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Is religious.
Has unsheathed, unprotected sex with other men.
Think they're the main ones.
Has unsheathed, unprotected sex with other men.
Think they're the main ones.
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05-15-2017, 05:29 AM
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Originally Posted By HarryFlashman⏩
Why is religion a red flag?Is religious.
Has unsheathed, unprotected sex with other men.
Think they're the main ones.
Has unsheathed, unprotected sex with other men.
Think they're the main ones.
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Says she hates other girls, and prefers hangin wit dudes.
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Originally Posted By naich⏩
ThisHorses
Excessive Social Media
Talks chit about her "girlfriends"
Has more guy friends than girlfriends
Outspoken feminist
No natural drive
Doesn't value hard work/workout
Bad with money
Divorced parents(only a minor yellow flag)
Excessive Social Media
Talks chit about her "girlfriends"
Has more guy friends than girlfriends
Outspoken feminist
No natural drive
Doesn't value hard work/workout
Bad with money
Divorced parents(only a minor yellow flag)
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05-15-2017, 05:47 AM
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Originally Posted By RockyIV⏩
What's the issue with horses? How are horses a red flag?This
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I met a girl a while ago. She looked and acted very innocent. She wore clothes that covered most of her skin, little to no make up, constantly talked about her good relationship with her father; you get the picture. Almost zero red flags!
I did not lose control instantly, at first we were FWB and this gave me hope that she was like the others. After all, no good girl would be in a FWB type relationship, right?
In the second month, she "broke down" and started "crying" and telling me things like: "You are the first guy that I every loved. I had sex with only one person before you. And I never had a casual relationship before and didnt know what it meant, you are just using me!"
It turns out both of these statements were false, and she was manipulating and playing the hell out of me. I thought she was perfect, that she had no red flags and she only entered a FWB relationship cause I manipulated her to do so and the poor innocent creature had no idea what it meant. I ended up finding out about one guy she had cheated on and another guy she used to previously be **** buddies with. I immediately cut of all contact with her.
I did not lose control instantly, at first we were FWB and this gave me hope that she was like the others. After all, no good girl would be in a FWB type relationship, right?
In the second month, she "broke down" and started "crying" and telling me things like: "You are the first guy that I every loved. I had sex with only one person before you. And I never had a casual relationship before and didnt know what it meant, you are just using me!"
It turns out both of these statements were false, and she was manipulating and playing the hell out of me. I thought she was perfect, that she had no red flags and she only entered a FWB relationship cause I manipulated her to do so and the poor innocent creature had no idea what it meant. I ended up finding out about one guy she had cheated on and another guy she used to previously be **** buddies with. I immediately cut of all contact with her.
05-15-2017, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Barbellasaurus⏩
•InnocentI met a girl a while ago. She looked and acted very innocent. She wore clothes that covered most of her skin, little to no make up, constantly talked about her good relationship with her father; you get the picture. Almost zero red flags!
I did not lose control instantly, at first we were FWB and this gave me hope that she was like the others. After all, no good girl would be in a FWB type relationship, right?
In the second month, she "broke down" and started "crying" and telling me things like: "You are the first guy that I every loved. I had sex with only one person before you. And I never had a casual relationship before and didnt know what it meant, you are just using me!"
It turns out both of these statements were false, and she was manipulating and playing the hell out of me. I thought she was perfect, that she had no red flags and she only entered a FWB relationship cause I manipulated her to do so and the poor innocent creature had no idea what it meant. I ended up finding out about one guy she had cheated on and another guy she used to previously be **** buddies with. I immediately cut of all contact with her.
I did not lose control instantly, at first we were FWB and this gave me hope that she was like the others. After all, no good girl would be in a FWB type relationship, right?
In the second month, she "broke down" and started "crying" and telling me things like: "You are the first guy that I every loved. I had sex with only one person before you. And I never had a casual relationship before and didnt know what it meant, you are just using me!"
It turns out both of these statements were false, and she was manipulating and playing the hell out of me. I thought she was perfect, that she had no red flags and she only entered a FWB relationship cause I manipulated her to do so and the poor innocent creature had no idea what it meant. I ended up finding out about one guy she had cheated on and another guy she used to previously be **** buddies with. I immediately cut of all contact with her.
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05-15-2017, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted By plsaddmecass40⏩
thats a green flag, probably the greenest.texts you nonstop
what next its a red flag if she fuks u?
