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Thread: Post ACTUAL red flags that may not be initially obvious in women (SRS)

post 1504809441 05-14-2017, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I assumed it meant something like won't inconvenience herself for you.
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Originally Posted By Tune5k⏩
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Originally Posted By Howiester⏩
dyes hair unnatural colors
dates men not employed in white collar jobs
terrible grammar while texting
LOL good one


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-Calls police on ex BF
-Hangs with male "friends"
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-Talks about likeing other guys
-On GDP or on cam all the time
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post 1504810241 05-14-2017, 11:21 PM
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IF she more then once "loses" male friends because they either confess their love to her and are turned down or because her male friends' girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable having them hang around her. The constant here is that her behavior has led on the guy in to thinking that she is in to them, and/or has set off the natural female radar from their girlfriend that they can't trust their man around her.
post 1504810441 05-14-2017, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted By SeanGarrity⏩
IF she more then once "loses" male friends because they either confess their love to her and are turned down or because her male friends' girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable having them hang around her. The constant here is that her behavior has led on the guy in to thinking that she is in to them, and/or has set off the natural female radar from their girlfriend that they can't trust their man around her.
So the fact that a girl friendzoned a guy? Are you just projecting your butthurt from being friendzoned?
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post 1504810481 05-14-2017, 11:26 PM
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post 1504810631 05-14-2017, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted By ecs33⏩
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post 1504810811 05-14-2017, 11:32 PM
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Females are emotional and reactionary... there is no set way to read them because they change with any given external stimuli.


Play everything by ear, if something is out of place... bail. Trusting and following through on your gut reactions in any situation is the only "list" or "sign" you should need.
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post 1504810921 05-14-2017, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
So the fact that a girl friendzoned a guy? Are you just projecting your butthurt from being friendzoned?
Not at all. It is about what that friendzoning looks like and about setting up clear boundaries between friends and potential sex interests. It may be just me, but I will always trust a broads behavior over her words. IMO, friends aren't handsy with each other, rarely text everyday, grind on one another, do solo hangouts weekly, etc. If the aforementioned is occurring, best believe that there is interest in being more then friends from at least one side. Therefore, if a female is consistently having to do so, it's probably based on how she treats the males in her life.

Of course there are outliers and the inevitable where a girl can set perfectly clear boundaries only to have men ignore them and confess their love. However, an argument that could be made and one that I certainly would make to a female, is why are you consistently putting yourself in that position?
post 1504811211 05-14-2017, 11:39 PM
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When she starts talking about sex with other dudes
post 1504811511 05-14-2017, 11:44 PM
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Originally Posted By SeanGarrity⏩
Not at all. It is about what that friendzoning looks like and about setting up clear boundaries between friends and potential sex interests. It may be just me, but I will always trust a broads behavior over her words. IMO, friends aren't handsy with each other, rarely text everyday, grind on one another, do solo hangouts weekly, etc. If the aforementioned is occurring, best believe that there is interest in being more then friends from at least one side. Therefore, if a female is consistently having to do so, it's probably based on how she treats the males in her life.

Of course there are outliers and the inevitable where a girl can set perfectly clear boundaries only to have men ignore them and confess their love. However, an argument that could be made and one that I certainly would make to a female, is why are you consistently putting yourself in that position?
Mate, there are no attractive, socially-valued women who don't have a hierarchy or potential mates gunning for ideal positioning and not respecting boundaries. That is how it is in every mammalian species.


Women will always have orbiters trying to toss them d*ck... If they tried to "establish boundaries" and create an ideal vacuum to indulge your insecurities... the would have no life and make no progress on anything.
















At the end of the day, you need to just focus on your chit and let your girl be who she is... is she over steps or misreads, can her.
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post 1504811811 05-14-2017, 11:49 PM
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has an ex she wants to get back together with/still hangs out with.. like that ******* W1illl1W who orbits around his ex's family. wtf
post 1504812631 05-15-2017, 12:01 AM
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post 1504812661 05-15-2017, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted By OutdoorsBrah⏩
Mate, there are no attractive, socially-valued women who don't have a hierarchy or potential mates gunning for ideal positioning and not respecting boundaries. That is how it is in every mammalian species.


Women will always have orbiters trying to toss them d*ck...If they tried to "establish boundaries" and create an ideal vacuum to indulge your insecurities... the would have no life and make no progress on anything.
















At the end of the day, you need to just focus on your chit and let your girl be who she is... is she over steps or misreads, can her.
I agree with everything you said except for the bolded. There absolutely can be boundaries set by a female towards a male. As you mentioned, of course attractive females will always have orbiters and guys jockeying for position. However, that doesn't mean that she cannot attempt to set appropriate boundaries, not put herself in "bad" positions repeatedly, etc. Between friends, her behavior controls that. Once again, of course there are outliers and men who attempt to overstep those boundaries that are clearly set. We're not talking about randoms, or the acquaintances that she sees once every couple months, and therefore a girl who is a constant flirt/seeks attention towards her male friends who doesn't set up clear boundaries sets herself up for what I have mentioned in my previous post(s).

Have you never had to "set boundaries" on your female friends?
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Your hobbies are her hobbies
She idolizes you and gives you total focus
She mirrors you

All feel great and amazing. All indicators of borderline personality.
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Lol..serious anorexia can be obvious.

But binging + bulemia may not be.
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ALWAYS wanting to hang out

This seems natural early on and it even seems cute and nice but a year into it it gets pretty old when you realise they have some kind of emotional dependency on you being by their side 24/7
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Originally Posted By sweetmcghee⏩
Nose ring
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Belly button ring
Wedding ring
Ring worm
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Lost it at ring worm
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Eating disorders.

Like going to the bathroom for an extended period of time after every meal(to throw up)

Eating nothing.

Etc.
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Originally Posted By VSVP99⏩
has an ex she wants to get back together with/still hangs out with.. like that ******* W1illl1W who orbits around his ex's family. wtf
love how you twisted my opee for your own little agenda. clearly stated she was never my girlfriend. i was seeing other people the entire time. they're my only family outside of the states. happy you're following my quest like the beta Canadian you are though.

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-Tells you their slay count without you asking.

-Psychology major (pro tip: she got interested in psychology when she started researching her own mental illness.)

-Doesn't have any long-term friends that she's on good terms with (ie. no friends from childhood).
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2⏩
wrong
explain the pants thing then....what is it about that that is a red flag?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No, charming and charismatic is a red flag for cluster b personality disorders (to draw people in so they can use them) but it doesn't mean that person has cluster b. If they are charming/charismatic but have good character, can form genuine connections with people instead of just using them, are capable of feeling empathy and remorse etc then its fine.

Love bombing means excessively showering a person with over the top affection, sex, gifts, signs of love etc very early in the relationship before even getting to know that person. To the one getting love bombed it feels like you've met your soulmate, your other half, someone who is crazy about you etc.

But if the love bomber has cluster b then it's fake, just a show they put on to draw you in and show you off, while they really don't love you at all. For example I think that might have been the case when Tom Cruise first met Katie Holmes and everything was so over the top (not saying he is cluster b but as an example).
So don't be needy and don't use people and be manipulative.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well if someone has real cluster b then they can't help but use and manipulate people, that's just how they are wired character wise and it's not curable.

I think it's a spectrum and normal people can have some of those traits too but the difference is lack of empathy and character. Normal people feel empathy, remorse, and are capable of genuine emotional connections with others, whereas true cluster b lack those emotions.
Are you a psyche major? Lots of females are either psych majors or nursing majors
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when she tries to talk and contribute to the conversation. I'm honestly quite surprised that many females have the need to talk back to you when you say something.
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