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Thread: The hardest red pill to swallow is that every female has a healthy sex life.

post 1505014301 05-16-2017, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
Lol at arguing a topic that's been beaten to death many times already here instead of just ignoring this troll. 3 phucking pages already. Male and female miscers, it's your personal business whoever you decide to penetrate or let penetrate. If you have the capacity to attract many sexual relationships then so be it. It's your prerogative. Don't let a bitter troll lecture you.
This topic is actually very poorly understood. There are a still a lot of guys who have "oneitis" or who are looking for "the one." Or they have a crush on that shy girl in glass who dresses conservatively. They don't realize that these women, like all of them, are actively dating, meeting new people, and enjoying passionate, invigorating sex most nights of the week. THAT'S the red pill. That there's no female equivalent of me.
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i get women wanting to date me - cuz i got my own pad and ... (wait for it) washer/dryer in my unit.

so sloots come over to do their laundry cuz they hate fighting for machines every weekend at their complex.

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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Okay, so what if there are guys around who are looking for a relationship but are not as attractive as the guys that are just looking to bang, are you telling me that the former is more satisfying than the latter?

(someone pls take me im tired of tfw no gf)
Discussion here recently on the 1-10 scale and someone posted that it is really yes/maybe/no.

IMO with women you just need to make it to "maybe". As in she is willing to spend time with you and get to know you. Then if she likes you she will probably find you more attractive and be more open to a sexual relationship.

I'm usually attracted to people's minds first and the body is mostly secondary. So first I like you before I LIKE you like you.

Not saying that's typical, just that men are generally more visually driven when it comes to physical arousal than women are.
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post 1505014961 05-16-2017, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Discussion here recently on the 1-10 scale and someone posted that it is really yes/maybe/no.

IMO with women you just need to make it to "maybe". As in she is willing to spend time with you and get to know you. Then if she likes you she will probably find you more attractive and be more open to a sexual relationship.

I'm usually attracted to people's minds first and the body is mostly secondary. So first I like you before I LIKE you like you.

Not saying that's typical, just that men are generally more visually driven when it comes to physical arousal than women are.
So what you're suggesting is to be friends with a girl first.

But if you do that, then how do you avoid the friendzone?
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
80%

It's always the go to stat when people just want a number to back up their crap isn't it?
I said "probably" 80%, I wasn't citing a specific number as a matter of fact.

The general message still stands though. Most relationships = an exchange of sex for money.
Originally Posted By Maatkarah⏩
Do you frequent a lot of strip clubs by any chance?
No. They are mostly a rip-off in my view.
Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Can't agree with that.Do you think it's the same the other way around, that men only get into relationships for the sex they get if they provide money?

Sounds like utter bullchit to me, for the majority anyway, obviously it does happen.
Honestly, yes. Why the f*ck would anyone get into a relationship with a chick to NOT get laid?

And I don't know why it sounds like bullchit when studies come to the same conclusion.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
So what you're suggesting is to be friends with a girl first.

But if you do that, then how do you avoid the friendzone?
Not claiming to know, but I expect that has to do with timing/familiarity. As in if you want to move the relationship on to something more than friends you need to make a move on her and see if she is open to it and you need to do it before you become too familiar; aka "like a brother to me".
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So why do guys even bother to get sex if this is the harsh truth
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Honestly, yes. Why the f*ck would anyone get into a relationship with a chick to NOT get laid?
Wasn't going to reply again since you are obviously either trolling or stupid. But just want to clarify that I didn't ask whether men want sex in a relationship, or whether they'd be happy in a sexless relationship.

I was asking whether you believe when they get into a relationship they are essentially deciding to hire a long term prostitute where both of them are only there because she wants money and he wants sex so they exchange the two (whether they admit it out loud or not, referring to the way you think people think).
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
So what you're suggesting is to be friends with a girl first.

But if you do that, then how do you avoid the friendzone?
the friendzone is a female invented saying which is a nice way to convince a guy that he's too ugly/ unlikeable for her to fukc but allows her to keep the guy around.

