.
"I like this girl but I'm not sure if she likes me despite all the signals she is giving. I must go NC."
Srs?
"I like this girl but I'm not sure if she likes me despite all the signals she is giving. I must go NC."
Srs?
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Originally Posted By FrazettaSilke⏩
another sloot will come, don't care srs, the key is to fell good mentally and that's me who rejected her, that's it will keep updated the thread around 23H, hopefully i will bring some of them dem lulz for my miscbrahsYou're a fuarking idiot.
and getting rejected i will feel so inferior to her, i will feel like i have been treated like chit
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Originally Posted By Broooseph⏩
Geez. Reminds me of my teenage years.Sounds like a classic case of the nice guy blues.
Dude, forget about mushy stuff. Take her to the club, get her high, kiss her, grind her.
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ROFLMAO OP
1st fail: writing EVERYDAY FROM MORNING TO NIGHT ON FB <--- OMFG im sure theres plenty interesting stuff left to talk about when u get together on a date
2nd fail: 2-3 times eating together (could be considered a date, OP didnt clarify. lunch is for friends, dinner is for dates) and not making any moves/acting like a friend. you said it urself! fkd up BIG TIME!
by now every normal girl's attraction level would be <50% or she would have stopped contacting you already
if this girl still wants to get together with you after you spilled your guts like you plan too, she is a seriously needy nutcase
look up coach corey wayne on youtube and good luck brah
1st fail: writing EVERYDAY FROM MORNING TO NIGHT ON FB <--- OMFG im sure theres plenty interesting stuff left to talk about when u get together on a date
2nd fail: 2-3 times eating together (could be considered a date, OP didnt clarify. lunch is for friends, dinner is for dates) and not making any moves/acting like a friend. you said it urself! fkd up BIG TIME!
by now every normal girl's attraction level would be <50% or she would have stopped contacting you already
if this girl still wants to get together with you after you spilled your guts like you plan too, she is a seriously needy nutcase
look up coach corey wayne on youtube and good luck brah
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Originally Posted By LukedaWuke⏩
What if shes only want to be friends, the problem is I can't really tell what is she seeking, but enough is enough, today hopefully everything will endROFLMAO OP
1st fail: writing EVERYDAY FROM MORNING TO NIGHT ON FB <--- OMFG im sure theres plenty interesting stuff left to talk about when u get together on a date
2nd fail: 2-3 times eating together (could be considered a date, OP didnt clarify. lunch is for friends, dinner is for dates) and not making any moves/acting like a friend. you said it urself! fkd up BIG TIME!
by now every normal girl's attraction level would be <50% or she would have stopped contacting you already
if this girl still wants to get together with you after you spilled your guts like you plan too, she is a seriously needy nutcase
look up coach corey wayne on youtube and good luck brah
1st fail: writing EVERYDAY FROM MORNING TO NIGHT ON FB <--- OMFG im sure theres plenty interesting stuff left to talk about when u get together on a date
2nd fail: 2-3 times eating together (could be considered a date, OP didnt clarify. lunch is for friends, dinner is for dates) and not making any moves/acting like a friend. you said it urself! fkd up BIG TIME!
by now every normal girl's attraction level would be <50% or she would have stopped contacting you already
if this girl still wants to get together with you after you spilled your guts like you plan too, she is a seriously needy nutcase
look up coach corey wayne on youtube and good luck brah
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
You cant tell what she is seeking, but you know the answer will always be "no"? You're contradicting yourself.What if shes only want to be friends, the problem is I can't really tell what is she seeking, but enough is enough, today hopefully everything will end
youre extremely weak minded, talking about killing yourself, and being too scared to handle a rejection for a girl you have "Slight feelings for".
You have a lot of growing up to do, or you'll never amount to half a sac of ****.
My advice is to start putting yourself in situations that frighten you, eventually those situations will be much easier to handle, and youll find a lot more success.
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Originally Posted By kinzu1996⏩
srsly look up that yt chanWhat if shes only want to be friends, the problem is I can't really tell what is she seeking, but enough is enough, today hopefully everything will end
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