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05-15-2017, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted By sweetmcghee⏩
Nose ring
Tongue ring
Belly button ring
Wedding ring
Ring worm
Tattoos of rings
Tongue ring
Belly button ring
Wedding ring
Ring worm
Tattoos of rings
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05-15-2017, 06:07 AM
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Big red flags:
Excessive use of social media = no self worth, craves validation
Daddy issues/nose ring = slept with 15+ guys at college
Doesn't talk to friends about you = playing you
Doesn't approve of lifting = insecure, ditch immediately
Excessive use of social media = no self worth, craves validation
Daddy issues/nose ring = slept with 15+ guys at college
Doesn't talk to friends about you = playing you
Doesn't approve of lifting = insecure, ditch immediately
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05-15-2017, 06:18 AM
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9/10 women are crazy
1/10 r ur ex
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1/10 r ur ex
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
SecondedNo I'm not a therapist. I'm just curious. It's more future stuff to know for the next time I'm in a relationship I guess. If you're at all uncomfortable you can stop replying or change the subject or just say something. Thanks for the info.
And things were made doubly more interesting when I just found out you were a female a post or two back.
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05-15-2017, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By sweetmcghee⏩
LmaoNose ring
Tongue ring
Belly button ring
Wedding ring
Ring worm
Tattoos of rings
Tongue ring
Belly button ring
Wedding ring
Ring worm
Tattoos of rings
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not being able to find any red flags... that means she's slick and crazy as hell
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I'm older than most of you here prob - not that old, but I'm in my 30s. So I've got a good amount of experience I can draw from and the single biggest piece of advice I can offer is this;
if your partner makes you feel as though you can't be your true self, speak freely, and do what it is in life that makes you happy without a looming fear of her guilt tripping you, complaining to you about it, or making you feel as though you're wrong for wanting to do things that aren't hurting anybody - run. Run run run run run.
You know the saying opposites attract? It's probably the worst piece of advice ever. Opposites don't attract; people with similar values, interests, humour, personalities attract. Your gf should make you feel like a part of you has grown wings - not like a part of you has been subdued and put into submission.
Because aside from the fire in your life being drowned out by this person - you'll begin to look upon the situation as normal. At one point you won't even see what's wrong, you'll just see it as normal - and when that happens you're doomed because you won't have any point of reference available to spur you into change. You'll surrender to your place in life and continue with a dull placid existence that everybody but you will recognize. That will become your life. Do not let this happen to you.
That's my advice.
if your partner makes you feel as though you can't be your true self, speak freely, and do what it is in life that makes you happy without a looming fear of her guilt tripping you, complaining to you about it, or making you feel as though you're wrong for wanting to do things that aren't hurting anybody - run. Run run run run run.
You know the saying opposites attract? It's probably the worst piece of advice ever. Opposites don't attract; people with similar values, interests, humour, personalities attract. Your gf should make you feel like a part of you has grown wings - not like a part of you has been subdued and put into submission.
Because aside from the fire in your life being drowned out by this person - you'll begin to look upon the situation as normal. At one point you won't even see what's wrong, you'll just see it as normal - and when that happens you're doomed because you won't have any point of reference available to spur you into change. You'll surrender to your place in life and continue with a dull placid existence that everybody but you will recognize. That will become your life. Do not let this happen to you.
That's my advice.
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Originally Posted By Foolscaps⏩
Brah I know sloots that slept with 15+ guys in their freshman year of college alone.Big red flags:
Excessive use of social media = no self worth, craves validation
Daddy issues/nose ring =slept with 15+ guys at college
Doesn't talk to friends about you = playing you
Doesn't approve of lifting = insecure, ditch immediately
Excessive use of social media = no self worth, craves validation
Daddy issues/nose ring =slept with 15+ guys at college
Doesn't talk to friends about you = playing you
Doesn't approve of lifting = insecure, ditch immediately
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- If she's constantly having more problems than everybody else and/or nothing is ever her fault, especially unstable relationships. Has trouble apologizing.
- Thinks anger is a valid communication style and assumes that you or others have bad intentions for no reason.
- Subtle hints that she doesn't understand the give-and-take in relationships. For example, always pushes for her way on where you're going tonight, and complains that she always has to do what you want to do if you ever insist on something else. I had some truly bizarre conversations like this about things like choosing furniture.
- Has severely inconsistent values or magical thinking about life outcomes. For example, looks down on people who don't have college educations or successful careers but looks down on you if you need to focus on your studies or work late instead of paying attention to her tonight, or elevates fit men but complains that you spend too much time in the gym. Men tend to chalk this up to "women are delusional and naive and don't understand what it takes", but the reality is often that this is the warning sign that she is just using you for all you're worth and doesn't care what happens to you.
- Any shadiness about money, ever. You agree "I'll pay for X and you pay for Y", then she plays dumb later and tries to weasel her share down? Next.