There is no such thing as friendzone if you are attractive in her eyes. Somehow spending time with her and getting on better terms with her doesn't make you any less attractive. I've been friends with a chick for over 3 years and as soon as she broke up with her guy, she started hitting on me pretty hard. It's all about how she perceives you in the first 5 minutes of meeting you. If she wants to be friends then you're just not good enough or she has her own circumstances that don't make you an option (e.g. relationship, etc.)
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Originally Posted By RaibeartBruis⏩
This topic is actually very poorly understood. There are a still a lot of guys who have "oneitis" or who are looking for "the one." Or they have a crush on that shy girl in glass who dresses conservatively. They don't realize that these women, like all of them, are actively dating, meeting new people, and enjoying passionate, invigorating sex most nights of the week. THAT'S the red pill. That there's no female equivalent of me.
That's their own problem. Can't expect a female to accommodate their ignorance/delusions. Females don't owe them anything. Plus there are females that don't experience sex in the frequency you described. You're just in your own little cope bubble which is your bedroom. Go outside meet people. You'll probably find that not everything is as straightforward as you described. (phuck actually sucked in to an argument with this guy)
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Originally Posted By DassItMan⏩
the friendzone is a female invented saying which is a nice way to convince a guy that he's too ugly/ unlikeable for her to fukc but allows her to keep the guy around.

There is no such thing as friendzone if you are attractive in her eyes. Somehow spending time with her and getting on better terms with her doesn't make you any less attractive. I've been friends with a chick for over 3 years and as soon as she broke up with her guy, she started hitting on me pretty hard. It's all about how she perceives you in the first 5 minutes of meeting you. If she wants to be friends then you're just not good enough or she has her own circumstances that don't make you an option (e.g. relationship, etc.)
This. When I was in college, trust me, I could tell within the first 10 minutes if a girl wanted to phuck or not. If it wasn't in the first 10 minutes, it's not worth my time, srs, because it's too much work to overcome, and the odds are against you.

Chicks are just visual as men, if not more. If they want someone because of the guy's aesthetics, they will try damn hard, and it's not very subtle if they have the confidence. Yeah, they want a relationship with a hot guy, but also want to have sex with them as well.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Wasn't going to reply again since you are obviously either trolling or stupid.
How am I "trolling or stupid"? I'm the only one in here that's even brought facts. You seem triggered right now for some reason.
Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
But just want to clarify that I didn't ask whether men want sex in a relationship, or whether they'd be happy in a sexless relationship.

I was asking whether you believe when they get into a relationship they are essentially deciding to hire a long term prostitute where both of them are only there because she wants money and he wants sex so they exchange the two(whether they admit it out loud or not, referring to the way you think people think).
Yes. Most of the time. Even if both parties don't consciously look at it that way, that is essentially what is happening.

It's not really the case for casual flings though. Hence the term alpha fukks, beta bucks.
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
there are females that don't experience sex in the frequency you described.
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post 1505017761 05-16-2017, 03:50 PM
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Classic early 20s miscer with zero life experience spewing absolute bullchit about things they know nothing about.
'Lol nah bro, it's just a couple of pigs, but the way they were put together makes you think they are thighs and a cock'
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Originally Posted By thigoonar⏩
Yes. Most of the time. Even if both parties don't consciously look at it that way, that is essentially what is happening.

It's not really the case for casual flings though. Hence the term alpha fukks, beta bucks.
Another miscer who has apparently only ever experienced or seen relationships in which the females have no resources or less resources than the males ... except that out of my extensive circle of friends and acquaintances there is not one couple like that .. but I must exist in some parallel universe or random zone of statistical anomalies; right.

It couldn't be that they don't see what it doesn't suit them to see.
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Sounds like you need some goals. Stop trying to do things to get girls and just do things for yourself.
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Originally Posted By Maatkarah⏩
Another miscer who has apparently only ever experienced or seen relationships in which the females have no resources or less resources than the male ... except that out of my extensive circle of friends and acquaintances there is not one couple like that .. but I must exist in some parallel universe or random zone of statistical anomalies; right.

It couldn't be that they don't see what it doesn't suit them to see.
I find that in cases where the woman earns as much as her partner or more, the guy is the more attractive one.
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Originally Posted By RaibeartBruis⏩
This is the cold, hard truth that incels can't grasp.

1. There are no female incels.

2. Every single female has a healthy, active relationship and sex life. They go on multiple dates per week and/or have hook-ups with random Chads or Marks they meet at bars/clubs or on Tinder.

