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post 1508645721 06-16-2017, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
Anything else is a pathetic meaningless waste of time and precious oxygen.

Complete failure.
Lol, starts off talking about how great it is to have a kid and then goes full beta and insults everyone else who doesn't do the same thing he does.

You sound EXTREMELY insecure (srs)
post 1508646661 06-16-2017, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Lucianus⏩
Yes I am, have you never heard of surrogate?

A lot of high profile gay celebs have children, Matt Bomer, Ricky Martin etc

Doesn't matter though, fact is the human species is spreading extremely fast and thats with some people deciding they don't want children.
Of course I have. My bad, shouldn't make the assumption that your sexual preference dictates your feelings about kids.
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Originally Posted By JeenyusJr⏩
Like we don't have enough humans already.
It depends on which country and which region of the world. If we are talking about the west and their low birth rate (particularly from whites), the answer is yes we do need more humans. Maybe if you and other Germans reproduced, they wouldn't be in the process of getting replaced by mass immigration like most of Europe is.
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post 1508647421 06-16-2017, 12:48 PM
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Brb arriving home from work to my beautiful home with my kids super excited to see me and my hot wife preparing me dinner.

As the average miscer enters their (parents) home through the basement to their dark room, ground covered with pizza crusts and single serve tradie snack bags, and tripping over video game controllers because they put towels over the windows so the world can't see them crying.
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I agree that raising kids and passing on your genetics is probably the most important thing you can do, but it isn't for everyone. All my married friends are fat, and most seem tired and miserable.
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post 1508669811 06-16-2017, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By recedingjaw⏩
That is sort of the meaning of life, but at the end of the day, you die, and your kids may not have their own kids. If the goal is to keep your bloodline going, it will probably end somewhere along the way. Depends on your views though and what you consider important.

Wouldn't count out the brahs who can't have kids either - sometimes it isn't their fault.
If The universe has a begining and an end (blowing up, destroying everything), your bloodline will end eventually. it's only a matter of time. lol
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Lol, starts off talking about how great it is to have a kid and then goes full beta and insults everyone else who doesn't do the same thing he does.

You sound EXTREMELY insecure (srs)
Yeah the last sentence almost sounds like he's trying to convince himself
Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
I agree that raising kids and passing on your genetics is probably the most important thing you can do, but it isn't for everyone. All my married friends are fat, and most seem tired and miserable.
This is also true. Some people may not want kids and that is fair enough. One of my good friends who had kids very early and is married looks and sounds straight up exhausted physically and mentally and has an almost 'defeated' sort of vibe. Noticed last time I saw him he had some grey hairs as well (he's 28).
I would like to have kids one day but when the time is right and I'm set up
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Originally Posted By Oinkerjnn⏩
Ditto here almost exactly, but daughter number two (insert gif here) arrived two weeks ago. Don't wait too long bro if you're going to have another, better To have them be close growing up.
true, iT ALSO helps that they will be close in age. more relaable with one another.
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In on GMis...wait what. Being rich as phuk is much more of an achievement than your mediocre kids
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Originally Posted By Oinkerjnn⏩
Of course I have. My bad, shouldn't make the assumption that your sexual preference dictates your feelings about kids.
The main reason I don't want children is the responsibility terrifies me. I am 20 so I might change my mind one day, but I'm not so sure...
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Originally Posted By rockr101⏩
lol @ your coping fat ass

children are walking cancer

I'm exhausted after playing with my nieces for 10 mins. and want to fuk off back home
Funny, a child saying this about children.

It's low test to not want to impregnate women.
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Originally Posted By PKneyr⏩
I choose death over being a beta provider.

I truly want to spread my seed in 50% of the women I see, but there is no way I am getting married or raising children.
Another deluded FA who thinks he'll ever get to make that choice.

Just lol.

Cope on.
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Only if it's a good marriage with normal kids and you have money to support everyone comfortably. Otherwise, a leeching large family, breeding future idiot leeching kids with no money is pretty much the opposite end of the spectrum, just as useless OP.
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You are right OP. Misc always talks about BBC Tyrone cuck something sloot bs but at the end we all just want to find someone we love and make a child with them.
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Originally Posted By Oinkerjnn⏩
Brb arriving home from work to my beautiful home with my kids super excited to see me and my hot wife preparing me dinner.

As the average miscer enters their (parents) home through the basement to their dark room, ground covered with pizza crusts and single serve tradie snack bags, and tripping over video game controllers because they put towels over the windows so the world can't see them crying.
The second lifestyle of the avg miscer sounds blessed.

Having a family is overrated. You sacrifice so much and you get nothing back.
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Originally Posted By 89mahou⏩
Having a family is overrated. You sacrifice so much and you get nothing back.
You must have a terrible relationship with your family if you honestly believe that
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Originally Posted By boxerbriefsonly⏩
You must have a terrible relationship with your family if you honestly believe that
m8 we weren't talking about my family. did you even read thread?

the costs of going the family route outweigh the benefits (if there are any) every time.
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post 1508717701 06-17-2017, 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
Another deluded FA who thinks he'll ever get to make that choice.

Just lol.

Cope on.
Sure thing buddy. I am willing to bet FAs and other losers are most likely to get married with the first useless cow that they meet just like you have done. I keep smashing sloots, and maybe one day I will decide to have a child, the mother will raise him/her.

One thing is for sure, I have more money than any of you subhuman fuks who litter unplanned useless children. Yes, we really need your 2 digits IQ children lmao.
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Having a beautiful and loving family is an amazing thing, and it usually goes unappreciated, but it goes way beyond having friends, once you realize at the end of the day, family is all you got.