- Thinks anger is a valid communication style and assumes that you or others have bad intentions for no reason.
- Subtle hints that she doesn't understand the give-and-take in relationships. For example, always pushes for her way on where you're going tonight, and complains that she always has to do what you want to do if you ever insist on something else. I had some truly bizarre conversations like this about things like choosing furniture.
- Has severely inconsistent values or magical thinking about life outcomes. For example, looks down on people who don't have college educations or successful careers but looks down on you if you need to focus on your studies or work late instead of paying attention to her tonight, or elevates fit men but complains that you spend too much time in the gym. Men tend to chalk this up to "women are delusional and naive and don't understand what it takes", but the reality is often that this is the warning sign that she is just using you for all you're worth and doesn't care what happens to you.
- Any shadiness about money, ever. You agree "I'll pay for X and you pay for Y", then she plays dumb later and tries to weasel her share down? Next.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This is actually a big one that gets overlooked. Means she is going to get tired of you fast and move on to the next one.Love bombing - not holding back in early stage of relationship when she doesn't even really know you yet
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Originally Posted By PatronHeineken⏩
What was she doing that was disrespectful?I think she would. I actually did once, only two months into it, mostly because of misc mentality and it was a bit hasty on my part. May be something you'd do to a FWB but not in a relationship. Cut her off instantly for being disrespectful and she begged via multiple messages and crying hysterically on the phone, took her back and it's been great ever since with no issues.
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Originally Posted By UACdarknova⏩
Lawwd. Probably the most spot on post here.I'm older than most of you here prob - not that old, but I'm in my 30s. So I've got a good amount of experience I can draw from and the single biggest piece of advice I can offer is this;
if your partner makes you feel as though you can't be your true self, speak freely, and do what it is in life that makes you happy without a looming fear of her guilt tripping you, complaining to you about it, or making you feel as though you're wrong for wanting to do things that aren't hurting anybody - run. Run run run run run.
You know the saying opposites attract? It's probably the worst piece of advice ever. Opposites don't attract; people with similar values, interests, humour, personalities attract. Your gf should make you feel like a part of you has grown wings - not like a part of you has been subdued and put into submission.
Because aside from the fire in your life being drowned out by this person - you'll begin to look upon the situation as normal. At one point you won't even see what's wrong, you'll just see it as normal - and when that happens you're doomed because you won't have any point of reference available to spur you into change. You'll surrender to your place in life and continue with a dull placid existence that everybody but you will recognize. That will become your life. Do not let this happen to you.
That's my advice.
if your partner makes you feel as though you can't be your true self, speak freely, and do what it is in life that makes you happy without a looming fear of her guilt tripping you, complaining to you about it, or making you feel as though you're wrong for wanting to do things that aren't hurting anybody - run. Run run run run run.
You know the saying opposites attract? It's probably the worst piece of advice ever. Opposites don't attract; people with similar values, interests, humour, personalities attract. Your gf should make you feel like a part of you has grown wings - not like a part of you has been subdued and put into submission.
Because aside from the fire in your life being drowned out by this person - you'll begin to look upon the situation as normal. At one point you won't even see what's wrong, you'll just see it as normal - and when that happens you're doomed because you won't have any point of reference available to spur you into change. You'll surrender to your place in life and continue with a dull placid existence that everybody but you will recognize. That will become your life. Do not let this happen to you.
That's my advice.
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The ultimate red flag is the bish who claims she hasn't had sex in X months, sometimes years. It is the classic runaround. The super chit test. That one comment instantly tells them where you lie on the scale if you don't immediately call it out and claim it's bullchit.
Any decent looking broad who any of us would be gunning for is getting regular dink. She has 50 orbiters, 10 potentials and about 3 to 5 FWB's at one time. It is simply not possible for a cute broad to not be doinking someone.
Don't EVER believe a bish that tells you the no sex spiel to make herself seem angelic. She is enacting her quest to deceive you right off the bat when she says this chit.
Any decent looking broad who any of us would be gunning for is getting regular dink. She has 50 orbiters, 10 potentials and about 3 to 5 FWB's at one time. It is simply not possible for a cute broad to not be doinking someone.
Don't EVER believe a bish that tells you the no sex spiel to make herself seem angelic. She is enacting her quest to deceive you right off the bat when she says this chit.
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When they collect and have closet full of different shoes, means they want variety in life and if they do that to their shoes it translates to their men as well.
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ask to use their phone to txt someone or google something, cuz your phone is dead. if they wont do it or feel the need to look over ur shoulder, dassit mane.
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