3. This applies to all females ages 15 to 60 years. Contrary to what TRP believes, there is no "wall" for women.

If ugly males knew this, they would stop pursuing females altogether and stick to porn or men srs.
You just gotta find the right one man, be a gentleman, a man with value and you'll find a similar woman.
I think you're closet homo sexual, and a porno addict.
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
Females don't owe them anything.
lets disregard females. lets talk about everyone as most people use this argument for the same thing

so, if nobody owes anybody anything why do people interact?

if i dont owe anybody anything whats to stop me from doing whatever i want?

slamming a random person on concrete, stealing or taking whatever i want?

theres a definite inherent respect needed for a civilized society

where that line dissipates? idk

its a tough question imo
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Originally Posted By Willie_Bosket⏩
Classic early 20s miscer with zero life experience spewing absolute bullchit about things they know nothing about.
They've read studies on the internet though. Isn't that better than actually living?
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
I find that in cases where the woman earns as much as her partner or more, the guy is the more attractive one.
I was thinking about salary and assets e.g. property ... thinking through the couples I know, nah I can honestly say they're looks matched.

(But my husband did tell me about a dude he knew who married a girl they thought was well below his league and it transpired she was a doctor (and they all wondered if that had been a major factor for him)).
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
I like to think you are being funny and just posting "in character" like Stephen Colbert used to do on Colbert Report.

Anything else is just sad.
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if ur a low value guy who has nothing going on with his life and presents little value to a hot girl with options

why shoujld she date you?

dating is all about sales. How is your product? Sadly this is a question FA's hate to ask cuz it forces them to analyze themselves. Easier to watch youtube videos and think yhou can say canned lines - or simply cope and think all women are golddiggers and losers who only want super hot guys.

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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
That's not what we're saying, simply that for most women having a never-ending supply of sex but no relationship isn't going to really make them happy. For some new this is probably the case too, and it's probably not the case for some women, but as a generality it's true.
Getting a boyfriend is much easier than getting a girlfriend. Literally takes no effort. I can get a boyfriend and im a 4/10 autist with no friends. Im not a homo unfortunately. You have life on ezmode, female. LOL
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Getting a boyfriend is much easier than getting a girlfriend. Literally takes no effort. I can get a boyfriend and im a 4/10 autist with no friends. Im not a homo unfortunately. You have life on ezmode, female. LOL
unless she's over 35 and ugly/fat.

I have many FA hags i'm friends with and there are very few high value guys 35-45. Nothing but losers around them.

Thaqt's okay. Most were partying skanks in theri 20's, neve4r had kids and now have cats to look forward to. Older guys can still live a good life.
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Originally Posted By Maatkarah⏩
Another miscer who has apparently only ever experienced or seen relationships in which the females have no resources or less resources than the males ... except that out of my extensive circle of friends and acquaintances there is not one couple like that .. but I must exist in some parallel universe or random zone of statistical anomalies; right.

It couldn't be that they don't see what it doesn't suit them to see.
I said "most" relationships are like that, not "all" and I shared a study to back up what I'm saying. Very rarely can a woman love a manunconditionally.

brb

Women more attracted to men in expensive cars
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/motoring/...sive-cars.html

"It appears that the stereotype of women being positively influenced by a man's status is true and, evolutionarily speaking, this makes sense. However, even with the growing number of women in high-paid careers and the fact that they can be highly successful has no effect on how attractive they are to men. What you find is that thesenew, wealthy women still show a preferment for high-status males."
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Getting a boyfriend is much easier than getting a girlfriend. Literally takes no effort. I can get a boyfriend and im a 4/10 autist with no friends. Im not a homo unfortunately. You have life on ezmode, female. LOL
Cool story. It doesn't seem relevant here, but I'll make sure to tell it to my grandkids one day.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Ok, since I'm a woman and don't know what I'm talking about, how many men here think that sex is their greatest accomplishment in life, and how many don't? Curious about the general consensus, though I suspect I'm right.
Only people that put sex on a pedestal like that are legit horn dogs or guys that barely get any/virgins. I do think a lot of women or good looking guys dont realize how much it can screw with a guys head though.
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Why do guys even bother getting sex if that's the case? I'm not letting these statistics stop me from getting pussy.
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