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post 1505261421 05-18-2017, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By ProteinLover
Dont hold back need brutal honesty, how can I improve my looks and what am I out of 10?

Right now I only attract BBWs and gay dudes.



You look a little like a young gay Jay Cutler
post 1505262051 05-18-2017, 02:52 PM
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You look like a swarm of bees stung you in the throat.
post 1505262891 05-18-2017, 03:00 PM
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you look kinda like a local baptist preacher who was messaging twinks on grindr...
post 1505281421 05-18-2017, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Honestly? You probably need to drop some bulk, reduce your vascularity, quit slicking back your hair and stop talking like a douche
so I need to lose lean tissue mass? what do you mean talking like a douche? sometimes I joke around but do I give off that vibe, please elaborate maybe I am out of touch with reality.
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post 1505281941 05-18-2017, 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By ProteinLover
so I need to lose lean tissue mass? what do you mean talking like a douche? sometimes I joke around but do I give off that vibe, please elaborate maybe I am out of touch with reality.
You're fine. People still judging you on your obvious troll persona from last year.
hair is honestly fine
drop the glasses and ease up on the face bloat
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post 1505282101 05-18-2017, 06:00 PM
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I find it weird they say ease up on the face bloat when you're already around 12% bf. It's not like he can lower his BF% just from his face.
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post 1505284151 05-18-2017, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By ProteinLover
so I need to lose lean tissue mass? what do you mean talking like a douche? sometimes I joke around but do I give off that vibe, please elaborate maybe I am out of touch with reality.
I think what Rabbitjb is getting at is that the swole vascular look isn't appreciated by a lot of women. The talking thing...AFAIK she only knows you from here, so IRL may be much different.

There may be some younger women that are into it, but they are likely to be into weightlifting themselves. That kind of narrows the field.

Other than that, no, you aren't ugly. Just carry weight in your face more than some and you are young.

IIRC you are 20 something? If so you may likely be considered generally more attractive when you are 30 something presuming you are still fit, but maybe a bit smaller/more compact.

You still have a boy-ish face. Women that like a boy-ish face usually also like a smaller body type; lean not big.

Women that appreciate more muscular men usually like more mannish faces too. Posted up this guy's pic and all the female miscers that responded said "hell yeah".

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post 1505284421 05-18-2017, 06:26 PM
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Originally Posted By 1hardgainer
You aren't ugly, but I can see how only BBW's are attracted to you. Do you really think that hbb's would find 240 lbs. of mass on a 5'8" body attractive? If you want to attract non-whales you gotta cut down to a physique like Zac Effron.
This, you're not ugly, you're just a manlet, and you look much older than you really are, the price you pay for tech.
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post 1505306451 05-18-2017, 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422
I think what Rabbitjb is getting at is that the swole vascular look isn't appreciated by a lot of women. The talking thing...AFAIK she only knows you from here, so IRL may be much different.

There may be some younger women that are into it, but they are likely to be into weightlifting themselves. That kind of narrows the field.

Other than that, no, you aren't ugly. Just carry weight in your face more than some and you are young.

IIRC you are 20 something? If so you may likely be considered generally more attractive when you are 30 something presuming you are still fit, but maybe a bit smaller/more compact.

You still have a boy-ish face. Women that like a boy-ish face usually also like a smaller body type; lean not big.

Women that appreciate more muscular men usually like more mannish faces too. Posted up this guy's pic and all the female miscers that responded said "hell yeah".

She's right

You're a competitive bodybuilder ...that aesthetic is appealing to a very small subset of women and a far larger proportion of the people you complain find you attractive.

This is the first potentially non troll thread (unsure) I've seen you post

(Also hell yeah)
post 1505311881 05-18-2017, 11:47 PM
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You remind me of jay cutler, the face of a champion ๐Ÿ’ช
post 1505312071 05-18-2017, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
She's right

You're a competitive bodybuilder ...that aesthetic is appealing to a very small subset of women and a far larger proportion of the people you complain find you attractive.

This is the first potentially non troll thread (unsure) I've seen you post

(Also hell yeah)
I sincerely appreciate the feedback, are you suggesting the avg female is repulsed or turned off by my physique to the extent that im eliminated from the possibility of dating her. As such, am I undatable to the vast majority of females? The issue is im not attacted to competitive fitness women, rather on the slimmer side. Is the only option to downsize? Im also an introvert and shy to add to the demise.
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post 1505312221 05-18-2017, 11:52 PM
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Originally Posted By ProteinLover
I sincerely appreciate the feedback, are you suggesting the avg female is repulsed or turned off by my physique to the extent that im eliminated from the possibility of dating her. As such, am I undatable to the vast majority of females? The issue is im not attacted to competitive fitness women, rather on the slimmer side. Is the only option to downsize? Im also an introvert and shy to add to the demise.
That feel when you realise you wasted all this time bulking up, sipping the orange juice, lifting heavy iron, and girls are still not attracted to your body. Sad!

