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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
You did good mane. Personally I can't stand a female that disorganised as you described. Simply no patience for it. Unless she's the direct descendant of goddess venus herself (then might make a few exceptions). But gotta say OP it's on you to set the tone from the start. Seemed like she moved in and done her antics and you just stayed quiet about it instead of confronting and setting the boundaries.Gave her the boot 3 weeks after this thread. She monkey-branched onto a 4/10 non-lifting beta who proposed. She's wearing his ring as we speak .Srs
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06-06-2017, 07:41 AM
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Originally Posted By bongowongo⏩
We broke up 3 weeks after i made this thread. She got engaged to beta brah within a few months of the breakup. Not sure abotu the exact time line,dont care either.....I went back to smashing random STD-infested Tinder cave rats.Lmfao that escalated quickly .... 3 weeks after the boot she got engaged? was she cucking you while you were dating? seems a bit sudden, no?

Honestly miss the feel of a steady gf. Just not worth the headache as a live-in.
Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
You have to get confrontational with them eventually. I'm not confrontational by nature, unless you really piss me off,then i wont talk, ill just start whippin your ass out of nowhere....Rational conversations dont get very far if she's letting you have 24 hour access to the poon-tang.You did good mane. Personally I can't stand a female that disorganised as you described. Simply no patience for it. Unless she's the direct descendant of goddess venus herself (then might make a few exceptions). But gotta say OP it's on you to set the tone from the start. Seemed like she moved in and done her antics and you just stayed quiet about it instead of confronting and setting the boundaries.
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
this is a list of the pettiest chit i've seen in a while.About 5 months into dating her last year,she just got her college degree. So she began looking for work. She eventually finds a job literally 3 blocks from my apartment. She looked around for a place to rent,couldnt find anything she could afford. So she brings up the idea of moving in with me till she finds a place. I like her,no major red flags,good company,and the prospect of a warm hole in my bed every night seemed appealing. I agreed
We're living together for 4 months now and it's driving me fukking insane. Cant remember when last i had a good night's rest in my own bed. Dont know how you brahs manage that sh!t.
- She's 5'5 110lb and takes up 70% of the bed
- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Farting in her sleep
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- She can cook,but i dont like her food. Always bland and tasteless. No spice or flavour
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Uses my toiletries. Shaving foam and razor to shave her cooch and legs.
- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
- Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
I can write a book on the things that i hate about the setup. I so badly want to tell her to leave,but i know it will turn into a massive fight. My brahs tell me that's completely normal "Living with a female" behaviour and i should learn to adapt if i dont want to die alone. Which i think is insane.
I'm used to my own space. I dont like people moving my stuff.
How do i tell her to GTFO in the nicest way possible?
We're living together for 4 months now and it's driving me fukking insane. Cant remember when last i had a good night's rest in my own bed. Dont know how you brahs manage that sh!t.
- She's 5'5 110lb and takes up 70% of the bed
- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Farting in her sleep
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- She can cook,but i dont like her food. Always bland and tasteless. No spice or flavour
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Uses my toiletries. Shaving foam and razor to shave her cooch and legs.
- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
- Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
I can write a book on the things that i hate about the setup. I so badly want to tell her to leave,but i know it will turn into a massive fight. My brahs tell me that's completely normal "Living with a female" behaviour and i should learn to adapt if i dont want to die alone. Which i think is insane.
I'm used to my own space. I dont like people moving my stuff.
How do i tell her to GTFO in the nicest way possible?
does your gf know she moved in with a bitch? might want to tell her and she would move out bc i doubt she's lez
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06-06-2017, 08:05 AM
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you sound like a d1ck to be honest,what the fuk did you expect when ur moving in 1 a girl..you share life together fgt.. Although i must admit living with a bish thats nagging can be annoying,you want to be left alone sometimes.
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Cliffs of thread?
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
So she basically left you for a rich guy damn.Gave her the boot 3 weeks after this thread. She monkey-branched onto a 4/10 non-lifting beta who proposed. She's wearing his ring as we speak .Srs
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Farting isis a normal physiological response during sleep. You do it as well, it's just you are not aware. Your body actually relieves these gasesprimarily during sleep. Secondly, tell her what you feel like a man instead of holding it in and blowing up on her and ending in a bad break up. I've made that mistake many times. If the issues can't be resolved then you found out early this chick isn't for you. If you can't live together then it isn't advisable to pursue a long-term relationship. But- bear in mind that the average chick will behave like this or similarly. Every girl is going to require you to compromise in some way, just as she will have to compromise for you. Keep this in mind next time you pursue a relationship. The idea is to look for a woman where her compromises aren't enough to offset you wanting to be with her. In other words, you love thedespiteher flaws. This looks like a case of you getting a taste of compromise but subconsciously not digging the girl enough as her person enough to offset her flaws and normal bad habits. Relationships tend to be that you like that person enough to where you can tolerate their flaws. Part of that means you gotta put some effort in yourself. Pretty sure you do some **** that she tolerates.