BUT, it's not everything. I get along with my family for the most part, we're really close, but some people have chitty families that don't get along, that backstab each other, etc. So it's not the same for them.

Also, the happiest days of my life was when I was on dat dere party lifestyle, bar hopping, clubbing, traveling, fuking bishes, etc. If you're well into you're 30s-40s, and above, I can see how that lifestyle can get old, but I started young, and I never been more happy during those days. Doesn't make sense for people who are still young, teens to 20s, who are unresponsive to that lifestyle. Either you never experienced it or you're just lame or something, I mean that's what I immediately think if you're not into that lifestyle.
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Happily married crew.

Not getting into debates with copers and redpills, happily married life is the GOAT feeling.
We're all gonna make it.
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Originally Posted By Bassackwards⏩
true. but theres a chit ton of people that should never have kids. it baffles my mind when there are couples with some really bad (hereditary) medical issues and decide to have kids, passing it on to them. then they cant afford their medical bills and pass the buck onto the tax payers. then you got the welfare leaches that keep having kids, teaching their kids to become leaches, and they cycle of poverty continues
another thing to consider is that different kinds of syndromes and malformations are not so uncommon in kids from 2 healthy parents


I like the thought of having a little one but the above scares the **** out of me
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
I don't care if you're a millionaire. I don't care if you bang 500 chicks a week. I don't care if you drive a Ferrari and go on foreign trips several times per year.

If you never experience the privilege of bringing children into a loving family to watch them grow to make lives of their own then you have failed in life.

That is what you were put on this earth to do.

Anything else is a pathetic meaningless waste of time and precious oxygen.

Complete failure.
I don't care what your definition of success it.

You know this is very subjective, right?
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Originally Posted By 89mahou⏩
The second lifestyle of the avg miscer sounds blessed.

Having a family is overrated. You sacrifice so much and you get nothing back.
Originally Posted By 89mahou⏩
m8 we weren't talking about my family. did you even read thread?

the costs of going the family route outweigh the benefits (if there are any) every time.
Bro yuo suond a little depressed srs maybe reach out to somebody?
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Originally Posted By Oinkerjnn⏩
Bro yuo suond a little depressed srs maybe reach out to somebody?
lmao. why make it personal? refute the claim made but instead you're taking swipes at somebody.

OP made a ridiculous claim and basically said people who do not adhere to his point of view(either you breed or you're a failure) were non-entities.

there's more to life than just popping out a few kids.
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Originally Posted By 89mahou⏩
lmao. why make it personal? refute the claim made but instead you're taking swipes at somebody.

OP made a ridiculous claim and basically said people who do not adhere to his point of view(either you breed or you're a failure) were non-entities.

there's more to life than just popping out a few kids.
Obviously OP made a semi ridiculous claim. That's his nature. But his point is valid and true. Yes yuo sacrifice a ton, but what you get back is enormous.

and yes, of course there is more to life than popping out a few kids, but as yuo get older yuo will see, the vast majority of people that don't have kids are the ones that have that "dead and tired" look. The reason parents of young kids always look tired is becasue they are.

I was a selfish bastard before I had kids. It was awesome, I did whatever I wanted 99% of the time. Having kids makes yuo no longer the center of your own universe. But until yuo do it yourself it's tough to understand. I know that sounds like a BS impossible to prove statement but it's true and there's no other way to explain it.
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Originally Posted By Oinkerjnn⏩
Obviously OP made a semi ridiculous claim. That's his nature. But his point is valid and true. Yes yuo sacrifice a ton, but what you get back is enormous.

and yes, of course there is more to life than popping out a few kids, but as yuo get older yuo will see, the vast majority of people that don't have kids are the ones that have that "dead and tired" look. The reason parents of young kids always look tired is becasue they are.

I was a selfish bastard before I had kids. It was awesome, I did whatever I wanted 99% of the time. Having kids makes yuo no longer the center of your own universe. But until yuo do it yourself it's tough to understand. I know that sounds like a BS impossible to prove statement but it's true and there's no other way to explain it.
Reasonable response. Yes being single is selfish; for you're only truly taking care of yourself.

OP is a rustler which is why people responded the way they did. Different strokes, different folks.
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I can't speak for everyone, but I remember my father always looking angry and completely miserable, he would always come home from work in a bad mood, he always looked like an angry Jack Nicholson or an angry Clint Eastwood. He was never nice to me either, he never talked to me, and if he talked to me was to say something mean, I like ''you are ugly'' or ''you are stupid'' or ''you are incompetent'', and I'm not 100% sure about this, but I think I overheard him say once something along the lines of ''if I was single, no wife and no 4 kids, with the kind of money I make these days...I would be having the life''...I think that was eating him up inside, he felt like a slave to a job and business that was so stressful, and he felt trapped. I remember he went on a rant once about how when you are young you do stupid things and falling in love was like being ''crazy'' and you don't even know what you are doing anymore...I think my Dad deeply regretted being married to my Mom (because he got her pregnant, and the right thing was to marry her) and it was the huge mistake of his life and he was bitter and angry throughout his life, on top of that he had 4 kids altogether, and he always felt like he just worked and worked to provide for his family. He hated his life.
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My dad has always shown me what being successful looks like and what I get to look forward to when I have a stable job and children of my own someday. Truly rewarding.

Meanwhile single guys are like:

The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
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