I hope you didn't get into bodybuilding for the girls, else fking LOL
post 1505312831 05-19-2017, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
That feel when you realise you wasted all this time bulking up, sipping the orange juice, lifting heavy iron, and girls are still not attracted to your body. Sad!

I hope you didn't get into bodybuilding for the girls, else fking LOL
Most definitely not, I genuinly love bodybuilding and very passionate. However, if most women find it a major turn off obviously its a hidnerance to my progress in life as a man. I was oblivous to how unappealing my physique is to the avg woman.
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post 1505312921 05-19-2017, 12:06 AM
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Brah you need to start cutting asap your face looks fat. You'll be good looking after a cut. I got so much more attention after getting lean but too bad I'm a boring social retard
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post 1505313281 05-19-2017, 12:15 AM
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damn i remember when you were looking frog-like back then. looking WAY better gjdm. you probably would attract a lot of milfs srs (you just got that look they would like)
post 1505313901 05-19-2017, 12:31 AM
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No. But you got some serious body image problems
post 1505314351 05-19-2017, 12:38 AM
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Originally Posted By ProteinLover
Is the 18-25 age group out of reach? My body is very lean unfortunately face has always been on bloated side. Why milfs specifically?
OP don't listen to the naysayers, either FAs or females who keep their gender dignity. THAT age group is literally in reach of every man with reasonable amount of $$$. Fat, bald, midget.. everyone.

As for impressing women with your looks only, I'd agree most prefer a bit leaner males - you'll have to convince them you're not the typical (for your size and looks) meathead
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post 1505314861 05-19-2017, 12:52 AM
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Girls like slimmer cut athletic bodies.

Lose weight.

Buzz your hair with a 2 guard. Don't think you have the necesarry volume to rock other longer styles.

Lose the glasses.

Make sure your fashion is on point. Fitted tappered pants. Fitted shirts. Nice shoes. etc
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post 1505315221 05-19-2017, 01:02 AM
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You look good dude. Nothing to be worried about

My advice would be lose some weight, even if it means losing a good amount of muscle srs. Get lean/athletic/ripped, that's what women prefer. You may very well be too swole right now to attract most mainstream females

Most important thing when it comes to attracting women though is having the right attitude and sending the right signals both verbally and through body language. Don't show off any insecurities and you're good to go.
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You look like the off brand rich piana.
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post 1505315531 05-19-2017, 01:09 AM
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A lot better than you used to be. Been dropping some fat?
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Originally Posted By xx45xx
you look kinda like a local baptist preacher who was messaging twinks on grindr...
lost it.


also, op must be in the 1% of guys who have the problem of being TOO muscular and need to lose muscle to be more aesthetically appealing. still he deserves a lot of credit cause he looks wayyyyyyyyy better than before. good job op srs


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Rate my face, am I ugly?



post 1505318481 05-19-2017, 02:31 AM
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In my experience the types of "normal everyday girls" your bulky build will do work on will be moms/milfs(someone else alrdy said this) and tatoo'd girls. Not every girl appreciates muscles cuz the twink look is in right now, but during the milfs yrs muscles were prolly more appreciated, and as for the tattoo'd girls i dunno they just like big in general. Hair wise try growing out and styling if not a military cut(high and tight might suit you). I haven't reached a too big point yet, cuz for me it seems like all the girls I've talked to, appreciate my muscles, but milfs and tat'd girls more. But yea fix the face bloat too would be your next big thing -----> if can't fix roundness grow a beard.
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As a mother I'm fascinated as to how you think a bb physique is more appealing than if I wasn't

I'm not in the dating market but don't get it. My idea of physical attraction hasn't changed since becoming a parent nor since starting lifting

The problem is the bb physique unfairly makes people look like "meatheads" with minimum other accomplishments because of the commitment it takes. And once you know what that commitment is it makes them seem rather joyless
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You look fine as is OP, but if you wanted to garner some extra points I'd say lean out a little more, ditch the glasses for contacts, and grow some more volume on top.
post 1505325611 05-19-2017, 05:56 AM
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You should style your hair like you had it in the before pics back when you were free range, grass fed and natural.
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post 1505356281 05-19-2017, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By BrahBrahgovich
You should style your hair like you had it in the before pics back when you were free range, grass fed and natural.
Gonna get contacts, drop 10 lbs, style hair, and invade cougar bar with deep vneck.
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