06-06-2017, 08:25 AM
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Ok OP, before you make that same stupid mistake again.....realize that not everyone is meant to live with someone else and then accept it as truth.
I went through a lot of the exact same chit with my last live-in GF, but I ended up marrying her and we've been together for almost 20 years now.
Best advice I can give you is that no one is ever going to be perfect. If you live with someone, and maybe marry them some day, expect that there is probably going to be a lot of chit you don't like. Especially today in a generation of people that are ultra-narcissistic and only care about themselves.
The other thing is....if something is really out of whack, don't put up with it for more than a second without saying something.
70% of the closet is full? Tell her to move her chit or it's going on the floor. Ded srs.
Can't sleep in the same bed together? Put a bed in the other room and get comfy, or move her into it. Immediately.
Don't sit on this chit and let your anger build up. Resolve the problems as they come up.
I went through a lot of the exact same chit with my last live-in GF, but I ended up marrying her and we've been together for almost 20 years now.
Best advice I can give you is that no one is ever going to be perfect. If you live with someone, and maybe marry them some day, expect that there is probably going to be a lot of chit you don't like. Especially today in a generation of people that are ultra-narcissistic and only care about themselves.
The other thing is....if something is really out of whack, don't put up with it for more than a second without saying something.
70% of the closet is full? Tell her to move her chit or it's going on the floor. Ded srs.
Can't sleep in the same bed together? Put a bed in the other room and get comfy, or move her into it. Immediately.
Don't sit on this chit and let your anger build up. Resolve the problems as they come up.
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I can write a book on the things that i hate about the setup. I so badly want to tell her to leave,but i know it will turn into a massive fight. My brahs tell me that's completely normal "Living with a female" behaviour and i should learn to adapt if i dont want to die alone. Which i think is insane.
They're brainwashed and were told because some other sucker has to live like this so do you. Show her the door, prepare to also break up.
They're brainwashed and were told because some other sucker has to live like this so do you. Show her the door, prepare to also break up.
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
We broke up 3 weeks after i made this thread. She got engaged to beta brah within a few months of the breakup.Not sure abotu the exact time line,dont care either.....I went back to smashing random STD-infested Tinder cave rats.
Honestly miss the feel of a steady gf. Just not worth the headache as a live-in.
You have to get confrontational with them eventually. I'm not confrontational by nature, unless you really piss me off,then i wont talk, ill just start whippin your ass out of nowhere....Rational conversations dont get very far if she's letting you have 24 hour access to the poon-tang.

Honestly miss the feel of a steady gf. Just not worth the headache as a live-in.
You have to get confrontational with them eventually. I'm not confrontational by nature, unless you really piss me off,then i wont talk, ill just start whippin your ass out of nowhere....Rational conversations dont get very far if she's letting you have 24 hour access to the poon-tang.

I'm sorry brah.
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women are advantageous and entitled. you have to set a line. and then reassert it over and over and over. they will continue to push to try to take advantage of little things. it's just in their nature to try to use men.
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
No, they are not. It is borderline impossible to get an adult to break established bad habits. Youcan call them out, politely even, and it may stop for a day or two... sooner or later they will get right back to their old ways.Have you tried talking to her about it?
90% of those things areeasy fixes.
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The advice you need can be summed up into "Speak the fuk up". A lot of you clowns are "scared" of this happening to you. Guess what? All it takes is actually voicing your opinion and checking your gf whenever she does some siht you don't like. If you put your head down repeatedly, then you will devolve into the OP...Speak up early and often, set the tone, and keep her in check. She'll respect you or find another ******* to impede on. Problem solved...
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
We broke up 3 weeks after i made this thread. She got engaged to beta brah within a few months of the breakup. Not sure abotu the exact time line,dont care either.....I went back to smashing random STD-infested Tinder cave rats.


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i know some of those feels.
one time, my gf ripped a massive one the moment she fell asleep. didn't have the heart to tell her lmao.
fukking sloot has a technique for stealing blankets though. one time i caught her red handed and what she does is the roll and steal. she'll pull that **** off you when she rolls in the other direction. and then she'll roll on her back and not return the blanket. fukking sloot
know that feel about not finishing food. she's always got to throw out food cause it's expired and she'll "eat it later." she's been planning on making a smoothie with ice cream for months but still hasn't touched that ****. so wasteful
one time, my gf ripped a massive one the moment she fell asleep. didn't have the heart to tell her lmao.
fukking sloot has a technique for stealing blankets though. one time i caught her red handed and what she does is the roll and steal. she'll pull that **** off you when she rolls in the other direction. and then she'll roll on her back and not return the blanket. fukking sloot
know that feel about not finishing food. she's always got to throw out food cause it's expired and she'll "eat it later." she's been planning on making a smoothie with ice cream for months but still hasn't touched that ****. so wasteful
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
5 months and you let her move in.About 5 months into dating her last year,she just got her college degree. So she began looking for work. She eventually finds a job literally 3 blocks from my apartment. She looked around for a place to rent,couldnt find anything she could afford. So she brings up the idea of moving in with me till she finds a place. I like her,no major red flags,good company,and the prospect of a warm hole in my bed every night seemed appealing. I agreed
We're living together for 4 months now and it's driving me fukking insane. Cant remember when last i had a good night's rest in my own bed. Dont know how you brahs manage that sh!t.
- She's 5'5 110lb and takes up 70% of the bed
- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Farting in her sleep
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- She can cook,but i dont like her food. Always bland and tasteless. No spice or flavour
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Uses my toiletries. Shaving foam and razor to shave her cooch and legs.
- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
- Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
I can write a book on the things that i hate about the setup. I so badly want to tell her to leave,but i know it will turn into a massive fight. My brahs tell me that's completely normal "Living with a female" behaviour and i should learn to adapt if i dont want to die alone. Which i think is insane.
I'm used to my own space. I dont like people moving my stuff.
How do i tell her to GTFO in the nicest way possible?
We're living together for 4 months now and it's driving me fukking insane. Cant remember when last i had a good night's rest in my own bed. Dont know how you brahs manage that sh!t.
- She's 5'5 110lb and takes up 70% of the bed
- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Farting in her sleep
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- She can cook,but i dont like her food. Always bland and tasteless. No spice or flavour
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Uses my toiletries. Shaving foam and razor to shave her cooch and legs.
- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
- Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
I can write a book on the things that i hate about the setup. I so badly want to tell her to leave,but i know it will turn into a massive fight. My brahs tell me that's completely normal "Living with a female" behaviour and i should learn to adapt if i dont want to die alone. Which i think is insane.
I'm used to my own space. I dont like people moving my stuff.
How do i tell her to GTFO in the nicest way possible?
BWAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!!! Are you brain damaged? Fukking lol.
Dont know any of those feels bro and living with my chick for 3-4 years. Then again Im not fukking retarded and was with her for 2-3 years before moving in with her.
Dont have any advice but get a brain scan, youre legit dumb as fukk
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>girlfriend in 2017
Girls are all like this OP, if it turns into a fight just end that **** and dont't pursue another relationship only sex
Your life will be better with more time and money for yourself anyway
Girls are all like this OP, if it turns into a fight just end that **** and dont't pursue another relationship only sex
Your life will be better with more time and money for yourself anyway
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Lol I remember this thread. If the girl is engaged by now, she is 100% a trashcan wh0re and its good you broke up with her. But also cant help but think OP either sounds like a whiney bitch or lives in a shoebox sized apartment somewhere. LOL and getting mad because your girlfreiend has shoes and dresses. WTF did you expect a girl to have? Buy a fukcing dresser or get an apartment with two closets for fukcs sake, tell her to buy her own toothpaste and shaving cream.
Sounds like you both were totally immature and probably just settled for each other too soon.
Sounds like you both were totally immature and probably just settled for each other too soon.
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
This x1000Have you tried talking to her about it?
90% of those things are easy fixes.
As far as them asking how your day went, that's normal relationship stuff that literally every girl I have lived with has done. It's showing interest and isn't necessarily a bad thing, unless she's grilling you or something.
90% of those things are easy fixes.
As far as them asking how your day went, that's normal relationship stuff that literally every girl I have lived with has done. It's showing interest and isn't necessarily a bad thing, unless she's grilling you or something.
Women do this kind of ****. They can't help it. LOL
I had to laugh at that OP. "THAT'S MY SHAVING CREAM. BUY YOUR OWN."
Really? Are you sure you're ready and mature enough for a relationship? Shaving cream is dirt cheap. You can't be that selfish and cheap OP... can you??
Come on brah.
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Have you tried men OP? Because most of this list is every woman on the planet
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Originally Posted By EZR4⏩
Not all women are children you twat.Remember that women act emotionally, not rationally. Words, for the most part, wont have any big effect.
What many relationship-experts advise: Since women act emotionally you should try to convert her negative energy into sexual energy. Sexual energy is the most potent form of emotion.
So next time she does something that pisses you off (like her meals), try to tell her smth like "Since i see (and taste) that you struggle with cooking, i should give you some private lessons later on
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For the most part this will have a bigger effect on her changing her behaviour than trying to play her boss just to confront her with the things she does wrong.
What many relationship-experts advise: Since women act emotionally you should try to convert her negative energy into sexual energy. Sexual energy is the most potent form of emotion.
So next time she does something that pisses you off (like her meals), try to tell her smth like "Since i see (and taste) that you struggle with cooking, i should give you some private lessons later on
"For the most part this will have a bigger effect on her changing her behaviour than trying to play her boss just to confront her with the things she does wrong.
Pretty hilarious thread though. I suggest not moving in with every girl you date after a few months. I you can't even share shaving cream without becoming a territorial cat, then serious relationships aren't fit for you.
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fuk OP. wish I'd seen this thread earlier, and wish you'd made an advice thread before you let her do it. Would have told you not to do it unless you were planning on proposing to her in the near future.
as for how to deal with it....you either put up with it, learn to love it, talk with her to fix these problems and compromise, or tell her to gtfo and whatever happens after that happens. It's a rough ride...I would highly advise against just putting up with it, because that will just cause more problems down the road
EDIT: I see you guys broke up. Hopefully you're happier now? I know I was when I kicked my gf out lol
as for how to deal with it....you either put up with it, learn to love it, talk with her to fix these problems and compromise, or tell her to gtfo and whatever happens after that happens. It's a rough ride...I would highly advise against just putting up with it, because that will just cause more problems down the road
EDIT: I see you guys broke up. Hopefully you're happier now? I know I was when I kicked my gf out lol
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Sharing your life with someone else means :
- You have to learn patience.
- Learn understanding.
- Remember that hurtful words take only seconds to leave your mouth, but can hurt people deeply and it lingers for years.
- Learn to never harbor any grudges or take offenses. If you have a problem, be open and honest about it on the spot, and then move on and let it go.
You have someone who apparently loves you, OP.
You have to decide if you want a partner to share this journey with, or just tell her the truth and break up with her.
Just remember, one day, you will feel lonely, and you will wish you had someone who cared enough about you to ask you about your day when you get home.
Every person can be annoying in their own way. Learn patience and overlook it, embrace it, and share the positive in life.
- You have to learn patience.
- Learn understanding.
- Remember that hurtful words take only seconds to leave your mouth, but can hurt people deeply and it lingers for years.
- Learn to never harbor any grudges or take offenses. If you have a problem, be open and honest about it on the spot, and then move on and let it go.
You have someone who apparently loves you, OP.
You have to decide if you want a partner to share this journey with, or just tell her the truth and break up with her.
Just remember, one day, you will feel lonely, and you will wish you had someone who cared enough about you to ask you about your day when you get home.
Every person can be annoying in their own way. Learn patience and overlook it, embrace it, and share the positive in life.
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06-06-2017, 10:30 AM
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- JIGSAW
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- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
LOLZ ^
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
- She can cook,but i dont like her food
LOLZ ^
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06-06-2017, 10:31 AM
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- GriecoR
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I'm really surprised how scared guys are to talk a little chit to their girlfriends. I lived with a girl for 4 years and whipped her into shape within a month. Gotta be cold and not fear a few tears. Women respect you more when you are a crazy psycho anyways lol.
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06-06-2017, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted By GriecoR⏩
OP is a millennial twink tho. They dont know how to live yet. Give him time.I'm really surprised how scared guys are to talk a little chit to their girlfriends. I lived with a girl for 4 years and whipped her into shape within a month. Gotta be cold and not fear a few tears. Women respect you more when you are a crazy psycho anyways lol.
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06-06-2017, 10:39 AM
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- ppself
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lulz. That is life with a woman. Granted some of the things you listed were nasty.
This is why I make my own food, have my own space in the house for decorating and being in peace from the wife's decorating methods.
Don't move in with anybody unless you are ready to sacrifice and share for them.
Which just means that a majority of men will foreveralone.
This is why I make my own food, have my own space in the house for decorating and being in peace from the wife's decorating methods.
Don't move in with anybody unless you are ready to sacrifice and share for them.
Which just means that a majority of men will foreveralone.
"Don't be envious when the grass is greener on the other side because you don't know how much crap it took to fertilize that ground.�
Are you ready? "Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins; for if you do not believe that I am He, you will die in your sins.� (John 8:24).
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